Leading Questions: Part 2 – Go Rest Young Man: Transcript

LEADING QUESTIONS SERMON SERIES

GO REST YOUNG MAN – HOW DOES GOD LEAD ME?

MAY 24, 1998

ED YOUNG

School mascots are interesting, aren’t they?  The mascots spanning my scholastic career are as follows.  The Bees, the Eagles, the Trojans, the Vikings, the Mustangs and the Seminoles.  Mascots represent strength and confidence and valor.  Come to think of it, I have never heard of a sheep as a school’s mascot.  I can hear it now.  So and so High School, home of the fighting sheep, bahhh.  Believe it or not, our loving and transcendent God’s mascot is the sheep.  He uses sheep to illustrate His relationship with mankind.

I am in a series on the Twenty-third Psalm we are calling, Leading Questions.  This text was written from the perspective of a sheep.  I believe that it gives us answers, precise, no-nonsense answers to life’s most profound questions.  I think we could get it on the first read if it said, the Lord is my CEO and He gives me great incentives.  Or, the Lord is my coach and He calls the plays.  Or, the Lord is my teacher and He provides me all the answers to the test questions.  But, the Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.  What is up with that?

To understand the answers to life’s most profound questions we have to grasp the shepherd-like qualities of God and our sheep-like qualities.  Question.  Can God lead me?  Can God guide my life?  Can He give me directions in a direction-less world?  And if He can, how does it take place?  What is the step by step process?  Over the next few moments, I am going to list out several phrases from the Twenty-third Psalm because these phrases will help all of us get a read on God’s lead.  But before we talk about these phrases, let me give you one quick and important contingency.  The Twenty-third Psalm was written only to those in our midst who are connected to the flock.  It was written for those here who have made the Lord Jesus Christ their shepherd.  Now I know that we have many people here who are kind of checking out Christianity.  You are testing the waters and may be contemplating a faith decision.  Pay close attention because what we are going to talk about can, and will, happen once you bow the knee and establish a personal connection with the Good Shepherd.

How do I get a read on God’s lead?  Here is how the Lord leads us.  First, He leads us to rest.  God leads us to rest.  Psalm 23 says, the Lord, “makes me lie down in green pastures.”  Isn’t that great?  God makes me lie down.  He gives me rest.  I don’t know if you know very much about sheep but I have been studying them over the last several months.  Sheep have to have several things taken care of if they are going to lie down.  Now some of you might be thinking that is weird, that sheep are so particular before they will lay down.

Well, let’s think about human beings.  We are pretty particular, aren’t we?  I have got to have a foam pillow.  I have got to have a feather pillow.  I have got to have a soft mattress, or a hard mattress.  I have got to have a fan on.  I have got to have the radio on.  I have got to have a dimly lit room, or a dark room.  Sheep are the same way.  I think that God created sheep to have an illustration for human beings.  The shepherd who shepherds his flock is going to make sure some things are taken care of if the sheep are ready to rest.  First of all, he will make sure that they are free from fear.  Sheep are very fearful animals.  They are always looking over their shoulders.  And they don’t rest until their fears are taken care of.  They are thinking about the cougars and the coyotes and the wild dogs.  One little field mouse or one lone jackrabbit can stampede an entire flock of sheep.  It will freak them out.  But when the shepherd is on the scene, and sheep make eye contact with him, their fears subside and then they are ready to lie down.

A lot of us deal with fear, don’t we?  Fear of the unexpected.  Maybe the fear of a disaster.  And we are ambushed by these fears.  The three biggest fears that we face are the fear of death, the fear of living alone and the fear of failure.  What fear is tyrannizing and paralyzing your life?  Maybe you have just gotten a grim report from the doctor.  Maybe you are experiencing gridlock in a family situation.  Maybe you find yourself looking over your shoulder.  And maybe like a sheep, you are thinking about running, about getting out of there.  Don’t do it.  Focus on the Good Shepherd.  You have got to realize and understand that Jesus, Himself, is near.  He is right beside you.  And the moment you understand that, the fear will subside and then and only then are you ready to rest.

The shepherd not only takes care of fear, he also takes care of friction.  You see, sheep are competitive.  They are jealous.  They are always butting each other, trying to be the top sheep.  Rivalries are involved.  But as shepherd Phil Keller writes, “When I walk on the scene and the sheep look at me, suddenly they begin to forget about the competition and the rivalries and the problems they are having in the flock.”  It doesn’t matter what firm or organization or team or company you are involved in, we are all trying to butt others out of the way, all trying to be the top chief, all trying to get that status.  We deal with the same sort of issues that the sheep deal with.  Yet, the Lord Jesus Christ challenges us to look at Him, to focus on Him because when we do that, we forget about the petty rivalries and problems and friction with others.

Maybe you are saying to yourself that you have friction with someone, but they have not forgiven you.  The person has messed you around.  The person has abused you.  The person has stabbed you in the back.  Did you hear what Marty Rabon talked about in his songs?  We serve a God of forgiveness.  Jesus Christ has forgiven all of our sins; past, present and future.  And most of the world has not accepted His forgiveness.  Yet, Christ did the work.  He forgave us.  We are challenged, in fact, we have a mandate from the Good Shepherd, Himself, to forgive others no matter if they have abused us, wronged us, stabbed us.   No matter if they will not forgive us, not admit that they are wrong, we are challenged to forgive them, to release them, to get rid of the friction because the Good Shepherd wants me and wants you to rest.  Too many times in my life I have held on to the friction that I felt for others and couldn’t get the rest that He desired me to have.

The shepherd makes sure the sheep are free of fear and free from friction.  Also he makes sure they are free from flies.  Over the last several years my travels to Central America have put me in contact with the meanest insect in the world.  The locals call them doctor flies.  Doctor flies are terrible.  I don’t care what type of insect repellent you put on, that is like an appetizer to them.  They just drink that up and then they will bite the fool out of you.  And if a doctor fly is in your room at night, there is no way you can rest.  Doctor flies are bad.  Well, let’s say you are a sheep.  Sheep deal with flies.  They are in their noses and eyes.  And the sheep cannot and will not lie down if he is being bugged.  You know how irregular people just bug us?  What do you do about it?  Think about the shepherd.  A shepherd will take his sheep and put repellant on their bodies.  He will dip the sheep to get rid of the ticks and the fleas.  We are simply to present ourselves to Jesus Christ and say that we are exposing everything to Him.  Then we ask Him to take care of all of the things that are bugging us.  We ask to be bathed in His repellent, dipped in His love and forgiveness and grace.  And after that, we will be able to lie down.  The Good Shepherd leads me to rest.

This Thursday I spent some time with a man named Jim.  Jim looked at me and said something that really rocked me.  He said, “Ed, a couple of years ago I was heavily involved in cocaine and partying and women.  But I couldn’t find rest.  I was restless until one day some people came by my house and challenged to get into a personal relationship with the Lord.  I did it and my life has never been the same since.  I have a peace now, a rest, an assurance that words cannot express.”  I turned to him and said, “You won’t believe this, man.  This weekend I am talking about rest.  And you just told me about your former restlessness and about the rest you are experiencing now.”

Are you like Jim?  Today could be your day.  Today could be the moment in time when you step across the line and connect with God’s flock.  Today could be the day when you invite the Good Shepherd to invade every fiber of your being.  But you are never going to experience rest until you make the wonderful choice to make Jesus your Savior.  How does the Good Shepherd lead me?  He leads me to rest.

But He also leads me in another way.  He leads me to refreshment.  Psalm 23: 2.  “He leads me beside quiet waters.”  Yes, He makes me lie down in green pastures but also He gives me refreshment.  He leads me beside quiet waters.  Sheep get water from two major sources.  The first source will probably surprise you.  Sheep get a lot of water from just grazing.  When they eat the dew-drenched grass, they are taking in liquid.  And if there is a lot of dew on the grass, they don’t have to drink a lot of water since they get it from their vegetation.  Sheep naturally get up very early.  They are early risers.  They will get up at dawn and graze.  And a smart shepherd is gong to lead the sheep to dew-drenched grass.  They will get the liquid that way and can be refreshed.  And the shepherd is thrilled because he has taken care of his sheep.

It is the same way in our spiritual pilgrimage.  The greatest Christ followers I know, the people who live life with confidence, endurance and a vision, are the ones who get up early and feed regularly on God’s word.  Some set aside the first minutes, some the first hours, of the day to talk to God in prayer and to read His word.  As they do so, they experience rest and they are refreshed.  And the Good Shepherd, Jesus, stands right beside them and is pleased.  Sheep get water from the dew-drenched grass.

Sheep also get water by drinking, by just lapping it up.  Sheep are not real smart.  We talked about that last week.  Sheep, when they are thirsty, will just wander.  Without a shepherd leading them to quiet waters, they will just wander off.  They will find any polluted puddle and drink from it.  And they don’t realize it but they are ingesting parasites and diseases that can ultimately kill them and mess up the entire flock.  Sheep just do this.

I run into so many people who are trying to get their thirst quenched.  They are hungry and thirsty for God yet they turn their backs on the Good Shepherd and drink from polluted puddle after polluted puddle.  Little do they realize that they are ingesting parasites and diseases and it is tearing them apart.

Thursday night I was out of town and had dinner with four men from a southern state.  These men were highly successful.  Yet as I listened to their talk and looked into their eyes, I could tell they were lapping up puddle after puddle of polluted, parasite-laden water.  They were moving from woman to woman, fun fix to fun fix, trophy to trophy, position to position.  Each thought he would get his thirst quenched.  Yet they were empty and thirsty and unsatisfied.  It is staggering, the lengths we will go to to try and quench this thirst.  We will get involved in community efforts or hobbies or sports and we think that will do it.  Now those things are fine and dandy, but there is only one thing that will truly quench that deep down thirst.  It is to drink from Christ.

John 7:37.  Jesus said, “If anyone is thirsty….”  Anyone.  You may be saying, “But, Ed, you don’t know what I am involved in.  You don’t know how I have turned my back on God.”  “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to me a drink.”  I found out something else about a sheep that is kind of interesting.  Sheep hate running water.  They don’t like rushing water.  And back in biblical days, there was a lot of rushing water on the hillsides of Palestine.  If the shepherd led the sheep to the rushing water, they would just stand there.  Mouths swollen.  Thirsty.  Panting.  Dying of thirst.  But they wouldn’t drink the water.  They were afraid of the rushing water.  Why?  If water gets on the thick wool coat of a sheep, he can become water logged and drown.  So the sheep will stand there looking longingly into the rushing waters of a stream, yet not drink.  However, the good shepherd will venture out into the stream and with his staff loosen some boulders and make some quiet, still waters in the midst of the rushing stream.  And then he will invite the flock to drink out of the quiet, still waters in the midst of the rushing stream.

How many times in our lives does the Good Shepherd lead us to rushing streams, rushing streams at the marketplace, in relationships, in difficulties.  We stand there asking why God had led us to the rushing water.  But if we concentrate on Him, if we follow His lead, Jesus Christ, the Good Shepherd will venture out into the stream, loosen some boulders and provide some still waters for us in the midst of the rushing water.  I have had better nourishment, my thirst has been quenched to a better degree in the midst of the rushing stream than when everything is going fine and dandy.  There is something about those quiet waters in the midst of the rushing stream that fills and energizes and gives us vitality.  The Good Shepherd wants to provide those still waters in the midst of the rushing stream.  But if you don’t follow Him, you will never, ever discover how great the waters can be.

The Good Shepherd leads me to rest, to refreshment.  He also leads me to restoration.  Psalm 23:3.   “He restores my soul.”  Are we tracking here?  We are in the flock.  We are following the Shepherd.  He makes us to lie down in green pastures and leads me beside quiet waters with the net effect being, soul restoration.  Now when I read that I asked myself why in the world does a Christian need soul restoration?  After all, I am part of the flock.  I am following the Shepherd.  Do I need my soul restored?  Yes.  Restoration means a couple of things.  First, restoration means that Jesus revives life in me.

Remember, this psalm was penned by David.  David was called the man after God’s own heart.  David was well acquainted with deceit and depression.  He was well acquainted with falling into temptation.  David needed restoration.  He needed his life to be revived.  And here is what he wrote one day.  Psalm 42:11.  “Why are thou cast down, oh my soul?”  See that phrase cast down?  It is a shepherding term.  Cast down meant that a sheep would lie down and relax and all of a sudden he would become cast.  He would be on his back, flailing, not being able to get up.  And if the sheep is like that for awhile, guess what would happen.  The sheep would die.  So a good shepherd is going to watch for the cast sheep.  He is going to check them out.  Oh, there is a cast sheep.  He will run over and turn the sheep right side up.  Sheep get cast all the time.

As I thought about this, I thought about my own life.  I have been cast before.  I have been on my back in a difficult situation and so have you.  What happens when a sheep and a Christ follower become cast?  How do we become cast?  I have found that we get cast when we become too comfortable.  That is what happens to the sheep.  A sheep finds a little depression or a hollow.  The grass is so cool, so inviting.  He just gets comfortable and after awhile he begins to turn over and gets cast.  A lot of Christians are in danger of becoming cast when they get comfortable.  They say they want to get to that position, that realm, that level and once they reach there, there will be no problems.  They think they won’t need any endurance, any vision, any commitment.  They think they can just relax.    If you do that, you will be in danger of getting cast.  Don’t get relaxed.  The Christian life is the greatest life in the universe.  It is not easy.  It is not a lay-up.  It will take everything you have.  But it is the life you were wired up to live.  There is nothing like it.  Talk about adventure.  Talk about excitement.  Talk about potential.  It lies in being connected with Christ.  Comfort is not in the Bible.  We are never to become  comfortable Christians.

Another way humans as sheep can become cast is if our wool coats become too thick and too heavy.  Big old sheep have thick wool coats that begin to collect everything; burrs and briars and mud and manure.  And if that happens, they can easily get cast.  Things just stick to the sheep like Velcro.  We can become cast if the things of the world stick to us.  My title.  My salary.  My corner office.  Who I am.  Where I am going.  My recreational pursuits.  My car.  My wardrobe.  They can stick to me like Velcro and if I am not careful, I can become cast.

What happens when a sheep has a coat that is too thick, all matted with mud and manure and briars and burrs?  What does the shepherd do?  He takes out the shears and goes to work.  The sheep begins to feel naked.  He has been sheared by the shepherd.  Well, the shepherd has to do this.  And the Good Shepherd sometimes has to do this to you and to me.  We become too proud, too cool, too sly, too hip, too vogue, too attached to the things of the world.  And when He shears us we will cry and moan and ask God why He is doing that to us.  He is doing it to help us, to improve us, to make us more and more reliant on Him.

There is one more reason we become cast and I will stop here.  When we are just overweight.  When a sheep has gained too much weight, it can become cast.  A good shepherd will put the sheep on a diet.  He will probably lead it to pastures of oat bran, I don’t know.  Instead of water, he will have him lap up some carrot juice.  Oftentimes, since we live in the belt buckle of the Bible belt, we have a lot of people who go by the label of Christian who just want more and more information, more and more Bible knowledge.  They think they have to know theology and eschatology, etc. and they ingest calorie after calorie and get spiritually fat.  They are spiritually fat because they don’t really use their gifts, use their talents within the context of the local church.  The Bible was not written for our information.  It was written for our transformation.  Instead of being studied, it should be lived out.  If most of us would apply 10% of what we already know, we would be way ahead of the game.  So if we just sit there and ask to be fed, we will become cast.

Soul restoration has to do with reviving life in me when I am cast.  And it has to do with one more thing.  Restoration also means to return.  The Good Shepherd keeps sheep from wandering.  As I said earlier, sheep have a tendency to just wander.  If a shepherd has a flock and just one or two sheep keep wandering off, day in and day out, the good shepherd will leave the flock and search for the wandering sheep.  But once the shepherd finds the sheep, here is what he will do.  He will take the wandering sheep, hold it close to his heart and he will break a leg.  You may be saying that that is kind of cruel.  Oh, no, it is not cruel.  He is doing it because he loves the sheep and wants the sheep to depend on him.  He is doing it to assist the sheep, not to hurt or damage it in any way.  Once he has broken the sheep’s leg, he provides a little splint for it and he carries the sheep on his shoulder.  The sheep begins to totally depend on the shepherd.  Then after a while of doing that, the leg heals.  But this sheep, boy, is biting on the heels of the shepherd from then on.

Has God every broken you?  Do you keep wandering off?  After awhile He will.  But He will do it out of love.  God disciplines those He loves.  Lisa and I have four children.  We don’t allow our kids to just go wild.  We discipline them.  We tell them that we are doing that because we love them.  God does the same thing to every Christ follower here.  So what are you doing about it?  The ball is in your court.  It is your move.  It is your choice.  The Shepherd can lead you to the quiet water.  He can challenge you and make you lie down.  He can restore your soul.  But the bottom line is that you have freedom of choice.  You either choose it or you don’t.  So the next time you hear about a school mascot, whether it is a Bee, an Eagle, a Trojan, a Viking, a Mustang or a Seminole, think about God’s mascot, the Sheep.  That is His illustration of His love-based relationship with mankind.  Follow the Good Shepherd and you will go rest, young man or young woman.  You will go rest.

Leading Questions: Part 3 – The Wander Years: Transcript

LEADING QUESTIONS SERMON SERIES

THE WANDER YEARS – WHAT IS GOD’S PLAN FOR MY LIFE?

MAY 31, 1998

ED YOUNG

At first we laugh it off.  We say to ourselves, what a reach.  Compare me to anything but that.  But after closer inspection, we begin to tilt our heads a little bit and smile and comment that there are a lot of similarities.  I just described to you the reaction most of us have the moment we are compared to a sheep.  Man didn’t make the comparison.  Man would have chosen to compare himself to something strong like a lion, a tiger or a bear.  But God has made this comparison.  Our creative, loving and transcendent God parallels men and women with sheep.  When you look at a sheep, it is kind of scary because we are a lot alike.

Sit tight for just a second and I will be right back.  I will show you what I am talking about.

PASTOR EXITS DOWN STEPS FROM PLATFORM AND RETURNS

CARRYING A LIVE SHEEP

Oh, wait, he is going wild.  Now this is an honest to goodness real live sheep.  Curtis, can you get a close-up with your camera?  We kind of look alike, don’t we?  You have heard of Dolly and all the reports about cloning and all that.  Well, this is Dolly.  No, really this is David.  Now this sheep has shed a little bit on me.  We will talk about wool in a little while.

Anyway, I am doing a series of messages on the Twenty-third Psalm and the Twenty-third Psalm was written from the perspective of the sheep right here.  I wanted to bring one out so that we could really understand the comparison.  I think this is enough for David.  It sounds like this little guy wants to preach himself.  Let’s take him off stage now and give him a round of applause.

The Twenty-third Psalm was written from the viewpoint of a sheep.  What I want to do with this message is take the Twenty-third Psalm and the image of the sheep and compare them with your life and mine.  I believe these comparisons will compel us to understand God’s plan for our lives.  Remember, this series is called Leading Questions.  Once we understand God’s shepherd-like qualities and our sheep-like qualities, then and only then will we be able to grasp the answers to life’s most profound and deepest questions.

Let’s talk about some similarities right up front.  First, sheep are directionally challenged and most human beings are directionally challenged.  I am so directionally challenged that I will even stop and ask for directions and that is a tall order for a man.  Are you directionally challenged?  Some of us are, but I am really talking about challenged in a deeper sense.  I am talking about spiritually speaking.  You see, sheep if left alone are in trouble.  Sheep will graze on the same grass until it becomes a wasteland.  They will track along the same trails until they become eroded.  They will soon ruin their land.  They will pollute the same pasture until it is infested with parasites.  If a sheep is left alone, it is in trouble.

It is a big misconception that sheep can make it by themselves,  that they are OK, since they are just a bunch of livestock.  But just the opposite is true.  Sheep need care.  There is no other class of livestock that needs nurture and guidance and protection like sheep.  If left alone, sheep are in trouble.

If we are left alone, if we do life shepherdless, we are in trouble.  Human beings track along the same trails until they become ruts that erode character issues in our lives.  And amazingly, we will cling to the same destructive habits that we see other sheep cling to as they go over cliff after cliff to destruction.  We will do the same exact thing.  A good shepherd would take his flock and set forth a plan, a rotational system.  He would move them from pasture to pasture, from grazing area to grazing area.  And our God, our loving and shepherd-like God wants to do the same thing in your life and mine.  He has a rotational system, a plan set forth whereby He wants to move us from pasture to pasture, from grazing area to grazing area.  Yet, we see multitudes of sheep, multitudes of men and women who track along the same destructive trails.  They might take the path of workaholism even though they know it can ruin their children.  They might pursue the path of an adulterous relationship even though they know it will ruin their marriage.  They might take the path of a destructive personal habit like drug abuse or alcohol abuse even though they know it will ruin their bodies.

Human beings and sheep are directionally challenged.  We talked a couple of weeks ago about the Biblical quote that says all of us like sheep have gone astray.  That is why David came along and penned these words in Psalm 23:3.  “He guides me in paths of righteousness for His name’s sake.”  A lot of us think we serve a rawhide type God.  We think that God is in heaven singing, “Rollin, rollin, rollin, keep them doggies rollin, rawhide…..”  God doesn’t drive, He guides.  He leads me and He leads you in paths of righteousness, in paths that are right for you and for you and for you.  What a great God we serve.  What a Shepherd we follow.  And as we shadow the Shepherd, He promises us that He will lead us to the right paths, the right avenues of life.  But we have to become clean and say I am directionally challenged.  I need a shepherd.

There is another parallel to talk about.  Not only are we directionally challenged, we are also intellectually challenged.  Sheep aren’t that smart.  Human beings aren’t that smart.  It doesn’t matter how many letters you have after your name, you are not that smart.  I am not that smart.  If we were smart, we wouldn’t go over the same cliff and participate in the same behavioral patterns that destroy life after life, relationship after relationship, family after family.  Now a lot of us don’t like to hear this.  I don’t like to think of myself as a sheep because sheep don’t have high IQs.  But we are alike.

The Bible says in Proverbs 14:12, “There is a way that seems right to man but in the end it leads to death.”  If you walked around the hillsides of Palestine during Biblical times there would be mazes of paths.  Some of the paths would have been made by robbers.  And if a sheep who was directionally and intellectually challenged would take the path made by the robber, the robber could jump from behind a boulder, take out the shepherd, steal the sheep and get some cash.  Other paths were made by predators.  A directionally and intellectually challenged sheep would walk along this path and the predators would jump on the sheep and kill them.  It would be ugly.  Other paths would have been made by the wind and the rains and those paths might wind around and lead over a cliff.  They would lead, literally, to death.

Our Good Shepherd has a great path and a great plan for our lives.  If you want God’s best, you will get in on this plan.  But if you don’t, just sit back and put it on autopilot.   There is a way that seems right to man, but in the end leads to death and we see so many people take those paths.

I guess the question that begs to be answered now is how to get in on the path?  How does one get in on God’s plan?  Let me give you two quick suggestions.  First, we have to come to the point where we admit and submit.  We have to admit that we are wandering in the wilderness, that we are directionally and intellectually challenged.  Then after we admit the obvious to God, we have to submit ourselves to shadowing the Shepherd.  We need to say that we want Him to call the shots, that we want Him to guide us and lead us in the paths of righteousness.  But, amazingly, a lot of people balk at this.  A lot of people say that they have got to do their own thing.  That they will not give up control.  Yet little do they realize that when they give up control, they gain control.

Jesus said in Luke 11:24, “Your eye is the lamp of your body.  When your eyes are good, your whole body is also full of light.  But when they are bad, your body also is full of darkness.”  What is He driving at here?  He is simply saying that if we have both eyes focused on the Good Shepherd, if we are shadowing Him, following Him, we will have light.  Our paths will be illuminated.  But if we have one eye on the Good Shepherd and one eye on our career, on this relationship, on whatever, we are going to be in darkness.  We have got to admit and then submit.

But then we have to do something else in order to discover God’s plan for our lives.  We also have to obey and pray.  We have got to obey and pray.  Have you ever thought that most of God’s plans are right there in front of you and in front of me?  Have you ever thought about that?  Because they are.  Ninety percent of God’s will has already been recorded.  It is right here for us.  Isn’t that cool.  We have got to obey what is already written down.  Ninety percent of it is in the Bible.  For example, if you, young person, are being disobedient toward your parents, you are out of God’s will.  You are not following God’s plan or His path.  So what makes you think that He is going to reveal to you the next step in His agenda.  It is a pipe dream.  You have got to obey what you already know is true.  The Bible says that children should obey and honor their parents.  Maybe you are in a relationship with a nonbeliever.  There is no use to pray about this relationship or to get counseling about this relationship or to even cry about this relationship.  This relationship is not in God’s plan.  The Bible says that those people we date, those people we marry should be Christ followers.  Why?  Was God being discriminatory?  Was this spiritual apartheid?  No.  God wants the best for his sheep.  Everyone matters to God, even those outside the flock but He wants those of us who are in the flock to be hooked up with others who are in the flock.  God is the creator and author of communication, of sex, of intimacy.  And if we don’t have this operative with another Christ follower, we are not going to discover this great path, this great plan of righteousness that He has planned for us.

Parents, if you are not giving and marking your children with God’s transcendent values, if you are not obeying the ninety percent of parenting stuff recorded in the scripture, what makes you think God is going to show you the next step in His path?  Obey what you already know.  Do it.  Some may be wondering about the other ten percent.  That ten percent is kind of out there.  Well, as we obey, as we shadow the Shepherd, as we do what is in the word, as we are talking to God, as we pray, the other ten percent just kind of moves us along and it falls right into place.  I can’t explain how it happens, but it happens.  So you have got a 100 percent deal going on.  The Good Shepherd says, here is My plan, here is My path, here is My agenda for you.  Admit, submit, obey and pray.

A while back I wanted to come up with something that I could get my hands around regarding this whole path thing.  I want to share with you my path principle.  The Good Shepherd wants to guide and lead you and me into paths of righteousness and here are four things that we have to do in order to stay with the Shepherd.  This is an acrostic.  P stands for persevere.  I love the word persevere because the word severe is in the word persevere.  Things are going to get severe as we track along the path that Christ has for us.  It is going to get tough.  And look what the Bible says.  Romans 15:4.  “Through perseverance and the encouragement of the scriptures we might have hope.”  What is perseverance?  It simply means blasting through barriers.  Are you at a barrier?  Are you facing a marital barrier?  Are you facing a financial barrier?  Are you facing a career barrier?  You need perseverance.  When you add perseverance, God will give you supernatural strength and grace to blast through the barrier and to continue to track with the Good Shepherd.

A stands for attitude.  Philippians 2:5.  “Have this attitude in yourself which was also in Christ Jesus.”  You see it is our attitude not our aptitude that determines our altitude.  And the picture here is a shepherd leading his flock slowly through the valleys to the mountaintop.  So it is our attitude not our aptitude that determines our altitude.  Now what kind of attitude did Christ have?  Was it self-centered?  Was it ego-driven?  No.  It was other-centered.  It was service-driven.  It was generosity.  It was supernatural.  And that is the kind of attitude that me must have as part of His flock.

I call T trust.  Proverbs 3:5-6.  “Trust in the Lord with all of your heart and do not lean on your own understanding.”  How many times have I leaned on my understanding and gotten lost.  I have gotten messed up.  I have gotten off the path.  Remember, in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths…what?  Straight.  I love a straight path.  And the Good Shepherd has promised me that He is going to make me some straight paths if I follow Him, persevere, have the attitude and trust.

H stands for higher ground.  The Good Shepherd always wants to move us to higher ground.  The Bible says in Psalm 61:2, “Lead me to the rock that is higher than I.”  And that brings us to our next comparison.

