Get in the Game: Part 2 – Two-Minute Warning: Transcript

GET IN THE GAME FOLLOW-UP

Two-Minute Warning 

Ed Young

May 5, 2002

There’s nothing like crunch time.  I mean—the clock is ticking away—when you have got a couple of minutes to go in the contest, that’s when the game is really on the line.  That’s when the players step up and really win the contest.

When I think about crunch time, I think about the greatest basketball player who ever played, Michael Jordan.  If you think about Michael Jordan, his career is literally littered with incredible crunch time performances.  Michael has the uncanny ability to score when his team needs a bucket.  When he entered his freshman year of the University of North Carolina, I’m sure Michael had no idea that the whole season would ride on his shot for the NCAA Title Game.  Here is what happened.

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Push the clock forward to about 1998, Michael found himself in Utah playing for the MBA Championship against the Jazz.  It was crunch time.  The clock was ticking away and guess what MJ did?

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In crunch time, decision-making is critical, isn’t it?  You’ve got to make the right choices.  Usually the drill goes something like this.  The clock is ticking away.  A wise coach calls a time-out.  He gathers his players around them and he gives them a game winning strategy.  He says, “Here is what you have to do to put the ball through the net.  Here is what you have to do to step up and really win the game.”

Great teams have the ability to do so.  Fellowship Church is in crunch time right now.  We are facing a two-minute warning.  And in a real way, the Lord, who is our coach, has called a time-out.  He has gathered his team around and has said, “Here is what I want you to do.  Here is my strategy for life.”

His strategy is found in Matthew 16:18, Jesus said, “I will build my church and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.”  Very simple.  Very basic.  The Apostle Paul echoed this in Ephesians 3:10, he said, “The manifold wisdom of God might now be made known through the church.”

God’s game-winning strategy is to build the church.  It’s to build people.  It’s also to build buildings to house the people to do what needs to be done within the context of the local church.

About a year ago, Fellowship broke ground on a Creative Communications Complex.  We are excited about this facility.  On the weekend of June 15th and 16th, we’ll be moving into this complex.  I want to give you a quick preview of what’s going to happen in the building.  Watch this.

(Video – Tour of the Creative Communications Center)

It’s all about decisions.  At Fellowship Church, we unashamedly put a lot of resources and manpower into our children’s ministry because that’s the future.  There is no telling the kind of leaders and the kind of people that God will develop over in that facility.

Decision-making does not stop with the children’s ministry.  This project also has something else about it that is all about decision.  Here’s what I am talking about.

(Video – Tour of the Lake)

We move in the 15th and 16th of June and on that weekend, we are going to have a church-wide baptism.  Because the Bible says once we are old enough to understand what it means to make a faith decision, and once we make this choice, then we are to go public and we are to get baptized.  So, we are going to able to baptize in the lake which is going to be an awesome thing.

There is another decision and this has to do with another aspect of this complex.  Check the side screens out again.

(Video – The Chapel)

We’ll have five positions represented on the team, because there are five players on a basketball team.  I think all of us fit in one of these five categories.  In fact, I can safely say that every single person in this 11:15 service as I talk about these five positions will say, “Okay, yeah, I’m one.  I’m three.”  Maybe you are four or five.  Let’s talk about the positions.  Because it’s crunch time, and we’ve got the ball, and it’s time to step up and play and get in the game.

The first position I’m going to talk about are those people here who are trying out.  In the professional sports vernacular, you might call yourselves guys or girls who want to play for the team.  Maybe you will call yourself a free agent or something like that.

If you are visiting at Fellowship Church and you are not a member, would you lift your hand just for a second?  Lift them up and keep them up there.  Unbelievable!  We have about 1,000 visitors every single weekend.  Let me say once again, welcome to Fellowship Church.  You have picked an outstanding weekend to show up here because you are going to hear some real insider information about our church, about what’s going on.

Our statistical data reveals to us that most people who visit Fellowship Church, end up joining the church.  Visitors, remember that we are not a big church.  We are a small town.  We are.  We have about 15-17,000 people showing up.  That’s a nice size small town.  People always want to live in a small town.  Well, you’ve got it right here at Fellowship Church.  Thanks for being here.  Welcome.

Okay.  We have another group, another position if you will, on this team.  I want to talk to the players.  Some of us are players here.  I heard from our volunteer ministry several weeks ago that we have over 5,300 volunteers who have specific jobs at least once a month just to make Fellowship Church operative.  Is that phenomenal?  You guys are players, using your talents and your gifts.  Believe it or not, we need more players because, due to our growth, just look around, due to our growth, we have had to add two more weekend services this fall.  Our membership department told me a while back that when we began this whole endeavor, this “Get in the Game” project about 24 months ago, we had about 10,000 people showing up at Fellowship Church.  Today, we will have anywhere from 15-17,000.  So in 24 months, we have grown between 5-7,000 people.  So players, we need you.

And others need to step up and play.  Players, also, have stepped up financially, because this project costs some serious money.  You have committed over and above your regular giving and you have been giving to make this whole thing happen.  I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your faithfulness.

So we have got some free agents.  We’ve got those trying out.  We’ve got some players.  There is a third group, the injured reserve people.  Some of you are injured.  I feel your pain.  Part of playing is getting injured.  Maybe this economy has injured you financially, stock market, or the tragedy of 9/11, maybe you lost your job.  Maybe you said, “Okay, I am using my gifts at Fellowship Church, and I have committed financially to make the Creative Communications Complex happen, but due to an injury, Ed, I have not been able to meet my commitment.  That’s cool.  As a friend of mine says, “Chillax,” and don’t worry about it.  That’s fine.  We appreciate your commitment.

The fourth group, the fourth position, and this is going to get kind of tough now, are those here and I can’t believe I am saying it, but there are some here who are sitting on the bench.  Are you ready for that?  Some people are here and saying, “Oh, yeah, I’m a member of Fellowship, but I am sitting on the bench.”

I played basketball at Florida State University, but I sat the bench pretty much my whole career.  It’s not that fun to sit on the bench.  But I did lead the nation in scoring, warm-up scoring.  I averaged 72.3 a game.  It got to be so bad, one day my head coach said, “Ed, how many points did you score today in warm-ups?”  I said, “I scored 80.”  He said, “Okay, that’s pretty good.”

Anyway, some people are sitting on their rears here at Fellowship.  What am I talking about?  I’m saying you are resting on what you have done in the past.  You are saying, “Well, I was involved in Fellowship then.   I gave for the worship center.  I gave for the parking lot experience, and I gave for the Apex.   But now, I am just going to sit this one out.  I am going to rest on my laurels.”

I ask you.  Think about Michael Jordan, the greatest basketball player to ever play.  What if Michael, after scoring that basket against Georgetown, what if Michael had said, “You know what?  I’m not going to play basketball anymore.  I’ve done enough.  That’s it.  I’m just going to ‘chillax’ and maybe play golf.”

If he would have done that, we would have missed the greatest player to ever walk on the hardwood, the greatest player to ever lace up the sneakers.  We would have missed all those phenomenal crunch time performances, all those slam-dunks, all those spin moves, all those defensive plays, all those rebounds, all those assists.  We would have missed it.  Yet, some of the bench-sitters here are sitting on your fat rear and you are missing out on what God has for you.

You see, here’s how God works.  We cannot rest on our laurels.  There is season after season.  There is project after project.  There is challenge after challenge.  Because money is a test.  It’s a tool, the Bible says, to build the kingdom of God on earth.  It’s also a test to see if the Lord is really number one or not.  Because I can look at your credit card receipts, your check stubs.  You can look at my credit card stuff and my checks and we can tell about each other who is number one.

We might say, “God, you are number one.”  But is he really?  I love what 2 Peter 1 says, “His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness.”  Look at Verse 4, “Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises so that through them you may participate in the divine nature.”  Once again, “Participate in the divine nature.”

What happens when someone bows the knee to Christ?  What happens when someone makes that decision?  I’ll tell you what happens.  Jesus Christ infiltrates a person’s life.  When Christ comes inside of our life, we are literally partakers, we can participate in the divine nature.

I just did a five-week series on men and women, and we talked about the fact that we are made in the image of God.  God has stamped us with significant stamping.  One of the significant stamps that God has put on every single person is the stamp of generosity.  Our God is a generous God.  It’s intrinsically woven into the very fabric and framework of who he is.  Thus, when I give, when I’m generous, especially with the most important institution known to man, the local church, I’m going with my nature.  Conversely, when I am selfish, when I park my rear on the bench, when I don’t give, I’m literally going against my nature.

Hey, bench-sitters, do you feel dry spiritually?  Are you saying to yourself, “Man, my life is just not clicking.  My prayers just don’t seem to have power, that octane.”  It’s probably because you are sitting on the bench.  It’s time to get in the game.

I have a chance to talk to pastors several times a year from all across the country.  We have a Creative Church Conference that Fellowship Church does and last time we did it, we had like 1,300 leaders from 35 states and 30 different denominations.  Normally, they ask our staff members a lot of questions.  When I get a chance to field questions, they always ask me this question, “Hey, Ed, when you talk about finances and money at Fellowship Church, do you ever get complaints?  Because our church does.  They will just say, ‘The church just wants money.  They talk about money all the time.’  Did you ever have that?”

I say, “Yes, I do sometimes.  We don’t have a lot of complaints at Fellowship Church, but now and then we will have some negative comments when you talk about money.”  Let me tell you why you have negative comments about money.  This will help all of us.  So if you are thinking negative thoughts right now, or you are thinking about complaining, or maybe you said to your wife, “I can’t believe…,” let me tell you why.

First of all, people who are negative about money are advertising their ignorance.  You are saying, “I’m ignorant.  I’m stupid.  Look at me.  I don’t know the Bible.”  Because check the side screens out right now.  Seventeen of the thirty-eight parables of Christ were about possessions, money, and things.  Possessions were mentioned 2,172 times in Scripture, three times more than love, seven times more than prayer, and eight times more than belief.  Fifteen percent of the Bible deals with possessions.  So really 15% of all my messages should be about the mean green.  It should be about money.  So if you have a problem, don’t get mad at me.  I didn’t write this stuff.  Talk to God about it.  Some of you, if you are critical, are just showing your ignorance.  Some of you, if you are critical, are just showing that you are selfish.

People say, “Well, the church is always talking about money.”  Just remember, you are saying, “I’m selfish.”  You are selfish.  You are duped into thinking that your stuff is your stuff.  Come on now.  Some people say, “Yeah, I’m a self-made man or a self-made woman.  I made the company what it is.  I made the money.  I did this.  I did that.  It’s my portfolio, my investment, my homes, my boats.”

Okay, who gave you your creativity?  Who gave you your vision, your leadership, your discernment?  You didn’t give it to you; God’s given it.  God has given you and me a bunch of stuff.  We are simply managers of the stuff.  That’s what we are.  We don’t own the stuff.  We are managers.  We are going to be held accountable one day concerning how we manage our stuff.  Some of us as I have said before have a small pile of stuff; others have a medium pile.  Some here probably have a giant pile of stuff.  The size of the stuff doesn’t matter.  It’s what we do with the stuff.