Not only are we directionally and intellectually challenged, we are also extremely dependant.  We are extremely reliant.  Yes, the Good Shepherd guides us in the paths of righteousness, but also He does this.  Psalm 23:4.  “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil…”  We are dependant, we are reliant.  See this word walk.  We talked about those distant summer ranges and how the shepherd would lead the flock to the distant ranges.  He would always lead them through the valleys.  Why?  Because the valley is the best route to the mountain ranges.  And also, the valley is good because there is the most nourishment there.  There are streams and lakes and the still waters that we talked about last week.  You also have vegetation.  So the picture is that the sheep are eating as they are following the shepherd.  They are getting nourishment in the valley.

Christians are saying all the time, I want a mountaintop experience with God.  I want to go to the next level.  I want to feed on those distant, high summer ranges.  Well, I will tell you how to do it.  You get to the mountaintop through the valley.  You have to go through the valleys to get to the mountaintop.  I don’t know about you, but God has shown me more and given me more nourishment and refreshment in the valleys than on the mountaintop.

A while back I was going through a dark valley in my life, a difficult time.  I walked into one of our Saturday evening services and sat down front.  And as I looked at the words of the worship songs on the screen, as I took in the drama, it was like those words gave me spiritual calories and nourishment and refreshment that words cannot describe.  Tears began to roll down my checks.  I said, “God, you are so gracious.  Here I am in this valley and you are feeding me.  You are talking care of me and I am walking through the valley of the shadow of death.”  The Bible didn’t say that we should camp out in the valley or chill out in the valley or stop in the valley or have a rest station in the valley.  It says that we should go through the valley.  No matter what you are going through, remember, if you shadow the Good Shepherd, you are going through.  And sometimes when you are in these valleys, you can’t see any still or quiet water.  You can’t hear any streams.  You can’t even see any grass.

If you study about a shepherd, you will learn that when the going really gets tough for the sheep, he would take his rod and staff and knock fruit off a tree, open it up and even if there wasn’t any grass or water, he would feed the sheep by doing this.  He would feed them while leading them.  Well the Good Shepherd does that in our lives, doesn’t He?  If we stay faithful to Him, He will feed us along the way.  We are extremely dependent and reliant.

I am going to close down with one more parallel and it will be kind of direct.  Not only are we extremely dependent, we are extremely dirty.  Some might be saying that they are Captain Hygiene, really clean.  But I am talking about another area of our lives, our walk with God.  We get dirty just by doing life.  We are born with this bent toward badness, this sin nature.  The sheep I just picked up really smelled.  My coat right here, this is horrible.  So you might think twice about shaking my hand after the service.  Sheep just pick up stuff.  They lie in mud, in their own manure.  They will get sandspurs and briars in their wool.  And sheep would probably die due to dirt if it were not for the shepherd.  The shepherd is there to clean them and to take care of them and to bathe them.  They can become clean.  The same is true in your life and mine.  We get all dirty and sin-stained.  Yet, if we follow the Good Shepherd, he can cleanse us.  Isaiah 1:18.  “No matter how deep the stain of your sins, if your stain is as red as crimson, I can make you white as wool.”

A couple of weeks ago we spilled some coffee on the carpet at our house.  We used a variety of carpet cleaners, but we couldn’t get it out.  It is like a stain that will not come out.  You may be saying to yourself that I don’t know what you have been involved in, that I don’t know what you have done.  You may think that you are in a rut so big that you can’t even jump high to see the paths of righteousness.  But the Good Shepherd can take all that sin, forgive it and change the whole course of your life.  He can put you on a new path, a new trail.  He wants to do that.  But you have to realize that you are extremely dirty, that you are stained with sin.

My wife and I have twin daughters who are 3½ years old.  Their names are Laurie and Landra.  They are different as night and day.  Landra is taking Tae Kwon Do.  Laurie is going to take ballet.  Twins but they are totally unique.  Friday morning, Laurie and I went to Payless Shoes to purchase some ballet slippers and tights.  I walked into Payless with Laurie and we picked out the slippers and tights that we wanted.  We paid for them and as the guy was putting them in a bag, Laurie looked up at me and pulled out some pocket change.  She thought that would be enough to pay for ballet slippers and tights.  But the funds were insufficient.  They fell miserably short.  They didn’t even come close to the price tag.  But little Laurie, she didn’t know that.  So she offered what she had.  How often do sin-stained sheep, people like you and like me, stand before our heavenly Father and try to give Him pocket change.  We believe we can take care of the price.  I am religious.  I grew up in the Baptist church.  I am Catholic.  I was baptized Lutheran.  I am a good guy or a good girl.  I have got more good marks than bad marks.  And the heavenly Father turns and looks at us and just smiles.  He says that He has already paid for it.  And then God offers us Jesus Christ, the Lamb of God.  He became a sheep so that He could identify with other sheep.  And now God challenges us through Christ to receive the lamb.  Because the only thing that will make you and me as white as snow is when we come to a point in our life when we say, “Jesus Christ.  Take control of me.  I admit and submit to you.  I want to obey and pray and do what You want me to do.”

So the next time you see a sheep, it is our prayer here that this parallel will compel you to remember God’s plan, compel you to understand one of the biggest answers to life’s biggest questions.  God has an abundant plan for everyone here.  And the moment we get in on it, no longer will we ever experience the wander years.

Leading Questions: Part 4 – Amazing Grace: Transcript

LEADING QUESTIONS SERMON SERIES

AMAZING GRAZING – HOW DOES GOD PROTECT ME?

JUNE 7, 1998

ED YOUNG

Sit back and relax as I read to you one of the most important sections of scripture in the entire Bible, the text we have been studying lately known as the Twenty-third Psalm.  “The Lord is my shepherd.  I shall not be in want.  He makes me lie down in green pastures.  He leads me beside quiet waters.  He restores my soul.  He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.”  Can’t you picture God, our Shepherd, leading us, his sheep?  What beautiful imagery.  Let me continue.  “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil for You are with me.  Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.”  Suddenly, though, something breaks down.  Something changes.  Has the writer of this Psalm, David, begun to chase rabbits, to get off the subject?  “You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.  You anoint my head with oil.  My cup overflows.”  I want to say, “David, I am tracking with you during the first section, but I don’t get the table thing, the oil thing, the cup overflowing thing.  What is the deal?

I have been to Israel twice and I have walked through the pastures of Palestine and I have yet to see a group of sheep gathered around the table in the green grass nibbling on appetizers and ordering entrees.  I have not seen that.  My wife and I have a date night every Thursday and we go to a lot of different restaurants in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area.  I have yet to see a sheep walk up to the maitre’d and request a table for two in the baaahk.  I have not seen that.

Listen the analogy doesn’t break down, it breaks through.  It breaks through to a deeper level.  David introduces us to a concept that can change the course of our lives, the concept of amazing grazing.  Amazing grazing.  Do you ever feel like the enemies of life, those pressures, are kind of encroaching on your career, your future, your family or your friendships?  Do you ever feel that way?  I do.  Yet our amazing God promises us that if we make Him our Shepherd-Savior, we can bank on it that He will provide oasis after oasis in the wildernesses of life.  That is the kind of God we serve.

For the remainder of our time together, what I am going to share with you only applies to those here who are connected to the flock.  If you are in the flock, this is what will occur and play out.  These are the implications of what God will do.  If you are not in the flock, play close attention because this is what can and will happen to you the moment you make a faith decision and ask Jesus to become your Shepherd-Savior.  Question.  Can God protect me?  Can God give me nourishment, replenishment and refreshment in the difficulties and dilemmas of life?  Can He do it?  Yes, He can.  I want to show you several strategic steps our Shepherd-Savior takes in order to provide for you and for me amazing grazing.

First, He prepares our paths diligently.  Last week we left the sheep in the valley.  During the first few weeks of June, the shepherd would leave his flock in the valley and make some scouting trips alone to the tableland, to those beautiful, lush pastures at a very high altitude.  And he would do some preparation.  He would put out some salt and minerals so the sheep could dine on them in strategic spots.  The shepherd would locate the best bedding grounds.  And then, he would do some gardening.  No Chem Lawn then.  He would have to pull some weeds because there was a lot of poisonous stuff that could infect and ultimately kill the flock.  After he did all the gardening and weeding, he would take all he pulled up and burn it.  And then later, when he led the sheep to the tableland, the sheep could just dine in confidence because all the poisonous grasses were gone.  I think the parents here who have toddlers can kind of relate to the shepherd.  Parents childproof their apartments or their houses.  They go before their toddler and put locks on the cabinets, remove any small objects on which the child could choke.  They prepare the way because toddlers will put anything in their mouths.  So will sheep.

If you missed last weekend, you missed something that we have never done before at the Fellowship Church.  We brought on this stage a live sheep.  And the sheep bahhhhed at the right time.  The sheep was really cool.  I had never been that close to a sheep before.  It was a lot of fun.  But you should have seen what happened back stage.  Pastor Owen Goff had this sheep on a leash.  He said, “Pastor Ed, I am going to walk this sheep before the service so he can do his business.”  So he had the sheep was walking back and forth outside.  Then Owen let him inside and the sheep tried to eat some electrical cords.  He got him away from the cords but then he tried to eat some plants.  Then one of our staff members gave the sheep an Altoid.  The sheep looked up and said, “curiously strong.”  No, he didn’t speak.  But a sheep will eat anything.

Human beings will try anything.  “Oh, I had better taste this.  I have got to experience this.  I have got to check this out.”  Even though we know that doing some things one time can be addictive, destructive or even deadly.  Yet, we serve a Shepherd, a God who has been there, a God who has paved our paths, who has forged our future.  He is a God who is preparing diligently some pastures so that we may experience amazing grazing.

I thank God for all the times that I have seen Him protect me.  But I also thank God for those times that I don’t even know about.  I thank Him for all of those times when He has gone ahead of me and gotten all of those plants out of the way so Ed Young can have amazing grazing without any poisonous grasses or weeds around.

I love what the writer of Hebrews said.  Hebrews 4:15.  “We do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses but we have one who has been tempted in every way just as we are yet was without sin.”  You never know the full force of temptation until you resist it.  Christ knows the full force of temptation like we will never know it.  Why?  Because He didn’t fall.  The Bible says that He remained sinless.  He was the unblemished lamb, the Lamb of God.  So, we talk to Christ and ask Him to prepare the way.  We shadow him.  We are not talking to some otherworldly person, somebody who is way out there, somebody who doesn’t know what we are experiencing.  We can talk to someone who has walked the path, who has been there in the pasture.

Awhile back I was in Utopia, TX frantically searching for a friend’s ranch.  If you know me very well, you know that I have a horrible sense of direction.  So I found myself driving up and down a tiny street in the tiny town of Utopia.  I noticed a weather-beaten, sun tanned rancher kind of leaning against his pickup truck watching me go by.  He had a cigarette held loosely between his lips.  He had some Copenhagen between his cheek and gum.  Together!  Finally, as I drove by once more, I waved to him.  He gave me one of those Texas rancher waves, a slight tilt of the head.  I could read his eyes.  He was wondering who in the world was this clueless, directionally-challenged city boy.  So I swallowed up all of my pride and stopped.  I said, “Sir, I am lost.  I am trying to find the so and so ranch.”  I will never forget what he did.  He asked if I had a pen or pencil on me and I handed one to him.  “What is the name of the ranch?”  He began to write in detailed fashion the directions to the ranch.  “It is just about a half a mile from here.”  Then he walked over to me and gave me the directions.  I thought that was it and thanked him for helping me.  But he didn’t stop there.  He told me he would get in his pickup and if I would follow him, he would lead me to the ranch.  So check this out.  I had the written instructions.  I had the verbal instructions.  Then I followed the rancher in his red pickup truck.  When he got to the entrance of the ranch, he stuck his hand out the driver’s side window and pointed to it.  Then he was gone.

That is what our rancher, our Shepherd-Savior Jesus does for you and me.  He writes the directions down in the Bible.  He goes over the directions but He doesn’t stop there.  Then He indicates that we are to follow Him, that we are to watch what He is doing for our paths and pastures.  Some may be saying that it is incredible what God does but what is our part of the deal.  Here is your part.  Here is my part.  We have to allow our Good Shepherd to do some gardening.  We have to allow Him to pull some weeds in our lives.  A lot of us have some insignificant, contrary grasses growing.  And these are weeds.  We are saying that they are not really a big deal, the uncontrollable tongue that spews profanity and takes the name of the Lord in vain.  Everybody does that, it is just a little weed.  Or maybe it is some uncontrolled anger.  Oh, just a little grass, I don’t need to deal with that now.  Or maybe that long, lingering lunch one more time with the secretary.  Oh, just friends, nothing can happen.

You take a weed here, a weed over there, a contrary grass over here and if you begin to feed repeatedly on them, they will infect you and one day they can take you out and your life will be up for grabs.  Deal with this now because sin and weeds dealt with radically are sin and weeds dealt with effectively.  Allow the Good Shepherd to prepare your paths diligently.

The Good Shepherd also does something else.  He also eyes our enemy regularly.  Let’s go back to the shepherd in Palestine.  One of the main problems of the flock is those predators that live on the rim rock.  As the shepherd was leading his sheep to the high altitudes, to those beautiful summer ranges, he had to look up for those big cats, the lions, the cougars, etc.  And the shepherd knows how and when and where they will attack.  He is always looking up.  It is usually the roamers and the wanderers that are attacked the most.

I read this past week about a shepherd by the name of Phil Keller.  He writes that cougars would repeatedly attack his sheep.  He reported seeing the sheep torn to pieces but he said that he had never sighted a cougar.  So stealth-like were their attacks, Keller never eyed a cougar.

Our Shepherd-Savior eyes our enemy.  Our enemy is the evil one himself.  Jesus know when, where and how he will attack.  I Peter 5:8.  “Be controlled and alert.  Your enemy, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.”  He is looking for those roamers, for those wanderers.  Those are the ones who usually fall prey to the predators.  That is why we have to be connected with others in the flock.  We have to be a part of the local church.  We push the local church away when we erroneously say to God, “Hey, God I have got this special deal going.  You see, God, I am a sheep, by myself wandering, roaming and doing life in my autonomous way.”  It is just a matter of time until the roaring lion attacks.  We can look around our world today and see the effects of the roaring lion.

Satan does not come at you and me in a shiny red leisure suit with a goatee, a Vince Price voice and Elvira on his arm.  “Hi, I am the devil, come to devour you.”  He doesn’t do that.  I have never seen him.  But he approaches you and approaches me in stealth-like fashion.  He approaches us sometimes in our strength and sometimes in our weakness.  He knows us.  But the Shepherd-Savior knows when, where and how he will attack.  He is always telling us to watch out, over there watch out, look at that rim rock.  We see the substance abuse, the deviant sexual behavior in our world today.  We see destructive patterns and habits of sinfulness everywhere we turn.  That is the result of the roaring lion.  The Good Shepherd looks up at the rim rock.

The Good Shepherd also looks down, because the sheep’s number one enemy is not up but down.  Let me explain.  The brown adder is a venomous snake who lives in Palestine.  The adder lives in little holes in the tableland.  The shepherd would go before the sheep, take his rod and staff and move the grass away to look for the snake holes.  He knew that when the adder heard the vibration of the sheep above, it would slide out of its hole and bite them on the nose.  The shepherd would take some oil out of his pouch and put it down the snake hole so the adder couldn’t slither out.  Then we would take the sheep and anoint their heads with oil, which would serve as a kind of snake repellant.

Snakes are spooky, aren’t they?  You never know where they will turn up.  Memorial Day, Lisa and I and the children were out doing some yard work.  I love yard work.  I was putting some stuff in an outdoor storage closet.  Lisa was about ten feet away pulling some weeds.  We were having a good time talking, laughing, doing the family thing.  All of a sudden, out of the corner of my eye, I saw Lisa appear to be dancing.  She began to scream.  “Snake, Ed, copperhead, Ed.”  She jumped into my arms.  I took the rake, walked over, kind of pulled the foliage back and took him out.  I was her shepherd at that time.  Well, one foot note.  From Memorial Day until now, I have been looking down.  Last night we pulled up in the driveway after the Saturday night service and I saw something lying there.  It turned out to be a little stick.  Paranoid.

God does not want us to be paranoid.  You have heard, paranoia will destroy ya.  He doesn’t want us to be that.  But if we let the Shepherd-Savior look up and look down, we can experience amazing grazing in the presence of our enemies.  Do you have some sin in your life that is covered up like those snakes?  Are you telling yourself that you can never been bitten?  Take care of it.  One more time, allow the Good Shepherd to pour His oil, to anoint you with His repellant so you can live and breath and shadow Him.

I have got to ask you a question.  How many of you would take your children to the Ft. Worth Zoo and dump them off in the lion’s exhibit and tell them:  “Practice your soccer kicks and drive your Barbie Ferrari right there in the lion’s exhibit.  Everything will be OK.  They haven’t been fed in a couple of days.  But they are really harmless.”   You would say, what a reach.  That would be ludicrous, that would be crazy.  No thinking parent would do that.  But I see parent after parent allowing their children to watch R rated movies, unmonitored MTV trash.  They are just playing right there in the lion’s exhibit.  I see other parents who have an insane, intense involvement in extracurricular activities.  “Oh, you have got to be the best athlete.  You have to be the best dancer, the best singer.  You have got to be the best.  You have got to be the best.”  And they drive and push because they haven’t made it and they are going to live their lives through their children.  And they do it at the expense of the church.  Listen, parents, you are letting your children play around in the lion’s exhibit.  Because I am going to tell you something.  The soccer team, the voice lessons, the ballet lessons are not going to give your children and your young people the answers to life’s most profound questions.

If we shadow the Shepherd, if we stay a part of His flock, His church, then He is going to give us some mighty protection.  He is going to alert us to our enemies.  And oftentimes we will feel the elbows and the nudges and we do nothing about them.  But when we feel those nudges and hear His warnings, we need to move away from that place, move away from that relationship, move away from that pattern.

Our Shepherd-Savior does something else.  He pours out His presence liberally.  Some may be saying that they have been nibbling on these poisonous grasses, have been mauled by a lion, been bitten by a copperhead or two.  You wonder if there is a second chance for you, another way, another path.  Yes.  The Bible says so.  You come clean, bow the knee to the Shepherd-Savior, you shadow Him and walk with His flock, you accept His protection, allow Him to prepare the way.  Oh, yes, no doubt about it.

Let’s get back to the sheep who are now grazing on the tablelands.  They are amazing grazing.  But there is one dilemma.  There is not a lot of water up there.  There are no streams up there.  Yet, there are some wells.  The good shepherd would locate the wells.  Sometimes they would be 100 feet deep.  The shepherd would love his sheep to such a degree that he would take a leather rope and a leather bucket and lower it as far as necessary.  He would haul it back up and the water would be overflowing.  It would be spilling out of the bucket.  Sometimes it would take him three hours to water all of his flock.   Isn’t that great about God?  Our amazing God will pour His presence into your life and mine.  And we will think that we are the only ones being filled.  But the problem is, a lot of us are filled with other things.  We are filled with self, with ego, with pride, with materialism.  Our Shepherd-Savior wants to pour His presence totally in our lives but there is so much junk and trash in there, He can’t do it.  We have to empty ourselves of that junk and trash.  We have got to name them and turn from them.  When we empty ourselves then we can ask God to pour in His presence.

One of my favorite verses is John10:10, “The thief comes only to steal, kill and destroy.  I have come, that they might have life and have it to the full.”  The word full means overflowing.  It doesn’t just mean better than most lives or a decent life, or some religious-limiting life, it means a life that is overflowing with abundance.  God has wired you up and gifted you in many incredible and special ways.  And when you empty everything out of your life and allow Him to pour His presence into your life, then it will flow and go.

The children of Israel loved to whine and moan to God.  And they never, ever got the ultimate because they kept in this state.  And one day the Psalmist recorded in Psalm 78:19.  “Hey, God can you prepare a table for us in our wilderness?” (my translation).  Are you believing they said that?  Here God had fed them manna burgers out of heaven.  He gave them water out of a rock.  Yet they were whining and moaning about the food.  God has prepared table after table for me among my enemies.  And He has done it for many of you here.  Many of you could share your personal stories.

So, I will say it one more time.  The table has been set.  The Shepherd-Savior has painstakingly prepared everything.  He can lead us to the table.  He will.  He can show us the table.  He will.  He can give us directions to eat.  He will.  But it is our choice.  And what amazes me is that some here will just leave and return to wandering and roaming.

But here is what I want to challenge you to do.  Based on the Bible, I want to challenge you to call ahead for reservations, to allow the maitre’d to lead you to the table, to pick up the fork, knife and spoon and begin to dine so you can get in on what we have been calling amazing grazing.   Amazing grazing.

Leading Questions: Part 5 – Sheep Impact: Transcript

LEADING QUESTIONS SERMON SERIES

SHEEP IMPACT

JUNE 21, 1998

ED YOUNG

What if I could go back and interview every single person you have come in contact with over the past year, every client, co-worker, family member, teacher, coach and neighbor.  What would they say about you?  What kind of influence or impact did you have on their lives?  One of kindness, compassion and concern or maybe self-centerdness, bitterness and negativism?  People these days are exclaiming in record numbers, “I want to leave a legacy.  I want to make a mark.  I want to have sway on people with whom I come in contact.” Dads, especially, are saying such statements on this Father’s Day.  That is why today’s topic is so timely.  I call it Sheep Impact.  I didn’t say deep impact, I said sheep impact.  The moment the reality registers of our sheep-like qualities, and God’s shepherd-like qualities, then and only then can we have true and lasting impact on other people’s lives.

This weekend I am wrapping up a series on the Twenty-third Psalm.  It is important for us to understand that it was penned from the viewpoint of a sheep.  It was written to those of us who are a part of God’s flock.  In a crowd this size, I intuitively know that there are a multitudes of Shepherdless sheep.  There are a lot of you out there that are just checking out the Christian faith.  You are looking through the fences of life at those of us who are integrated in God’s flock.  You want to see the benefits of belonging.  You want to see the differences, if any, that Christ makes.

Listen very carefully because from this moment on everything I am going to talk about will tip you off to the life that is available to you once you are integrated into the flock of God.  And I want to talk to you about lasting impact and influence in the lives of people you meet and greet and interview and deal with on a day to day basis.  Psalm 23:6 is the last verse in this classic section of the Bible.  David, who penned this text give us the GM principle.  David pens this statement with great confidence, with a kind of swagger.  “Surely, goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life.”  Remember, this is a sheep talking.  David did not say, in most cases.  He said, surely, you can count on it.  You can take it to the bank.  Surely, goodness and mercy, GM, shall follow me all the days of my life.

Have you read recently that the workers at General Motors have gone on strike?  Well, the great news is, this GM principle, G and M never go on strike.  Now this text is easy to believe when everything is going well.  I can say that when my health is good, when the children are obedient, when the market is bullish and my golf game is in sync.  But when my body breaks down, when my kids misbehave, when the bullish market turns into a bear and the slice comes back, I have a tough time articulating this phrase.

Goodness means the provision of God, the blessing of God, the things that we don’t deserve.  As we saw in the drama, God is a good God.  Mercy represents the forgiveness and the grace of God and the fact that we serve a God who gives us a third, fourth and fifth chance.  I love Romans 8:28.  “We know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God and to those who are called according to His purpose.”  God didn’t say all things are good.  He said that He uses things, good things and bad things, difficult and average things to work together for good to those who love and to those who are called according to His purpose.  He promises this to those of us are integrated into his flock.

How many of your ladies watch Martha Stewart?  Raise your hands.  You know Martha, she is incredible.  I have watched her with my wife when she baked a cake.  She would have many things arranged before her.  Have you ever noticed how expensive her ingredients are?  You have to take out a loan to pay for one of her cakes.  And some of her ingredients, if you taste them by themselves are bitter.  Some of the ingredients are sweet.  But she mixes all of these things together, bakes the cake and when she takes it out of the oven, it is unbelievable.  No one can cook like Martha Stewart.  At least that is what she says.

God is a master chef.  He will take my life and your life and take bitter ingredients and sweet ingredients and mold them and stir them and when they come out of the oven, they are good.  They are good.  When He sees us shadowing Him, and when He sees us pursuing His path and His purpose, He knows that we understand He is a Good Shepherd.

Goodness and mercy, the old GM principle.  David says that goodness and mercy follows us.  To me that seems weird.  Follows us.  How does goodness and mercy follow us?  This Psalm, you know if you have been here the past several Sundays, talks about leadering.  In the first five verses, the Good Shepherd is leading.  He is leading us beside still waters, through the dark valleys, is preparing a table for us in the presence of our enemies.  He is leading, He is leading, He is leading.  Then all of a sudden, the last verse talks about the Shepherd following us.  How, I ask, can He lead and also follow.  I will tell you what happens.  The Good Shepherd unleashes two sheepdogs, goodness and mercy.  I didn’t say rottweilers.  I said sheepdogs.  And as the Good Shepherd leads, goodness and mercy, these two sheepdogs nip at our heels.  Sheepdogs have herding instincts which keep you and me in the flock.  If we kind of go to the left or the right, they will herd us back.  Goodness and mercy follow us.  God is a God who pursues.  God is a God who subdues.  We serve an initiative-taking Shepherd.

A couple of days ago I gave one of my dogs a bath.  Let me back up quickly and tell you about our dogs.  Lisa and I have two bullmastiffs.  The person we bought them from told us that they are sweet dogs, but that they protect appropriately.  I love that.  Our oldest male, Apollo, a little over a year old weighs about 140 pounds.  His younger friend, appropriately named Brute, is seven months old and is already about 100 pounds.  Apollo likes the water and Brute is not into it. Brute doesn’t like water.  He will drink it but that is about it.  So I take this little kiddy pool and fill it up with water.  I called him over, he looked at me and then trotted off.  So I pursued him.  I took him by the collar and coaxed him toward the bath.  Then I decided to pick him up.  Now every time you pick up Brute, it is a hernia risk.  I picked him up, took him to the kiddy pool, put him down in the water.  I began to bathe him but he eluded me.  I had to pursue him again.  I tracked him down, picked him up, another hernia risk, walked all they way back to the kiddy pool and began to bathe him.  He eluded me again, I pursued him again, picked him up, another hernia risk and at this point I felt like the crocodile hunter.  Have you seen that guy on television who wears the very short shorts from Australia?  So when I put Brute in for the third or fourth time, here is what I did.  With my clothes on I just got on top of him and held him down.  The twins couldn’t believe what I was doing.  So I pursued Brute, subdued him and then I gave him a bath.  And now he loves the water.  Yesterday when I left for work he was actually sitting in the kiddy pool, kind of relaxing.

God pursues and He subdues.  Genesis 3:9, God said, “Adam, where are you?”  God pursued a stuttering, stumbling man named Moses.  He told Moses that He wanted him to lead His people out of Egyptian bondage into the Promised Land.  God pursued, pursued and then subdued him.  And Moses led the children of Israel out of Egypt in a miraculous way.  The author of this text, David, was a man that God pursued.  God pursued David as he was tending his father’s sheep on the Judean hillside and God subdued him to turn in his shepherd’s staff for the royal robe of the presidency of one of the most powerful nations on the earth.

God pursued Jonah, the quintessential running man.  He pursued him and He used a whale to subdue him, to cough him up on land.  And Jonah went to the wicked city of Ninivah and preached and many, many people turned to follow God.  We serve a God who pursues and subdues.  And here lies the basic distinction between philosophy and Christianity.  Philosophy is man pursuing God.  Conversely, Christianity is God pursuing man.

As many of you know, my father has been a pastor for many, many years.  A while back a single man walked up to him after a service.  He was all choked up.  He said, “Dr. Young, I can’t find God.”  And Dad took him off to the side for a couple of moments and said, “Friend, what is wrong?  What happened?  What is the chain of events that led to this statement?”  He answered that he had met a girl at a bar and had taken her to a hotel.  He anticipated a night of ecstasy and fulfillment but ever since that night he said he couldn’t find God.”  Dad told me that he responded, “Sir, who do you think you met that night in that hotel room?”  “Dr. Young, do you mean the girl?”  He said, “No.”  He took out his Bible and turned to Psalm 139 and said, “Friend, would you read this text.”  Dad told me that the man was kind of shaky when he read the words.  “Wither shall I go from thy spirit, or wither shall I flee from thy presence.  If I ascend up into heaven, thou art there, if I make my bed in…”  But the man couldn’t go on.  Dad took the Bible from him and read, “…if I make my bed in hell, behold thou art there.”  Then Dad looked at him and said, “Your problem is not that you can’t find God.  Your problem is that you can’t get away from God.”  Then he led him in a prayer of forgiveness and repentance.