God says, “I want you to be a river, not a reservoir.”  God says, “Don’t damn it up.  Let it flow through you and to the most important entity.”  Because Jesus said, “I will build my church.”  He didn’t say, “I will build my foundation.”  He didn’t say, “I will build my university.”  He didn’t say, “I will build my parachurch organization.”  What did he say?  “I will build my church.”

Oswald Chambers said this, “Much of our philanthropy is simply to save ourselves from an uncomfortable feeling.”  A lot of us want to give to these certain entities away from the church because it eases guilt.  And also, we want to give to these things—not all the time but most of the time—because of ego.  Let’s just talk and be honest.  Why do people give to universities and stuff?  Ego.  “I’ll put your name on the building.  Name on the gold plate.  Name on the wall.”

What did Jesus say?  Jesus said, “My economy is different.  You give to my deal.  Don’t tell anybody.  Don’t advertise it.  It’s between you and me.”  That puts a whole new spin on it.  We go, “Well, I want to do the other stuff because if I do the other stuff, people will pat me on the back and put my name in lights.”

We are talking about the most important thing in the universe.  We are talking about the local church.  The gates of hell will not prevail against the local church.  So we have got to talk about money.  We have got to talk about it.

Some of us are trying out.  Some of us are players.  Some of us are on the injured reserve.  Some of us are sitting the bench.  And some of us here, fifth position—and you are going to love this—are rookies.  Rookies.  Since we began this project, we have had 3,529 new members join us here at Fellowship.  If you are a new member, great!  We are glad that you are a part of Fellowship Church.  If you are a rookie, you should be fired up.

One of the things people tell me all the time, “Ed, when I go into Fellowship Church I just feel the enthusiasm.  I just feel the excitement.”  One of the reasons is because we have so many generous people, so many enthusiastic people, so many rookies and so many players.  That’s why you feel it, and that’s a very good thing.

So, rookies, just do a quick panoramic view of this facility.  Just a quick panoramic view.  This thing didn’t just appear out of the air.  People before you gave to make this happen.  People before you, like myself, sacrificed to make this happen.  We gave, we sacrificed, for people who were not at Fellowship Church yet.  You have got to give and sacrifice for people who have not shown up yet.  Because, had I not given, had many others not given, many of you would not know Christ personally, many of you would not have known your spouse, many of you would not have Christ fully formed in your life right now.  But because we gave, look at your life.  Look at the change.  Look what God is doing.  Who is going to do it for the next wave?  Who is going to do it for the next group?

It cost $24 million a year just to operate Fellowship Church.  Our trustees and financial office informed me several days ago that we only have three weeks worth of reserve cash in the bank.  In other words, if we stop giving for three weeks, we would have to shut Fellowship Church down.

Around the community, often times, I am recognized.  Like others on the stage, it’s kind of part of what we do.  People usually go, “Man, I know you from somewhere, but you look old up close.  Are you like the pastor of Fellowship Church?”  I go, “Yeah, I am.  That’s what they call me.”  They go, “Oh, man, Fellowship Church.  I’ve been there before.  That’s a big church.”

They say this sometimes, “Wow, I hear that is a rich church.”  When they say “rich church,” here is my response—this is very theological (Ed laughs)—“Come on, you are joking, aren’t you?  Fellowship Church is rich?  Are you kidding me?” A rich church does not have only three weeks of reserve cash.

We are not rich.  We don’t have any fat cats to just bankroll this deal.  They are not here.  We have a bunch of people who give and make Fellowship Church happen.  And our financial philosophy is very simple.  Here we go.  Are you ready?  We receive offerings.  We spend offerings on ministry.  I’ll say it again.  We receive offerings.  We spend it on people and programs and ministry.  As I said earlier, this stuff doesn’t just happen, friends.  The projectors don’t just happen.  The lights don’t just happen.  The utilities don’t just happen.  The lake doesn’t just happen.  Creative Communications Complex doesn’t just happen.  Our staff doesn’t just happen.  Our mission activities don’t just happen.   Our junior high and senior high ministries don’t just happen.  It doesn’t just happen here.  It takes money to make Fellowship Church go and grow.  Don’t be naive and think it just happens.

Quite frankly, many of us who give a lot proportionately, like myself, we are tired of paying the way for a lot of you.  We are tired of it.  I’m talking about people who have been here for a while.  So, don’t sit there and try to wriggle your way out and say, “Well, I better not give.  My accountant told me this or that, or explain this or that, or try to rest on what you have done in the past.”  Hey, I have played a lot of basketball and when you drive the lane and put up a shot and a big guy blocks your shot, do you know what he says?  “Get that stuff out of here.”  I’ll tell you, “Get that stuff out of here.”  If you do not want to give and step up, leave now because we need your seats.  Okay?  Make this your last service here.  Go to another church in another area that is not going to challenge you.  But I am telling you something, friends, as long as our church is growing, we will talk about money.

Sadly—let me smack myself for a second—for the first five years of Fellowship Church, I was scared to talk about money.  I thought, “I better not talk about it, because I might offend people, and then they will walk away and go, ‘all the church does is talk about money,’ and I better not say anything.”  I began to read the responsibility of what a pastor should do.  I began to read that one day I will have to stand before God and give an account of how I taught you about giving.  The thing about giving is, God wants to bless you.  When you give, God is going to bless you.  A lot of you, because you are not giving, you are not being blessed.  So if you are not giving, you are short-circuiting the ability of God to bless you the way he wants to bless you.

So, here is where we are because we are in crunch time.  We have got the coach looking at the five players in those five positions.  Here is where we are.  To complete this project, we must receive $6 million over the next 12-14 months.  That’s where we are.  That’s what our financial office and Board of Trustees have told me.  $6 million dollars over and above our regular giving.  Here is the good news.  We can do this.  There is no doubt about it.  I cannot tell you the letters and emails we receive about the great things God is doing financially here as people give.  I get choked up just sharing some of this stuff with you and talking to you about it.  Yes, we can do it.

During this month, the month of May is going to be our commitment month.  In the month of June, we are going to ask you to give the largest cash gift from your pledge of twelve months possible in the month of June.  We want to take in $2 million of the $6 million in the month of June.  Already, just in our last Saturday night’s services—we have a service at 5:00 and 6:30 just like this one—those people committed over $2 million.  Is that phenomenal or what?  Two million for this project.  Six million is what we are shooting for.  Two million as a cash deal here in June.

“Yeah, Ed, but I’m saving.  I’m saving for a rainy day.”  You know what I found out about saving?  I’m all for saving.  The Bible says to save.  But the fact is, God has a lot more rain than we do savings.  You hear me screaming?  Again, talking to the complainers, I’ve discovered something over the years of ministry, the loudest “boos” always come from the cheapest seats.

Let’s have some fun now.  We are going to do something that we have never done in the history of Fellowship Church.  But let me tell you why I am doing it—because I felt the leading of the Lord to do it.  If you are sitting on the end row, you will see a bunch of cards that say “Get in the Game.”  Make sure everyone in your row has one, Get in the Game, The Two-Minute Warning, because this is the strategy on how we are going to do it.

Now, when you receive the card, you don’t have to fill it out.  If you want to, you can just draw sketches of the back or something on it.  That’s cool.  But most of us need to fill this out.  Our band is going to play some music while we do all this.  When you get this card, you will say on the top, “I/we want to get in the game at Fellowship Church.”  Just put your name, address, phone number, city, state, and zip code.  See that?  Print that.  After you have printed all that information, give the card to your neighbor, and then tell your neighbor to really pledge financially to this endeavor.  I’m just kidding.  But take this and fill it out.  This will help a lot of us because we can update our database and all that.

The Bible says that God loves a cheerful giver.  You know what the word “cheerful” means?  It means “hilarious.”  We should just hilariously give.  If we are not giving in a cheerful way, don’t give.

Here’s the first box, “I will make a new commitment to ‘Get in the Game.’”  This commitment runs from July 2002 to July 2003.  Here is if you are in the first box, if you are trying out.  If you are a guest and you want to commit, that’s cool.  You are saying, “Wait a minute, Ed, you mean a guest might want to give?”

Yes, let me tell you a cool story.  Two years ago, there was a young man at Fellowship Church who was not a Christian.  He was visiting our church.  He had been a couple of times.  We were talking about church and we were talking about student activities and this guy wrote a transcendent check out to our student ministry.  We found out that the guy was not even a believer.  About a month later, he became a believer and over the last several years, he has been our top donor.  Is that amazing?  What a story.

If you are a guest, yes, if God is leading, fill it out.  Most guests join anyway.  Maybe your day is today to join.  We are having a Newcomers class after this anyway.

Okay, if you are a rookie, you also fall into the first box.  Maybe you are a new member.  Maybe you are one of the 3,529.  Do what others have done before you.  Maybe you are on the bench.  It’s time for us to get off the bench.  It’s time for us to get off the bench.  Bench sitters, it’s time for you to step up and give.  There are going to be other seasons in this deal.  We are not stopping here.  God doesn’t stop because money is a tool to build God’s kingdom on earth but it’s also a test.

You might say, “Yes, Jesus is number one.”  Is he?  How about your giving to the local church?  I love what David said in 1 Chronicles 21:24. In effect he said, “God, I am not going to give you anything that doesn’t cost me something.”

The problem with a lot of bench sitters is, “I’ll try to give something to the church if it benefits me and helps me in this realm.  Let me talk to my accountant or the tax guy.”  I’m all for accountants and tax stuff, but forget that junk.  You just give, and God will take care of you.

The second box, “I will continue to meet my prior commitment to ‘Get in the Game.’”  That’s for those who are injured.  Maybe you pulled a financial hamstring.  We understand.  We will give you twelve more months to complete your deal.

Third box, “I have completed my commitment and want to continue to giving to ‘Get in the Game.’”  Lisa and I are almost through with our commitment.  We are going to give along the same clip, hopefully more, for the next 12-14 months.  That’s from July 2002 to July ’03.  Weekly, monthly, one time gift.

Now total your gift.  You might want to talk to your spouse.  Pray with her or pray with him.  Talk to someone about it right now.  We will give you a couple of moments to do so.  This should be just a special time, a fun time, a freeing time.  If you feel any pressure, it’s coming from two areas.  It’s coming from the Holy Spirit of God or it’s coming from false pressure you shouldn’t feel anyway.  Hopefully, you can discern that.  I believe the Spirit of God is working in many lives here and this is something, guys, that we can do.  As God looks at this hub, he is saying, “Fellowship Church, we can do this.  No doubt about it.”  We have got to do it for the glory of God because God is blessing so much.

You know, it’s interesting from a speaker’s perspective, I talk about certain subjects and people really get freaked out; yet, you can talk about sex, marriage, relationships, and people are pretty cool with it.  But if you talk about money, it’s so personal.  That’s why Jesus talked about it so much.  We all struggle with it, don’t we?  We make it.  We think, “It’s mine.”  And God says it is not.  It’s a reflection, a litmus test, of where we are.

Did you guys check out that storm last night?  Was that unbelievable?  How many of you guys lost power last night?  I knew something was going to happen because I killed a monster snake at our house yesterday.  I don’t know why I told you that.  I thought it was a water moccasin.  I hit him with a hoe.  He was right by the kids.  After I killed it, the dogs grabbed it and started shaking it.  It’s like we live in the Wild Kingdom out there.