We serve a God who follows.  We serve a God who pursues and subdues.  Also, this GM principle flows in our lives.  It follows us but it also flows.  You see, goodness and mercy flows to and should flow through my life, my spirit, my personality, my vocabulary, my life style to others.  And I ask you this question.  Is your life a reservoir of restraint that stops and stagnates goodness and mercy?  Or is it a river, just flowing?  Are you leaving that in your trail?  Are you marking others with it?

Think about your relationships.  Think about your conversations.  Think about the people you come in contact with on a weekly basis.  Can you say with confidence, goodness and mercy is left behind.  That is me.  That is my life.  That is my legacy.  That is my mark.  That is my sheep impact.

As I have been studying sheep over the past six weeks, I found out something really interesting.  Sheep have the potential to be the worst livestock imaginable.  If you study pastureland across the planet, much of it has been ruined beyond repair because of mismanaged, misguided sheep.  If you have got a clueless shepherd trying to take care of sheep, sheep can pollute the land.  They can eat up everything to the root and turn it into barren wasteland.  They can leave the land ravaged and devastated beyond repair if they are mismanaged.  But, if you have a flock that is managed properly, the sheep can be the best livestock imaginable.  Their manure can replenish and help the growth.  Because of the sheep’s natural tendency to sleep in the highlands, it will rest the pastures.  If a shepherd is moving them strategically from one grazing ground to another, they can leave the land better off than how they found it.

Question.  Do you leave your land better off than you found it?  That phone call, that meeting, that meal, that conversation.  Do you leave your land better off than you found it?  One of the best ways to study the Bible is to personalize scripture.  I want to give you a little exercise that I came up with a while back.  Put your name in the blank of the verse that you see on the screen like I am going to do.  “Do goodness and mercy follow Ed all the days of Ed’s life?”  Is that true about me?  That is a tough question.  It that true about you?  Ask yourself that question.

A couple of weeks ago I was out of town and I found myself shopping in a little store for some trinkets for our children.  I was looking around and talking to a sales clerk.  I was very impatient with her.  And when I walked off, I felt goodness and mercy begin to nip at my heels saying, “Ed, nice example.  Ed, there was no sheep impact there.  That was pathetic what you did.  You shouldn’t have said those words to her.”  Then I rationalized and said that I would never see her again.  She didn’t know the answers to the questions that I was asking her.  But more and more I felt goodness and mercy saying, “Ed, are you going to be a reservoir of restraint or a river.”  So I walked back to the counter and did some goodness and mercy work.  I said, “Miss, what I  said was wrong.  I was impatient and my words were hurtful and I am sorry.”  She said I didn’t need to apologize, but I responded that I did.  When I walked out of that establishment I knew with confidence that I had left with her goodness and mercy.  But, if I had not been responsive to the spirit of God, and I have not always been, I would have missed an opportunity to leave a legacy of goodness and mercy.

Could there be an area where you need to do some goodness and mercy work?  Maybe around the office?  Maybe in your marriage?  Maybe with a child or two?  Maybe with a team?  Maybe with a classroom?  Maybe with a business partner that you had a long time ago?  You see, the problem is that many of us have so abused and ravaged our relational land, we can’t even go near it any more.  We are afraid to retrace our steps because we have burned so many bridges, torn up so much  acreage that we are embarrassed.  Do some goodness and mercy work.  It follows you and it should flow to and through you.

After David says, “surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life…” he gives us the last little phrase.  And he says this last one with a swagger, with a confidence.  He is almost bragging, in fact, I would say he is.  He says, “…and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.”  Remember, this is the sheep talking.  I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.  The sheep have been led.  They have been guided.  They have been saved and made safe.  Now fall has come and fall is fueled with it all the storms that drive the sheep down into the valley.  The sheep know instinctively that they are coming home.  They are going to their shepherd’s house to hang out in his pasture and they are so, so excited.  In retrospect they are looking back over the last year saying, look how we have been cared for.  What a shepherd we have.  And on the shepherd’s side of the fence, he is so proud to see his strong and muscular and well-fed sheep.  He is so happy to have them in his flock.  He wouldn’t even think or entertain the thought of losing one of them.  And the sheep would not entertain the thought of leaving the flock.

Can’t you see all the other sheep in the other pastures?  Many are malnourished.  Many are barely standing.  And they are looking longingly and quizzically at those who integrated into the ultimate flock with the Ultimate Shepherd.  Hey, we rub shoulders daily with people who are malnourished, with people who are disconnected, and disoriented because they are not integrated into the ultimate flock.  What kind of impact are you having on their lives?  Are you living and walking and talking in an authentic and real way?  Is goodness and mercy following and flowing to and through you so that they are kind of reeling and saying look at the difference in that person’s life?  Are they saying, look at the change in that area of behavior?  Are you living that way?

Are you proudly boasting about your Shepherd?  It is fine to live an example.  It is fine to walk, but also we have got to talk about it.  We should never force the Good Shepherd on others but when God gives us the windows to speak and to boast about His care and concern and power, we should say something about Him.  God has put you where you are strategically and intentionally in His flock for a reason.  He has given you this platform for just a short amount of time.  And one day we are all going to see the Shepherd face to face.  And He is going to ask you and ask me what kind of sheep impact we have had.  “I put you in that office to talk about Me.  I put you in that neighborhood to talk about me.  I blessed you financially and put you on that level to reach those people who have never heard about me.”  Sheep impact.  Sheep impact.  Sheep impact.

Many of us will say, “God, I was faithful.  I didn’t walk through every window.  I didn’t take advantage of every situation but for the most part, God, I did it right.”  Yet, for some here, you will have to hang your heads in shame because you blew it.  You never boasted about the care and concern of God.

I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.  This Psalm is talking about heaven, about sheep living forever together with the Ultimate Shepherd.  But it is also talking about something else.  It is also talking about living and walking with God inside our hearts, inside our lives.  The Bible says that the moment we are integrated into the flock, God places the person of the Holy Spirit into our lives.  The Holy Spirit will prompt us and nudge us regarding our behavioral patterns.  He will say, “Hey, is goodness and mercy following and flowing through your life?  Hey, you had better change that behavioral pattern at the office because you are damaging your example.  Hey, you better not say that because they are really checking you out.  Hey, what you are doing with your finances is not honoring God.”  He is always nudging, always prompting.  And when this is occurring in our lives, we have the choice.  God is a God who respects our personal and private decisions.  We can either gloss over that nudge, explain it away and ignore it or we can do something about it.  We can take the step, articulate the phrase, live the life and turn away from those damaging, sinful habits.  It is our choice.

What area in your life right now is God nudging you about?  What is God telling you to do right now that you are struggling with?  Maybe you are glossing over it right now.  Maybe you are trying to explain it away.  What area is that?  If you want to make today a defining moment day, I want to challenge you to pray this prayer.  Now if you pray it, watch out.  The Good Shepherd will act and move and prompt in your life like never before.  If you don’t want it, you don’t have to pray it.  Here is the prayer.  I call this the high octane prayer.

God, You do whatever You wish to make me responsive to Your promptings.

If you pray this prayer, watch out.  The GM principle will become operative in your life and the net effect will be sheep impact.  Sheep impact.

Team Family: Part 1 – Goal Tending: Transcript

TEAM FAMILY SERMON SERIES

GOAL TENDING

SETTING YOUR FAMILY STANDARDS

ED YOUNG

APRIL 12, 1998

This is the weekend that we celebrate the core of the Christian faith, the resurrection of Christ.  We thought it would be an appropriate time to begin a series of talks on the family.  You see the family dynamic prevails during Easter.  Jesus Christ’s atoning work on the cross and His conquering death, affords us the opportunity to be a part of His family, to be a member of His team and to wear His uniform.

Now I know some of you are sitting in these comfortable theater seats, perhaps in new outfits, and you are saying to yourself, “He is talking about the family?  On Easter?  Isn’t that a little bit different?  Isn’t that a little bit strange.”  Yeah, it is kind of different.  But, not only do we want to share with you the historical fact that 2,000 years ago a man named Christ, lived a flawless life, died a sacrificial death and conquered the grave.  We also want to share with you the implications of that defining moment.  In other words, how does His resurrection play out in your life and mine?  Moreover, how does it play out in the most important unit in the universe, the family team?  It doesn’t matter if you are a student, a single, a spouse, a parent or a grandparent, all of us are connected to a family unit.  When I say the word family you probably think of unity, togetherness and of teamwork.

Over the next several weeks, culminating with Mother’s Day, we are going to parallel the family with athletics.  You may think that might be a stretch, but it is not.  It is a favorite metaphor scripture writers use to describe our spiritual pilgrimage.  They often compared the life of a Christian to the life of an athlete.  So this weekend we want to talk to you about Goal Tending.  We will parallel basketball with the family.  We will talk about the priorities, the core values and the goals that families should tend to.  Pretty important stuff.

I want to talk about the family being a team.  Recently, my family became so excited about this subject that we did something a little bit crazy.  I think that the side screens will explain.

(There followed a short video of the Young family, Ed and Lisa, LeeBeth, EJ, Laurie and Landra sitting on the bench in Reunion Arena, being introduced and playing basketball.  The point being –teamwork.)

It only took me about 11 tries to hit that shot, but they were nice enough to edit those out.  That video was definitely humorous.  But, hold your breath for the following accounting that is far from humorous.  With 1 out of 2 marriages ending in divorce, with single parent households increasing 350%, with violent crime up 500% since 1950, with the average child spending 21 hours a week watching television while sharing 5 minutes a day with Dad and 20 minutes a day with Mom, with the major problems in our school systems being that of robbery, rape, assault and suicide, with 90% of Americans feeling that we are falling deeper and deeper into the moral abyss of rebellion, with 60% of us feeling like religion is losing its grip on the culture, the family team, in a real way, is falling apart at the seams.  Moms and Dads, and children too, we have got to get this one right.  We have got to put this ball through the net.

I want to share with you three goals that every family team should tend to tenaciously.  Now before I give you the first goal, which is the most important one, let me say this right up front.  I am not giving you this goal to perpetuate the party line or because I want to keep my job as senior pastor of the Fellowship Church.  I am sharing this first goal with you because, simply put, it works.

The first goal is Know God, And Make Him Known.  A family team’s first priority should be to know God and to make Him known.  Every activity in our lives should orbit around this value.  You see God is the owner.  He is the inventor.  He is the initiator of the family team.  And at surprisingly young ages, our children fire shot after shot toward us, Moms and Dads.  They fire questions.  “Why am I here?  Where am I going?  What is the meaning of life?  Is there an eternity?”  And wise parents must rebound the shots, must take the questions, and pass them back to the children.  And the questions are tough, aren’t they?  My sobbing six year old recently looked up at me and after a coyote killed his kitten, asked, “Daddy, will we see Granger in heaven?”  Pretty difficult, isn’t it?  A shrug of the shoulders, a quizzical look, a pat on the head won’t cut it.  We have got to give them answers.  We have got to know God and make Him known.

We have got to tell our children and mark them at a very early age.  We need to let them know that they are made in the image of God, that they are fashioned in the image of our creative Creator with unique aptitudes and abilities.  And they must give their entire selves to the Lord and use those aptitudes and abilities.  And once they do that, they will achieve their potential relationally, spiritually and emotionally.  It is our task, parents, to do this.  We have to know God and make Him known.

And when children discover that they are not accidents, that they are not here by chance or circumstance, it registers profoundly with them.  They say, “I matter.  I am important.  I have a purpose here.  I have a place on this team.  I have an agenda for this life.  I am a much loved person.”  Something fantastic happens when we know God and make Him known.

However, we can’t make known somebody that we don’t know.  A lot of us know about God, but we don’t know Him.  For example, see this man here in the yellow shirt?  I don’t know his name.  What is your name?  Tracy.  Let’s say for example that I want to go home and make Tracy known to my family.  “Hey, family, you ought to meet Tracy.  He is incredible.  He has a cool, yellow shirt.  The shoes are working.”  That won’t do.  I don’t know him.  How can you make known, parents, someone you don’t know?

I have got some great news for you this Easter.  You have been drafted.  You have been scouted.  You have been watched.  Even though you have committed turnover after turnover, sin after sin, even though you have dribbled the ball out of bounds, you have been drafted.

Don’t the contracts that the NBA players are signing blow you away?  Over one hundred million dollars to some of these guys.  All you have to do is wear a tank top, take a leather ball and put it through an iron rim and you can make millions.  But all these contracts, I don’t care if they are five hundred million, are chump change compared to the price that was paid for you.  Do you realize that you matter to God so much that He gave His only son to die on the cross for your sins and to rise again?  The contract has been drafted.  The deal has been done.  Your turnovers, mistakes and sins have been taken care of.  And now, God simply says, “Here is the contract.  You either sign it or you don’t.  I can’t make you do it.  I can’t force you to do it.  I cannot coerce you to do it.  It is up to you.”  And a lot of people here know a lot about God, think they are on His team but aren’t.  The moment you sign up, the moment you sign this contract, a cosmic transaction takes place.  All of your guilt, pain and turmoil that you have been carrying around for years is transferred to the shoulders of Christ.  And while this is going on, Christ’s righteousness and grace and power and purpose is transferred into your heart and being.  And then you know God through Christ.  I can only know God through Christ.  Today we celebrate His resurrection and that is how we can know Him, through that work that was done.  I have been praying like crazy this week, that many of you will sign up, that you will simply say, “I want to do life Your way.  I want to know You, God.”

Well, let’s say, for example, that all of us have made that choice, all of us have signed the contract.  What do we do now?  We know God.  How do we make Him known?

This past November, Lisa and I were having dinner with three beautiful young ladies in their early 20s.  They loved their parents.  They loved God.  Each had her unique abilities operative in certain areas of life.  I asked them, “Girls, how did your parents do it?”  I am always looking for parenting tips.  You know we have four children.  It is a struggle.  It is tough.  It is challenging.  You know what they said to me?  “Our parents loved us.  They made many mistakes but they prayed with us.  They read the Bible with us.  And they took us to church.”

Moms and Dads, do you pray with your children at meal times and bedtimes or any other time?  You see, when you pray with your children, they see Mom and Dad are subjecting themselves to a higher authority.  That helps them to subject themselves to you.  Lisa and I pray with our children.  We even share with our children, on their level, what we are going through.  Over the last couple of weeks we have been praying for our new church.  As a family, we have been praying for people that our children know and that we know who are outside the family of God.  We also tell them what happened in our lives on a given day and have them pray with us.  Do it, parents.  It will help your team.  It will change the focus and the course of your career and, also, your season of life together.

Read the Bible.  You may say that your children are two years old or three years old and that they can’t pay attention.  Go to a Christian bookstore.  There are many wonderful books written on their level.  Choose a scripture verse and talk about the implications of it.  When children see you open the Bible, they think, once again, that there is a greater scheme, there is a greater plan than what Mom and Dad can come up with.  They are reading the word of God.

And families, what your children are receiving right now in the Peaceful Kingdom and in Children’s Church is something that you cannot put a price tag on.  You can’t do it.  Right now, at an age appropriate level, they are discovering and learning the fact that our transcendent God is head over heals in love with them.  We put a lot of money, time and energy into teaching and marking and helping our children.

Talk to an NBA player like I did recently.  Ask him why he is in the NBA today.  Here is what he will say.  “As a child, someone taught me the fundamentals of the game.”  And as they have grown, they have built on those fundamentals.  Hey, the forces out there are so great, so sinister, they are ripping the family apart.  We have got to teach our kids, love our kids, build the fundamentals into their lives now so they can build on them as they grow.  But, parents, they can’t drive themselves, they can’t see over the steering wheel.  You are going to have to bring them here.  We have got to revolve all of our activities around this value, if we want to have a great family team.

I believe what the Bible says about heaven and hell.  I believe that all of us will spend all of eternity in one of the two places, in heaven, if we sign the contract or in hell, if we say no that we will do life our own way.  But I can’t even imagine spending eternity in heaven without my children.  I can’t.  Know God and make Him known.  That is the top priority.  Everything else is a back burner issue.

I love what Paul says in Philippians 3:10.  “I want to know Christ and the power of His resurrection.”  Is that your agenda?  Is that a goal you are tending to tenaciously?

Establish a family game plan is the second goal.  I will never forget what happened my freshman year at Florida State University.  We made it to the mid-east regionals against the University of Kentucky.  I hear they are still pretty good.  I knew that I was not going to play.  I called my parents, anyway, and said, “Mom and Dad, look for me on the bench and during time outs.  I will kind of turn toward the camera and wave.”  It was a nationally televised game with Dick Emberg, Billy Packer, all those people.  I was really fired up.  I thought, this is it.  This is major college basketball.  We warmed up before the game and then right before the tip off, our coach called all of us together.  He huddled us and I thought he would give us the game plan and that it would be phenomenal.  Coach knelt down and said, “Here is the game plan.  Let’s just go out there and have a good time.”  Then he looked up at me and said, “Ed, lead us in a word of prayer, please.”  I was the designated prayer, so I lead in the Lord’s prayer.  My teammates stuttered and stumbled through it.  We broke the huddle and I thought, that’s it?  Go out there and have a good time?  Well, we had a great time.  We got beat by 25.  Kentucky loved it.

We wouldn’t think about cooking without a meal plan.  We wouldn’t think about flying a plane without a flight plan.  Don’t even consider doing the family thing without establishing a family game plan.  Game planless families end up losing.  They end up getting blown out by 25.  And if you look around, that is what is occurring.  This family game plan was not invented by Steven Covey, John Trent or Gary Smalley.  Three millennia ago, Joshua stepped to the line and said these words to in Joshua 24:15.  “…as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”

Well, I want to give you some homework on this Easter Sunday.  I am going to ask you to go home and over the next seven days I want you to establish a family game plan.  It sounds easy.  It is not.  I can say that because our family is in the process of doing it right now.  I want you to share with your children what is going on.  And even if they can’t write yet, get them to draw pictures of happy experiences that they have had with the family.

This past Wednesday night my family was having dinner together.  I wanted to start this family game plan thing.  I said, “OK, what is a family all about?”  Realize, now, that I had to communicate this to an eleven year old, a six year old and a pair of three and a half year old twins.  At first, they gave me a blank look.  “Let’s talk about the purpose of the family?”  Then my wife, Lisa, interjected, “What if we didn’t have a family?  What would it be like if we didn’t have a family?”  And the kids answered.  “Oh, we wouldn’t have to wear seatbelts.”  “Oh, we could stay up all night, watch videos and eat Domino’s Pizza.”  And then our eleven year old, LeeBeth, said something profound.  “If we didn’t have a family, we wouldn’t have an example.”  Wow.

Write your family game plan down in two or three sentences, in a compelling, creative way that everyone can understand.  Make it a shared experience and then showcase it.  Put it on a plaque.  Put it on stationary, T-shirts, ball caps, key chains, coffee mugs, whatever you want to do.  Let your creativity run wild.  I’ll tell you what will happen.  Suddenly your children will say, “We have got unity here.  We have got something going on here.”  Bonding will take place.

Next weekend I am talking about discipline in the family.  That is a tough one.  And, singles, don’t turn me off.  Let me tell you what those of us who have children say.  “Oh, I wish I had known this when I was single.  Man, now I have got to catch up real quick, now that I am married and have children.”  Singles, don’t miss a session here.  I wish I had known this stuff before I got married.  Come up with this strategy.  Come up with a game plan and discipline becomes easier.  When they mess up, you look to the wall, the stationary or the coffee mug and say, “See our game plan.  You messed up here.  So because you messed up, here are the consequences of your behavior.”  And it keeps you, parents, from trying to run some political popularity campaign with your kids.  You can always go back to the game plan.  Make it a shared experience.  Showcase it.

Here is what God did.  He challenged His own people with His game plan and gave them this challenge in Deuteronomy 6:8-9.  “Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.  Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.”   Are you ready to establish a family game plan?

There is a third goal.  It will be a little shorter.  We will do a lay-up for the last one.  Discover each other’s position.  Felix Figorol, Lee Cody, Joe Williams, Tommy Terry.  Those names speak volumes to me, but to you they mean nothing.  I just named some of my former coaches.  Let me tell you what separates a great coach from just a good coach.  Great coaches can recognize talent and then put the player in the right position to showcase that talent.  A great coach can know he has a great player who can really dribble and pass.  He will try him out first in one place and then in another until the fit is evident.  He builds his strategy around the different talents represented on the team.  We are called, families, to do this for all of our team members.  Parents are called to do it.  And children are called to do it.  In other words, we have got to study each other.  We have got to know our strengths and our weaknesses and we have got to ask God for discernment like crazy, for wisdom like crazy.  We’ve got to allow each other to try things, to experiment with things.  We need to applaud those experiments and see what puts wind in each other’s sails.  By doing that we will discover each other’s vocational potential, each other’s life mission.  When parents are cheering for kids, kids cheering for parents, you have got something beautiful occurring.  You have got team chemistry.  You have got unity.  You have got togetherness.  You are tending to this goal tenaciously.

Many moms and dads say they won’t live out their lives, their fantasies, through their children.  But it is tempting to do so, isn’t it, parents?  Maybe we excelled at something, or didn’t do well in something.  Then we say, “OK, you are going to do it better than I did.  You are going to do this to a greater degree.  You are going to showcase your skills in this position like no one else.”  And we try to force them into a mold.  We can’t do it.  I know it is tempting.  Be we must not do it.

A friend of mine, with whom I grew up, was on a retreat with me.  He felt God leading him in a real way to do some difference-making work for the Kingdom, to go into full-time ministry.  He went home.  He was so excited and told his parents about it.  They were active church goers.  But they said, “What?  Ministry?  Difference-making for God? Oh, no, no, no.  You are going to this college, to this graduate school and you have got to marry a girl from a certain college, brother.”  It broke my friend’s heart.  But he followed his parent’s prescribed plan for his life, went to the college and graduate school they chose, and married the right girl.  And right now he has all the awards and rewards, toys and trinkets of success.  But, if you talk to him, you will find out that, down deep he feels he is incarcerated and just doing time.  He was a guy who was meant to fly and to slam-dunk but he is playing a slow down game, afraid if he makes one mistake, he will be pulled out of the game.  Don’t let that happen in your family.  Discover each other’s unique potential and gifts and aptitudes and abilities.

Have you ever noticed the shot clock in basketball?  It is always ticking down.  The shot clock.  We have got a shot clock going on with the family, don’t we?  It is ticking.  We are only going to have our children for a season.  They will only be 11, 6 and 3½ now, and then it is over.  I have got to do life, I have got to do the family thing with one eye on the shot clock.

Did you realize that we had three points in this message?  We had to have three points because the three-point shot has changed the course of basketball.  Now, if you shoot behind a certain line, instead of being awarded two points, you earn three?  Teams can come back quicker.  They can score more.  Families, we have got to shoot the three.  We are going to shoot air balls.  We will hit it off the back iron now and then.  We will throw the ball out of bounds.  We will be called for walking.  But we have got to shoot the three.

God, game plans and gifts.  And our roll, as the Fellowship, as a church, is simply this.  When you step behind the three-point line and shoot the shot for the family, we want you to hit nothing but net.

Team Family: Part 2 – Intentional Grounding: Transcript

TEAM FAMILY SERMON SERIES

“INTENTIONAL GROUNDING”

DEALING WITH DISCIPLINE IN THE FAMILY

ED YOUNG

APRIL 19, 1998

You know there is nothing quite like a great football game.  When a couple of teams are disciplined and functioning properly, the combination of athleticism, power, strength and skill is something to behold.  There is nothing quite like a great football game.  You have seen it and so have I, the diving catch, the shoestring tackle, the long run.  Things like that will bring any crowd to its feet.  We love football in Texas.  It is our sport.

When football is played properly it is great.  But if it is not, it can be ugly, can’t it?  When teams are not disciplined, when teams are kind of doing their own thing, when the game is marred with fights and fumbles and turnovers, it is ugly.  It is horrible.  We turn off the television set or leave the game early.

Well, the family game is something great to behold.  When it is disciplined and when there is love flowing and grace and understanding and focus, it will bring any crowd to its feet.  Yet, when it is not functioning properly, when the family game and team is marred with fights, fumbles and turnovers, it is not a pretty sight.  In fact, it is ugly.

I think it is safe to say that every family team here would like to teach their teammates to score touchdown after touchdown, to play focused ball, to do the family thing right.  I think that every person here would want that to be their agenda.

Last week I kicked off a brand new series we are calling TEAM FAMILY.  We have been comparing aspects of sports to certain aspects of the family.  Now to show you it is not some kind of stretch, scripture writers’ favorite metaphor to describe the Christian life is that of an athlete.  Last weekend I talked about the goals that every family should tend to tenaciously.  If you missed last weekend, please pick up the tape.  Every message builds on the former message.

I am going to tell you something, Moms and Dads.  You can have the priorities and goals down cold but if you don’t do what we are going to talk about today, your family team will be marred with fights, fumbles and turnovers.  We  are calling this session, “Intentional Grounding – Dealing with Discipline.”  Every time discipline is discussed, opinions are expressed, questions are brought up and the overall attitude is one of confusion.

You heard about it in the drama.  How far do you go?  When do you get strong and when do you back off?  Now before we jump into dealing with discipline, let me say something parenthetically.  It is impossible for me to exhaust all of the subtle nuances of this complex topic in the timeframe that we have for this service.  We have parenting classes and different seminars throughout the calendar year to help you, parents or family team members, in whatever season you find your family in.  But I do want to share with you the cliff notes, the highlights from the playbook on discipline.  And I want to save you, parents, from boatloads of pain and anxiety.  Because the Bible speaks directly, succinctly and powerfully to this topic called discipline.

Families, and specifically parents, we have got to do one thing right up front in dealing with discipline.  It is going to sound odd.  We have got to line off the playing field.  That’s right.  We have got to become a grounds crew member and line off the playing field.  You see, giving your children a manicured field, crisp new uniforms and inspirational words aren’t enough.  We also have to mark off the playing field.  I am talking about the goal lines, side lines and hash marks.  We have got to show our children where the boundaries are.

When I was a kid playing backyard football, it was my dream to have a lined off field.  I thought it would be the coolest thing in the world if we could line off our backyard.   So one day, some friends and I took sand out of my little brother’s sandbox and we actually made a football field out of our backyard.  We did the sidelines, the goal lines and the hash marks.  From then on, whenever we did this, the games would go better.  There were less disputes.  We wouldn’t say, “You are out of bounds because the side of the house is out of bounds.”  We knew where everything was.  The only problem with the sand was, whenever it would rain just a little bit, our field would be destroyed.  So I have been a part, in kind of a strange way, of a functioning grounds crew.

Parents, we make a couple of major mistakes when we do the grounds crew thing.  The first mistake is that a lot of us constantly change the goal line, the side lines and the hash marks.  The field is in a constant state of flux.  What was a touchdown last week, is a penalty this week.  And our children don’t really know where everything is located and it makes them timid and sometimes it can lead to major league rebellion.

Another mistake that we make, parents, and this one staggers me, is allowing the children to mark off their own field.  We say, “You determine your own destiny.   You know a lot.  Go ahead and line off your playing field.”  Parents, this leads to some serious, serious trouble.  Proverbs 29:15, “A child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother.”  You could rephrase it to read that a child who lines off his own field brings shame to his mother.  The question is still being debated and kicked about.  Are babies born with a bent toward badness or are they little cherubs who, as they fly and flutter through life, become stained by our horrible and dark world?  The Bible says that we have a sin nature.  We have a great capacity for goodness and a potential for greatness, but we are flawed.  We are flawed from birth.  And if you don’t believe me, have a baby!  Little babies, as they are swinging back and forth in their baby swings, are kind of casing the joint.  They are looking at the family team.  They see those two coaches over there, Mom and Dad.  Dad is watching yet another golf tournament.  Mom is preparing a bottle.  They look at their sister playing with Barbies and they say to themselves in their little brains, “I am going to run the team.  I am going to take it over.”  And these little babies begin to test the boundaries, the goal lines, the hash marks.  They want desperately for flags to be thrown, whistles to be blown and penalties to be assessed.  We are fashioned to live and do life on God’s playing field with His rules.