If you are through with this, and most everyone should fill this out, but not everyone.  If you are through, fold it, of course; send it back the way you got it.  Your row captain will hold onto these, and our ushers will come by and they will collect them.  If you are still working on it, you can hold it and throw it into the information desk as you exit.

I am so thrilled about what God is doing here.  I am so thrilled about this Creative Communications Complex.  It’s all about decisions, man.  It’s all about decisions, woman.  A lot of us, when we walk into that brand new facility on June 15th and 16th, a lot of us are going to go, “Yeah, God,” because we gave to make it happen.  We will see our kids come to Christ there.  Maybe we will see our children get married there.  We’ll see someone get baptized there.  We will go, “Yeah, God, I had a part in that.  I gave for that.”

Yet, some of you—I hate to say this but I know—some of you will walk in and see your kids get saved there, someone you know get baptized there, see a family member get married there, but in your heart of hearts, you sat the bench.  That hurts my heart and more than that, it hurts the heart of God.  So, don’t let that be you.  I don’t want to keep you from the blessing.  I don’t want to keep you from what God has for your life.

Again, if you are visiting, I think you picked a great time to show up at Fellowship Church because you are seeing how important you are to us.  We are giving because of you and for all the people you are going to invite who are not here yet.

We are getting ready for my favorite part of the message in a couple of seconds.  I can’t wait for this.  This is going to be something that I just love to show you.  We have got to wait.

The great thing about God’s economy, too, is everybody is equal.  You see, if someone makes like $25,000 a year and you give $2,500 to Fellowship Church, that’s a huge gift, huge.  But if you make a million a year and give $100,000, get that weak stuff out of here.  That’s not a gift.  That’s peanuts.  That’s what God says.  It’s not equal gifts, but equal sacrifice.

The Coach has us in the huddle.  The Coach gives us the game-winning strategy.  He says, “I will build my church.”  That’s what He is about.  He looks at you, and He looks at me, and He throws the ball to us and tells us this, “If we do life God’s way, then life and this Creative Communications Complex will be a slam dunk.”

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God Made Decade: Part 2 – U2 (Transcript): Transcript

A GOD-MADE DECADE – U2

FEBRUARY 27, 2000

ED YOUNG

Each and every week we are literally bombarded with comments, calls, and letters from people who talk about life change and describe to us what God has done in their lives through Fellowship.  I wish I had the time to stand up here and go through each and every one, but obviously we can’t do that.  Last week was the first part of a two-week series called “A God-Made Decade.”  Ten years ago, a small band of believers began Fellowship.  It has been truly amazing to see what God has done over the years.  Last week I talked about the past and the future.  This week I want to talk about the present.

Our membership office told me several days ago that we have had some 3,000 new people integrate into the life of Fellowship over the last year.  Three thousand!  That is a big number; but behind the numbers are people, families, and individuals with stories.  When you talk about Fellowship Church, you have got to say, “It’s a God thing,” but it is also about you, too.  So we have called this session “U2” because we are going to hear from you, too.  We have picked eight people, a kind of cross section of the 3,000 who have come into Fellowship Church over the last year, and they are going to share their story with you in an interview-type format.

Let’s welcome Mike and Wendy Van Norden, Derric Bonnot, Eric Orson, April Hulen, Kevin Holt, and bringing up the rear, Mike and Carmen Studer.  Great to have you all.  Welcome.  Welcome.  Have a seat.  I like this up here.  Leather sofas.  Great.

I want to start with the Van Nordens.  I love that last name.  It sounds like Van Halen.  Mike and Wendy, I know you guys were recently married.  Tell us a little about your life stories and what God has done.

MIKE:  About a year and a half ago we were invited by Wendy’s brother, Jeff, to come to the church.  (I had been out of church for about ten years.)  To be honest, I wasn’t real enthused about it.  He said, “Come hear this guy, he is like the David Letterman of ministry.  You ought to go.”  So we decided to come.  It was a Saturday night.  We were enamored by your presentation and your stage antics.  The message really hit home—what you were talking about.  We decided to come regularly.  We were engaged to be married at that point.

There is something I should interject here.  We were living together outside of marriage and doing everything that comes with living together.  Being fairly well grounded in Biblical scripture, I knew it was wrong.  Wendy knew it was wrong.   But we were living the way of the world.  Everyone seems to think that is okay and we were just going along with what everyone else did.

We became a little bit more involved in the church.  We needed a pastor.  Someone had recommended Troy Page, the singles pastor here.  We met with Troy.

ED:  So he was actually going to do the wedding for you.

MIKE:  Yes.  We went to premarital counseling.  On the first visit, one of the questions was, “Have you accepted Christ into your heart?”  Well, I had at age twelve at Vacation Bible School, but I had not been living the life.

Wendy had not.  She felt she was a Christian just by being a good person; but as time went on, she realized that she was missing something in her life.  That very night she accepted Christ into her heart, and Troy prayed the sinner’s prayer with her.  It was wonderful.  It was very emotional.

ED:  Wendy, how were you feeling at that point?  Here you were engaged to Mike and just starting church, and then you made that commitment.

WENDY:  I was excited when it happened, but before it happened, I always thought that if I believed in God and what the Bible says and go to church, then I am into heaven.  But Troy was trying to get the history of us, which was important to him.  If he was going to marry us, he wanted to make sure that he was doing the right thing.  He wanted to know at what point in our lives we had made that decision.  And I couldn’t tell him.

It broke my heart because I thought I was a Christian because I believed I was a Christian.  Then I realized that was not how it worked and that I had to make that step and say that prayer and ask God to come into my life.

ED:  I like to relate it to the marriage situation.  You said, “I do” several months ago when you got married, and then once you make that decision, it is a process.  The same is true in the Christian life.  Tell me, from that point, what did you guys actually do as far as the living together thing went?

MIKE:  On the second visit, Troy popped the big question.  Are you living together?  We nodded in the affirmative knowing what the ramifications were.  At that point he said that if we wanted him to be our pastor, we knew what we had to do.  So to make a long story short, Wendy packed her bags and left that very night.  You know, emotionally it was hard, but we knew we were doing what was right in God’s eyes.

ED:  I know there might be a lot of people here who are hearing this and might be involved sexually with the person they are going to marry.  I would just encourage you, looking at the lives of Mike and Wendy and what God has done, to separate and abstain until marriage.

God is pro sex.  He invented it, and He does not say “No,” He says, “Wait.”  Elaborate on that a bit, and tell us how being obedient that way helped your relationship.

MIKE:  Our relationship is phenomenal.  Just today we were sitting in the bedroom and Wendy said, “Isn’t it amazing how these last few weeks have been perfect.”  Now that is not to say it always is perfect, because it’s not.  But everything about the relationship, the emotional, the physical, the spiritual, everything is there.

It is an incredible feeling to know that you have God in your life.  The people we are around, the people in the church, in our home team, show us the disparity between people who are nonbelievers and people who are believers.  Believers have confidence and faith, and being around those kinds of people is incredible.

ED:  Mike, tell me about your home team.

Home teams, folks, are small groups of people who meet together regularly in homes and apartments across the Metroplex.  What has that done in your life?

WENDY:  It has helped me out a lot since there is a lot in the Bible that I don’t know.  I knew that once I made that step I would have a lot of studying and catching up to do—a lot to learn.  We have started going through a booklet each meeting, and we are held accountable for the studies.  Everybody has done the studies, and we talk about it.  And if you haven’t done the studies, you are going to feel lost.  But it helps you out.  Those people in our home team are holding us accountable for what we should be doing in our walk.

ED:  Mike and I work out in the same gym.  You can tell Mike has worked out more than I have.  I know you were telling me about the surgery that Wendy had and how your home team stepped in.

MIKE:  We were sitting there one day and heard a knock on the door.  It was Susan Harris from our home team, and she had made us soup.  The next day we had a casserole.  It is amazing that from some people we have know for a long time, we got not even a phone call, but yet people we have known just a few months are bringing over food and calling.  These are good Christian people who truly care about other people.  There is no facade; they truly care.

ED:  Sometimes people say that they can’t go to a home team because they don’t know enough about the Bible.  What would you say to that?

MIKE:  I would say that I didn’t know much either to be quite honest.  I was lost.

ED:  But no one asked you to recite Romans 3 from memory.  OK.

WENDY:  We all need to learn.

ED:  In our home team that Lisa and I lead, there are varying degrees of people.  Some have been Christians for a long, long time—like ourselves.  Others have just made the decision.  One, in fact, is not a believer yet.

MIKE:  I would say, if anyone out there is not in a home team, please get in one.  It has changed our lives.  We know we have true friends.  If something happens, we have some folks that we can go to and talk with who genuinely care.

ED:  Well, Mike and Wendy, thanks.  Let me move it over to this ninth-grader from Coppell—Derric.  I want to call you Derric “Bono” because I like that group, U2.  Can you believe we have someone from ninth grade up here talking?  I am impressed.  Tell me a little bit about your spiritual pilgrimage.

DERRIC:  I accepted Christ at about age 11.  I took everything, basically, in vain.  I didn’t pay attention to anything that I should start paying attention to.  We were asked to attend Fellowship because my brother’s friends attended here.  We came and my whole family was hooked except for me.  I didn’t like this place.  I couldn’t believe this could be church.

We started attending weekly, and we haven’t missed a service since.  I was wondering how I was actually able to stay awake during the message.  For my whole life, I was always falling asleep because the pastor made no sense to me.  When we started coming here, everything you said just clicked.  Everything in the youth ministry, it all just clicked.  My mom wanted to get me in the youth program.  She talked to Paris Wallace, the junior high pastor.  They asked me if I wanted to play with the band since I play the guitar.  I started playing.

ED:  Derric, let me stop you for a second.  What you are referring to would be the Wednesday night gig that we do for our junior high and high school students.  We have some 600 come here each Wednesday for a time of music, worship, and a time of teaching.  Here is a ninth-grader who obviously has a gift with the guitar and singing, and he is using it within the context of a Biblically-functioning community, which is thrilling.

DERRIC:  I just kept going.  They started a program called the “Dad’s Ring,” which is a reminder to stay sexually pure.  I got that, and wanted everybody to know that I was not going to slip and have sex before I got married.  I got baptized in March.  Things were starting to go good for me.

I had always been afraid of baptism.  I wanted to take the step, but I was afraid of everybody seeing me.  So finally, I knew I had to take that step and show that Christ was important to me in my life.  I got baptized.  Then my friends started talking about Beach Retreat, which is a camp held during the summer.

ED:  For those of you who don’t know, we carve out two weeks of every summer and take who knows how many Greyhound busloads of students and workers.  I go also and lead during the nightly sessions.  In the morning sessions, we have our youth leaders.  It is just a wonderful time of bonding with the young people for me.  I have learned so much from them.  So that is what he is talking about when he mentions “Beach Retreat.”

DERRIC:  We got there.  I had expected to go just for social reasons.  I was going to have fun with my friends.  But that week changed my life.  That week opened up my eyes, and I never felt so close to God.  I came home and my parents immediately noticed the change.  But as weeks went by, I started to slip and get back into my bad habits.  I had been asked to come back in and play with the band for senior high.  I started playing weekly, and that was a real fun experience.  Then I was asked to come on full-time as the junior high music director.

I was attending every weekend and going to Wild Side and to The Mix.   Lives were beginning to open up, and I was beginning to see what my priorities needed to be.  I became real stable with God.

This winter was the Winter Retreat.  I went.  Pace, our senior high pastor, gave a message on dating.  That was my hardest struggle.  Dating and lust.  I decided I needed to give it up to God.  Now I am living a great life under the eyes of God.  It is really cool.  My friends come up to me for guidance because they know I am really stable in my walk with Christ.

When I came here I couldn’t believe this was a church.  Now, that church which I didn’t like at first has been one of the biggest life changes in my life.

ED:  Well, Derric, we appreciate you standing up and what God is doing.  We look forward to seeing great things from you.

Derric was speaking of dating.  I am starting a brand new series “Finding the Ulti-mate.”  I want to talk to Eric right here.  Eric Orson recently joined our church.  He is a great Christian guy and probably the most eligible bachelor at Fellowship.  I wouldn’t want to embarrass anybody or anything.  But, in fact, we thought about sending Eric on a date next weekend, if anyone would like to go out with him.  You could have Owen Goff chaperone.  Eric, I am kidding you.

Tell us a little bit about your life.  I love this guy’s voice.  Doesn’t he have a great voice?  Unbelievable.

ERIC:  I was raised in a pretty good Christian family, a great loving Christian family.  I became a Christian when I was about 14 years old.  I went to Baylor University, and graduated from there.  I came to Dallas to work about four or five years ago.  I had been attending church.

In Dallas, I started to get plugged in and ran into some good churches, but there was always something kind of missing for me.  My family, along with being a Christian family, was also extremely musical.  I had been singing all my life, so music was a big part of my worship within the church.  Some of the churches that I had been attending didn’t quite click.

A friend of mine—luckily, by the grace of God—brought me out here one time.  I live over in Addison, so it is kind of a long trek for me.  I thought I would never attend a church so far away regularly.  I was absolutely blown away.  It clicked for me.  It was an amazing experience.  The music team was just perfect.  It was right down my alley, and I knew that right off the bat.  I wanted to audition and get involved just as soon as possible.  At that point in my life, I really wanted to plug in a worship atmosphere.

ED:  Eric, to sing here, I believe some people might think that you have a great voice and you just had to come up here and start singing.  But it is not that easy.  We take anyone who is in a public format very, very seriously as far as talking to them about their relationship with Christ, their lifestyle, and some of their priorities.  So there are phases that you have to go through to actually walk on stage as part of our musical team or our drama team.

ERIC:  Right.  When I got so turned on to the music team, I just went out to the information booth and asked how I could get more information on it.  I signed up.  I was called, and an audition was set up.  The audition was a great change for me.  Coming from where I came from, I had never really served a lot in a church.  That was the difference for me here.  I am really plugged into something, using something that I love to do.

So I started serving here.  It changed everything for me.  I think that God blesses when we are serving.  Jesus Christ led a life of servitude.  If we copy that, we are blessed.  For me, it gave me a wonderful place to be and a type of ministry.  We all individually have a ministry, whether it is doing something in the church or in the world.  We are always an example.  I was just lucky to be able to plug in here and do something I love to do.

ED:  The Bible says, too, that the church is the body of Christ.  It says that every part of the body is important.  What if the finger said to the nose, “I want to be a nose,” and the nose said that it wanted to be a finger?  You would run into problems.   It doesn’t matter if you are up here singing great songs or if you are over in the Peaceful Kingdom helping children or if you are coaching a children’s basketball game or on the Beach Retreat mentoring junior high boys.  Whatever it is that you do for the glory of God, it is all important.

And speaking of using gifts in our church, I want to get over to April.  April I know that you got involved in Fellowship Church because of a program that is very near and dear to my heart—sports.  Now how in the world could someone like yourself, a single lady, get involved in Fellowship Church because of sports?

APRIL:  Well, I enjoy volleyball.  I played with a company team out at Lone Star Country Club which is where the church has been playing.  One night, it was kind of bad weather and half of my team did not show up.  So I had myself and one other girl to play a six-man team.  (You can’t have other people who play in the same league sub in for you.)  One of the referees said there was a church league and to ask one of them.  I went over.  Barry Ford, who is the Sports Pastor, was one of the ones playing.  He and a couple of the other guys came and played.  I don’t even remember if we won or lost.  It doesn’t even matter at this point.

After we played, we got to talking.  Barry said, “Why don’t you come to check out the church.”  I thought, “OK, whatever.”  During the week, I thought about it and thought about it and decided that I should just go.  I went and Barry saw me and said, “Hey, we are having a golf tournament today.  Want to come help out?”

ED:  This was the first time you ever attended?

APRIL:  I said I had never been on a golf course, but OK.  I went and it turned into a 12-hour day.  Then we went to play flag football, too.  One of the teams was short a player, so I played flag football that day, too.  And then back to golf.

Ever since then, I have come every week.  It has completely changed my life.  I had faith in God before, but didn’t think I needed church.  Being part of the sport’s ministry has allowed me to meet a lot of other people and to bring people in.  I have a best friend who I have known since second grade.  She went to a Catholic church.  I invited her.  She came and all the messages just planted seeds in her life, so she began asking me questions.  It really opened doors for me to talk to her about Christ.

It was kind of hard because she knew me before I was a Christian, and it is hard to come back and say, “I have changed.”  It is hard to know what to say to reach them.  So all of your messages reached her.  She moved back to Dallas from Lubbock in August and started attending regularly.  Shortly after that, you did the Las Vegas sermon.

ED:  That is a message we did when we took our camera crew to Las Vegas, and we asked people on the streets of Las Vegas how to get into heaven.  Every single person we talked to had no idea.

APRIL:  We were sitting right over there.  There was a couple sitting next to us who we did not know.  It was an amazing service, and the message was great.  It scared her.

Through the friends I had made and the athletics and her attending sports functions with me, she had started to wonder and question.  You asked for everybody to bow their heads and for those who wanted to accept Christ to raise their hand.  You said no one else would look, but I looked to see if she did because I wanted to know.  And she did.

I couldn’t hold back the emotion because I was able to help her in that process.  It was the biggest decision in her life.  You called everybody forward, and she got up and went.  That was very unlike her.  She would never get up and go somewhere by herself.  She is really shy.  After she walked up, the man of the couple sitting next to me said he had been praying for her.  He added that his wife had come from a Catholic background, too, and had recently been saved and baptized.  Cathy became a member of the church and got baptized right away.

ED:  Is she here now?  Cathy, where are you?  Would you mind standing?  Cathy, I want you to stand for just one second.  She is into the kingdom because of April, and that is so thrilling.  And April is because of Barry.

Don’t you see how God has used this supernatural dynamo effect, if you will, for people to get into the Kingdom?  That is what it is all about, to see people know Christ personally and discover the implications of following Him.  Thanks, April

Let’s talk to you, Kevin.  Kevin has a story.  Tell me about your pilgrimage.

KEVIN:  I had never been to a church before.  I had never known God or Christ personally.  I had a pretty troubled childhood, like most people these days.  My parents were divorced when I was young.  I struggled a lot with that.  I moved back and forth and never felt at home anywhere.  I started using drugs when I was fifteen.  I dropped out of high school.  I was going nowhere in life.

Last year, in May, I came to visit my Mom here in Texas and visited the church.  You were in Israel and Randy Draper was speaking.  The message really touched me.  I asked my Mom for a Bible.  I went back to Arizona, and that was about as far as that went.  There was no life change.

In July, I was pulled over with a DUI.  I spent a couple of nights in the Tulsa County jail.  I called my Mom, and she bailed me out.  She made me promise to come to Dallas and live with her until it was resolved.  I visited the church one Sunday, and I have been here ever since.  It grabbed hold of me.

ED:  Tell me, how did you actually come to the point where you made your faith decision?  Tell me how that happened.

KEVIN:  When I first came back to Texas, I got involved with some old friends that I had here—doing drugs and stuff.  God was telling me that I didn’t need to be doing that.  I had to drop my friends.  I pretty much made a decision to start my life over.  With the Home Team and Connection Class and your sermons, I learned about Christ.  I invited him into my heart.  I was baptized last October.  Since then I have been growing in my walk.

ED:  You said something very important.  Friends have a huge pull in all of our lives.  The Bible says that we should have friends who don’t know Christ but there are many times in a person’s life, like in yours, where you sometimes have to totally pull away because temptation is too strong.  That is until you meet Christ and know Him and He becomes fully formed, and then you can go back and bring those people in and minister to those people and help them.  So now you are a leader or a co-leader in a Home Team.

KEVIN:  I am a co-leader/apprentice in the under-25 Hurst Home Team.  I think this ministry to those under 25 is going to boom.

ED:  You know something, too.  I know your Mom, Deb.  Talk about the powerful prayers of a mom who sought God for years and years.  Look at the result of her prayers.  Sometimes we feel that God cannot do something in a certain situation or dilemma.  Is Deb here?  Will you stand?  Deb, also, is very involved in the life of our church.

KEVIN:  I don’t know what I would do without her.

ED:  There is nothing like the prayers of a mom.  We appreciate you coming up here and sharing your life with us.  We will now talk to an old married couple with kids—Mike and Carmen Studer.  Mike I want you to share about your whole process of meeting Christ and how that actually occurred.

MIKE:  Neither one of us had a real stellar spiritual background, so you could classify us as the seekers/searchers.  Especially when we started having a family, we were looking at what kind of framework we wanted to raise our children in.  We were talking to friends who were finding their spirituality.

We lived next door to the Fearings, who are an extraordinary family.  We would see them pile into their suburban every weekend and go to the church.  We decided that we needed to start, so we attended several churches.  A friend of mine said we should come witness this show.  So we came.

ED:  You were with us before we moved into this place.  Carmen, how many times would you say you came that first year?

CARMEN:  Perhaps twelve times.  It was mostly the last two months that you were at MacArthur, we were there just about every week.

ED:  Tell me how, Mike, in your life personally, did the lights turn on.  And how did you come to a point where you moved from being a seeker, the tire-kicker, into being a Christ-follower, the buyer.  How did that happen?

MIKE:  Gosh, Ed, it took awhile.  I kind of equate it to an empty glass.  I moved very slowly into this.  I didn’t have a revelation.  I didn’t fall to my knees.  I was struck a few times, but it was not by lightning.  I just started thinking it through.  We started attending regularly.  That was when we started meeting a lot of outstanding and astonishing people.  And you are who you hang with.  We started talking and having a lot of interaction, and the glass started building up.

ED:  I would say, too, that there are a lot of people hearing your story who find that it resonates with them.  We have hundreds every weekend who are doing the glass thing.  They are just kind of filling up with information, checking it out.  So go ahead.

MIKE:  This is the real deal.  It did survive the test of time.  A little slice of heaven is when your 7- and 3-year-olds stop dinner to say grace.  Oops.  We are in the toddler stage, and we were apparently acting like one.  So when they had to stop, now we knew that they were getting impacted by this operation here.

ED:  (To Carmen) How would you describe your pilgrimage?