Proverbs 22:15 says, “Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child.”  Over the last five years, how many times have we seen Emmett Smith break a long run and the announcers say this.  “Look at Emmett Smith, he might go all the way.  Touchdown.  Cowboys.”  Then they say, “Let’s look at this on the instant replay.  Look at those moves.  Emmett has worked hard but you just can’t teach some of those moves.”  What are they saying here?  They are saying that some of Emmy’s talent and skill is genetic.

Well, if those announcers watched us perform, foul up and mess up and fall short, from the baby swing on, they would say, “You can’t teach it.  It is sinetic.”  We have a sin nature.  And wise parents mark off the field and show clearly the boundaries and goal lines and hash marks and challenge the children to live within the framework of the family field.  Every single time we are part of the grounds crew, we are simply mimicking our maker.  Every time we discipline our children, we are mimicking the God of the universe.  Hebrews 12:10-11.  “Our fathers disciplined us for a little while as they thought best, but God disciplines us for our good….”  Don’t you like that part?  For our good.  “…that we may share in His holiness.  No discipline seems pleasant at the time but painful.  Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.”

We serve a God who loves us so much that He disciplines us.  We are His children.  We matter that much to Him.  Just for a second, I want you to think about the most beautiful football field you have ever seen in your life.  You might not realize it, but prior to you looking at that football field, a grounds crew meticulously marked off and maintained that field.  The players know exactly where they are and are not supposed to go.  Moms, Dads, line off your family playing field.  And when you line it off, make sure that it lines up with God’s word.  Are you doing the grounds crew thing?  It will serve your family team well.

After we do the grounds crew thing, we are to do something else.  We are to call a consistent game.  That’s right.  We are to put on a referee’s uniform.  We are referees.  We are officials.  And this is a stressful job.  Officials take a lot of abuse.  People boo at them all the time, whine to them.  Players get in their faces.  Yet, a great official, a great referee is always consistent.

Let me give you a theoretical situation.  What if in four or five months you are watching an NFL football game and you see a blatant face mask, clip or illegal use of the hands and you see the referee run up to the offending party without throwing a flag or blowing a whistle.  Instead, he says, “Hey, don’t worry about it, man.  I know you didn’t mean it, OK?”  And then the same scenario happens again and again. If that took place, football would be a fiasco.  It would be terrible.  No one would watch it or participate in it.  Sometimes parents, when their children mess up, just threaten.  They say, “If you do that again, I’m going to throw this flag right here.  You missed curfew by an hour and a half and I am thinking about it.”  Sometimes parents will go one step closer to assessing the penalty.  They will throw the flag, blow the whistle and make various hand gestures, but when the moment of truth comes, they don’t take away the yardage, don’t disqualify the teammate for awhile.  They are afraid.  They think that parenting is some kind of popularity contest.  I am here to tell you that it is not.  Yes, we are to be a friend to our child, but we are to be both a part of the ground’s crew and a referee.

Families, your children are not the center of the team.  They are not in the middle of the huddle.  If you allow that, you are setting yourself up for team turmoil.  The most important relationship in the family is between the husband and the wife.  Everything trickles down from that.  That is how children learn trust and forgiveness and intimacy and communication and conflict resolution skills.  I talked to a couple recently who said, “You know, we can’t have a date night because our children won’t let us have a baby sitter.”  I said, “Come back?  Who is lining off the field?  Who is refereeing the game here?”  Mom and Dad, your marriage takes precedence over the children.  And then from there, we can talk about their needs.  There should always be give and take in a family but the marriage is the foundation.

Let me give you some basic refereeing tips by Pastor Ed Young.  Here is how to call a consistent game.  These tips have helped me because I have made many mistakes as a parent.  It is tough.

  1. Start at the kickoff. Oftentimes, we wait until the second half to start throwing flags, blowing whistles and assessing penalties.  Start when they are in that little swing going back and forth, back and forth.  Start early.
  2. Penalize your children in private. When you watch a football game and someone commits a penalty, they will do a close-up shot of the referee.  He will turn his intercom on.  “Holding on number 79.    Third down.”  Everybody goes, “Whoa, 79, he blew it.”  If you want to crush your child’s spirit, if you want to dismantle them systematically, correct them, discipline them in public.  I have talked to too many wounded children, students, single adults and others who have been married many, many years who look back and remember the hurt of being disciplined in public.  So if you are in a restaurant, take them to the rest room, where you can handle that one on one.
  3. When you discipline your children, remember that they are each unique. You don’t always throw the flag, blow the whistle and assess penalties the same way with every child.  I think about our twins, for example.  They are different.  When Laurie messes up, I can just say to her quietly, “Laurie, you disobeyed Mommy and Daddy.  That was wrong.”   She will kind of well up with tears.  Conversely, Landra will test the limits and if I talked to Landra like I do to Laurie, Landra would say, “Yeah, forget you.”  I have got to get in her face.  “Landra, look at me.  Look at me, Landra……”  My father has written a lot of books on the family and here is what he says about discipline.  “I had to look at one of my sons to discipline him.  Another, I had to talk to him.  The third, I had to use a belt on him.”  I am the belt boy!  Proverbs 19:18.  “Discipline your children while there is hope.”  That means, while they are young.  If you don’t, it will ruin their lives.  Boy, I wish the Bible were direct.

There is a man in the Old Testament named Eli.  Eli was a man of God but he failed miserably as a ground’s crew person.  He failed miserably as a referee.  He didn’t line and mark off the field.  He didn’t call a  consistent game.  He though his two kids, Hophni and Phinehas would do great things.  But they didn’t.  Eli’s life ended in shambles.  His sons lives ended in shambles.  His family team was dismantled.  Why?  Because he didn’t call a consistent game.

So parents, we are constantly changing hats.  There is a third hat we have got to put on.  The third hat is a coach’s hat.  And we have got to maintain a balanced coaching staff.  There has got to be unity.  The staff has to be operating off of the same page, from the same playbook.  Children learn at a very early age how to play one coach against the other coach.  And if you are a single parent, you even have a greater challenge.  Next weekend I am going to spend an entire session talking to single parents and persons who are a part of the blended family.

Here is what our little rookies do.  Let say, for example, you have a daughter.  She will run up to her mother and ask permission to do something.  If permission is not granted, she will wait for you to come home.  Then she asks the very same request.   When she admits that her mommy said no, Dad, that is the moment of truth.  If you cater to her, you are messing up.  You are totally taking apart the unity of your coaching staff.  You need to present a unified front.  You and your spouse need to have shared decisions.  Now if it is something that you want to discuss, you can say to your daughter she must wait for an answer until after you to talk with her mother.  Then huddle with your spouse concerning the situation.  But make sure that you present balance and unity.  If you don’t, you are setting yourself for major, major problems.

Although it is hard to do, you have got to apologize to your children when you mess up.  We may go too far or not far enough.  A lot of times we get it right, I think most of the times we do.  But now and then we are going to mess up.  Ask your children for forgiveness when you have gone too far.  They know you have messed up.  They are just waiting, wondering if Dad and Mom will come clean.

Some people may be saying to themselves that their kids are grown but that they messed up a long time ago.  Parents, I don’t care how old your children are.  Drop them a note this week.  Pick up the phone and call them and say that you were wrong then.  You may not realize it, but it matters to them.

Hey, boomers and busters, don’t whine and moan and point the finger of blame at your family of origin your whole life.  “Well, my parents were not really good coaches and I am dysfunctional because of that.”  We all come from dysfunctional families.  We are all dysfunctional.  None of us are perfect.  Even if your parents will not or have not apologized to you and sought forgiveness, get down on your knees and tell God that you release them, forgive them.

And children, when your parents do the forgiveness work, accept it.  The Bible says that if we do not accept their words of apology, why should Christ accept ours?  Maintain a balanced coaching staff.  Ephesians 6:4.  “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger….”  Dads get particularly tempted.  Dads like to stay up in the tower overlooking the field.  We like to watch the action unfold and let our wives do most of the day to day discipline.  From time to time we will take our megaphone and announce a mess up.  But then we will get back into the tower and catch a few rays.  Dads, it is fine to be up in the tower now and then.  But we have got to climb down from the tower and get into the midst of the action.  This Bible verse means that we must not arbitrarily assert our authority over the children.

Also, what do you do when you feel an unsportsmanlike conduct call coming on?  What do you do when you are tempted to throw down the head set?  What do you do?  Do you discipline?  No, because you will be too harsh.  You hand off the situation.  You hand off your child or leave the premises to regain your composure.  “Fathers do not provoke your children to anger but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”

You see, discipline is not an option.  Instruction is not an option.  We are to do it.  A couple of years ago I came up with an acrostic.  I would ask myself what the deal was with any particular situation.  So I took the word deal, made an acrostic of it.  It helped me and I hope it will help you.

D stands for discern.  We need discernment.  We have got to be praying for an extra measure of discernment.  We have got to have discernment to line off the field and then have the discernment to discipline our children in an age-appropriate fashion.  I was thinking about my childhood and tried to remember the best act of discipline that was used with me.  I will never forget it.  I was in elementary school and one of our neighbors had a big old, hulking cement birdbath.  I used to watch the birds come and go.  I don’t know why I did what I did, but I bet a close friend that I could turn that birdbath over.  I even feel terrible telling you this.  I ran and shoved it and it fell and broke into a million pieces.  I ran.  I thought that I had committed a flawless crime until five minutes later my parents got a call from the neighbor.  Let me tell you what my parents did.  They did something brilliant.  I have never forgotten it.  They said, “Ed, you know the money you have been saving for that rod and reel?  You, after you call and apologize, will go along with us to the birdbath store, and buy her another cement birdbath.”  I have visions, still, of carrying my piggy bank money, and putting it onto the counter and saying, “One birdbath, please.”  It was terrible.  But that is discernment, wouldn’t you agree?

E stands for enlighten.  We need to use the discipline as a teachable moment.

A stands for affirm.  It is important to affirm the relationship.  I say something like this to my children.  “Children, God loves you and I love you too much to allow you to get away with this behavior.  We are affirming the relationship.

L stands for love.  Don’t leave that out.  Some of the most precious moments of my parenting career have been embracing my children after acts of discipline.

Every time you discipline, ask what the deal is and remember this acrostic.  When I opened the message up, I said, “There is nothing quite like a great football game.  When a couple of teams are disciplined and doing it right, the combination of pageantry, skill, athleticism and strength is something to behold.”  But I have got to tell you something.  There is nothing quite like a great family game.  When the team is disciplined, running right, playing within the perimeters set forth by the ground’s crew and the referees and the coaches, it is something to behold.  Parents, do the discipline deal.  Your family, over the years, will carry the ball and score touchdown after touchdown after touchdown.

Team Family: Part 3 – Designated Hitter: Transcript

TEAM FAMILY SERMON SERIES

DESIGNATED HITTER

ED YOUNG

APRIL 26, 1998

Earlier this week, several of us were trying to figure out a way to  communicate today’s topic.  After making a few phone calls and doing some last minute planning, a few of us made a road trip early Wednesday morning.  I think that the side screens will explain.

AUDIO FROM A VIDEO.

This weekend we are continuing our series called TEAM FAMILY where we have been paralleling aspects of sports with the family.  We have talked about basketball.  We have talked about football.  Today, we are talking about baseball.  We have flown from Dallas/Ft. Worth all the way to sunny south Florida.  That’s right, I am in Miami Beach a couple of hours before the world series champion Florida Marlins take on the Colorado Rockies.

One of the Rockies coaches goes to our church.  His name is Jackie Moore.  We have tracked him down.  We are here to talk about baseball, eat some Cuban food and fly home tonight.  I hope you enjoy what is in store for you because it is going to be a great day.  We are talking about the great game, baseball.  But more importantly than that, we are talking about how to build the blended family.

Come on, follow me.  You never know, Jackie, when we are going to show up and follow somebody around.  Let’s welcome Jackie Moore.

  1. Jackie, what is it like being in baseball for forty years.

JACKIE.  Well it is great. And this proves to me that you can’t hide from the Lord.

  1. It is just a few hours before game time here. You can see the guys warming up.  It is kind of scary.  That ball travels about 100 miles an hour right by my head.  I am going back into the dugout.  This is Dante Beshet.  He is an outfielder with the Colorado Rockies and I hear he is one of the best power hitters in baseball.  Dante, I am clueless about baseball, but I do know this.  What are you thinking about when you are up facing pitcher after pitcher, night after night.

DANTE.  But you don’t think about the pitcher.  If you think about the pitcher, sometimes you get psyched out because they throw some pretty impressive names out there.  You just have got to think about the baseball.  Focus on the release point, what pitch you are looking for.  You have got to know in your mind what the ball is going to do because you have seen the guy before.  You just try to hit through the ball, put the good wood on the ball.

  1. How many home runs did you hit last year?

DANTE.  I hit 26 or 27, I think.

  1. That is pretty strong. And you are how tall?  How much do you weigh?

DANTE.  I am about 6’21/2” and 245 pounds.

  1. That’s all. (Laughter)

(Moving to another location.)

  1. How about the spit zone here, Jackie? Do you have to watch out as far as the tobacco, sunflower seeds, etc.?

JACKIE.  That has improved.  We are starting to realize in baseball that tobacco is bad for you.  So we have come a long ways in this area.

  1. Did you used to chew?

JACKIE.  No

  1. I never have either.

(Moved again.)

  1. Is this cool? An official first base at a big league ball park.  The goal of every hitter is to get to first base.  If you don’t get to this base, you can forget about second, third and home.  So first base is where it is at.  And then after first, you go to second.  That feels good on my Doc Martins.  Those are great shoes that you have on too, Jackie.  Do you have those polished every game?

JACKIE.  Yes, every day.

  1. Aren’t those sharp looking? Every guy on the team?  Wow, those are beautiful.  Jackie, tell me about second base.  What is it like to get to second and what are you thinking about?  Let’s just talk about second base.

JACKIE.  Well, Ed, once you get to second base you realize that you can score on a single.  You are half way home.  Obviously, first base is so important.  Second base puts you in a position to score a run on a single or an error.  This is where most of the production comes from offensively in baseball.

  1. OK, when you are going from second to third, in your mind, you are saying that it is scoring time.

JACKIE.  In your mind, you are scoring until your third base coach holds you up.  Once you leave second base you have the idea that you are going to score.  Now if the third base coach gives you the stop sign, obviously you stop and come back.  But you have to think home plate all the way.

  1. So Jackie, when you are here at third can you hear what the third base coach says or do you watch his signals?

JACKIE.  Well, both.  Obviously, you watch the third base coach but also he can communicate with you verbally and this happens a lot.  But he does have a lot of signs.  Everything that happens, the strategy throughout the game, comes from the manager to the third base coach.  That is why you see a third base coach going through all the signs.

  1. Show us some signs. Now I don’t want to give away any of your strategy, but show us a few signs.

JACKIE.  Well a lot of fans or people watch a game and see the third base coach always moving or touching parts of his body.  Most of the time that is just a decoy.  You do this because the other club is trying to steal all of your signs.  They want to know when you are going to bunt.  They want to know when you hit and run.  In our case, the bunt might be the face, the hit and run, the chest.  And, of course, the steal is the leg.  But the signs work off an indicator and that might be your nose.  So you see a third base coach go to his nose, go to his face, the bunt is on.  Now, also, we have a takeoff sign.  Now, Ed, pay attention cause I will ask you a question here.  Remember, indicator, bunt, hit and run and steal.  And to be able to cap this, the take off.  So I am going through the signs.  Nothing.  Nothing.  Then I go through the indicator.  Put the bunt on.  So what sign do we have.

  1. Bunt?

JACKIE.  That’s right.

  1. Great! I can play in the major leagues.

JACKIE.  The only problem is that I took it off when I went to my cap.

  1. Oh, oh. See, that is the story of my sporting career right there.  Jackie, that is good.  That is very good.  Do you know of a good Cuban restaurant here in Miami?

JACKIE.  Yes, I do.  There is one in Miami about 15 to 20 minutes from here and I have the address written down.

(Video moves to restaurant.)

  1. You can’t really come to Miami Beach, Florida without sampling some of the great Cuban food at Casa Romeo, and also a little bit of Cuban coffee. This stuff is so potent, you have to serve it in these little tiny cups.  It will make Starbucks seem weak.  Wow.  I am ready to preach right now.  Back to the service.

You know, I want to thank Jackie Moore’s wife, JoAnne who flew us down Wednesday morning and flew us back Wednesday night.  She was so very kind and generous to do that.  We had a wonderful time in Miami, Florida.

Statistics on the blended family are staggering.  Did you know that 40% of all marriages are remarriages for one of the two parties?  Did you know that over half of the United States populous will spend some time in a blended family situation over their life span?  Did you know that one out of six children under the age of eighteen is a stepchild?  The statistics are, indeed, staggering.  It is against the backdrop of all this data, research and changing American family unit that we have the church.  And, sadly, the church has been strangely silent concerning the blended family.  But, God is not silent.  And because God is not silent, we at Fellowship are not silent.  So today I want to talk to you in this session about the “bases” of the blended family.  I want to specify the “bases” that every blended family team member needs to touch, in order to score, in order to get to home plate.

Let’s talk about first base because that is the goal of every hitter, to get to first base.  First base, we have got to recognize the reality of remarriage.  Let’s say you are considering doing the blended family thing.  You have got to recognize the reality of remarriage.  Relational experts tell us that it takes 24 months for a person to get over the death of a spouse or divorce.  They say that it takes at least two years for everyone to get their emotional equilibrium.

And let me interject something right up front.  I know in a crowd this size that we have dozens of marriages right now hanging by a thread.  Maybe your marriage is on the brink but a lot of people don’t realize it.  No matter how high the cost of working your marriage out, the cost of divorce is always higher.  No matter how high the cost of working through your marital sticking points, the price of divorce is always higher.  The Bible says that God hates divorce.  It is a sin.  However, it is not the unpardonable sin.  It is forgivable.  And we serve a God of a second, third, fourth and fifth change.

After you have waited for about 24 months, after you have gone through the trauma of the death of a spouse or divorce, God says if He leads you, He will prompt you and energize you to walk up again to the marital plate and begin to hit and to look for His pitch.  But the challenge is, a lot of us go to the marital plate prematurely.  We don’t wait for 24 months.  And because the evil one wants to throw us out, the evil one says, “Hey, it has been a couple of months, walk to the marital plate again.  I will throw you some pitches.  I’ll send some people your way.  Just start swinging.  Swing for the fences.”  The evil one wants you to focus on your loneliness as opposed to the Lord.  When you focus on loneliness, after awhile you get desperate and you will just start swinging at anything that comes by.  When you do that you hook up with the wrong person.  You begin to date the wrong person.  And when you begin to date the wrong person out of loneliness and desperation, you usually have premarital sex.  As I have said before, premarital sex is a sin before God.  God is the author of sex.  He invented it.  He thought it up.  But when you are involved in premarital sex, it blinds your discernment.  It blinds your reasoning power.  You don’t know even how to swing or what to swing at if you are involved in premarital sex.  And when you are involved in premarital sex, here is what usually happens.  It will usher you down the wedding runner with the wrong person.  Then it is just a matter of time before the umpire says, “You’re out.”

And the evil one laughs because another one has taken his bait, another one has hit his pitch.  On the one hand, the evil one wants to throw you out.  On the other hand, God wants you to find the right person.  And if you are patient, if you have waited at least 24 months, waited for God’s pitch, He will tell you when to swing.  When you do see a likely candidate who knows Christ personally, make sure that it takes you about a year to swing, a year to date the person.  You need to take a year to scout the other potential blended family team members.  Twelve months.  And then after that time period, if you feel God prompting you to walk down the wedding runner into the wedding chapel, then do it.  God can take a blended family team and put them together and give them unity and focus and they can run the bases and score.

There are many great and wonderful and God-honoring blended family teams right here in the Fellowship Church.  But remember.  The stakes are sky high.

Do you realize that the percentages are higher for divorce for a second marriage than for a first marriage?  They are higher due to the fact that child-rearing is so challenging.  You see, in a nuclear family, it is a couple of parents and 2.3 kids.  Now in the blended family thing, things get complicated.  You have blended children and natural children and ex-grandparents and blended grandparents and uncles and aunts.  People are coming at you from every direction.  Usually if the blended family is not based on God and His principles, it will fall apart at the seams.

Yet our Lord says, “Walk up to the marital plate, it is another chance for you to achieve God’s ideal.”   Hopefully you have learned from your mistakes and prayed it through.  Then you can be about blending this family unit.  Don’t fall into the trap of comparing the blended family with the nuclear family.  That is like comparing baseball with figure skating.  It doesn’t work.  It is more difficult to manage the blended family team than the nuclear family.  It is more challenging, yet it can be done.  And God wants it to be done.

I kind of laugh at how the world portrays the blended family.  You watch a typical sitcom where you have a stepfamily situation and they never have a problem that can’t be solved within a 30 minute time segment, interspersed with commercials and canned laugher.  Finally, at the end the music will swell, the credits will roll and you will walk away from the television set saying that it is so effortless and easy to do the blended family thing.  It is not.

Psalm 27:14.  Wait for the Lord.  Be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.

Now I wonder what is the purpose of this verse.  Wait.  When in doubt, wait.  Be patient.  Did you hear big Dante?  He is a patient hitter.  He waits for his pitch.  Potential blended parents and family members, wait.  Be patient.  When Christ says swing, swing.  You will connect and great things will happen.

Let’s say that you are on first base.  Let’s say that you have recognized the reality of remarriage, you are blending everyone together.  God doesn’t want you to stay there.  He wants you to progress.  He wants you to move from first to second.  So as we move from first to second, we have got to talk about something else.  Second base represents the children.  We have got to connect with the core of the kids.

Next to your relationship with Christ and your relationship with your spouse, comes your relationship with your kids.

Ephesians 6:4.  Fathers… (or we could say parents, blended parents)…do not exasperate your children.

I want to share with you four “do nots”, blended parents.   First, do not use your children as bats or scouts.  Amazingly, blended parents will pick up their children, take a couple of practice swings with them and then they will wait for their ex to throw a pitch.  And amazingly, they will use their children to connect with the pitches and try to swing for the upper deck.  The problem with this it, it will splinter, bruise and batter your children.  It is tempting because we have got anger going on, animosity.  We have got a lot of things fueling and firing up these engines, but don’t pick up your children and use them as bats.  Don’t use them as scouts either.  Let’s say that you child has spend the weekend with Dad.  The child comes back and you say, “Hey, does Daddy have a girl friend?”  Or maybe the child spends the summer with Mom and you say, “Mom is driving a new Jaguar.  Tell me about it.  What is your stepdad like?”  Do not do that.

Second.  Do not keep the ball of guilt in the glove.  Guilt will come flying at you on a rope, out of the sky, on the ground.  You have got to field it, to resist that urge to keep the ball of guilt in the glove.  Too many blended parents say, “Oh, it is my fault.  I have ruined the lives of my children.  I have ruined my life and everything is horrible.”  We will keep guilt in the glove, autograph it, look at it and say, “It’s my fault.”  Also, do not give this ball of guilt to your children.  It is easy to begin to cater to their every whim and moan and groan.  And you slowly begin to let your children run over you.  You treat them like peers and one day they are managing the team.  Field the guilt.  Deal with it.  Confess it.  Turn from it and throw it away.  Do not keep guilt in the glove.  Do you have some guilt in your glove right now, parents?  Are you giving it to your children?  Could it be displayed in their room like a trophy?  Get rid of it.  That is what it means to come clean and confess our sin and to turn from them.

Third.  Do not downplay discipline.  They need desperately to have those baselines chalked and marked and, blended parents, you need to stay true to the lines, to the boundaries.  They want you to discipline them.  This also means that you have got to work with your ex and come up with some baselines.  Now some of you are saying, “Ed, you don’t know my ex.  My ex has a totally different moral base than I do.  My ex does some things around my children that I don’t like. And I have to tell my children that.”  Don’t even think about it.  Don’t berate your ex in front of your children.  Don’t bring them into it.  If you have a problem with your ex, deal with your ex.  But you make sure, like we talked about in one of our earlier sessions here, to be like Joshua.  Say, “As for me and my house, we are going to serve the Lord.  I know everything else is up in the air but here are the baselines.  We are going to fit into God’s rules for the blended family game.  The absolutes that we operate on will be from the Bible itself.”  Do not downplay discipline.

Fourth.  This is kind of odd but during my research, I discovered how important it really is.  Do not tyrannize tradition. You know, baseball is a game of tradition.  A player would not think about defaming the Hall of Fame.  Traditions are important.  They matter.  Traditions matter to your blended child.  You see, if they look back at the past, the past might be better for them then the present.  In the past, Mom and Dad were together in the house with the white picket fence, in the neighborhood, going to the same schools.  Everything was just rocking and rolling.  And now, they are in a blended family situation, a step situation.  They have traditions that they remember, that they hold onto.  Wise blended parents do not take away from these traditions.  They do not belittle them or explain them away or trivialize them.  They add to them.  They start their own.  And they value them in the lives of their children.  I am talking about five year olds, fifteen year olds and even twenty-five year olds.  Start your own traditions and do not take away from the past traditions.

Do not, do not, do not, do not.  Fathers, do not exasperate your children.  Yet the verse continues.  “….Instead bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.”  When I hung out with the Colorado Rockies, and, you know that I am clueless about baseball as I said, I talked to some of the coaches and the players and they were always talking about different stages.  A coach might say, “See that pitcher there, Ed?  One day he will make three or four million a year but right now he is making a measly quarter of a million dollars a year.  But he will make the big money.  But he is in this stage.  He just came in from the minors and we have got to get him out of this stage to the next stage.  And see this guy here?  He is in a stage right before he breaks out and becomes a perennial all-star.”  They were always talking about stages of their players, of their team.  If we are going to bring our children up as the verse says in the training and instruction of the Lord, we had better recognize their stages and especially in the blended family unit.  Parents, we had better study our children and know what stages they are in.  It is a process.

The first stage that a blended child goes through is what I call the “field of dreams stage”.  It is a very painful stage.  You see the field of dreams stage occurs when there is a remarriage.  Do you realize that a remarriage is more difficult on a child than the divorce?  You know why?  Because it ends up ruining the child’s field of dreams.  It ends up ruining their thoughts of Mom and Dad reconciling.  So their field of dreams becomes a field of pipe dreams.  They become down and despondent and it is tough.  Wise blended parents see this and recognize this as a stage that needs to be gone through.

The next stage is the stage I call the “whatever stage”.  Over the years of my youth work and by talking to scores of blended families and ex-spouses, I have discovered the whatever stage is a real stage.  That is when the blended parent comes into the scene and begins to manage things.  The blended child takes it as an infringement on his territory, on his team.  Often they misinterpret what the parent is trying to do and become indifferent.  You ask them, “Hey, how do you like the blended family?”  And they will answer, “Whatever.”  Kind of noncommittal.

The third stage is the “we’re cool stage”.  You talk to the children and they say, “We’re cool.”  They are beginning to accept the blended parent but they are doing it very cautiously and with great apprehension.  They are still testing the waters, testing the chemistry of the team.  They want to see if the blended family marriage is strong enough to take them through this season, the next season, the next season into retirement.  There may be a friendship thing going on but that is about it.  That’s the we’re cool stage.

The fourth stage is the best stage.  It is the stage that if you hang in there, take the initiative, pray like crazy and expose your blended family to the things of Christ, you will discover.  It is the “high five stage.”  High five.  The high five stage is when the blended child has accepted and received the blended parent as a full-fledged family team member.  There is community going on.  There is communication.  There is intimacy.  Everything is going well.  And that is the goal.  That is the process that you want to take your children through.  They have gone to first and now the blended family team is on second.