CARMEN:  Yeah, we are a little bit different.  He has been a little slower.  I have some very good friends who I would say are further along in their walk who helped me along.  I got my first Bible for a birthday present when I was 32.  That was the beginning of my journey.  I resonated a little bit quicker with you and took it into my heart.  He is there, and I love Jesus, and I am so thankful to be a part of all of this.

ED:  You told me earlier when we were talking that you had actually made this step when we were still over in MacArthur High School.  Then, Mike, tell us when you actually stepped over the line.

MIKE:  About the last five yards happened since October of last year.  We recently joined in the January new member’s class.  Just speaking for me for a second, that was when it was time for me to invite Christ into my life.  She is right.  I was a little slower.  But that was my style, to take that particular amount of time.

ED:  Everybody has different styles, and we want to always be sensitive to people at different points along the path to Christ.  Becoming a Christian is an event, but it is also a process.  One needs to ask some questions, do some seeking, and then you come to a point when you make that faith decision.  It is not an intellectual thing.  You don’t check your intellect at the door to become a Christian.  You need to figure out the whole deal, the program, and then once you make the decision, that’s it.  Then you discover, like in a marriage, the implications of following Christ.

Talk to me, too, how your friends have helped you in your new found faith.  I am sure folks who come to our church wonder how you meet people, etc.

CARMEN:  Well, we quite often have our date night after church on Saturday evening, and a lot of times, it will be that we go out with the Fearings or the Brewers or somebody like that.  We just enjoy the people that we are around so much.  They know where we are coming from, and they can help us along if we have questions.

MIKE:  It is so easy to meet people here.  All you have to do is reach your hand out and introduce yourself and chat.  It is great.  There is really and truly a great group of folks here.  In fact, it is inspirational when you see the volunteerism that happens here.

ED:  Mike, tell us, too, about your other involvement.  What are you guys involved in?  I know you have mentioned to me the importance of your children and the future of our church.

MIKE:  It is amazing when you pick your children up after children’s church and see the excitement level they have.  It is very important for us that we raise them biblically through this program here.  The people that they are meeting means that they are making lifelong friends here.  So it is very important that we support Fellowship Church in all the ways that we can.  This is not a theory about a life change.  We can talk about it in our family, how we have changed from seekers to finders.  This is happening with us.  This is a worthwhile place in which to spend your time and resources.

ED:  I have talked so many times to people about how there is no better place to invest your time, your talents, and even your finances than a local church.  It is the best investment going.

I want to thank all of you.  This has been a special time for me to sit back and to see what God has done.  You know, Fellowship Church is a deal about changed lives.  We serve a great God, and God has done great things.  He is doing great things.  The next decade, I truly believe, is going to be even more exciting than the last.

Listen to the Music Vol. 2: Part 2 – Every Breath You Take: Transcript

LISTEN TO THE MUSIC VOL. II SERMON SERIES

EVERY BREATH YOU TAKE

ED YOUNG

SEPTEMBER 19, 1999

What if I told you that throughout the last week you have been under constant surveillance?  That would be a pretty sobering thought, wouldn’t it, to know that every thought process, every word spoken, every action taken was burned into the memory of film?  And then what if I told you that our Media Department had a collection of all of the tapes and that today we would randomly show several of the tapes.  I am referring to the highlights and the lowlights of some lives represented here.  Would anyone want to sign up for that?  Any volunteers?

If you are like me you are saying that you would not even entertain that thought.  Well, think again, because every breath we take, every move we make, every bond we break, God is watching.  The Bible says that God is everywhere.  He is not limited by time or space.  There is nowhere in the universe we can go where He is not.  This is known as the omnipresence of God, omni meaning all and presence referring to locality.  As you begin to get this picture, that God knows everything, sees everything and is in every location you may be getting a little uncomfortable.  Whoa.  God is everywhere.

A lot of people don’t like a God who is like that.  They like a creator that they can cap, a deity they can confine to a certain location or venue.  They are more comfortable that way because a God like that who is confined and defined does not invade their lifestyle.  He wouldn’t want to tweak their behavior.  So throughout the ages people have come up with a lot of biblical offshoots, things that are not really from the scripture.  Now some people have taken this ball and run and they have left the Bible behind.

Pantheism is very popular these days.  Pantheism, in its simplest form, says everything is a part of God.  This plant is a part of God.  The trunk is a part of God.  This dirt is a part of God.  Thus, pantheists say, I am a part of God.  Since I am a part of God, I can’t sin and be separate from Him.  God is comfortable that way, defined to nature.  And whenever you hear someone overly emphasize nature in relation to God: warning, warning, warning, alien approaching.  Now if you are under 30, you did not get that reference.  It is just a joke for those of us who are over 30.  After the service you can question someone who you saw laughing and they could explain it to you.

Someone who is into pantheism is Ophrah Winphrey.   Also, Anthony Robbins.  Those are two popular personalities these days.  God is comfortable when confined and defined by nature. Pantheism.

We talked about pantheism, let’s talk about another offshoot, deism.  Deism says that we have a detached deity.  It says that God is powerful and we have seen His power.  He got the universe going.  He got the earth spinning in its axis.  But now He doesn’t really concern Himself in the day to day activities in your life and mine.  He is off doing other things.  That is deism.  God doesn’t care about my marriage or my life.

Deism is sort of like the coach who rolls the ball on the court, and says, “OK, guys or girls, just go out there and play.  I don’t care about any offense or defense, I am going to eat popcorn and drink soda in the stands.  Go ahead and just play.  That is deism.

Well the Bible comes along and the Bible says that God is sovereign.  God is everywhere.  We have an every breath we take, every move we make, every vow we break kind of God.  We have a God who is watching, a God who is involved, a God who is omnipresent.  This is a towering topic for several groups that are represented here.  First of all, it is huge for those of us who have a personal relationship with Christ.  If you are a believer, if you are a part of God’s family, you have to understand this attribute of God, this facet of Him.  It is crucial in your development and maturity as you grow and walk and think with the Savior.

This topic is towering for another group.  We have three services every weekend and we have a number of people here who are questioning Christianity.  You are probing, investigating, seeking, kicking tires and wondering about the whole deal.  You must understand who is it you are seeking and probing for, who it is you are rebelling against.  It is the omnipresent God.

Psalm 139.  “Oh, Lord you have searched me and know me.  You know when I sit and when I rise.  You perceive my thoughts from afar.  You discern my going out and my lying down.  You are familiar with all of my ways.  Before a word is on my tongue, you know it completely, Oh, Lord.  Where can I go from your spirit?  Where can I flee from your presence? If I go to the heavens, you are there.  If I make my bed in the depths, you are there.  Even the darkness will not be dark to you.  The night will shine like the day for darkness is as light to you.”

What a powerful statement about the omnipresence of God.  Because I have seminary training and done some graduate work, it is sort of tempting to go through the entire Bible and give you verse, after verse and arm you with this information.  It is tempting to download all of this stuff into your brain so you can leave this place saying that you know Psalm 139, Jeremiah 24, etc. etc.  The Bible, though, was not written for us just to download data.  The Bible was written to help us change our direction, to help with the transformation thing, to affect our daily living.  We are not to worship the Bible, we are to let its words infiltrate our lives and change us, empowered by the Holy Spirit.

What I want to do is spend a hunk of this time answering one basic question.  How can the omnipresence of God affect me in the present day?  How?  How?  How?  First of all, when I understand and own the fact that God is an omnipresent God, it will help in my accountability.  You hear this word, accountability, being tossed back and forth these days.  To know that God is watching, to know that you can’t elude Him or fake Him out or pull one over on Him, is incredible.  We have built in accountability, if we know Christ personally.

I talked about Moses last weekend.  Let me tell you some more about him.  Moses grew up in a special set of circumstances.  As an Israeli infant he was adopted into Egyptian royalty.  While he was in Egyptian royalty attending the best private schools, eating the best foods, playing on the best soccer teams, his people, the Israelites, were in bondage.  Note, that statement regarding the best soccer teams was a joke!  The Egyptians were dominant over them.  As a young man, Moses decided to walk outside and see how his people were being treated.  The Bible says that he saw an Egyptian taking advantage of one of his brethren and I will let Exodus 2:12 explain the rest.  “Glancing this way and that and seeing no one, he killed the Egyptian and hid him in the sand.”  Moses forgot about the omnipresence of God.

Another Old Testament figure is Jonah.  He was tapped on the shoulder by God and asked to make a 500-mile trek to the city of Nineveh.  He was told to hold a crusade there and preach and communicate repentance.  God told Jonah that He was going to destroy the city of Nineveh but He wanted to give them a change to change.  What do you think God’s man did?  What do you think Jonah did?  He glanced this way and that, did a Biblical 180 and took, instead, a Mediterranean cruise.  That’s right.  On the cruise ship he was catching rays of rebellion against the Lord that he supposedly loved.  Well, even back then they were having problems on cruise ships.  A big storm came up.  The ship owners tossed Jonah into the water and he eventually ended up in the belly of a fish.  While in the fish and as those digestive juices were eating away at his skin, he had an intense prayer session with God.  Jonah learned something and I have learned it too.  When you try to run away from God, you run right into Him, don’t you?  Jonah forgot about the omnipresence of God.  He thought that God had a geographical location but then He ran right into the omnipresence of God.

I think about David, the man who penned Psalm 139, the text I read earlier.  He is referred to in the Bible as a man after God’s own heart.  At the peak and pinnacle of David’s career, rather than being in the battlefield where he should have been, he was in the palace.  He saw the first Biblical bathing beauty, Bathsheba.  He looked at her.  He lusted after her.  He called for her, closed the palace door and his bedroom door and committed adultery.  David forgot about the omnipresence of God.

Ladies and Gentlemen, there is no such thing as a clandestine meeting.  There is no such thing as secured phone lines or private conversations.  God knows it all.  God hears it all.  God is everywhere.  There is no such thing as a closed car door, office door, locker room door, hotel room door or bedroom door.  God is everywhere and He is watching.

There is a positive aspect to this, a real positive aspect.  As I am walking with the Lord, as I realize His omnipresence, it should motivate me to worship Him in everything I do.  There is no such thing as me sloughing off when the boss is not watching.  God is there, so if I have that temptation, I should think whoa, I am working in front of Jesus.  I am going to work like I am working for Him because, ultimately, I am.  I can rip this person apart.  No one will know.  No one will hear this gossip.  Whoa.  The omnipresence of God.  And that should motivate us to encourage others, to build others up.  So when I discover who is watching, man, talk about worship, man, talk about a different lifestyle!

This past Monday night we invited the first grade teacher of my seven year old over for dinner.  She is a great lady and a part of this church.  After dinner, EJ, my son, dragged me out of the house onto the driveway with a basketball under his arm.  He said, “Hey, let’s play basketball.”  Then he called for his teacher.  And every single dribble, every single shot he would say, “Did you see that?  Did you see that?  Did you see that?”  His teacher would respond, “Yes, EJ, that is great.”  He ran to the garage, dragged out the baseball and baseball bat.  He gave the baseball to me.  Again, in front of the teacher, “Did you see that?  Did you see that?”  The sun began to set.  It was getting dark and he was strapping on the roller blades.  I had to tell him that the X Games were over.

What was going on here?  EJ was performing like he had never performed before because someone who mattered to him was watching.  Think who is watching.  Think who is checking you out and me out, 24 – 7.  Think.  This omnipresence helps in accountability, doesn’t it?

It also helps in my vulnerability.  That is the second area that I want to talk about.  We are all vulnerable to certain things.  We are all tempted in certain areas.  I have weaknesses that you don’t have.  You have weaknesses that I don’t have.  God is omnipresent.  He is there even when we are vulnerable, even when we are tempted.  I want to read a text that I talked about several weeks ago. I Corinthians 10:13.  “And God is faithful.  He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear…”  Isn’t that a comforting verse?  Isn’t that a word of confidence and assurance?  Isn’t that cool?  God is faithful.  He is not going to let you or me be tempted beyond what we can bear.  We can never say, “I just couldn’t resist.  I just had to partake.  I just had to do it.  I just had to fall.”  No, no, no.  God is faithful.

Let me do a quick sidebar.  Satan is not omnipresent.  He is not.  He can only be at one place at one time.  Some may be asking about all the havoc around the world.  Well, Satan has a realm of demonic forces who obey him and carry out his directives better than a lot of believers carry out God’s directives.  Verse 13 continues.  “…but when you are tempted….”  When you are tempted, not if.  When you are vulnerable, not if.  “…He will also provide a way out.”  He is going to block for you.  OK, here is some running room.  He will provide a way out “…so that you can stand up under it.”  Man, I love that.  He will always provide a way out.  Here is a hole, go for it.  I’ll get you out of here.  God is going to do that.  Most of us are stalled in the back field, though.

Well, how does God’s omnipresence play out in this temptation and vulnerability stuff?  Let’s move over to I Corinthians 6:19, Paul writing.  “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you…”  Remember, to become a Christian there has to be infiltration.  It is an internal thing.  You make a choice and Christ penetrates your life.  He places the person of the Holy Spirit there.  “…whom you have received from God.  You are not your own….”  And Paul here is referring to sexual sin.  Case in point, when David committed adultery with Bathsheba behind his closed bedroom doors, it was as if David was in the act of adultery in God’s throne room.  He brought God in on the deal.  When you mess up, when I mess up, God is right there.

Now you are not messing up God’s uniforms.  You are not making His deity get dirty.  Oh, no.  But you are not your own.  That is why we should come clean rapidly.  That is why when we do miss the mark and fail, we should say, “OK, God, I want to do a 180, I want to repent, I want to turn from my sin.  I want to confess what you already know.”  And when we confess our sins to God, God won’t say, “Oh, I didn’t realize that.  That is a new thing for me.”  He knows.  He knows.

Some of you might be thinking that I don’t know what you have done, what you are involved in right now.  You may think that you are so far away, but you are not.  You are not.  God is omnipresent.  He is equally present, don’t miss this now, but He is not equally resident.  If He is not resident in your life, you can make that choice right now.  All that you have got to do is a quick 180.  And it is not like a big 18-wheeler type U-turn.  It is wham, and God is there.  He is ready to restore you and to come into your life.  He is ready to pick you up and  give you a new direction and a new dynamic for living.

I am amazed.  God has seen all of my shams, all of my sins, all of my cover-ups, all of my rebellions.  He has seen yours, too.  He still loves me.  He still loves you.  We are still the apples of His eye.

So God’s omnipresence helps in my accountability and in my vulnerability.  It also helps in my stability.  A lot of people, especially in this culture, are tyrannized by fear, the fear of speaking in public, the fear of death, the fear of failure, the fear of living alone.  Fear.  A lot of us are freaked out.

Elisha, God’s prophet, was asleep one morning.    His assistant got up early and walked out on the porch and he saw something that really scared him.  He saw the Syrian army surrounding Elisha’s residence and believed that they would be overpowered and killed.  Elisha just bowed his head and said, “Lord, open his eyes that he can see they way You see.”  And suddenly the scales fell off for a second and this assistant saw the power and the presence of God enveloping Elisha’s residence and the Syrian army did not come in.

I have a good friend who is the point man for the Houston Police Department SWAT team.  He is 6’3” and weighs 215 pounds and bench presses 425 pounds.  He knows all the martial arts.  He is a trained marksman and so on.  Years ago he asked me to go riding with him one night through the streets of Houston to serve warrants on some real wackos, some crazy people.  I cannot tell you the places we went.  I still have nightmares based on that experience.  But in all the clubs that we frequented, all the places we went, I felt total confidence.  “You want some of me, man?  Don’t you look at me like that.  Hey, Jim, Jim, Jim.”  It felt good because he was with me.  And if we knew who is at our side, we wouldn’t have the fear that we do.  Stability also comes when we understand that God is present when we are broken, when we are messed up.  Psalm 34:18.  “The Lord is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”  God is close.

I talked to a lady several weeks ago who is definitely broken hearted.  But as I looked into her eyes, I could see and feel that she was living and resting in the omnipresence of God.  Have you seen all of the television reports, read all of the articles about the Wedgewood tragedy?  Those who are Christ followers are talking about the power and the presence of God.  Now I know some of you are asking, why.  “Ed, you are talking about the omnipresence of God.  Where was God Wednesday night at Wedgewood Baptist Church?  Where was God at Columbine High School?  Where was God in Conyers, Georgia?  Where was God 2,000 years ago when his only Son was bruised, battered and tortured for my sins?  Where was God?”  God was in Wedgewood Baptist Church.  God was in Columbine High School.  God was in Conyers, Georgia.  God was there when his only begotten child was abused and tortured for your shortcomings and mine.  God is everywhere.  He is ever present.  We can’t get away from Him.  He is not limited by time and space.  There isn’t a place where He is not.

Why, though, do things like this occur?  Let me tell you something.  Nowhere in the Bible are we promised safety in this life.  You will not find it in the Bible.  Contrary to the health and wealth TV evangelists, who are totally unbiblical and take scripture out of context in record numbers, we are not promised safety in this life.  We are promised safety in eternity.  In fact, the Bible says that it is God’s will that we suffer.  We are to go through tough times.  We are to have times when we feel the torture of life.

Think about history.  There have been so many bad things which have happened to good people.  We don’t understand everything.  We are finite.  God is infinite.  Yet we think in our humanity that God owes us some kind of explanation.  The creature has to have an explanation from the creator.  “Oh, God, why?”  Hey, God doesn’t owe me a thing.  He doesn’t owe you a thing.  Who am I, who are you to ask God why?  He is sovereign.  He is in control.  And He is there.

Let me share a couple of powerful verses with you.

II Corinthians 1:3-5.  “Praise be to God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of comfort, who comforts us in all of our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.  For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows.”  And then in I Corinthians 13:12, here is what Paul says regarding why.  “Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror.  Then we shall see face to face.  Now I know in part, then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.”  God does give us some information, some light.  But at the end of the day, we have to trust Him.  And I am here to tell you something, too.  When the church has been persecuted, it has always experienced its finest hour.  The church flourishes when people go after it.  And for those people who graduated from this life into eternity Wednesday night, for those who busted through that tissue-like veil that separates this life from eternity, do you think they want to come back?  We live in a sin-stained, rebellious planet and we are going to reap the consequences of our sinfulness and of our rebellion before God.  But if God gave us the answers and all the information, we would blow a fuse.  We couldn’t take it.

For example, how many of you have a toddler?  OK, your toddler sees a fork, picks it up, sees an electrical socket and is going to stick the fork in the socket.  What do you do?  “Junior.  Think about what you are going to do.  Let me share with you all the subtle nuances concerning electricity.  You see there are wires……”  No.  You would take the fork from junior and plug up the socket with a safety plug.  One day, as he matures, he will understand the deal about electricity.  Well, as we toddle before God and get ready to do something or don’t understand something, God might say “no” or “wait” or “here is a little bit of information.”  God knows in his sovereignty that one day in eternity we will understand.  We will see Him face to face.  We will get the whole deal, the total package.  But if He explained it all to us, like a little toddler, we couldn’t understand it.  We couldn’t get it.  So we have to trust Him.

God uses horrible things, hellish things, terrible things but also incredible things, phenomenal things and victorious things to all work together, to mesh together for good to all those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.  We still go through the grief, the pain and the questions.  But we have got to trust.  God is there.  He helps my accountability, my vulnerability and my stability.  That is the difference that Christ makes.

Does this mean that we don’t pray for safety, we don’t pray for security?  No.  We pray.  And I think that one day when we get to heaven we will look back and see how many times God has saved us, spared us and we will be blown away by it.

But I have got to go back to what I said earlier.  God is not equally resident but He is equally present.  If you can agree with that statement, and I think pretty much everyone can, that is good.  But some of you are agreeing with it but you know in the depth of your soul that God is not resident there.  Well, today we can change that deal.  I can lead you in a prayer.  You can pray along with me and God will come into your life.  All you have got to do is simply say, “Lord, I have been going my own way.  I understand that you are omnipresent.  I believe that you sent Christ to get bruised and battered, to die on the cross for all of my sins and shortcomings and rise again.  At this point in time I make that quick turn and I receive Christ.  I receive what He did for me.”   Then Christ becomes resident, placing the Holy Spirit inside your life.  Then you can understand the full implications of the accountability thing, the vulnerability thing and the stability thing.  You see, God relates differently to those persons inside His family as opposed to those who are outside His family.  And many here need to take and make that step.  The reason that we can rejoice in one way over the deaths that occurred Wednesday is because those who died are with Jesus.  But how about you?  We will have many exits from this life, cancer, heart attacks, plane crashes, old age.  Some may be murdered.  But it is important that you know where you are going.

We began this message time with a song by the police called “Every Breath You Take”.  During this series called LISTEN TO THE MUSIC VOLUME II, we start the service with a secular song and end the session with a Christian contemporary song that puts the period and the exclamation point behind what these people who don’t know Christ were trying to get at.  This next song is one of my favorites.  In fact it is by my most favorite group, DC Talk.  It is entitled, “Supernatural”.  When you hear the wordS, I pray that they become words not only of information but also of transformation as we get into the omnipresence of God.

Listen to the Music Vol. 2: Part 4 – Satisfaction: Transcript

LISTEN TO THE MUSIC VOL. II SERMON SERIES

SATISFACTION

OCTOBER 3, 1999

ED YOUNG

What would it be like to have it all?  Celebrity status.  Billions in the portfolio.  Unlimited power to wield and pleasure to experience.  A no-holds-barred existence.  “Nirvana,” you might say.  “Incredible,” you might say.  “Unbelievable,” you might say.  “That would be really living,” you might say.  Would it?  Would it?  In this session we are going to crawl into the cranium of a man who searched for satisfaction like we can never, ever search.  I am talking about Solomon.

Solomon arguably had more octane, more potential and more skill sets, and was as strong as anyone in scripture next to Christ.  Bill Gates couldn’t carry this guy’s wallet.  Donald Trump hasn’t seen the day he could build like him.  Denis Rodman couldn’t even swap bedroom stories with him.  Solomon lived on another planet.  He searched in areas that go beyond our wildest dreams and fantasies.  And I truly believe that God, our loving and transcendent God, allowed his autobiography to be recorded in the Old Testament.  He knew that when we daydream or think about what it would be like to have it all, celebrity status, billions in the portfolio, unlimited power to wield and pleasure to experience, God knew all we needed to do was to read the life of Solomon.  He knew we could find out what it would be like to own that, build that, sleep with that or have that.