And when you are on second, you are in scoring position.  You are ready to think about going home.   But to get to home, you have got to go to third base.  Any great base runner is going to have his or her eyes peeled on the third base coach.  And the third base coach giving us the singles happens to be Christ Himself.

Let’s walk over to third now and touch third.  Third base.  We have got to watch for the signs of the Savior.  You saw Jackie demonstrating all the signs.  Christ has a number of signs.  His first sign is His outstretched arms.  They represent the cross.  Because He loved you and loved me so much He spilled His blood on Calvary for all of our sins and He rose again.  We have an option as we are running the bases and looking at Him.  We can either receive what He did for us on the cross or not.  We can either say, “Jesus, I have my eyes fixed on you” or not.  And we know that any great blended family unit will have their eyes on Christ.

Hebrews 12:2.  We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus on whom our faith depends from start to finish.

That means from first to home.  We fix our eyes on Him.  We see His sacrificial death on the cross and His resurrection.  We see the amazing grace that He is extending to us.  Sometimes we see His sign to slow down.  Sometimes He waves us on home.  We are watching His every clue.  The third base coach sees the entire field.  They see the implications of life.  They know what is going on.  Are you doing that?  Do you have your eyes on Christ?

Educator Patricia Paperneau says that it takes the blended family from four to seven years to truly become a unit, to run the bases.  And then she adds that tragically most remarriages end after three years.

That hurts my heart.  We throw in the towel.  We leave the field.  We hand the cleats up right before the breakthrough.  It takes time.  It is not some easy deal.  It is not just skipping around the bases.  It takes work.  It takes prayer.  It takes wisdom, thought and discernment to run the bases of the blended family for the glory of God.  We have got to see the signals of the Savior.

Well, how do we do that?  How do we see His signals?  We follow Him.  We live by His playbook.  We do what He wants us to do.  Also we revolve the blended family team unit around the church.  We have got to make church and the cause of Christ the most important thing we are about.  It has got to become our ultimate base.

Let me give you a hypothetical situation.  What if I said, “You know I love baseball but I hate hats and bats and ballparks and uniforms and baseball games.  But I love baseball.  I really do.”  You would say to yourself that I have had too much Cuban coffee.  If I love baseball, I am going to love everything about it.  Yet I meet blended families who tell me, “I love Jesus.  I love God.  I love the church.”  Then I ask if they are members of a local church.  “We kind of go from here to there.”   Are you active in a ministry?  “We kind of sit on the sidelines or in the dugout.”  Blended families, listen to me.  You have got to make church your base.  And one of the biggest hurdles that you will face is the fact that it is tough to have consistency with your kids in our children’s programs and in our youth programs.  Oftentimes the children may be with you during the week and with the ex on the weekend or vice versa.  And that is a struggle.

Let me give you some help here.  As much as possible, have your blended family team here regularly, intentionally, firmly and lovingly.  Challenge your ex, if your ex lives in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area to become a part of this church too.  One of the reasons we have two services on two different days, and believe me it would have been much easier on me and everyone else involved to have just a couple of services on Sundayis to assist the blended family team.  We challenge you, blended family members, ex-spouses, go when you can.  I think that it is that important to provide consistency for the blended family team.  Make sure that you revolve your family team around this base.

A blended parent friend of mine told me this.  “Ed, when I discipline my blended child, it is like I am under a microscope.  It is like there is always a third party looking over my shoulder.  It is tough.  When I discipline my natural child, is it easier.  It is like a one on one type scenario.”  But then he concluded by saying, “God has given me the grace and the love to do a great job.  I have made mistakes but my family reflects our relationship with Christ.”  And this family I am describing is very involved, one of the key families in our entire church.  So the blended family team can and will work.  God wants it to work.  Christ right now is on third base saying to advance around the bases.   For some He is saying, hold it at first or hold it at second.  For others He is giving some the steal sign.   But for many He is saying score.

You see I want the Fellowship Church to assist blended family teams in running the bases.  We want to assist blended family team members, to help them, collectively, place their cleats on home plate to score the winning run.

Team Family: Part 5 – Cheer-Up (Mother’s Day): Transcript

TEAM FAMILY SERMON SERIES

CHEER-UP

CREATING THE FAMILY PEP-RALLY

ED YOUNG

MAY 10, 1998

This morning we have a very special guest with us.  He is the head coach of the Dallas Cowboys, Chan Gailey.  Chan and his wife, Lori, have been married for a number of years.  They have two sons, Tate and Andrew.  Let’s give Chan Gailey a Fellowship Church welcome.

CHAN:  Thank you very much.  I hope we are clapping that hard again a year from now.  I got a note from Ed earlier in the week.  It said, “As I mentioned earlier, plan to speak approximately 10 to 12 minutes per service covering aspects of your relationship with Christ, how you came to know Him, the impact your mother has had in your life.  You may want to include your role as a Cowboy.”

I couldn’t talk about all that in an hour and 10 to 12 minutes.  But I do want to share a few things about my life.   First I would like to share some things about my life.  I grew up in a Christian home and was baptized at age eleven.  I was fortunate to be around a lot of Christian teachers and coaches.  I was blessed in many ways but for 17 years I really didn’t have a relationship with Christ.  I was doing a lot of things that good Christians do.  I was going to church, reading my Bible and praying.  I sang in the choir.  I spoke for FCA.  I did all those things.

Let me read you a little story that is found in I Samuel 4.  It is a story about the Philistines and the Israelites.  They were two groups of people that fought a lot.  If you look them up, you can’t find any use for the Philistines in the Bible except for fighting the Israelites.  They are kind of like the old Oakland Raiders.  You know, all they were good for was a fight.

“The Philistines deployed their forces to meet Israel and as the battle spread, Israel was defeated by the Philistines who killed about 4,000 of them on the battlefield.”

  1. So we got the good guys and the bad guys. The good guys go out and the bad guys kill 4,000 of them.  Then they returned to their encampments at night.  There must have been some kind of honor in battle back in those days.  So the Israelite leaders were asking themselves what was the matter, why did they lose.

“Why did the Lord bring defeat on us today before the Philistines?”

But they had an answer.  They had a game plan.

“Let us bring the Ark of the Lord’s covenant from Shiloh, so that it may go with us and save us from the hands of our enemies.”

Everybody remembers the Ark of the covenant, Raiders of the Lost Ark.  You know.  That one.  OK.  Do you also remember the walls of Jericho when they marched around and blew the trumpets?  Well the Ark of the covenant was there also.  And another time when the Israelites were being chased by their enemies, the guys carrying the Ark put their toes in the water of the River Jordan.  I know some are thinking that I am confusing this with the Red Sea.  No, this is another story.  They put their toes in the water and the river spread and they went through.  The Ark was the last to pass through and once that happened, the waters closed again and they were saved from their enemies on the other side.  Those are two situations where the Ark was present and it seemed to give them the winning edge.  So they decided to go to Shiloh and get the Ark to take into battle.  They make battle the next day and this is what happens.

“So the Philistines fought and the Israelites were defeated and every man fled to his tent.  The slaughter was very great.  Israel lost 30,000 foot soldiers and the Ark of the Lord’s covenant was captured.”

Now, what is wrong with this picture?  They thought they had the answer.  They had a game plan.  They did everything the way they thought they were supposed to do it.  They got the Ark.  They brought it back.  It was supposed to save them.  But it couldn’t save them.

You see, the bottom line of that story and of my life are very similar.  In some respects, they thought “it” could save them.  In some respects, I thought reading my Bible, praying, going to church, giving money could save me.  The answer is not it, the answer is Him.  And that is the answer in my life.  I finally realized that it takes a relationship with Jesus Christ, a relationship with the Heavenly Father to make this life work.  It is not just going through the motions.  It is not trying to do as many things as you can.  It is not the dos and don’ts of Christianity.  It is not following a list of commandments that makes us Christians.  It is a relationship with Jesus Christ that makes us Christians, that allows us to have the abundant life that we read about in the Bible.

I feel very fortunate that I found that out.  You can look at things that happen to you in life and question why.  I could have gone through my whole life trying to do the right things to be a Christian.   What happens now that I have a relationship with Jesus Christ is that I enjoy getting up and reading the Bible.  It is not a burden.  It is not something I feel I have to do.  The Baptist church may be one of the worst about encouraging that.  For those of you who grew up in the Baptist church, do you remember those little envelopes we used to have?  They had a lot of boxes printed on them.  Attended worship service.  Read my Sunday School lesson.  Gave to the church.  Called someone and invited them to church.  Remembered to bring my Bible.  And if you checked enough of those boxes, you felt like you were a Christian.  You could strut around all day.  And it didn’t have anything to do with it.  Sure that was the result of the relationship with Christ.

Someone asked me, “What is more important, walking the walk or talking the talk?”  I answer that by saying, “Which is the most important wing on an airplane, the right wing or the left wing?  You have got to have them both to fly.”  I always encourage people not to look at a man, or look at me or look at Ed.  Don’t look at some Sunday School teacher, some TV evangelist.  Man will fail.  We all come short.  Christ is the answer and that is who we look at.

It is great to be here this Mother’s Day.  Obviously I can’t be with my family today.  They are in Pittsburgh.  I am a little envious of you gathered here today.  It just worked out with my schedule that I could be here with you today and I appreciate you having me here.  But I do want to talk about my Mom since it is Mother’s Day.  She is an unbelievable lady.  I like to read Romans 12:2.  “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.  Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is, His good and pleasing and perfect will.”  The first part of that says, do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world.  In your home you have both a thermostat and a thermometer.  The thermometer registers what the environment is.  It tells you how hot or how cold it is.  The thermostat regulates what the temperature is going to be, what the environment is going to be.

My Mom, she was a thermostat because she set the tone.  Talk about strong and steady.  She has had her share of adversity in this world but she’s never strayed from basing her life on the rock.  She lost her mother and her sister and her dad at a young age.  She is the only member of that family left.  She has been through divorce.  My parents divorced when I was a senior in high school.  She has been through financial problems.  She has moved all over the country.  She has had it tough.  But I will tell you, she is strong.  And she will tell you why she is strong.  It is because Christ lives in her.  It is not hard to see the peace, the compassion, the love, the care that she possessed.  When the church has a dinner, she cooks for 20 in case there are some who can’t bring anything.  She and five other ladies for the next three months are going to take a day a week to serve as receptionist so the permanent woman can take three months off to have her baby without losing her salary.  That is what I grew up with.  The love, the compassion, the peace, the encouragement.  So I feel very blessed.

I am here today to encourage you to be a thermostat.  As Christians we have a choice.  We can be a thermometer and register what the environment is in the world or we can be a thermostat and set where it ought to be.

Thank you again for having me here in the Lord’s house.  It is a real opportunity for me to be here in Dallas, to be your head coach, to be involved with the young men who are on our football team but more importantly, to be involved in God’s work.

ED:  I would like to begin on this special day by taking an informal poll.  Would you please respond to my questions with an uplifted hand.  How many of you call her, Mom?  How about, Mama?  Last but not least, Mother?  Well today I want to challenge you to add another title to Mom, Mama or Mother – Cheerleader.  Cheerleader, because that is what she is.

My first assignment after being ordained into the ministry fifteen years ago was to give the pastoral prayer during a morning service.  I was nervous about this task so I went out and read some books on prayer.  I had a nice prayer memorized.  The pastoral prayer was rather lengthy and then I had to lead the entire congregation in reciting the Lord’s prayer after I had prayed the long prayer.  I had scribbled out the Lord’s prayer on a piece of paper so I could take it up there with me.  Finally, on Sunday I was informed I was to deliver the prayer after the solo.  So there I was in one of those throne chairs on the platform waiting my turn.  The solo ended.  The organ music began to play softly.  I was going over and over the prayer in my mind.  I tentatively walked to the pulpit, put down the Lord’s prayer and began to pray.  The first part of the prayer went great.  I was thinking to myself that it was pretty easy to pray in front of a couple of thousand people.  Not so bad.  Then I thought to myself that I was home free since all I had to do was look down and read the Lord’s prayer.  And here is what I said.  “As our heads are bowed and our eyes are closed, please follow me as I lead in the prayer that Jesus taught His disciples to pray, saying..Our Father who art in heaven.  Hallowed be Thy name.  Thy kingdom come.”  And then it happened.  I had a melt down.  I couldn’t read any more.  I froze up.  I locked up.  And some people looked at me wondering who is this young preacher?  I finally just said, “For thine is the kingdom, forever.  Amen.”  And I picked up the Lord’s prayer, turned 15 shades of red.  Beads of sweat broke out all over my body.  All eyes were on me.  I went and sat in the pew on the front row.  And I just happened to sit beside, of all people, my Mom.  And Mom leaned over and she whispered words to me that only a Mom could whisper.  “Ed, your voice sounded real good.”  That was a prayer only a mother could love.

Mom is now 60 and she spends a couple of hours a day on the internet.  She will drive hundreds of miles just to see my youngest brother’s alternative Christian rock band perform.  She will join hundreds of cap-wearing, goatee-sporting Gen Xers to jam to the tunes of Caedmon’s Call.  I like to say that she is the only 60-year-old groupie I know.  I call her almost every Saturday.  And she will always ask me about the message.  I find myself, now and then, delivering the message to her over the phone.  Always interested, always complimentary, always a cheerleader, always Mom.

It is a Mother’s cheer that inspires us to attain heights that we never thought possible.  It is a mother’s cheer that we latch onto when the going gets tough.  It is a mother’s cheer that comforts us during a time of questioning.  A mother’s cheer is what we are wired up to hear.

Something supernatural takes place in a woman’s body when she discovers that she is going to be a Mom.  Her body changes.  Emotions change.  There is a hormonal change.  Morning sickness.  Food cravings, some of which are caused by pregnancy and some excused by pregnancy.  Her self-esteem suffers.  Her tummy begins to expand and then one day a defining moment occurs in her life.  She is kicked in the ribs from the inside.  It is the first feeling of life.  Guys, we check out here.  There is no parallel.  No gas, heartburn or angina can compete or match this moment.  Yet for a woman, for a Mom, she knows that God is performing a miracle inside her body.  God is so kind and so wonderful.  He has given Moms the opportunity, the job description, the sphere of influence to impact and to mark children throughout their lives.  In essence God is saying, “I want you, Moms, to become the consummate cheerleaders.”

Today I am concluding a series called Team Family.  We have been comparing sports to certain aspects of the family team.  Today we are comparing motherhood with cheerleading.  Cheerleaders and mothers are a lot alike due to the fact that they both cheer and they are both the ultimate fan.  So in the few brief moments that we have together, I want to share with you three things that every mother needs to do during their lifetime of cheering in order to create a family pep rally.

First, seize every opportunity to cheer your children on, and also you spouse.  Think back to high school or junior high.  For some of us it is not very much of a reach because we are there.  It is a big deal for someone to make cheerleader.  For young ladies to discover that they are part of the squad, that they have been chosen, they get all excited.  Mothers, I have great news for you.  You have been chosen.  You are part of God’s team.  You are on His squad.  He wants you to become the ultimate cheerleader.  I don’t care if you have one child or fifteen.  It doesn’t matter if your children are natural, blended or adopted.  You are a cheerleader.  And you are to seize every single opportunity to cheer your children on, and also your spouse.

How do you accomplish this?  First, you had better learn how to cheer with your mouth.  Moms, how are you doing?  Are you cheering with your mouth?  Are you on the sidelines, in the stands constantly cheering your children on, constantly telling them that they matter to God, that they are valuable, one of a kind made with an agenda, a purpose and plan.  Are you saying that?  Are you doing that regularly?

I have fond memories of my childhood spending a couple of weeks every summer in Laurel, MS visiting my grandparents.  I can see now my cousins and me playing football in the front yard on one of those humid Mississippi afternoons.  We would get going, tossing the nerf football here and there and then we just couldn’t stand it anymore.  We began to scream.  “Grandmother, do the cheer.  Do the cheer.”  And my grandmother, who has a booming voice like I do, would walk out on that little porch and she would say these words.  “Once I heard my grandma say, the Laurel team is coming this way.  With a viv-o, with a vive-o, with a viv-o, vive-o, vum-bo and a rittail, rattail sitting on a cattail, bom, bom, bom.  What is the matter with the team that they can’t see, they can’t play as well as we?  With a viv-o, with a vive-o with a viv-o, vive-o, vum-bo and a rittail, rattail sitting on a cattail, bom, bom, bom.”  That used to fire me up so much, words can’t describe it.  Then I could throw that nerf football 50 yards, Man.  Touchdown.  She would do the cheer a couple of times and ten minutes would roll by and we would say again, “Grandmother, do the cheer again.”

Mom, whether they are kneehigh or treehigh your children are saying to you in a real way, do the cheer.  Are you cheering for them?  Cheer with your mouth.

Also cheer with your eyes.  Have you ever considered the fact that the first reflection a child ever sees of himself or herself is in the reflection of his or her mother’s eyes?  Are you giving your children looks of love?  Looks of value?  Looks of compassion?  Looks of meaning?  When we look at our children in a loving way, it does something to them.  It can change the course of their lives.  Cheer with your mouth.  Cheer with your eyes.

Also cheer with your eyes.  James 1:19 says that we are to be quick to listen.  When your children talk to you, do you listen?  If you listen when they are toddlers, they will talk to you when they are teenagers.  And as you listen, summarize what they are saying.  Repeat it back to them.  And when they hear you repeat it back to them, when they see you locking eyes with them, when they understand that you are hearing them, it really takes them to another level.  Listen to them.

A group of teenagers was asked recently, what do you think about when you see your Mom?  The answer was that when they think of their moms, they think of a big Mick Jagger type mouth.  A big old mouth.  Then they were asked what they would like to see.  And they answered, a big ear.  Listen, use your ears to cheer.

Also, cheer with your hands.  UCLA did a study which they said was revolutionary.  They discovered that children need 8 to 10 hugs or embraces a day for emotional health, for balance, for them to really understand life and relationships.  I have a recent copy of Newsweek magazine on my desk and it says the same thing.  Breakthrough research.  Well, the Bible has been talking about this for thousands and thousands of years.  We are to embrace, to touch, to hold our children appropriately.  Read the gospels, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John.  See how many times Jesus touched people appropriately.  A third of our five million touch receptors are in our hands.  Hug and nurture and cuddle your children.  Use every opportunity to cheer your children on.

But don’t forget your spouse.  Wives, mothers, do you realize that your husbands get so much of their self-esteem from you?  Are you cheering them on with your mouth, with your eyes, with your ears, with your hands?  I enjoy my mother complimenting a message that I am going to deliver.  We also like it when you tell some of us that you enjoyed the service.  But nothing impacts me like when Lisa, my lovely wife, tell me, “Honey, God really used your words today to speak to me.”  There is nothing like it.  Moms, cheerleaders, seize every opportunity to cheer your team on.

But there is something else you need to do.  Moms you need to be the one to champion spiritual values.  Motherhood is the perfect contest to communicate those spiritual values.  Moms are usually the first ones to teach their children how to pray.  Have you done that?  Are you praying for your children?  I challenge you, Moms, to go into their rooms at night when they are sleeping and to pray for them.  Grandmothers, pray for your grandchildren.  Moms are also the ones who read and introduce their children to the Bible.  Just by virtue of being a Mom, you have this opportunity.  Are you exposing them to God’s truth in an age-appropriate way?  There are so many, many wonderful tools out there that you can use to communicate in a creative and compelling way the exciting and vibrant word of God to your children.

I can still see that Children’s Bible that my Mom used to read to me.  I was two, three years of age.  I can still see that picture of David and Goliath, the giant ready to take out the little Hebrew hillbilly.  I remember it.  Don’t think your children don’t.  Here is what the Bible says.  Deuteronomy 6:7, “Commit yourselves wholeheartedly to these commands.  Repeat them again and again to your children.  Talk about them when you are at home and when you are away on a journey, when you are lying down and when you are getting up again.”  We are to get involved, Moms, in championing those spiritual values, in capturing those teachable moments.  And you never know when a teachable moment will occur.

Moms are usually the ones who take the initiative to bring the family to church.  I know today that we have a lot of men here.  And you are here because of the special invitation presented to you by your wife, the mother of your children.  You might not realize it but multitudes of you guys have been prayed for for a long, long time.  I know that you will give the mother of your children the roses, the Hallmark card and maybe a day at the spa or whatever.  And those gifts are fine and dandy.  But the greatest gift that many of you could ever give her would be the reality that you have received the gift of Jesus Christ into your life.  That you have established that personal relationship that Coach Gailey was talking about.

You see, guys, a lot of you have toys and trinkets and trophies and corner offices and positions and money and all this stuff.  But in the grand scheme of things, it doesn’t matter.  You are not really ready to live until you are ready to die.  You don’t want to think about it very much, men.  You kind of what to put it off, but you are one heartbeat away from spending an eternity either in heaven or in hell.  And right now you can put off what I am saying.  You can count ceiling tiles and lights and think about the brunch, but it comes down to this.  You are a much loved man.  You are loved so much that God respects your private decision.  Even though you have sinned, even though you have messed up, even though you have fallen short.  And let me strop right here and say.  Men, we have the uncanny ability to contrast ourselves with others.  We say, “Oh, I sin much less than him.  I am doing a lot better than that person.”  And we always compare ourselves to other people who aren’t doing quite as well as we think we are.  But the Bible say to stop comparing yourselves.

We have to compare ourselves to Christ.  Christ is holy.  He is perfect.  We are sinners.  I don’t care if you have had one off day, one bad mood, said one curse word when you whacked your thumb with a hammer, you are a sinner.  And because of your sin there is a cosmic chasm that separates you and God.  And, men, you cannot get to God by being a nice guy, by checking off all the boxes at Sunday School or at church, by giving to the United Way, by being a moral person, by being religious, by being a Baptist, by being a Methodist, by being a Lutheran, by being a Catholic.  You can’t do it.  It will not get you where you want to go.  Even being a good person will cause you to fall miserably short.  I heard Billy Graham say recently, “I have fallen miserably short.”  So if you are trying to work your way into heaven, whoa, you are going to be miserably disappointed.  No one here will ever get past Billy Graham as far as good works go.  But you know what Dr. Graham said?  “I have fallen short but the good news is that Jesus has made up the difference.  He died on the cross for all of my sins and rose again.  And even though I have fallen short, I have received Him.”  And that is the option, men, that you have today.  Right here before you.  It is unbelievable.  There is nothing like it.  Don’t put it off any longer.  I wish I could force you to make it, but I can’t.  I can just put it out there and say, it is up to you.

I have been praying like crazy that many men today would say, “I want to step up and go God’s way.”  Maybe today is your day and at the conclusion of this service I want to give you an opportunity to establish a personal relationship with Christ.  It will change your life, it really will.

Let’s go back to Moms for a second.  Moms, as you champion those spiritual values, realize the impact and the influence that you are having.  You might think that you are kind of confined to the home, that you have three or four toddlers biting at your heels now and then.  You are wondering if you are really having an influence, being a difference maker, being a cheerleader.  I have some wonderful words for you.  The book of I Samuel tells about a woman names Hannah.  Hannah was an ancient woman with a modern day problem.  She was dealing with infertility.  The women were making fun of her, abusing her.  Her heart was broken.  Hannah, though, was a woman of prayer and one day after prayer God said, “Hannah, I am going to give you a baby.”  Then Hannah promised God that she would give Him the child, dedicate the child to Him.  Hannah had the child for three years.  And during that three year time span she championed those spiritual values.  And today, relational experts and developmental experts tell us that 90% of a child’s personality is formed during the first three years.  Then Hannah took Samuel to the temple and gave him to Eli.  Now you are saying to yourself that he had a great life.  He got to hang out in the temple with Eli.  I am sure that it was a very godly environment.  Hey, get off that train.  Eli had two of the meanest, badest preacher’s kids you have ever seen.  Their names were Hophni and Phinehas.  They were swinging from the rafters of sin.  They were abusing the sacrificial system.  But because Hannah had championed those spiritual values in Samuel’s life, Samuel developed and emerged as one of the great judges in the nation of Israel.  Why?  Because he had a mom who marked him.  Champion those spiritual values.

Moms, we are to do one more thing.  We are also to team up with other cheerleaders.  Have you ever been to a basketball game or a football game and there is a break in the action?  Do you see one solo cheerleader come out?  No.  Cheerleaders hang around in groups.  They feed off each other.  They get boldness and risk taking from each other.  Oftentimes, moms feel like they are alone, isolated, cheering by themselves.  The evil one likes to come up to a mom and say that no one feels like they feel.  No one is going through what they are going through.  But don’t buy those lies.  Team up with other cheerleaders.

You have got a junior varsity and a varsity.  The junior varsity feed off and learn from the varsity.  Team up with other like believing cheerleaders, Moms, who are going through the same seasons that you are going through.  Moms you can open up to, moms you can express your frustrations with, who will cry with you and laugh with you and pray with you.  Are you doing that?  If you aren’t, what is going to happen when the roof caves in?  What is going to happen when there is a problem in preschool, in grammar school or in high school?  I Thessalonians 5:11, “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up.”  We do this by taking advantage of the myriad of opportunities that the church offers moms.  We do so much around here just to match moms up.  We have parenting classes that are offered.  We have play groups.  We have small groups.  We have in-depth Bible studies.  Get involved.  Take the step.  If God is leading you here to the Fellowship Church, we would love to have you.  There is a place for you.  If He is leading you somewhere else, that is great too.  There are a number of wonderful churches here in the Dallas/Ft. Work area.  But don’t ever get off by yourself, isolated, and begin to believe the lies from the evil one.  Team up with other cheerleaders.

So, Moms, how about it?  Hey, on this weekend, we just cheer you on because you have cheered us on.  And more importantly than that, God, Himself, is cheering you on.  Seize those opportunities to cheer for your children and your spouse too.  Champion and mark those little ones with those spiritual, transcendent values.  Team up and get into community with other cheerleaders.  And I am going to make a promise to you.  You will become the leader of your very own family pep rally.

WOW Statements of Jesus: Part 1 – You Can Do Greater Works: Transcript

WOW Statements of Jesus

You Can Do Greater Works

November 9, 2008

Ben Young

Have we domesticated Jesus? Have we tamed Jesus? Have we created an image of Him and placed Him in a proper position in our lives? What would happen if we were to allow the Lion of Judah to roam around in our lives, our hearts, and our minds in order to destroy the lies that we’ve been holding on to, that keep us captive? In this series, WOW Statements of Jesus, Ben Young will challenge you to invite the real, radical Jesus of the Gospels, the Jesus who is the Lion of the Tribe of Judah, to roam around inside your life. All of the statements: the gut-wrenching, mind-expanding, and life-affirming statements of Jesus are about one thing…the Kingdom of God, a radical lifestyle of grace and truth that God through Christ calls us to.

Your life may be an absolute mess right now or it may be going great…either way you can be confident that if God started a work in you, He is going to complete that work inside of you. Join Ben Young as he explores the first WOW statement of Jesus, “You Can Do Greater Works.” God has greater things in store for you, for your life.

When I was a little kid, my mom used to read to me and my brother. One of our favorite books was called Barney Beagle. I think there was a sequel out called Barney Beagle Plays Baseball. So my brother, Ed and I begged our parents to get us a dog—“Can you get us a dog? Can you get us a beagle?” So they got us a beagle, and we named it Ralph. I’m teasing! We named it Barney. He was a great dog, but he didn’t last very long. I think he had an encounter with a car. Dogs chase cars sometimes. They have this thing with hubcaps! So, we got Barney Beagle II, who was the quintessential pet we had growing up. We had other pets—German Shepherds, Samoyeds, and a Pekingese. One time my brother found a snake when my dad was out of town preaching somewhere, and he hid it. Anyway, that’s a whole other story! But we had all kinds of animals growing up. Barney the Beagle was really not your typical beagle. Beagles are supposed to be kind of sleek and smooth; this dog was fat and round! He was supposed to be a hunting dog, but he just sat around and slept all the time. He was a beautiful dog with kind of a light brown head and a white stripe, along with a black back and three white spots, and a white tummy. Mostly the dog just laid around all the time. But I loved, loved Barney the beagle.

A lot of folks have pets. If you have a pet at home, raise your hand. Sir, what kind of pet do you have? A Boston Terrier! All right! How old is he or she? Three years? What do you have? A mutt! I like that. What kind of mutt? Do you have any idea what the mix may be? A terrier! Okay! Anyone else have a pet? You have a bearded dragon? Haven’t heard of that one! One more! Any ladies here? Right there on the front row! A black lab! We have a yellow lab right now at our house, and also a Rhodesian Ridge Back without a ridge!

All these animals have one thing in common. They are not wild; but rather they are domesticated animals. The word domestication means home. It means they are trained to be in the house. Our dogs and cats know where to sleep, walk, poop, and not poop. That’s what it means to be domesticated. They have their place, and they can operate inside of our homes and apartments.

It’s interesting when you look at the kind of animals we try to domesticate over the years. Some animals simply can’t be domesticated. I’ve been a Christian for a long time now, and one of the things I’ve observed in the last 20 years is that we’ve tried to domesticate Jesus.

I would say this has happened within the church, no matter which church you come from, whether it’s Baptist, Catholic, or Pentecostal, and I would say it’s true for people outside of the church who are looking in. Have you noticed that? We’ve domesticated Jesus! In other words, we’ve taken the Jesus from the Gospels, and we’ve kind of tamed Him. We have created such an image of Him and placed Him in a proper place in our lives. Jesus knows where to stay! He’s got His place in our lives from 11:11 to 12:15 on Sundays, and then we have the rest of our lives during the week. This is domesticated Jesus. When we need Jesus, we take Him out for a walk, or we cuddle up next to Him; but He basically is not going to interfere with our lives, or our relationships, or our jobs or money. This is domesticated Jesus. Domesticated Jesus is never going to convict you or me. Domesticated Jesus is never going to call you out. He’s never going to challenge you to take our spiritual walk to a whole other level. He’s not going to do that, because domesticated Jesus is there for you, and He wants you to be happy and have happy feelings all the time.

Here’s what is strange: You can’t really domesticate Jesus. You really can’t! No matter how hard we try, no matter how many obedience schools we send Him to, no matter how many times we stare at that picture of Jesus… Do you remember the picture of Jesus you saw growing up if you went to Sunday School? He looked like some white guy who had been in a tanning bed. His profile was that of a depressed, long-haired, tan, domesticated, but sad man. We’ve got to get rid of that image of Jesus! We’ve got to get to know the real Jesus, because you can’t domesticate Jesus. Let me tell you why. There’s a verse that kind of helps us out here today, and it is found in
Revelation 5:5.

Revelation was written by John. He died probably around 91 A.D., but he lived longer than any of the other disciples of Jesus. John wrote the Gospel of John, and in it, he said, “Jesus is the light of the world.” He said, “Jesus is full of grace and truth.” He said, “I got so close to Jesus that I could put my head on His chest.” In I John 1, he wrote, “This is love; not that we love God, but that God loved us and sent Jesus as atoning sacrifice for us.” So he is known as the Apostle of Love. He also wrote the Book of the Revelation, this wild, fantastic apocalyptic piece of literature, and here’s what he says about Jesus, and this is why you can’t domesticate Him.

Revelation 5:51—“Then one of the elders said to me, ‘Do not weep; see, the Lion of the Tribe of Judah, the root of David, has triumphed. He is able to open the scroll and its seven seals.’” Jesus is known as The Lion of Judah. There are other metaphors to describe Jesus in the Bible. He is known as The Alpha and the Omega, The Bright Morning Star, and The Lamb. Right here we see that Jesus Christ is also called The Lion of the Tribe of Judah.

When I was a little kid, my brother and I found a dog once that didn’t have a tag. He was a stray mutt. We invited him home and said, “Oh mom, please let us keep him!” Our mom said, “Well, okay.” We called him Tramp. We domesticated him, taught him where to sleep, how to eat, where to poop and all that stuff. But what if I lived in a different country, and I saw this nice, golden cat without a tag, and I got my brother and said, “Hey—let’s invite this golden cat home with us.” We would say, “Hey mom—we found this nice lion cub! What do you think?” Mom’s going to say, “Son, you are crazy! You can’t domesticate a lion!”

There is something that draws us to lions. Most of us have never seen a lion in person except at a zoo, or on The Discovery Channel. But there is something that draws us to a lion; the golden mane and fur makes it look so cuddly, doesn’t it? Big old 600 pound lion! You want to go hug the lion, but you know better! Why? Because a lion also has these ferocious fangs and claws, and we’ve seen a lion just rip a zebra to shreds and carry it off through the wild and deserts. We’re scared of lions because they are the king of the jungle. Jesus is the Lamb; but John also says that Jesus is also a lion, and you cannot domesticate a lion. You can’t do it!

Here is what I want to happen as we start this new series called The WOW Statements of Jesus, or The Radical Statements of Jesus. Here is what I want to happen. Work with me a little bit!

Back in the 80’s, there was this new wave group that came out of Atlanta called The B-52’s. Raise your hand if you remember The B-52’s! Don’t act all religious! Yeah, ya’ll do! You probably danced to them, okay? They had a lot of popular songs. I think the first one was Rock Lobster. But another one that I like is a song called Roam. Do you remember that song, Roam? “Roam if you want to; roam around the world!” That’s what I want to happen in the next several weeks. You say, “What are you talking about?” What I want us to do is invite Jesus, the real Jesus, the radical Jesus, the Jesus who is the Lion of the Tribe of Judah; I want us to invite the Lion to roam around inside of our lives as we look at His radical sayings. I want the prayer for us here this morning to be, “God, I give You the freedom to roam where You want in my life!” I guarantee you one thing, if I could go to Africa and bring back a big old 500 pound lion and turn him loose in your house or apartment; things would be different! There would be some changes! How much more if we give God through Jesus Christ the freedom to roam around in our lives, not only in the foyer and outside; but to roam around in the den of our lives; to roam around in the bedroom, and the secret places, and the attic, and the basement, and the closet that we don’t tell anybody about. What will happen if we allow the Lion to roam around in our minds and to destroy the lies that we’ve been holding on to, that keep us captive?

Why don’t we let the Lion roam around in our life and just roar His courage and boldness into our lives, that we would step out and do things, and try things that we never dreamed possible before. So that’s one of my prayers as we begin this new series on the WOW Statements of Jesus, that we would let The Lion of the Tribe of Judah roam around in our lives, and watch what happens!

Jesus said a lot of things that are just shocking. He did! Jesus said so many things that are just unbelievable. So when we listen to the Lion roar over the next several weeks in this series; you’ll see that it’s going to fall into three categories. One is what I call the mind expanding category. In other words, some of the sayings of Jesus will blow your mind! It’s going to expand your concept of reality and what’s possible in your life. It’s like that video we saw earlier where the people are asked if they can do greater works than Jesus. They were trying to wrap their mind around that concept, and I’m right there with them!

Other things that Jesus said are going to be gut wrenching. Some Sunday mornings, you’re going to come in here, and it’s going to be SHAPOOM! The Lion is going to convict you, and He’s going to cut you! Here’s the deal: Sometimes when you’re convicted, it’s painful, isn’t it? Jesus and God may wound or cut us, but He does that in order to heal.

We have some doctors and surgeons here this morning. How many people that they have seen would be absolutely dead had these doctors not had the courage, and the patients not had the courage to allow that doctor to cut open their flesh in order to get inside and heal them?

So I’m not going to sugar-coat any of these sayings of Jesus. They’re going to cut you and me, and we’re going to get a claw here and there; but He does that, not to wound us, but to heal us. Some of these sayings are going to be gut-wrenching and convicting.

The third category is that some of these statements are going to be life-affirming. I like that! Jesus said, “I came that you might have life and have it more abundantly.” He’s not talking about bios. That’s the prefix for “life” in the Greek. He’s talking about zoe; God’s very kind of life. Many of His statements are going to be promises that we need to hold on to that will breathe life into us. Not typical life, but God’s kind of life. Those are the three categories that these sayings will fall into.

We have to be careful in looking at this series that we don’t see these statements of Jesus as separate entities. In other words, Jesus says if someone slaps you on one cheek; turn the other to him also. Jesus said you should love your neighbor as yourself, and love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! Rejoice! Have a nice day!

Jesus says if we don’t forgive other people, then He will not forgive us. So as we look at all these statements Jesus made, some just really hit us hard! It’s easy to look at them sort of like little fortune cookies.

My daughters are on the front row. When we go to eat Chinese food, they love the fortune cookies. I don’t want you to look at these sayings as separate entities, because all the statements we’re going to look at, all the WOW statements: the life affirming, gut wrenching, mind-expanding statements are about one thing. It’s this over-arching purpose that God wants to do in your life and my life individually and collectively as a community. It’s all about one thing. Jesus was concerned about one thing primarily when He was on earth, and that was about the three letters: the K.O.G.! The Kingdom of God! Even a big old lineman from Nebraska knows that prayer, right? “Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy Name. Thy Kingdom come, Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven…” So when Jesus came, He was about bringing God’s rule and reign to earth. He wanted to bring the peace, the forgiveness, the love. Everything in Heaven, He was bringing that down to earth. He was living it out and was teaching these radical, social ethics that would be the social ethics of the Kingdom.

So as we look at these statements, don’t look at them as little separate sayings. “What’s the sound of one hand clapping?” No, no, no! It’s all about the Kingdom plan. It’s all about advancing the K.O.G. So as we get these words inside of us and allow the Lion to roam where He wants to in our lives; we’re going to begin to live out the K.O.G. in our lives, in our high schools, in the market place downtown, in our homes and relationships, and we’re going to watch and see what the Lion does as we let Him loose in our lives.

I can’t wait! There’s a part of me that is like, “Yeah, let’s go do it!” There is another part of me that’s like, “Whoa! It’s a Lion! I don’t know if I want to change quite yet…” But I know that God’s change is always good.

The first WOW statement I want to look at briefly today kind of reminds me of what was going on here. How many of you are familiar with the book The Last Lecture? Are you familiar with that book? Dr. Randy Pausch wrote the book. He was a professor in the Northeast who was diagnosed with terminal pancreatic cancer, he has since passed away. But he wrote this book and was on Oprah. He toured all around the United States, and it was basically his last lecture. It was the words of wisdom he wanted to leave to people before he died. Now I don’t agree with everything Randy said or did, but I think it’s a good concept, and I respect his boldness for doing what he did.

Jesus is having a last lecture talk right here in John chapter 14. He is talking primarily in this passage as we know to Peter, Philipp and Thomas. He has already said some WOW statements to them. “If you’ve seen Me, you’ve seen God.” Jesus has said to them, “I’m the only way to God.” Jesus said, “I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life. No one comes to the Father except by Me. I am the path, I am the road.” Okay…Now He’s going to say something even wilder. Look at John 14:12. He says, “I tell you the truth: Anyone who has faith in Me will do what I’ve been doing. He will do even greater things than these because I am going to the Father.” Maybe your translation says, “Greater works you will do.”

I first tried to let that verse rattle inside of me about 20 something years ago, and it kind of blew my mind. I thought greater works? Look at the things Jesus did! He healed the sick, He raised the dead, and He cast out demons! Wow! He took a walk on the water without a bridge. I want to do this! So my buddies and I in college were jacked up! We were going to do this, and we were going to bring revival to our campus, and we were going to usher in our concept of the Kingdom of God as college students. We believed that. We prayed and wanted to see people healed, demons cast out, and people raised from the dead. I’ve told you these stories before, but you know what? It didn’t happen. As much as we prayed, as much as we fasted, as much as we stood on God’s Word, it did not happen. Therefore, something happened to me. It didn’t happen to the rest of my friends, I don’t think; but what happened to me was that I went into a tail spin of doubt, despair, and hopelessness when it came to God and believing that He is real, and believing that His Word is true.

The good news is that if you’re going through a tail spin like that today, I’m still here; I’m still breathing and still believing! God can take you through that. There’s a great verse in the Bible that says even when we’re faithless, God is faithful. That’s good, isn’t it?

What I learned about this verse as I studied it and learned more; it doesn’t mean greater works, greater miracles. It simply doesn’t mean that. History says that; experience will tell you that. You say, “Ben, you don’t believe in miracles?” Of course I do! “Do you believe people get healed today?” Of course I believe people are healed today. “Do you believe that people have demons today?” You’d better believe it! Years ago I was part of an exorcism. I believe—I’m serious; I believe in demons and demon possession. But you know what? It’s not happening as much as it did during Jesus’ time. People are not getting healed as much. They’re not—I don’t see blind people seeing and deaf people regaining their hearing, or the lame walking.

It’s not happening as much as it did when Jesus was here. So obviously, He wasn’t talking about the miracles here. What was He talking about? There are a lot of applications, and I want to talk about one of them.

One of the things that Jesus was talking about is that God has greater things in store for you. That’s good news, isn’t it? God has greater things in store for you. The word there for “work” in the Greek is the word ergon. It’s the same word that Paul uses in Philippians 1:6 where it says, “He who began a good ergon, began a good work, began a good thing in you will complete that until the day of Christ Jesus.” Isn’t that great to know? Your life may be an absolute mess right now. You may be flying blind right now and don’t know how to use the force! You’re just out there! God is with you. If God started a work in you, He is going to complete that work inside of you. So God has greater things in store for you; greater things in store for your life. You might say, “Well you don’t know what I’m going through. You don’t know the suffering I’m going through. You don’t know the circumstances I’m in.” Listen, you can’t understand everything right now. It’s impossible.

Soren Kierkegaard, the Danish philosopher said this; “Life must be lived forward, but can only be understood backward.” Life must be lived in the now. But it can only be understood many times looking backward as to what God was doing in your life. So let me tell you something. Let me give you some hope here today: God has greater things in store for you! Part of God’s greater things and greater work was the spreading of the Good News around the world. Jesus had to go to the Father this verse tells us, and when He went to the Father, He sent His Spirit to live inside of you and me. So we’re not out there just going it alone as we’re trying to follow God, allowing the Lion of the Tribe of Judah to walk around in our life. No, no, no! His Spirit lives inside of you and me to give us power, comfort, and to know that we’re not alone, to give us the strength to step out, and to stand. God’s Spirit does that!

When Jesus was on earth for 33 years, He was localized to this little speck in Israel. He’s gone global now to anyone who believes in Him, and He will send His Spirit to be with them and to comfort them. Part of the greater works is the spread of the Good News, and the fact that now God through Christ can be everywhere present in a very personal and direct way.

Let me give you a truth here. In the following weeks, we’re going to talk about some things that are going to hit hard, and as we start the New Year and look at these sayings of Jesus, it’s like wow! It’s going to come strong! I mean, it’s Kimbo Slice, its Gina Carano! You’ve got to be ready to go with this!

So before you get in the ring with Kimbo or Gina, listen: You’ve got to understand this about what God has done for you. If you don’t, you’re going to get all whacked out about God, and about the Gospel and about Christianity and think it’s a bunch of “do this, and don’t do this…” No, no, no!

When I was in college, my parents gave me a real cheesy gift. It wasn’t mesh, but it was made out of like a straw stuff; kind of a semi-painting print, and it was of a lion and had a verse on it. I didn’t really like it, but I liked the lion and the verse. This piece of art was one step above velvet Elvis and velvet Lord Supper. But it had this verse on it that I want to share with you because it’s important that we understand it—it’s so basic. Proverbs 28:1 says, “The wicked man flees, though no one pursues; but the righteous are as bold as a lion.” The wicked man flees even though no one is chasing him! But the righteous are as bold as lions! We need to be righteous. The greatest need you and I have before God is to understand that we need His perfect 100% righteousness. Paul says in Romans 1:16, “For I am not ashamed of the Gospel, for it is the power of God to everyone who believes; to the Jew first, also to the Greek, for in the Gospel, a righteousness from God is revealed.”

So when Jesus Christ died on the Cross—listen to this—He didn’t die just so we could be forgiven. Forgiveness is a great thing, a wonderful thing and is one of the most marvelous, magnificent things in the world. But God did more for you than forgiveness! Please hear me! You see, God not only forgave you, but He gave you the very righteousness of Jesus Christ. So you and I made an F on our moral report card. Jesus made an A+. When we trust Jesus, He gives us A+, and we trade in our F. On the Cross, God treated Jesus as if He were you and me so He could turn around and treat us as if we were Jesus.

There was a guy years ago who was a slave trader in England. His name was John Newton. He was a wicked, evil man. When he heard the news about this righteousness from God and that he could be forgiven, he wrote a song called Amazing Grace, not Ho Hum Grace. John Newton, along with his mentoree, William “Wilbur” Wilberforce, became two of the men who led the abolishment of slavery in England. The Gospel is good news! It’s great news! It’s mind-expanding, mind-blowing news that when God looks at us, if you are in Christ; He does not see you. He does not see your sin, your shame, your guilt. He sees the very righteousness of Jesus Christ.

I don’t have time to get into this today, but this righteousness that we have is outside of us. It is external to us. It doesn’t change based upon your feelings or emotions, or things you did or didn’t do. “Oh, I didn’t do my quiet time” or “I didn’t pray today.” Or, “Oh, I said a bad word in traffic!”

Do we need to live righteous lives? You bet! That’s what this series is about. But the righteousness that we need is an alien righteousness. It’s outside of us. It’s external. We need a righteousness that allows us to be accepted, affirmed and loved regardless of our good day, bad day performances. Does that make sense? That’s great news!

When God looks at us, if we’ve trusted in Christ; when He looks for righteousness, do you know where He looks? He doesn’t look down at you. He looks right there to His right hand. He looks at Christ. You and I are 100% righteous if we know Him. When we’re righteous, guess what? We’re bold! Why? Because we know we’ve been forgiven, and we know we’ve received the very righteousness of Jesus Christ. We’re bold. We know that we’re messed up and are beggars. We know we are not Jack Taco in and of ourselves. We are nothing! Nada! But the good news is, if we know Christ and have received His grace, we have everything in Christ! We are righteous and accepted! We are beautiful. We are wanted and desired! We are the apple of God’s eye! We are forgiven and are filled with God’s Spirit. We are blessed with every spiritual blessing in Heavenly places. He has greater things in store for you! That’s a reality whether you feel like it or not; that’s God’s reality over us today. He loves us. We are accepted and can be bold as lions!

I’m a C. S. Lewis freak. I’ve read most of his stuff; but my favorite line from C. S. Lewis—my favorite passage is not from Mere Christianity; it’s not from The Great Divorce. It’s not from Paralandra. That was a tough read! It’s from one of his children’s book series, The Chronicles of Narnia. He has a character in there named Aslan. Aslan is a big lion. There is a section in the book where Mr. Beaver is talking to Lucy, and he’s talking about Aslan. Mr. Beaver says “Well, you know, Aslan is not a tame lion.” Lucy asks later on of this Aslan, this Christ figure, “Is he safe?” Mr. Beaver says, “No, Aslan is not safe. He’s not a tame lion. But he’s good. He’s the King, I tell you.”

Dear Heavenly Father, help us today if there are folks here who’ve never received this gift of righteousness. It’s not something we are born into. It’s not something we can inherit from our parents because they are Christians, or because our grandmother prayed, or because we were sprinkled or dunked. God, it’s through trusting in You Lord. If there is someone here who has not trusted in You and received Your Righteousness, may they do that today!

Lord, others of us are being drawn back to you. We’re being drawn back to Aslan, the good, unsafe King! Lord, I pray for those Christians here who need to come back home to You today, and You are calling them home, saying “Come home, My son. Come home, my daughter. Come back to the place where you belong. Come back into My fold. Come back into My pride.

Lord, there are many who need to come back to You today. Thank You that You are waiting on the porch, watching for them to come down that road. Thank You that You will run to meet them.

WOW Statements of Jesus: Part 2 – Your Faith Can Move a Mountain: Transcript

WOW Statements of Jesus

Your Faith Can Move a Mountain

November 16, 2008

Ben Young

Everyone has faith. Atheists have faith, agnostics have faith, Christians have faith. But what do we put our faith in? Faith in our own ability? Faith in our mind? Faith in progress? Faith in God? Jesus radically spoke to his disciples about their faith saying, “Your faith can move a mountain.” If you want to grow in your faith relationship with God, you have got to be intentional. Join Ben as he looks at this WOW statement of Jesus. He will walk through four different types of faith that are revealed to us through the story of a father and the healing of his son.

When I was in high school, I had a weight problem, believe it or not. As a senior, I was the same height I am now, which is about 6 feet, but I weighed 135 pounds. For those of you who are slow in math like I am, that’s pretty skinny! I had to dance around the shower just to get wet! When I got to college, I wanted to put on some weight. A friend of mine who had gone to a rival high school back in Houston and was a body builder worked out, so we worked out together 5 days a week for about an hour and a half a session. I didn’t know what the heck I was doing, but I continued to do it because I wanted to gain some weight! You know the sayings, right? “No pain, no gain! No weights, no dates! No curls, no girls!”

I bought into the whole deal and continued working out. Then I realized that working out was simply not enough to put weight on me! It didn’t work! I had to eat. I went on the full meal plan there at the cafeteria at our school. I ate all those starchy foods! I had to start eating stuff I hated, like eggs. I was scarfing down three meals a day. Then at night before I’d go to bed, I’d go get a Wendy’s double cheeseburger and fries, and a Frosty. Or we’d order a Domino’s Pizza and scarf that down.

Finally, after months and months of doing that, working out and eating like an absolute hog; I finally put some weight on, and believe it or not, one or two muscles! But the bottom line was when I was in that mode, I had to be very intentional about the way I was living my life. If I was going to gain weight and get stronger, I had to work out. I had to eat, and I had to sleep.

It’s the same thing if you’re on the other side of the problem. You say, “I’d like to drop 10, 20 or 30 pounds.” To do that, you’ve got to be very intentional. You can’t just see some abdomenizer 2010 exerciser that supposedly you use for two minutes a day and expect to look like a washboard, and think you’re going to get results. No! You’ve got to be intentional! You’ve got to have a plan of action.

This same thing is true with so many areas in your life, isn’t it? If you’re going to make it through this tough, tough economic time that we’re already in which is probably going to get tougher; you’ve got to be intentional about your finances, and about how much you make, spend and save.

If you want to become a better athlete, you’ve got to be intentional about the way you shape your life. If you want to become a better student, you’ve got to become intentional about the way you study, who you study with. So much of life and growing in life is about intentionality. But for some reason when we come into the church, I know this has happened to me before; I think I can just kind of let go and let God, and I’m going to have a big, strong faith! That’s not true! If you want to grow in your faith relationship with God; if I want to grow, then we’ve got to be very intentional.

We’re going to talk about intentionality today. I want to do that within the context of the story. Maybe one of my favorite stories in the entire Bible is found in the first book of the New Testament, Matthew 17, verses 14 through 20. We’re in a series called WOW statements of Jesus. These statements make you want to go, “Wow!” Some are like, “Yeah!” Some are like, “Uuuhhh…” Jesus gave these statements, not as some little pithy side-bar, fortune cookie. No. He gave these radical statements to conform us so that we would live out the K.O.G., the Kingdom of God wherever we go and whatever we do.

Here is the context of Matthew 17. Jesus, Peter, James and John had to have this mountain-top experience literally. They’ve come down from the mountain, and there is a fight going on. When they reached the crowd, a man approached Jesus and knelt before Him. “‘Lord, have mercy on my son,’ he said. ‘He has seizures and is suffering greatly. He often falls into the fire and into the water. I brought him to Your disciples, but they could not heal him!’ ‘Oh, unbelieving and perverse generation!’ Jesus replied. ‘How long shall I stay with you? How long shall I put up with you? Bring the boy here to Me!’ Jesus rebuked the demon, and he came out of the boy, and he was healed from that moment. Then the disciples came to Jesus in private and asked, ‘Why couldn’t we drive it out?’ He replied, ‘Because you have so little faith. I tell you the truth, If you have faith as small as a mustard seed (which is the tiniest seed they knew at the time); you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there’ and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you!”

This story is basically about a man who has a problem that is absolutely beyond his control. He can’t change the situation. He can’t help it get any better, and he’s been trying for years and years and years. He is frustrated and desperate because he has a child who is sick, and he wants that child to be well. That’s the heart of the passage. We’re going to get back to this father and son, this guy who has this problem that’s absolutely beyond his control to change or fix.

This story reveals to us not only the story of a father and son, but it reveals to us four different types of faith. The first type of faith we see here is what I call zero faith.

That is this faithless generation that Jesus refers to as He is rebuking His disciples. He calls them a perverse and unbelieving generation.

Most of us know who Ted Turner is. He’s the billionaire, entrepreneur, philanthropist who started CNN and TNT. Basically he’s the person who took cable television to a whole new level about 30 years ago. Ted Turner was a Christian, and at age 17, he had wanted to become a missionary. Did you know that? Something happened to Ted when he was 17. His sister developed this debilitating disease where the body kind of starts to eat itself. For three years, Ted watched his sister being eaten alive. She finally passed away when Ted turned 20 years of age. When that happened and he saw how his sister was devastating; he stopped believing in God. His faith weight went all the way down to zero. Maybe some of you can relate to that.

Sometimes a tragedy will happen in our lives, and it causes us to doubt everything we believed and trusted. We see that God didn’t intervene the way we wanted Him to, and that’s what happened to Ted Turner. He ran away from God and stopped believing in Him. Others of you have experienced tragedies that you couldn’t explain, fix or control, and that tragedy led you to God. So many times, pain and suffering polarizes us. It either draws us closer to a relationship with God, or repels us from God. But when I say zero faith, really no one operates and lives with zero faith. No one does! Everyone has faith. An atheist has faith; an agnostic has faith; a rationalist has faith; an empiricist has faith; an existentialist has faith. You can’t escape faith assumptions and live your life in this world. It’s absolutely impossible! So if you say to yourself, “I’m going to run away from God” or “I don’t believe in God” or maybe “You can’t know God;” you’re simply exchanging your faith in God to faith in someone or something else.

What is faith? There are many definitions. One would be that faith is believing without conclusive proof, but with convincing evidence. So if you’re wanting to move from a place of zero faith in God in Christ in your life; I want you to know that you are not taking a leap into the dark. You’re taking a leap into the Light. But everyone has faith.

I like the quote by Michael Guillen, a former science correspondent for ABC News and a theoretical physicist. Here is what he says, “Truth is, every one of us believes. Every one of us has faith. What divides us are the different objects of our faith; our different gods.” So the idea that you can put faith in God, or put faith in religion and find some philosophical system, some scientific method that’s going to allow you to have an air-tight, beyond-a-doubt world view; that simply doesn’t exist.

If you’re into science and stuff, look for terms like this: The Heisenberg Uncertainty Principle; Bell’s Theorem; Gödel’s Theorem. Those words are synonyms for faith! Everybody has faith, but in what? Faith in your own ability? Faith in your mind? Faith in progress? Faith in God? We all have faith. But there are people who have zero faith when it comes to faith in God in Christ.

The second kind of faith we see here that maybe we’re a little more familiar with is skinny faith. It’s that anemic, anorexic faith of the disciples. What’s up with the disciples? What was their context? The disciples were on one of those emotional highs. Have you ever had a time in your life when you felt like God was so near, and you’re just out there, and it’s like, “Yeah! I’ve got it all figured out!” Well, the disciples were kind of having one of those moments. They’d been on tour, so to speak, and they’d been healing people. Not fake healing people; not knocking over crippled people like the folks on T.V. who claim to be healing people! No, no, no! They’d been really healing people! Blind people were seeing; deaf people were hearing. People who were in bondage to all kinds of things were being freed and liberated, and all of a sudden, this father comes who has this son that has had this problem for a long, long time. The disciples try the old formula, and it doesn’t take! The disciples are like, “What is going on? What’s happening here?” Maybe they were relying on some type of formulaic faith. But basically with the disciples; what worked last year wasn’t working this year. The faith that got them where they were a year ago was not working right now, and that is so true in so many areas of our life. What got you to where you are is not going to get you to where you want to be! So we can’t rely on last week’s faith, or yesterday’s faith, or faith from two years ago. We’ve got to have faith today! Trusting God now! Trusting God with what’s going on in our world and our context now, today. It’s about the object of your faith. Anyway, we’ll talk about that later.