You see, long before Mick Jagger ever pranced across the stage and did the satisfaction thing, Solomon was into this song thousands and thousands of years before that ever played out.  Today we are going to look at this guy.  We will watch what made him tick.  He took a 40-year free fall into the abyss of pleasure and rebellion against God.  And believe it or not, a lot of us have some similarities with the life Solomon led.  Some of us are searching in similar areas, maybe not to the degree and level that Solomon searched, but we are finding the same answers that he found.

So this message is going to be a preventive message for some.  Some right now may be searching for satisfaction and making a choice.  I think this message will help.  Others here are in the midst of a search.  Still others here might be involved in some areas already referred to and need help, need a wake up call.  Read the hard data to discover what the Bible says about life.  I have been praying over the last several days that this message would be one that brings about life change.

Let’s see what we can learn from Solomon.  Let’s see what we can learn from some of the mistakes that he made.  Solomon, at the peak of his career, at the pinnacle, made a bad mistake.  Ecclesiastes 2:1, Solomon speaking, “I thought in my heart, come now, I will test you with pleasure to find out what is good.”  I call Solomon, “Solo Man” because he did the solo thing.  And so often we ask accomplishments, plead with pleasure, require relationships to fill the void in our lives reserved only for God—something they cannot do.  Solomon hit a defining moment and he made a bad choice.  Solomon messed up.

What can we learn?  Discern defining moments.  That is what we can learn from him—discern defining moments.  You have those moments and so do I.  Defining moments can occur when you are considering marriage, a decision to relocate, a decision to change careers, or even where to attend church.  And defining moments hit us at a rapid fire pace.  The evil one always tips us off to defining moments.  Every time you feel temptation and the temperature is turned up, I can guarantee you, you are facing a defining moment.  Satan just lobs change up after change up at us during defining moments, curve ball after curve ball.  Too often we just swing for the fences.  He wants us to make one little rationalization.  He wants us to fumble one time, to make one fielding error.  Then we fall into that abyss of pleasure and rebellion like Solomon did.  Case and point would be I Kings 3:1—this is where Solomon began his free fall—“Solomon made an alliance with Pharaoh, King of Egypt, and married his daughter.  He brought her to the city of David until he finished building his palace and the temple of the Lord and the wall around Jerusalem.”

So often this rationalization thing starts with relationships.  It is all about relationships.  It is true when you are five, 25 or 55.  God commanded Solomon, actually all of His followers, not to associate with ungodly people.  Yet Solomon probably said, “Well, she is so good looking.  We need a good relationship with the nation of Egypt.  Surely I can just drop my guard this little bit.  After all, God, I am so talented, so incredible.  I can’t mess up here.”  He did.  He did.  He did.  This is the choice that led to Solomon’s destruction.  And sadly, Solomon’s life is a tragedy of what might have been, could have been.

In Matthew 4, Jesus faced a defining moment.  After He advertised His public ministry by being baptized, the Bible records that Christ was driven into the wilderness and tempted by Satan.  Satan is not stupid.  Satan doesn’t just start this all out offensive and say, “Here I am.  I am going to tempt you.”  He is sly.  He is the father of lies.  He wanted Jesus to drop His guard just a little bit.  He wanted Jesus to make one swing to the fences.  He knew if he got Him to sin, Christ would miss His purpose in life, which was the redemption of mankind.  Jesus discerned the defining moment.

You might be asking yourself how you can discern the defining moment, how you can work on it, learn from it.  You learn from this by reading the conclusion during the introduction.  How many people in here like to read?  Lift your hands.  I am a reader, man.  I love to read.  Every night before bed, I read.  Well, now and then—I’ll confess here—

when I am reading the first couple of pages of a book, like a John Grisham novel, I will sometimes turn to those last couple of pages and find out what happens.  It gives me confidence for reading the rest of the book.  Well, during defining moments, when we feel temptation, when we are just being introduced to the possibility of making a poor choice, read the conclusion.  Ask yourself, “Okay, if I swing at this pitch, what will happen to my marriage?  What will happen to my children?  What will happen to my career?  What will happen to my parents?  What will happen to my body?  What will happen to my relationship and fellowship with Christ?”  What will happen?  Read the conclusion.  Read Ecclesiastes.  Read the life of Solomon during the introduction.  It will save you boatloads of pain and anguish and animosity.  Discern defining moments.

There is something else we can learn during our search and we can pick this up from the life of Solomon.  We have got to beware of the numbing factor.  If we search and say to ourselves, “I can’t get no satisfaction, so I’ll try and try and try and try,” a numbing factor may set in.  We can get numbed out.  We can become so immersed in the search that it numbs us out to our necessity for God.  You say, “How in the world could someone as smart as Solomon burn up four decades searching for the meaning and purpose of life?”  Why didn’t Solomon just come clean and say, “OK God, I blew it.  I messed up.”  He didn’t because of the numbing factor.  He moved from one thing to another.  Oftentimes we are so busy and scheduled out, shaking and baking, that we don’t have time for introspection.  We don’t have time for solitude.  We don’t have time to really assess our lives before God.

Just sit back and I will read for a while.  This is not on the side screen, not on the view-a-verse, but I want you to listen to me as I read for you Solomon’s thoughts as he went into this search.  You won’t believe this.  I am reading out of Ecclesiastes 2, beginning with Verse 3.  Notice the personal pronouns.  Talk about meistic.  Whoa.

“I tried cheering myself with wine and embracing folly.”  Solomon had a bunch of slaves and their job description was simply to hike up into the mountains and bring Solomon back icicles to cool his cocktails.  “I wanted to see what was worthwhile for men to do under heaven during the few days of their lives.  I undertook great projects.  I built houses for myself…”  Solomon’s house, if it was built today, would cost over two hundred billion dollars.  It was 60 feet wider and 80 feet longer than the temple.  The precious stones in this puppy were over 20 feet tall.  The whole house was covered in gold.  We are not talking about a tract home here.  “…And planted vineyards.  I made gardens and parks and planted all kinds of fruit trees in them.  I made reservoirs to water groves of flourishing trees.”

I read this past week that Solomon had moats around his residence.  Some were 10 feet deep and 100 feet long.  They required sixteen thousand gallons of water a day, and featured exotic fish and wildlife.  “I bought male and female slaves and had other slaves that were born in my house.  I also owned more herds and flocks than anyone in Jerusalem before me.  I amassed silver and gold for myself and the treasures of kings and provinces.  I acquired men and women singers…”  Check this out.  Solomon had the best singers of the day wake him in the morning and put him to bed at night.  Wouldn’t that be cool?  “Honey, tonight let’s hear the Back Street Boys.”

This next line is going to kill you.  You won’t believe this one.  “…
And a harem as well, the delights of the heart of man.”
  He kind of just threw that in.  Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines.  Can you imagine his dealings with his in-laws?  That is all I wonder about when I read that.  In Verse 9 he concludes by saying—and it is the saddest line—“I became greater by far than anyone in Jerusalem before me.”  This is Solomon talking.

Do you find yourself on a search?  Do you find yourself seeking satisfaction?  Are you looking maybe for the ultimate in some of the areas that I just read to you?  Maybe wisdom.  Solomon memorized 3,000 proverbs and 1,005 songs.  People from all over the world came to sit under his teaching.  Is wisdom your deal?  Is it wine, drugs, alcohol, getting high?  Automobiles?  Employees?  Sex?  What is it?  Psalm 16:4 tells us what is going to happen as we continue our search away from God.  “The sorrows of those will increase who run after other gods.”  They will increase.  We will have a greater and greater desire because we are empty.

You see, we mess up here.  We really do.  And the church for too long has really messed up on this one.  The church has said, “Sin is not fun.  Rebellion against a holy God is not enjoyable.”  That is a joke.  Sin is fun.  If it wasn’t fun, I wouldn’t be tempted, nor would you.  But we have to understand something about sin.  Sin is fun, but it is temporary.  What happens when the buzz wears off, when the passion wanes?  What happens when the shine wears off of a new suit or a new car or a new home?  It is empty.  It is a fleeting thing.  If sin satisfied, we would just sin one time.  “Oh, Okay, I’ve sinned.”  And that would be it.  But it doesn’t.  Also—and listen to this one—not only is sin empty, but sin also has consequences.  It has consequences every single time.  Some of the time?  No, no, no.  Every single time.  And here is the kicker: It always messes us up.  The consequences are not always immediate but always inevitable.  They are not always immediate, but they are always inevitable.  And that trips us up almost every time, doesn’t it?

Solomon searched and searched.  He wasn’t having that much trouble.  He was kind of having a fun time.  But one day after four decades of searching, the inevitability and the consequences of sin hit and it bowled him over.  He looked back an angry and bitter man and asked himself what he had done.  He knew he had blown it, messed up.

You know what the great news about our great God is today?  I don’t care how far you are into the search, how you are looking for satisfaction, what you have been involved in, God can change your life today if you come clean.  You can tell God that you have been living this numbing lifestyle and that today, as a result of the message, you have decided to go His way.

I love coffee.  Yesterday morning I made my daily trek to Starbucks.  I have a big truck, a Ford F250, which is hard to park.  I pulled in next to a little Cherokee Chief.  When I open my big old heavy door, I just rocked that Cherokee Chief.  I put a door ding in it.  People were milling around inside Starbucks and I started asking who owned a Cherokee Chief.  I asked and asked and asked.  I went back out and looked at the door ding again.  I jumped in my truck, grabbed my briefcase and started to write a note.  I was going to leave my phone number and the whole deal.  A young lady walked up and said, “Sir, did you put a door ding in my car?”  I said, “Yes, I was writing you a note right now.”  She looked at her door and turned and said, “Don’t worry about it.  Have a great day.”  She got into her car and left.  I thought, wow, that is just like God.

Here we have all these door dings, all of these problems, all of these sins.  If we say, “God, I did it; I messed up.”  He will say, “I forgive you, My child.”  “It is OK, My son.”  “It is OK, My daughter.”  And then we can drive off and get on God’s track and live within His guardrails and do life His way and not Solomon’s way.  I have been praying strategically over the last several weeks as I prepared for this message that many here would tell God they wanted to do it His way.

Discern the defining moment.  Beware of the numbing factor.  There is something else we can learn.  Watch the wind sheer.  Watch for those wind sheers.  DFW has a Doppler Radar, which picks up wind sheers.  Wind sheers are bad news for pilots.  A plane flying high can hit a wind sheer and crash.  A lot of us feel like we are flying high, that everything is cool.  “I am doing the Solomon thing.  I can’t get no satisfaction; but let me tell you, honey, this satisfaction search is fun.”  One day, out of nowhere, you will hit a wind sheer and it is not going to be pretty.  I know too many people who have sat in these theater seats, who had a casual thing going with God, and hit wind sheer.  And it is an ugly sight.

“Ed, where did you get this wind sheer idea?  That is out to lunch.”  Wait a minute.  Ecclesiastes 2:11, Solomon talking, “When I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind…”—t

hat is wind sheer—“…nothing was gained under the sun.”  The wind sheer deal.