What happens? How do you develop skinny faith? Some things happen unintentionally. You unintentionally kind of just stop serving. You serve so long, and you stop to take a break. You stop leading. You stop teaching. You stop giving. You stop really diving into the Word of God. You stop praying. You stop telling people about this relationship with God that He has given to you, and the great things that Christ has done and is doing. You just stop doing that. Sometimes, you unintentionally fall into this place where you wake up, and you look in the mirror, and your faith is all gone! It is skinny, and you want to get out. That’s the second kind of faith that you see here.

There is a third kind of faith, and it’s also in this story. Let’s go back to the father and the son, because the father has this problem, a problem he cannot fix. He loves his son. He wants his son to be well. He will do anything to see his son healed, but he can’t do it!

The problem is absolutely beyond his control. Have you ever been there? Have you been in a situation or a crisis, and there is really nothing that you can do to change the situation? That’s where this dad is at.

To figure out what happens here, and to see this third kind of faith; we need to look at another passage. The story of the father with the son who’s hurting is found in Matthew, Mark and Luke. Look at Mark 9, verses 21 through 24. It gives some more details. Jesus is interviewing this father once he comes to Him, asking about his son. “Jesus asks the boy’s father, ‘How long has he been like this?’ ‘From childhood,’ he answered. ‘It has often thrown him into the fire, or into water to kill him. But if you can do anything, take pity on us and help us.’ ‘If you can?’ Jesus said. ‘Everything is possible for him who believes!’ Immediately (the man almost interrupted Jesus) the boy’s father exclaimed, “I do believe; help me over come my unbelief!” Or as another translation says, “But help me with my doubts!”

This father represents the third kind of faith, and it’s the kind of faith that I want all of us here to have. That is a growing faith. You say, “What do you mean a growing faith? He has doubts!” You see, that’s the problem. Many times we think that doubts are something that shows us we have a weak faith.

Let me ask you a question. Some of you know this answer; don’t answer it. What is the opposite of love? No, it’s not hate. The opposite of love is not hate. If you are in a relationship and someone has broken up with you, or they want more space; they hate you and are still mad; you’ve got a chance! The opposite of love is not hate; the opposite of love is indifference! Apathy! If someone has broken up with you, and they are kind of apathetic and can talk about you in a cold, rational way; it’s over baby! You’re toast! Move on!

Let’s talk about faith. The opposite of faith is not doubt. It is unbelief! Doubt is kind of a wobbly suspension bridge, if you would, between belief and unbelief; between faith and unbelief. Doubt is in between, so doubt can lead you to faith. Read the Book!

John the Baptist’s sole mission was to point out who was going to be the Messiah, and he did that before anybody else could do it. He had that gift from God to do that. But when he was in a dark time in his life, in a situation he couldn’t change, he said, “Hey, find out, is Jesus really the One?” He doubted! Thomas, one of the close followers of Jesus, even after all his friends had seen Jesus alive from the dead, doubted that Jesus came back from the grave alive.

He said, “I’m not going to believe it until I see and touch Him.” He doubted! David, a man after God’s own heart—read the Psalms! He cried out to God all the time! “God, where are You? God, how come You are not answering me? God, have You forgotten about me? Hello? God? Can You drop me a line? An e-mail? A text?” Read the Psalms! David, this great man of faith doubted! Elijah doubted! Abraham doubted! Peter didn’t doubt; he denied Jesus three times! Hello!

If the Bible has changed through the years, why do they talk about all the dirt of all the heroes of faith? Why do they pull a TMZ on all our heroes of faith? If it is a piece of propaganda, it is a bad one!

This father demonstrates what I call growing faith. Listen—you don’t have to be doubt free to have growing faith. I like what Phillip Yancey says. If you want a dose of reality, read Yancy. He says, “The fact that we worship and trust an invisible God guarantees the fact that we’re going to have doubts.” I like that!

This guy has growing faith. You say, “Why?” You see, faith is a road and not a parking spot. Faith is not simply mental cognition to a bunch of facts. Faith is a relationship with a person, and this person says, “Come and stop! If you want to be My disciples, come and just stop. Sit there, feed yourself and get fatter!” No, no, no! Jesus said what? “Come and follow Me!” Faith is a journey, not a destination! Sometimes in your faith journey, you may be at zero faith; other times you’re going to be at a skinny, 135 pound faith. Other times, you’re going to have growing faith. Hopefully it’s all about growing faith.

This father had growing faith. Faith is a road and not a parking spot. It’s a journey and not a destination. Look at what this dad did! I love this father. I love him! Look what he did! The first thing he did was to take his pain and doubt to Jesus. We all need to do this! Remember I read that quickly earlier in Matthew? He actually knelt down before Jesus—“Jesus, please!” He brought his pain and doubt to Jesus.

How do you know if you have growing faith? You have growing faith if you’re willing to take the most precious thing in your life and give it to Jesus. Maybe you’re wondering, “Why do I need to give it to Jesus? Why can’t I give it to Buddha, or Mohammed, or Krishna? Why Jesus?” Well, Jesus is God who became a Man. God; the ultimate reality has entered into our reality. The infinite has entered into the finite.

If Jesus is real, and if He came out of the grave on the third day, which He did; then I can take anything to Him at any time. I can take that which is precious and fragile in my life and give it to Him.

The father did something else too. He looked beyond the failure of the disciples to Jesus. It’s so easy, isn’t it, to get caught up in the failures of our parents? Or maybe the failures of a priest, or of a pastor and say, “I’m not going to buy into the whole Christianity deal, because they are all about a bunch of hypocrites!” See, the father could have done this. “Oh, the disciples—they can’t heal! They can’t do anything! Look at this bunch of failures!” No—he looked beyond the failure of the disciples to the One who could fix the problem—Jesus. Perhaps you need to do that. Maybe you’ve been burned by a church, or by a Christian, or parents who claimed to be Christians, but really didn’t live it out. You’ve got to look beyond the failures to Jesus Himself.

The book of Hebrews says in Hebrews 12:1 and following, “Because we’re surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that easily entangles us, and let us run with perseverance the race marked before us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Finisher of our faith.”

I like that! Even our faith is a gift from God. The Bible says that when we’re faithless, He is faithful! I’m so thankful for that. I’ve been through seasons and time periods in my life where I’ve been faithless, and I know that God has been faithful. The father pressed past the failure of the disciples. He didn’t allow the disappointment with people to prevent him from looking to Jesus. He had growing faith.

There is a fourth kind of faith here. It is what I call strong faith. That is the kind of faith I want to have. I sometimes kind of get the strings from the hem of the garment of strong faith; but there are some men and women in this community in this church who have strong faith. That is where I want to be. You ask, “Who demonstrates the strong faith in this passage?” Jesus does. You say, “Well thanks a lot, Ben! Wow! He’s Jesus!” That’s kind of the point! Of course! Jesus had strong faith. He trusted in the Father. He only did what He saw the Father doing. What did Jesus say about the problem? “Oh you unbelieving, zero faith skinny people! Bring the boy to Me! Demon, get out!” The boy is healed instantly after having been sick his whole life!

I love Luke. He was a doctor who gave much more detail about Jesus’ life. Time and time again, he said this about Jesus, “He went up early in the morning and prayed.”

Jesus had a really busy, busy life; He had a lot of irons in the fire. That’s the problem with so many of you today. You have so many irons in the fire, you put the fire out! That’s a whole other message. But Jesus would get up early after a busy, busy day, and He would pray. Jesus prayed. If you want to have strong faith; you’ve got to pray. By and large, you’ve got to be intentional about it.

There is an aspect about your growth physically, whether you lose or gain weight that you can’t control because of your genetics. There’s an aspect about your spiritual genetics that you can’t control, but you can do certain things, and you can become very intentional about having a growing or strong faith.

There are four words I want you to write down quickly. They are four words you must have to have a growing or strong faith. First of all, you must have honesty. You’ve got to be honest. If you’re at zero faith right now; if you consider yourself an atheist or agnostic, then let me ask you a question: Do you really want to believe? Do you really want to believe there is a possibility that God made you? Do you really want to believe that there is a possibility that God came to earth? Do you really want to believe that there is a possibility that God has actually spoken through a Book? Do you really want to believe? Sometimes, we think we know in order to believe. Augustine, the great philosopher and theologian says, “We believe in order to know.” If you’re skinny, and you’re weighing in at about 135 pounds of faith right now, let me ask you a question: Do you really want to grow? Do you really want it? I wish I could make you want it! At times, I wish I could make me want it! I can’t do that! But I can come to God and say, “God, I really don’t want it.” If you really don’t want it…“But God, make me want to want it! Change my heart to make me love You and want to grow in You.” Do you really want to grow? You’ve got to get honest! I love this father. He was honest about his doubts. “Yeah, Jesus, I believe You can do it; but I don’t really…I have some doubts. Help my doubts!” Go to God with your doubts.

The second word is eat. We’ve got to eat, eat, eat, eat, eat! We’ve got to eat God’s Word, and do God’s Word. You’ve got to get the Word into you, and you’ve got to live it out! You’ve got to pray. We have to get to a point where prayer becomes a lot more natural for us. It’s a difficult thing to do! If prayer is easy for you, please see me in the guest reception afterwards. Write the book! I want to buy it! Please! Prayer many times is a struggle; it’s a battle. But we need to get to a point where prayer is like breathing. Trust me; times are going to get so tough; we’re going to have to learn what that passage means in Thessalonians that says, “Pray without ceasing.” We’re going to have to pray all the time. God’s breaking up Disney World, baby! I don’t mean that literally!

But you’ve got to pray. I’ve got to pray. We all have to pray. You might say, “Ben, I wish I had your job, working at the church all the time. That’s all you do is pray and read the Bible!” I wish! It’s a lot easier for me to talk about prayer—pray, pray, pray, than for me to pray. Remember, there’s an important point we heard today that’s really deep, and that is that Jesus prayed.

The third word is connection. We’ve got to be around people who know what they’re doing. You’ve got to be around other Christians who are strong in their faith, or they’re growing faith. You’ve got to be around people like that. Whenever I get into a certain field, I want to find out who is the main man? Who is the main woman? Who is the expert in leadership? Who is the expert in business and finance? Who is the expert in this sport or this endeavor? I want to find out. If I can’t get with them, and talk to them and pick their brain and question them; I’m going to read their stuff or listen to their stuff. It’s the same way! You’ve got to connect yourself with other like-minded people! You can’t go on this faith journey and be intentional by yourself. It isn’t going to work! You need other people! God is a community. He’s One; He is Three. He has created us in community to relate and to have relationships, and to be accountable, and to love and encourage and uplift one another. You need to have community. It’s called the church. You’ve got to be part of a church. You’ve got to be plugged in to that church. You need connection.

The fourth word you need is the word focus. You’ve got to have focus. Here’s the deal about faith: Faith is about focus! It’s about the object of your faith. What’s holding you up right now? What’s preventing your epidermis from splatting on the gym floor? Is it your faith that’s holding you up right now? This is deep here—I’m sorry! It’s the chair, right? It’s the faithfulness of the chair! It’s the object.

When you get on a plane tomorrow to go on a business trip; what’s going to get you there? Your faith? No, no, no! One person gets on the plane tomorrow that has never been on a plane, and they’re just white-knuckled, gripping the chair arm—“Oh, we’re not going to make it! Oh, there’s turbulence!” They’re not expecting turbulence—“We’re going to die!” Another person gets on there, and he’s got the Wall Street Journal. He’s got the suit on, the briefcase, and he’s in first class. He’s chilling, and he’s cool. There is turbulence, but he doesn’t care, right? There is another guy who just flies a little bit, but all three people wind up at the same city at the same time, though some had no faith! The other one was like, “Yeah, I totally trust the pilot and the plane!” What got them there? Their faith? No! It’s the Boeing 737! It’s the faithfulness of the plane, and the capacity of the pilot!

So when you are thinking about growing your faith, don’t try to examine your faith by always taking your spiritual pulse. You can’t think about faith and grow in faith at the same time. It’s kind of strange. That’s like I’m really concerned about my vision, so I’m going to take my eyeball out to try to observe myself seeing. You can’t think about kissing and evaluate kissing at the same time. It’s about the object of your faith.

There was a business man who finished a hard day at work in a downtown city. He comes out and sees a little boy there. The little boy is on the block, but he’s not on the corner of the block. He’s kind of mid-way in the block. The man goes up to the little boy and says, “Hey, can I help you? Do you have a problem?” The little boy goes, “No, no. I don’t have a problem. I’m waiting on the bus.” The man says, “Well, the bus does not stop right here in the middle of the block. You’ve got to go two blocks down the road and take a right, and the bus stops there.” The little boy said, “No, no. The bus will stop here. It’s going to pick me up. I just believe it’s going to do that. I have faith the bus is going to stop here and pick me up!” The business man said, “Well, good luck to you, but I’ve got to go catch the bus!” So he walks down the two corners and takes a right hand turn. The bus pulls up, and the doors open. He walks in, and seated on the very front row of that bus is that little boy! The little boy looks up at the businessman and says, “Mister, I want to introduce you to my daddy!”

Our faith, our trust is always in a person. All you’ve got to do is get on the bus, and you’ll be in for the ride of your life! You will. Let’s pray.

God, I thank You, thank You, thank You for being patient with us. Thank You, God that You want to take us to another level of faith and trust in You. You want us to move from skinniness and zero faith to growth and strengthen in our faith. God, we need Your help to do that. We need Your help to be intentional about all the things we need to work out and do.

God, I pray for those who are here right now who don’t understand it totally. They don’t fully grasp it, but they know they desperately need You, and they need to stand and walk down front in a few moments and say, “God, I need You in my life. God, I need You to rescue me. God, I’ve really messed up, and I need for You to forgive me. I want to follow You. I don’t understand it all. I never thought I’d ever do this and walk down front in a church, especially in a gym, but today I know is my day. For some reason, You’ve been speaking to me today.” Father, give them the courage to stand and come down front in a few moments.

WOW Statements of Jesus: Part 3 – Your Money Can Keep Your Out of Heaven: Transcript

WOW STATEMENTS OF JESUS

Your Money Can Keep You Out of Heaven

November 23, 2008

Ben Young

What is at the center of your life? What represents your significance, your sense of identity, your self-esteem? Is there anyone or anything that you are holding onto that you’re not giving to Jesus? What does Jesus tell us about the things we put in the center of our lives? Join Ben as he navigates through a radical passage of Scripture and addresses one of the most challenging WOW statements of Jesus, “Your Money Can Keep You Out of Heaven.”

Many years ago, I was tubing down the San Marcos River with a friend of mine named Greg. How many of you have ever tubed or canoed down the Guadalupe, or San Marcos? Raise your hand! Don’t be shy! There you are! I see those hands out there! I was at this particular spot, and there was kind of what I would call an island in the middle of the river. The currents that day were really strong. My friend was on this island standing around, and I hit this rock or this big old stump and fell off my tube, 125 pounds of faith. I was about to go under because the current was sucking me under! My friend reached down and grabbed me by my hair, pulling me up literally out of that situation so I did not drown. I will never forget that! You never forget moments like that. It just shows you how powerful water is, and how powerful currents are.

Whether you are in a river or an ocean, sometimes you can see the strength of a current; sometimes you can see a riptide, and sometimes you can’t. What I’ve discovered, and you don’t have to be a sociologist or anthropologist to figure this out; but all cultures have currents. In other words, they have these currents that are kind of underground, or unspoken, and they are pulling you and me in the direction they want us to go, many times without our even knowing it. We want to be here, but we drifted away because the current has pulled us, and pulled us away. Sometimes the current can be so deadly it can threaten to take us under.

This morning I want to talk about one of the currents that is pandemic in our culture today. I want to talk about it as it connects to our series we’re doing called WOW Statements of Jesus. We’re talking about the radical statements that Jesus made. Some of Jesus’ statements are so great; we want to go, “Amen! That’s right! I believe that!” Other statements are kind of like, “Oh me! Are you talking to me?”

In the first week, we said what? That God has great things in store for you. We need to allow the Lion of the tribe of Judah to roam around in our lives.

Last week, we talked about how to build strong faith. We said everybody has faith! Atheists have faith, agnostics have faith, and Christians have faith! Everyone has faith. If you want to grow in your faith relationship with God, you’ve got to be what? Very intentional in doing that.

All these sayings, truths and radical statements we’re looking at; these WOW statements are under the big umbrella of the K.O.G. That stands for the Kingdom of God. The Kingdom of God is this radical lifestyle of grace and truth that God through Christ calls us to.

The current we’re going to look at today is antithetical to the K.O.G., and it’s almost everywhere we go. It’s like the air that we breathe. This current is consumerism. We live in a free-market society in a capitalistic country, and we are consumers! What is consumerism? Here’s the definition: “Consumerism is the equation of personal happiness with the purchase of material possessions and consumption.” What does that mean? That means you gain your sense of happiness from getting and buying stuff, and using the stuff you buy. You consume.

Question—and I’ve been thinking about this for a while: Are you a Christian, or are you a consumer? One of the characteristics of consumerism, if you have that disease, is that when you maybe feel empty inside, you have to buy something new. Or if you feel pain, and you want to numb the pain of your life; then go buy something. Go do something to numb that pain.

If you’re a parent, let me ask you a question: Are you raising Christians, or are you raising consumers? Consumerism in Christianity and in the Kingdom of God is antithetical to one another.

Allow me to let you in on a secret. It’s not really a secret, but it’s this: Following Jesus is difficult. Do you remember M. Scott Peck with the classic million best-seller book, The Road Less Traveled? It began with, “Life is difficult.” Listen: Following Jesus is difficult. It’s hard! Let me read you a quote by this astute philosopher. He says, “Drinking beer is easy. Trashing your hotel room is easy; but being a Christian—that’s a tough call! That’s rebellion.” Do you know who said that? Alice Cooper! Jesus said this, “It’s not easy to enter the K.O.G.” He said, “The way is narrow, and the way is hard.”

Last week I read you one of my favorite stories in the Bible. This week I want to read one of my least favorite stories in the Bible. I’m sorry there are not airbags in front of us today, because we’re all going to need it, but check this out! By the way, if you’re an action kind of person and you’ve never read the Bible, read Mark! He’s all about action. If you’re contemplative and more philosophical; start with John. If you’re really wound up tight, start with Matthew!

Mark 10:17, “And He went out into the street, and a man came running up and greeted Him with great reverence.” Remember last week, the father ran up to Jesus. Remember that? He had the son who had the demon? He is another guy. “‘Good teacher, what must I do to get eternal life?’ Jesus said, ‘Why are you calling Me good? No one is good, only God. You know the Commandments: Don’t murder, don’t commit adultery, don’t steal, don’t lie, don’t cheat, honor your father and mother.’ He said, ‘Teacher, I have – from my youth – kept them all!’ Jesus looked him hard in the eye and loved him. He said. ‘There’s one thing left: Go sell whatever you own and give it to the poor. All your wealth will then be Heavenly wealth. And come follow Me.’ The man’s face clouded over. This was the last thing he expected to hear, and he walked off with a heavy heart. He was holding on tight to a lot of things and not about to let go.”

How does this story strike you? How does it hit you? Let me tell you how it hits me: It made me feel the way Randy Couture felt last week when he got the knee and that hit over the back of the ear in Vegas. That’s what I felt like when I read that passage. I asked myself the question, “Jesus, are You talking to me?” In other words, “Am I the rich, young ruler? I haven’t sold everything I have to follow You.”

It makes me wonder, “What about grace? Amazing grace, how sweet the sound?” I thought we were saved and got into a relationship with God by grace, not by works. It seems to be teaching here that if you give some kind of vow of poverty and sell all your stuff, then BAM! You get in! That seems to contradict other things that I’ve seen in the Scripture. But this story again challenges and convicts me, and it sheds light on the consumerism, materialism, and selfishness in my own life, because that’s the current.

This guy that ran up to Jesus had it all. He was young and handsome. He had money and inheritance. He was rolling it over! He had the brand-new Hickey Freeman suit on, and the nice Prada shoes, and he was just looking fine! He had it! He went to church; he was a righteous guy. He was active on committees, a deacon and all that. He came up to Jesus because he still lacked something. He still wanted to know what he needed to do to have eternal life. There’s something kind of wild—can you see this guy in this $1,500.00 suit, kneeling at the feet of this penniless prophet from Nazareth? Do you see that?

The fascinating thing about this passage is that this guy who had it all, the rich young ruler is the only guy in Scripture who after kneeling at the feet of Jesus was worse off afterwards than when he came. I challenge you! Google the New Testament and check it out! Everybody who kneels at the feet of Jesus find themselves healed upon standing! When they get up, they’ve been made whole again! When they get up, they’re forgiven!

When they kneel and get up, they feel like a brand-new person. But this guy, when he got up—he felt worse. He didn’t go away feeling brand-new; he went away feeling ashamed, rejected and embarrassed.

The easiest thing for us to do here is to distance ourselves from the rich young ruler. “That’s not me, because I’m not rich! That person over there is rich!” I love the definition of rich, or materialism. “Materialism ends where my income ends!” It just keeps moving and changing.

Listen: If you live in the United States of America, there’s a 99.9% chance you are rich! You’re rich! Compared to most of the world, we live in Disney World. God is breaking up Disney World, isn’t He? He’s breaking it up right now. Rich young ruler. Give away everything! Sell all your possessions! Where’s the 10%? Everything! Jesus loved him. I believe Jesus was calling him to be an Apostle, one of the elite group. I don’t think it was just a little, “Hey…” Jesus saw the guy had the good stuff. He walked away. Why was it? What is it about money that makes us so funny? It’s awkward for me to get up here and talk about money, because so many church people and T.V. people are always just begging and talking about money all the time! It’s awkward! It’s like going lingerie shopping with your mother-in-law. It just doesn’t work sometimes.

What is it about riches? They make you self-reliant. What was Jesus doing? He was simply pointing out to this guy what was at the very center of his life. His riches represented his significance. They represented his sense of identity, his self-esteem. It was everything to him. It was his center and his core. When you come into a relationship with Jesus Christ, He says, “You have to replace the center of your life with Me.” We can even put good things at the center of our lives. There’s nothing noble about being rich, and there’s nothing noble about being poor. It’s a matter of what is at the center of your life. Jesus comes in and says, “I want you to give Me the center.”

He asks you and me this question today, “What are you holding on to? What is at the very center of your life?” You say it’s not money! Well, it’s not money until someone says, “Hey, give it all away!” Just like the last few months, you don’t realize how much you love money until you start losing it! A lot of it!

So what is at the center of your life? What is at the core of your life? Is there anyone or anything that you are holding on to that you’re not giving to Jesus? If you want a practical way to evaluate that, then get out your day-timer, or your Black Berry or your calendar; get out the checkbook and credit card statements. How did you invest your money in 2008? Did you invest your money in the K.O.G., or did you invest your money in the big M.E.? Do a check!

I forgot to tell you, but I’m reading out of The Message translation Bible, Eugene Peterson. So if you’re wondering as you looked at your NIV, NASV, KGV, or NKJV; I like what The Message says. Did you see the last verse, 22? It says, “He was holding on tight to a lot of things and not about to let go.” He was holding on tight!

I need a volunteer! Anybody willing to volunteer? Do you have any money? Could you give me a one dollar bill, or a five dollar bill? Abe Lincoln, United States of America is on the five dollar bill. On the back, it has the Lincoln Memorial. Then it has these four words over the Lincoln Memorial. Do you know what they are? “In God We Trust.” It’s even on the penny! Do you believe that? Do you believe that we as a nation or as a people of the United States trust in God? Do you believe that? No! We don’t trust in God. We believe in God, but we trust in money. Right? We believe in God, but we trust in our cash. I’m going to give you your money back! He was sweating! Let’s give this guy a hand for participating! Thank you!

So here is this guy who has it all together. He approaches Jesus and kneels at His feet. “What can I do to get eternal life?” Jesus says, “You’ve got to sell everything.” The guy’s holding on too tightly to a lot of stuff and won’t let go. Can’t you see as he’s leaving Jesus, he’s getting the dust off his beautiful suit, and Jesus and His disciples are kind of watching his figure as he just kind of disappears and recedes into the distance? Now it’s just Jesus and His disciples. The disciples, as usual, are dumbfounded. Look at verse 23.

Mark 10:23, “Looking at His disciples, Jesus said, ‘Do you have any idea how difficult it is for people who “have it all” to enter God’s Kingdom?’ The disciples couldn’t believe what they were hearing! But Jesus kept on.” I thought He was going to throw us a bone, or a cushion, or find some commentary. But He piles on! It says “Jesus kept on…” I love that! “You can’t imagine how difficult! It’s easier for a camel to go through a needle’s eye than for a rich man to get into God’s Kingdom.” This set the disciples back on their heels! “Then who has any chance at all?”

In that day and culture as well as today, if you had riches and went to church and were religious, that was a sign that God was blessing you! Jesus was saying, “That may be a sign, and that may not be a sign.” But the disciples thought, “This guy is so blessed—he’s got it all together!

If he’s not getting in, who’s going to make it?” Jesus was blunt, “No chance at all if you think you can pull it off by yourself! Every chance in the world if you let God do it!”

Basically Jesus was saying this: Salvation, entering the Kingdom of God, going to Heaven for anybody, any time, any place, rich, poor, or middle-class, upper middle-class, whatever is impossible in and of yourselves. It’s humanly impossible! Salvation is impossible. Getting into God’s Kingdom is impossible. A miracle has to take place! We looked at this in our first week in the series. You’ve got to receive from God this gift of righteousness. But to receive salvation, you can’t receive from God like this when your hands and your heart are holding on tightly to someone or something else. How can you receive from God? It’s going to fall out! So to receive God’s grace when grace does call your name; then you have to open your hands to receive it.

The key to this passage is really the passage before. Remember when you’re reading the Bible, context is king? Context, context… Check this out! Here’s the key. Mark 10:13-36, “The people brought children to Jesus, hoping He might touch them.” Everybody wanted to be around Jesus! “The disciples shooed them off. But Jesus was irate and let them know it: ‘Don’t push these children away! Don’t ever get between them and Me! These children are at the very center of life in the K.O.G. Mark this: Unless you accept God’s Kingdom in the simplicity of a child, you’ll never get in!’ Then gathering the children up in His arms, He laid His hands of blessing on them.”

What’s the key to getting into the Kingdom of God? What’s the key to staying in the Kingdom of God? Of growing in your faith? It’s learning to trust Jesus with total trust! It’s learning to become like a child; not to be childish, but to be child-like. When we come before God in Christ, we say, “God, I come to You empty-handed. I open my clenched little fist, and I open it up to You to follow You and to do what You want me to do, and to go where You want me to go.” Children are utterly dependent upon their parents. That’s what Jesus calls us to do. He calls us to total trust. He calls us to let go of that white-knuckled grip we have of things, or of people, or of relationships.

God asks us, “What’s going on in your life? What is the most valuable thing you own? What do you value the most? If you’re to follow Me, you’ve got to give that up to Me.” You say, “That’s difficult!” No it’s not difficult! It’s impossible! But isn’t that the point? I mean, if there is a God, can’t this God do the impossible in your life and my life? If there is a God, and He does know all things; doesn’t He know what’s at the center of all our hearts? It may be cash for one person, cars for another person; it may be houses for you, or shoes, or a relationship with someone else.

I don’t know what it is, but God knows what is at the center of your life. You’ve got to give it to Him. Become like a child.

Years ago, we were doing a short-term mission trip in Mexico City, and there is a neighborhood in Mexico City called Chimalhuacán, and it’s located right near the airport. I say “neighborhood”—that’s being generous. It’s basically a group of houses of just hovels that have been built over a garbage dump in Mexico City, the largest city in the world. When I first went there, the sewage drains were just ditches, so you had open sewage everywhere. The electricity they had was pirated from the street. Over one million people lived in Chimalhuacán in utter poverty.

We were there, helping to build a church literally, laying the foundation and pouring cement. We were also doing Vacation Bible School for the kids. There was a girl in our group called Cheryl who befriended this beautiful, 9 year-old little Mexican local girl. They had become friends, although they didn’t speak the same language. The last day there, we were giving things to the children as we were leaving, like T-shirts, and taking our shoelaces out of our shoes and making little bracelets and giving them to the girls. This little girl went to her place where she lived and came back, talking through a translator to Cheryl. She had in her hand a beautiful gold necklace. She said through the translator, “Tell Cheryl that I want her to have this.” Cheryl looked down at this gold necklace and said, “I can’t take that!” The little girl said again through the translator, “No, no, no—really, really!” “She says she really wants you to have it”, said the translator. “Take the necklace!” Cheryl said, “No, no! That’s a beautiful necklace! I really appreciate it, but I can’t take it!” Finally, the little girl said again, “Really, please—take it! Take it!” Cheryl was compassionate but a little exasperated. She said, “I can’t take that gold necklace! That’s the most valuable thing she owns!” The translator looked back at Cheryl and said “That’s why she’s giving it to you. It’s the most valuable thing she owns.”

Let’s pray.

Lord, we learn so much about Your Gospel from children. Lord, we thank You that You gave what was most valuable to us so that we could turn around and give what’s most valuable in our life to You. Lord, I pray that during this time of invitation that You would lead men who need to stand and come today and walk down these aisles, and say, “I want God to be at the very center of my life. I’m letting go of my white-knuckled grip on whatever it is, because I know that God has made me. I want God to be the center of my life.”

Lord, there are some ladies here today who need to stand and walk down these aisles and say “Today’s the day I am fully turning my life over to Jesus Christ. I want Him to come in and not only forgive me and cleanse me, giving me a new life; but I want to follow Him.” Lord, lead them to stand and to come.

WOW Statements of Jesus: Part 5 – The Worst Sinner Question: Transcript

WOW STATEMENTS OF JESUS

The Worst Sinner Question

December 7, 2008

Ben Young

The word repent has negative connotations that follow it; it gets a bad rap in our society. However, Jesus addresses the urgency and importance of repentance throughout the Gospels. In Luke 13:1 and following Jesus is calling His listeners, us, to be urgent today about the action that we take because real life, eternal life is long. In the final message of this series, Ben will unpack this radical passage of Scripture and explain why Jesus speaks with such urgency about repentance.

I’ve got two daughters now that are 10 and 13, and I’ll tell you the amazing thing about kids: They start off as these cute little squishy, chubby little things, and when they get older, all you do is feed them milk and peanut butter sandwiches, and they grow up! People don’t think about how miraculous that is. Just peanut butter, literally, three meals a day, for years and years!

I like sandwiches sometimes. When I was a little kid, my mom would make us peanut butter and banana sandwiches. Have you ever had those? Raise your hand! Yes, I see those hands! Sometimes for an extra dose, she’d put some mayonnaise on there! Yeah, it was delicious! What kind of sandwiches do you like now? I need some testifying. Just raise your hand and tell us what your favorite sandwich is here. I’m sorry I can’t call on you in the E Gym. Just kind of pretend and work with us! Right there on the front row! Roast beef sandwich. I like that! I Iike the French dip sandwich too—it’s kind of the same. Boca burgers! All right! Health food! How about right there? A butter sandwich? Wow! You are a health nut! I want to eat with you! Okay, go ahead! Tuna fish and pickle. Tuna fish is good. It has a good source of protein.

As I was preparing for this sermon, I thought about sandwiches. What we’re talking about today is what we started the year off with in 2008. It really started off at the end of 2007. Now as I look, we’ve gone full circle and have gone all the way through this journey, and it’s like God has us back in the same place. So perhaps through this sandwich, or bookends if you like that better; He is trying to deliver a message to us. I’ll tell you what the sandwich is in a little bit, but it’s good. It’s meaty.

We’re talking about the WOW statements of Jesus. Last week if you were here, we talked about the tenth leper and how we wanted to be like him and stay in a place before God where we’re in a constant state of gratitude and thankfulness, regardless of what’s going on in our bodies, our lives, or our circumstances. We want to maintain the attitude of gratitude and to really have sincere thanks unto God as a powerful, powerful way of living out the K.O.G., the Kingdom of God.

If you have a Bible, turn with me to the Book of Luke. If you don’t have a Bible, you can cheat and look on your neighbor’s paper. If not, the passage will appear on the screen behind me in just a few seconds.

Luke 13:1 and following, “There were some present at the time who told Jesus about the Galileans whose blood Pilate had mixed with their sacrifices. Jesus answered, ‘Do you think that these Galileans were worse sinners than all the other Galileans because they suffered this way? I tell you No! But unless you repent, you too will perish! Or those eighteen who died when the tower of Siloam fell on them? Do you think they were more guilty than all the others living in Jerusalem? I tell you, no! But unless you repent, you too will perish.’ Then He told this parable: ‘A man had a fig tree, planted in his vineyard. He went to look for fruit on it, but he did not find any. So he said to the man who took care of the vineyard, “For three years now, I’ve been coming to look for fruit on the fig tree, and I haven’t found any! Cut it down! Why should it use up the soil?” “Sir”, the man replied. “Leave it alone for one more year, and I’ll dig around it and fertilize it, and if it bears fruit next year, fine. If not, then cut it down.”’”

When I read this passage, I was kind of like “Whooa! What is going on here?” You have this situation, this bloody massacre at the Temple. You have this natural disaster; this tower falling on these people and it seems like Jesus really doesn’t care! He’s like Brad Pitt after he and Jennifer broke up! He’s lost His sensitivity chip, His compassion! What is going on? Jesus seems rather harsh here. He doesn’t seem to be dealing with the situation at hand. Then to add mystery or an enigma to it; He adds on this parable about a fig tree that’s not producing figs, and it’s going to get cut down, and there’s a negotiation. Hey—give it one more year, and we won’t cut it down! It’s just kind of a random passage, and it makes Jesus look pretty harsh.

We have to talk about what’s going on here. What is happening is, you have these people coming up to Jesus to report the news to Him. We’re surrounded by news today! I mean it’s crazy! We used to have just Walter Cronkite, Dan Rather, and Peter Jennings. We used to just have three major networks; now we have news twenty-four seven. People talk to us about politics and the economy. We have news about the weather; people pontificating about it, predicting it. You have sports! Oh my goodness! All the sports networks, sport news, sport interpretation. “Let’s talk about that trade they made in the lower Minor Leagues for the Astros!” Good night! Get a life! So we have all these people—and I love sports, but come on!

Here is what’s happening: You have the reporters if you would, people coming up to Jesus with some news. They said, “Hey Jesus! Did you hear about the guys that got slashed in the Synagogue? Pilate did it!” What had happened, Galileans were pretty tough people. They were pretty zealous as they wanted to rebel against Rome. Word had gotten out that Pilate had taken some of the cash, some of the money from the Synagogue to use it probably to support one of his armies. So the Galileans who had protested this were going to church in a worship service like this one, and it was during the time of giving sacrifices. So it would be like us going to the Lord’s Supper Table, or communion where you have the cup and the bread. While they were doing that, some of Pilate’s henchmen came out and took their Yamaka off and boom, boom, boom! They just blew these people away, and their blood spilled over and mixed with the Lord’s Supper Table. That was the first situation Jesus dealt with—a bloody massacre, a drive-by shooting at church!

The second situation, Jesus brings up. He said, “Hey, how about what happened a while back with that tower that fell over? A natural disaster! These eighteen workers were guilty.”

These reporters wanted Jesus to deal with the whole problem of evil and suffering; the issue of theodicy. If there is a good God and all-powerful God; how do you explain the evil and suffering in the world? They really are kind of pushing Jesus to answer the question, “Why do bad things happen to good people?” Based on what Jesus says, what we can learn from this passage is this: There is a right way and a wrong way to deal with falling towers, because that is the issue at hand here.

The first wrong way to deal with falling towers is to say that suffering is the result of sin. This is kind of the religious view. This is the “Isn’t that special” kind of view; kind of the church-lady view. “Oh, it must have been Satan! You’re living a bad life! You’re going to get cursed!” That is a kind of religious mentality of legalism. You know, “If I do good things; good things will happen to me. If I do bad things; bad things will happen to me. If I see something going on in a friend’s life, or a family member’s life; it must be because they’ve done something wrong.

Now, let me say this: There are times where suffering is a direct result from sin. We’ve all experienced that. When someone has too much to drink, they get behind the wheel of a car and they kill someone…that’s the result of someone’s sin. When someone doesn’t read the warning label on the Camel Unfiltered Cigarettes and they get cancer; that’s the result of them not heeding the warning sign. So some suffering is the result of sin, but not always! Not at all…

There is a line in the song Butterfly Kisses, and when I first heard this song, I’d been married a couple of years but didn’t have any kids yet. I heard it on the radio, and I was like please!! Pass the cheese pizza! That is the cheesiest, smarmiest, campiest song I have ever heard! Then about two years later, my wife gave birth to this beautiful little baby girl, our first-born child. I was driving down the road, and she was in the back seat in her car seat. She had this cute little chubby pudge face, and I looked in the rearview mirror, and Bob Carlisle came on the radio with Butterfly Kisses. He hadn’t finished two lines, and I was boo-hooing like a baby!

I had to check myself to see that I wasn’t going soft or light in the loafer, so I called a friend of mine who played pro-football as an offensive lineman. I said, “Man, have you heard Butterfly Kisses?” “Oh yeah (between sobs), I’ve heard it!” So, I didn’t feel so bad.

Just to stave off any e-mails or letters; I like the song Butterfly Kisses. It’s a very emotional song that tugs at your heartstrings if you have a daughter. But there’s a line in there that kind of reflects this kind of religious view toward suffering and life. He says, “In all that I’ve done wrong, I know that I must have done something right, to deserve a hug every morning, and butterfly kisses at night.” Now, I know Bob was only trying rhyme, but that’s a wrong mentality. It’s the mentality that if I do good things, good things will happen to me; if I do bad things, then bad things will happen to me. Suffering is caused by sin.

Another wrong way to look at falling towers and suffering is that suffering is random. Some say suffering is just random; it’s just an accident. Richard Dawkins, who wrote the New York Times best-selling book God Delusion, is a Darwinian fundamentalist, naturalist, and atheist. Here is what he said in a book he wrote years ago called Out of Eden, talking about suffering here from an irreligious or non-religious point of view: “In a universe of blind physical forces and genetic replication, some people are going to get hurt. Other people are going to get lucky, and you won’t find any rhyme or reason in it; not any justice. The universe we observe is precisely the properties we should expect if there is at the bottom no design, no purpose, no evil, and no other good. Nothing but blind, pitiless indifference. DNA neither knows, nor cares; DNA just is.”

So Dawkins, and Sam Harris, and other people coming from an atheistic or agnostic perspective would say, “Suffering simply is.” All the suffering, all the pain, all the evil, and all the towers falling on us we feel in our lives; they are simply the dance of DNA. That may read well in a textbook; it may sound great on a debate on CNN or FOX; but in the real world, explaining the problem of evil and suffering as the dance of DNA as a random chance simply doesn’t wash!

Tell that to the person who’s been raped, that her attacker was just responding to the dance of his DNA. Tell that to the person who was molested—“Oh, that was just the dance of DNA.” Tell that to the person that has been abused, or someone has left them—“That was just the dance of their DNA. Tough luck.” Doesn’t work! There is a right way, and a wrong way to deal with towers falling on us. Some would say the religious view—it’s always because of sin. “You must have done something wrong to deserve that; or you did something right.” Suffering is the dance of DNA.

Listen: The life of Jesus cuts through both of those options. It refutes both those wrong options. Think about it! Jesus lived a perfect life, and Jesus suffered with great purpose. So Jesus, the Son of God, showed us what God is like, but He also showed us what it is like to be really human. He lived a perfect life, and yet He experienced horrendous abuse, betrayal, and suffering. At the same time, Jesus suffered with a purpose. It was not random, because He is God who became flesh. He entered into our suffering and pain for us! So when we go to God in prayer; when we go to God when the towers fall on us, we’re not going to a God who doesn’t understand. We don’t go to a God who is “way up there at a distance,” the Old Man upstairs, the power, the force. No, we go to a God who is powerful and is up there, who is transcendent, but who has come down to earth and who has entered into our pain and suffering. He didn’t just tell us how to relieve pain and suffering as Buddha did, no! He entered in and took the pain for us! He took the argument a step further…

So the fact that Jesus died and his death and life was one of suffering with a purpose refutes those two religious and irreligious arguments. Towers, towers, towers… They fall on everyone, don’t they? Live long enough, and a tower is going to fall on you. When a tower falls on us, the first thing we want to do is cry out, “Why God? Why? Why did You let my dad leave us when I was just a little kid? God, why did you allow my friend, my close friend to die at such a young age? God, why do I have this disease in my body that I’ve got to fight and struggle against? God, why?” The Bible is full of those “why” questions. Job is the oldest Book in the Bible, and he asks that question, “God, why?” I encourage you to read the Psalms. If a big, huge tower is falling on you, it’s full of asking God “why?” We’re asking God why when we’re bleeding, and hurting, and crying out. We need to run to the church. We need to run to people in the community. We need to run to pastors and counselors—people who have been through that and can be with us, embrace us, and listen to us.

However, in the context of this passage, this is not what Jesus is dealing with. Jesus is not really dealing with the whole issue of the problem with evil and suffering. He’s not doing that. He talks about that in other places. He’s doing something else. He’s talking to us about the right way to deal with falling towers.

To understand what Jesus is talking about in this passage where He seems to have lost that compassion/sensitivity chip; we have to go back to Luke, chapter 12. Remember when you’re reading and studying the Bible and you see something, you’re like “Hmmmm, what does that mean?” The best thing to do is read the verses before it, the verses after it, and if you still can’t figure it out, read the chapter before it and the one after it. If you still can’t figure it out; read the entire book! Then you read the entire New Testament and entire Bible. It will take you awhile; but the bottom line is this: context is king!

Let’s go back to Luke 12. Jesus tells the story about this rich rancher. This guy was killing it! He was making money hand over fist. Everything was working for him in the stock market. He thought that was going to last forever! He had all this cash; he had all this money! He had so much cash flow and deals, he was simply going to live high on the hog and live off the interest! Things were great for this rich rancher! But Jesus said as this guy was thinking to himself, “You know, next year, I’m just gonna live off the fat and the interest.” Jesus said, “You idiot! Don’t you know tonight you’re going to have a heart attack, and you’re going to have to give an account for your entire life before God?”

So the context of this passage here in Luke 13 is one of urgency. Luke says that Jesus had His face set toward Jerusalem. He was going to the Cross, okay? He was telling the people there about the K.O.G., the Kingdom of God, and He was urgent about His message. He wanted them to see this urgency in the context of the uncertainties of life, because life is very uncertain. It is very unpredictable, and sometimes, it comes to us, and it appears all these things are happening in our lives in a random way. We never know how much time we have. So Jesus is calling His listeners as He’s calling us today, to be urgent about the action that we take.

Then we look further, and we see the sandwich finally, the other piece of bread that we started off with in 2007. What’s the message? The message is one word, throwing out the “R” word—repent. That’s what He says. If you can dial back about twelve months ago, we looked at the first command that Jesus gave when he resigned from the carpentry company He was working with at about the age of 30; when He walked off the work site there. The book of Mark tells us He went around and said, “The time has come! The K.O.G. is at hand! The Kingdom of God is at hand! Repent and believe the Good News!”

We have to realize also, who is Jesus talking to? He is talking not to the down-and-out. He’s not talking or consoling the people who lost loved ones in the slaughter in the Synagogue by Pilate’s henchmen. I don’t think He’s comforting the family members of the people who the tower fell on, the tower of Siloam. No, no! He’s talking to the people who have not experienced the tower falling on them yet. These people are good people. They are religious people. They are Bible-believing people. They are Bible memorizing people. They are people of prayer, and He is calling them to repent. Repent!

Now, repent gets a bad rap in our society, doesn’t it? When you think of repent, what do you think about? You think of some downtown city in New York or Houston, and somebody, some really mean guy, usually some big ole white dude with a big, red face and a big ole black, King-James Bible. He’s pounding that and says, “Repent ye sinners! Turn or burn! You’re gonna fry like a sausage in hell!” The guy is just letting people have it as they’re trying to get to work, and go their way, and not spill their Starbucks on their suit. So many times when we hear the word repent, we think of it in purely negative terms.

The Amplified Bible says this. It should be on the screen here. “Repent means to change your mind for the better, and heartily amend your ways with an abhorrence of your past sins…” So repentance is like you’re going this way. You repent and do a 180, and you go this way. When you repent, you turn away from something, and in some cases someone in your life who you know is wrong for you. They may be destructive and the relationship is unhealthy for you. You turn away from that and go in a different direction. That’s what it means to repent. It means to turn away.

Jesus is telling His listeners—“Turn away now.” They wanted to deal with Jesus—“Hey, let’s talk about the problem with evil and suffering, and why bad things happen to good people…” Jesus said, “I’m not going to deal with that now. I’ve got a guy coming along named Paul who hates us now, but he’s going to like us. He’s going to deal with that better!” Jesus said, “I want to deal with your heart, because I’m more concerned about the bitterness and hatred in your heart than I am about the people killed by Pilate. I’m more concerned that you need to turn right now away from what’s going on in your life that‘s wrong. I want to deal with you now!”

Jesus is great at Judo! He used someone else’s energy against them. He uses this rapport and uses it against them. He reframes the question. He does an intellectual boomerang and just totally catches His listeners off guard and hits them in the heart, instead of the head. He says, “Unless you repent; unless you turn away, you’re going to experience some devastating consequences, now and forever.”

They have a saying “Life is short.” You know what? Life is long! Life is short, right? That’s existentialism! “Life is short! You’re gonna die! You’d better really make that choice! Authenticate yourself!” No, life is long! Life is forever! We’re going to live some place forever, and ever, and ever, and ever! Yeah, this life is short; but real life, eternal life is a long time. Jesus says to turn away and repent. He says to do it today.

As I’ve been teaching today, there have been some things that might have popped up in your mind or your heart that you know you need to turn away from. You know you need to repent from them. You need to repent today; not tomorrow. Not, “Oh, that’s a good idea! I’m gonna do that on Tuesday at 4:00!” Or young people—not “After I sew my wild oats. Then I’ll get right with God!” Or this is better—“When things slow down, then I’m gonna…” I’ve kind of noticed, things have not slowed down for me yet. I’ve been waiting for things to slow down. All we have is now. All we have is this moment, and God gives us this moment and this window of opportunity to turn away and repent, and to come to Him. That’s what He wants us to do. That’s a part of being in the K.O.G., the Kingdom of God. Gratitude, living in the spirit of Thanksgiving, that’s not just a November thing—the turkey, dressing and football! No! That is a life-long deal. If I’m going to be in the Kingdom of God, I’ve got to learn how to have gratitude in the midst of my life. I’ve got to learn how to repent, how to turn away, how to turn away when God tells me, “Hey, this is wrong in your life.” It may be an action; it may be a relationship; it may be an attitude. He says, “You’ve got to turn away from that now! All you have is now!”

Then Jesus throws in the fig tree story. What’s that all about? The fig tree wasn’t producing fruit. That represents you and me! God is the owner of this vineyard, and He’s looking down. He says, “All right, I’ve been waiting on this guy/gal for a long time! I don’t see any fruit! Bam! I’m going to cut it down.” The gardener comes and negotiates with him, “Don’t cut it down.”

By the way—Matthew and Mark, “Just cut it down!” There’s not a year. Luke is kind of wanting to show the grace of God, working through the Apostles, working through the preaching of Peter and Paul in the Book of Acts, and before the fall of the Temple in 70 A.D., so he adds on this deal where, “Hey—one more year! Give us one more year! We’re going to fertilize and put some manure here and put on our John Deere hat and our tractor, and we’re going to make this thing grow. If it doesn’t grow after that, okay, chop it down!”

But what is this? The fig tree story is a story of God extending grace! He’s saying, “Listen: God’s giving you another opportunity before He chops down the tree.” Here’s what is just wild.

This is one thing I guess I wouldn’t believe unless I’d seen it—I’m sorry. But you can’t repent and turn to God when you want to. You can’t! There are windows of opportunity that God gives you in your life to turn, and turn away; and sometimes that window is shut, and you can’t do it! I’ve been with people on their death bed. I’ve seen it happen! They really, really wanted to turn to God. They really, really wanted to turn away. I mean they’re about to die! Can’t do it. The window’s not open. It says repent today while you still have time. I’m giving you another window; I’m giving you another opportunity just like this fig tree to grow, to produce.

I like what Peter says in II Peter 3:9. He says, “The Lord is not slow about His promise as some think of slowness, but is patient with you, not wanting any to perish, but all to come to repentance.” God is patient.

Listen: Don’t mistake space, or room to repent as permission to sin. Maybe you’re doing your own thing, man, and you’ve got this little deal going on the side, and you’ve yet to experience the full ramifications and full consequences of this little pocket in your life; this attitude, this lifestyle. You think because the consequences aren’t kicking in yet, you can continue to do whatever it is you’re doing! No, no, no! Don’t mistake room to repent for permission to sin! Don’t do it!

Here’s the deal too: It’s a lot easier to hear a message like this; it’s easy for me to do that and say, “You know what, that was a good message for my neighbor! I wish my neighbor had been here to hear that!” Or, “There’s a jerk at work that I have to put up with! Oh, does he need to be here to hear this. He needs to repent. There’s this girl at school who is in the popular crowd. She’s so stuck up! Good night! She needs a 15 foot pole to pick her nose, and she needs to be here to repent!” No. Maybe they do! But do you know who needs to repent? You. Repentance is the door and the path to the K.O.G. Repentance is how we get into a relationship with God. Repentance is how we grow in a relationship with God. It’s the door and the path.

Martin Luther, when he nailed those 95 theses of protest on the Wittenberg Door in the 16th century said this about repentance in the 95 theses: “Our Lord and Master, Jesus Christ, willed the entire life of believers to be one of repentance.” It’s a part of being in the K.O.G. It’s part of following Christ, a continually turning away, turning away when God points something out and convicts you; when He shouts at you! When He whispers to you to turn away now.

The good news about repentance is that we’re not just turning away—“OOOhhh, I got to leave this! Oh, it’s so negative! I got to…” No, no, no! What did Jesus say in Mark? Turn away and what? Believe the Good News. So we turn away from whatever this is—you fill in the blank, and we embrace the Good News! The Gospel means the proclamation of Good News! What is the Good News?

There is a lot of good news. First of all, the ultimate big tower will not fall upon you, because it has already fallen upon Jesus. Isn’t that great? The ultimate big tower—BAM! The hammer of God’s judgment upon your life, and upon my life as a sinner will not fall upon you because it has already fallen upon Jesus. Jesus took the big tower for us.

Think about it this way: How many times in your life have you lied and not paid the full consequences for it? How many times have you lusted and not paid the full consequences for it? How many times have you coveted, wanting something that wasn’t yours and not paid the full consequences for it? How many times have you been angry and not paid the full consequences for it? How many times have you been disobedient and not paid the full consequences for it? That’s because Jesus has taken the big tower for you! Like the old hymn says, “Jesus Paid it All.” The great news about embracing the Good News is that not only does He forgive us and wipe out our sin, but He gives to us Christ’s very righteousness.

I’m going to pick on Baptists for a moment. Baptists are big on, “Hey, come on! You gotta walk down the aisle! He’ll take away your sins! You can be forgiven! You gotta repent! You can be forgiven!” That’s great to be forgiven! We live in a very unforgiving world and unforgiving culture. It’s great to be forgiven; but there’s so much more, because what does God say? Not only does He forgive us, but He gives us Christ’s very righteousness. So it’s an exchange! We give God our sin and our guilt; He gives us Christ’s righteousness, His perfect law-keeping! We have an F on our report card.

I remember playing basketball in the 9th grade in South Carolina, and a friend of mine got an F, and the coach was checking grades, and he put a plus, an F+. Isn’t that great? The coach looked—“F+? Ronald, what’s that?” We have an F+ on our report card. We trust in Christ. He has an A+ in His moral track record, and that’s credited into our account.

The Gospel is this: It’s not that you give to God a record of righteousness to be saved, or made right. You have to receive from God a record of righteousness in order to be saved. That’s good news! Not only are we forgiven and are given righteousness; God accepts us as if we’re Jesus and had lived His perfect life. He also puts the big power inside of our lives.

The big tower fell on Jesus; and the big power, God’s Spirit lives inside of your life and inside of my life. I can’t explain that! It’s supernatural until you’ve experienced God’s power working in you, living inside of you! It’s unbelievable!

Paul says in Romans 8 the same power that raised Jesus from the dead; that same power dwells inside of you, and dwells inside of me if we’re a Christ follower. Jesus said this, “Apart from Me, you can do some things…” No, He didn’t say that! He said, “Apart from Me, you can do a little bit…” No! He said, “Apart from Me, you can do nothing! Nothing!” But through Christ, I can do all things, everything through Him; through His Spirit, through His power. Listen: If I’m not conscious, without driving in the big power of God’s Spirit; I can’t negotiate Houston traffic in a healthy way. I can’t do it. I’m not spiritual enough to put the Jesus fish on my car yet. I’m not there yet! To love the way I need to love; to work the way I need to work; to manage life, I’ve got to have the big power of God’s Spirit dwelling inside of me! That’s what happens. His power comes to live inside of us, to help us live out this radical lifestyle of grace and truth in the K.O.G. The big tower fell upon Him, so it doesn’t ultimately fall upon us. The big power of God’s Spirit comes inside of us to live in us and give us life, hope and energy. God just doesn’t leave us to our own devices. It wouldn’t work!

I like Peter in the Bible. He’s great! You’ve got to like him! He’s so bold, stepping out there. Jesus says, “I’m gonna die!” “I’m gonna die with You, Lord! All these other people that are cowards… But not me!” “Oh no, no, no, Peter!” Jesus says, “Wake up, buddy! You’re going to deny me three times before the cock crows!” Peter denies Him. Peter fails, but Peter gets back up. He fails, but he gets back up. Even after Pentecost, he preached this great sermon and thousands came to Christ, but he still has all this racial prejudice working inside of him. What’s up with that, Peter? But he keeps on following Him, and he keeps on trusting. He keeps on getting filled with the Spirit.

Peter wrote these words about repentance that are really good. This is the love here, right? Where’s the love in the message? Where’s the love in repentance, turning away and embracing? Where’s the love? It’s right here! Check it out. Here it is—Acts 3:19—“Repent then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord.” I like hat. So that times of refreshing, times of refreshing that come from the Lord. That’s Good News! That’s a good sandwich.

Dear God, I thank You that You are a good God. God, I thank You that You give us windows of opportunity to turn away, and to turn towards You. God, I thank You that there are sinners here in this gym today, because I’m here, and we’re all here. We were all beggars in search of bread, and all of us need to turn to You today.

God, some people here today have never really turned to You. In other words, they’re not in the door yet. They may think they’re in the door, but they’ve not opened the door of the grace, truth and reality of Who You are, and they need to stand and walk down front today, Father. There are some men here who need to stand up and walk down front. There are some students and some singles that need to stand and walk down front and say, “I’m not playing games any more. I’m turning away from the junk in my life, and I’m embracing this Good News. I don’t understand it all. I still have doubts. I still have fears, but I know that I’ve got to follow God. I’ve got to have Him in my life, and I’ve got to be on this path.” Father, may they stand and come down front today, those who need to make that commitment.