Do you have a radar in your life?  Do you have someone watching for your wind sheers?  Solomon didn’t.  He had no accountability.  And we have got to have accountability to grow and to be the kind of people God wants us to become.  You cannot walk with God in a deep way without accountability.  Deuteronomy 17 tells us that kings back then were supposed to write all the commandments and all of the laws in front of the priests on a scroll.  Solomon didn’t do it.  Oh, no, no, no.  He was a Solo Man.  He wasn’t going to do that.  Had he done that, though, I guarantee you, he could have had some accountability with one of the priests.

Remember David?  I have talked about David during this series.  He committed adultery, had Bathsheba’s husband killed.  Nathan, a man who loved David and was a trusted confidant, said, “David, you have sinned.  You have messed up.”  Hey, we need Nathan, don’t we?  I ask you, Christian, I ask you, believer, do you have accountability operative in your life?  Do you have someone in your life who loves you for who you are who will speak truth into your life?  See how Solomon’s life could have been different.

With accountability someone could have asked, “Hey, Solomon, aren’t 40,000 horse stables a little excessive?  Hey, Solomon, Isn’t covering your house with gold a little much?  Hey, Solomon, isn’t building a city just to house your livestock a little out there?  Hey, Solomon, why 700 wives, 300 concubines, when God has never honored polygamy, when God has said one man and one woman together forever?  What are you doing?”

This stuff is real to me because I have a couple of people in my life, trusted confidants, who can speak truth to me, who have helped me with this whole wind sheer watching deal.  And recently someone shared with me in a loving and upfront manner regarding a character flaw that they saw in my life.  When I heard their words, it hurt.  I would be lying to you if I said I just received it.  It hurt.  But I knew they were speaking the truth, because I knew how they felt about me and more importantly, God.  And you know what?  They were exactly right.  This is the rub.  This is the deal.  This is how we do life deeply.  We have to have wind sheer watchers.  No windshield wipers.  Wind sheer watchers.

We can learn something else after we discern defining moments, after we beware of the numbing factor, after we watch for the wind sheer.  If you are keeping score, it is number four.  We also need to leverage our time.  If we eat healthy and work out we will live 2.4 billion seconds or 683,200 hours.  That is all we have in this life.  Solomon, after burning through 40 years on his search, talked about leveraging time.  Let me draw your attention to Ecclesiastes 12:1.  “Remember your creator in the days of your youth.”  This word “remember” is not like, don’t forget.  The word “remember” here is to actively pursue, to be decisive.  It is to make your whole agenda in life to follow the Lord.  Remember your creator in the days of your youth.  There is nothing like someone at the pinnacle and peak of their lives giving it all to Christ.  And that is precisely why we spend so much money and put so many volunteers and staff into our children’s and student ministry.  These little ones have so much energy and they will develop into great guys and girls for God.  We want them to maximize and capture their strength and mentality and ability at a young age so that they can become difference makers in this sin-stained and darkened world.  That is why we do it.  We rejoice when anyone comes to Christ, but there is nothing like a young person coming to him.

I will never forget what happened nine years ago.  We started this church in an office complex with about 150 people.  After one of our first services, a man in his sixties with white hair walked up to me.  He was very well dressed, articulate.  Tears were streaming down his face and he said, “Ed, because of this church I invited Jesus Christ to come into my life.”  I said, “Good for you.  That is the best decision you will ever make.  That is why our church is here, to lead people to Christ.  But that is just the first half of the equation.  We need to mature you and grow you as a full court follower.”  So we got him involved in some discipleship.  He began to grow.  Five months later we were having lunch.  He looked at me and got choked up again.  “Ed, why did I wait so long to make this decision?  I should have done this 40 years ago.  I have wasted so much of my life.”  Leverage your time.  Remember the creator in the days of your youth.

Ecclesiastes 12:13.  “Now all has been heard…”  He is saying, if you can top that, be my guest.  “…Here is the conclusion of the matter.  Fear God…”   This word “fear” does not mean, “Oh, God is a cosmic killjoy wanting to whack me.”  No, no, no.  It means we are to reverence God.  We are to let God be God, to put Him as the center of our lives.  “…and keep His commandments for this is the whole duty of man.”  This is it.  This is why we are here.  This is why we are alive.  This is why we have our different personalities and skill sets.  It is to keep His commandments.  It is to do life within God’s guardrails, by following His commandments.  That is the best way.

When I began this message, I asked what would it be like to have it all.  Celebrity status.  Billions in the portfolio.  Unlimited power to wield and pleasure to experience.  What would it be like?  I said nirvana.  I said satisfaction.  Then I asked the question, “Is that really the deal?  Is that really the answer?”  No, that is not the answer.  You want satisfaction.  You want contentment.  It is found only in the Lord.  It is found in a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.  It is doing life deeply by His directives, down His avenues, down His path, swinging at His pitches, playing in His ballpark.  That is what matters.

During this series we have opened up with secular songs and concluded with a Christian contemporary song that answers the question we have been asking.  We started with “I Can’t Get No Satisfaction.”  We are going to end with a song, “That’s What Matters,” and I pray that this song becomes a song that is embedded in your heart and in your life.

Listen to the Music Vol. 2: Part 5 – All Star: Transcript

LISTEN TO THE MUSIC VOL. II SERMON SERIES

ALL STAR

OCTOBER 10, 1999

ED YOUNG

It is true from the moment the doctor placed you in your mother’s arms for the very first time.  By the time you have celebrated your fifth birthday, it has become so entrenched in your spirit that you do a push back when people try to change it or alter it in any way.  During your junior high and high school years you struggle with it and find ways to help it.  Some of the ways work, some don’t.  In your adult years you understand it a little bit better and you see different avenues that you can take to negotiate your way around it.  You see that it effects how you deal with everyone, even your relationship with God.  Bottom line, it is the subterranean issue that drives so many – self-esteem.

Self-esteem.  I know, I know, from the moment those two words roll off my tongue, questions came to the surface.  “Ed, self-esteem?  This is church, man.  Shouldn’t self-esteem be reserved for the couch in a counselors office?”  “Ed, I am a believer.  I am a Christ follower.  If I worry about self-esteem and having a healthy view of myself, can’t that lead to an ego trip and self-absorption?”  Or maybe you are a confident man or woman sitting there with your arms crossed saying to yourself that you don’t need to hear a talk on self-esteem, that you are loaded with confidence.  You may be saying that you have lots of the toys and trinkets of success, that maybe you have hit some potholes along the way but that you have it together.

Listen to me.  How we process this issue has huge implications.  I want to ask you three questions and as I ask them I want you to answer them silently with either a yes or a no.  Do you ever find yourself wanting to be someone else, a friend, an acquaintance or an all-star or a rock star?  Do you?  Yes or no.  Question two.  Do you ever find yourself being overly critical of your life or the lives of others that you rub shoulders with?  Question three.  Do you ever find yourself worrying about the opinions and comments of others?  Does that occupy your mind?  If you answered yes to any of those questions, you need to do some overhaul work on your self-esteem.

Pop psychologists popularized this concept but the roots of self-esteem revert all the way back to the Garden, all the way back to the book of Genesis.  Adam and Eve struggled with this whole deal.  Prior to their fall, they had the ultimate self-concept.  They saw themselves through the lens of the Lord.  Enter the Evil One.  Satan tempted them to look to the tree of life, at some produce.  He said in no uncertain words, if you partake of the fruit, you will become like God.  You know the story.  They looked to the tree.  They tasted the fruit.  And this is the first instance we have of a man and a woman looking away from God to another source for significance.  And from that debacle on, we have all been struggling with the self-esteem issue ever since.

That brings me to the first thing we need to understand about our self-esteem.  Most of us solidify our self-esteem from the outside in.  When I was in the second grade, a music teacher walked in front of the classroom and said, “OK, children, this morning we are going to sing a rendition of Row, Row, Row Your Boat.  One and a two and a three.”  And we all started and he shouted, “Stop, stop.”  He pointed at me and said, “What is your name, young man.”  I replied, “Ed Young.”  He said, “Mr. Young, sing the song right.  Quit joking around.”  I said, “Yes, sir.”  We started again and quickly he shouted for us to stop.  “Mr. Young, I am not going to tell you again.  You cannot sing that low.  You are just trying to impress someone.  Now sing it right.”  Let me stop here.  My voice has always been very, very low.  Ask my Mom the next time she is visiting.  She will tell you that when I was a baby in the church nursery, the workers would shake me and tickle me just to hear my low, bellowing laugh.  I never had my voice change at thirteen or fourteen because my voice has always been very, very low.  Back to the second grade and to the music teacher who was embarrassing me.  “Ed, come to the front of the classroom and you sing “Row, Row, Row Your Boat” in the right voice.  Kids were laughing.  He was snickering.  And that damaged me a little bit.  That was a wound on my spirit.

So this morning, from this stage, I want to sing “Row, Row, Row Your Boat” in my voice.  Now you know I love to imitate people; Mick Jagger or Phil Collins.  But I am going to sing this in my real voice.  Hey, that felt good.  I tell you this story just to illustrate a point.  That was a minor event compared to some of the major, traumatic wounds you may have absorbed during your life’s journey.  Maybe a parent or another authority figure or some situation has wounded you.  And the problem is, a lot of us Band-Aid the gaping wounds.  We think that if we Band-Aid them from the outside they will slowly be absorbed into our spirit and that treatment from the outside can give us good self-esteem.  And most of us turn to looks, labels and levels for our self-esteem.

Our foundational text this morning is I Samuel 16:7 from the Old Testament.  “The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.  Man looks at the outward appearance….”  We live in Dallas/Ft. Worth, an area that is famous for its flash and dash with boatloads of cash.  We want to show people who we are and what we have.  And a lot of us are obsessed with pects and tris and quads and abds and excess flab, aren’t we?  We think a lift or a peel or a weave or a tuck will get the job done.  All that stuff is fine and dandy, but it is not going to take you where you want to go.  If you think looks will do it, you are setting yourself up for frustration and failure.

But so many of us are into our looks.  Have you ever met someone who on the outside looked very attractive, but once you get to know them, their beauty turns into ugliness?  Isn’t that weird?  The first time I every really noticed this was in college.  I lived in a co-ed dorm, the athletic dorm at Florida State University.  Co-ed, that’s another story.  We had a full bar in our dorm.  There was a girl in our dorm named Brenda.  Let me tell you how beautiful she was.  The guys named her Beautiful.  She was a cross between Tyra Banks and Ellen McPhearson.  The girl was a showstopper.  When she would walk through the cafeteria, we would just stare.  But if you got to know beautiful Brenda, she had the personality of a pit viper like one the Crocodile Hunter would feature on the Discovery Channel.  She spent a lot of time on being beautiful, believing that looks would do it but looks just didn’t work.

Then we turn to labels.  We think if our purse, our shoes, our jeans or our suit has a certain label, it will make us feel good.  We trust that Verchase or Armani or St. John or Abercrombie and Fitch or the Gap or Old Navy will give us security.  Hey, it is great if you wear that stuff, but it won’t work for self-esteem.

You know what makes me laugh?  Car commercials.  Have you ever watched a car commercial?  It will show you the sleek and sexy lines of the newest car going in and out of a beautiful mountainous road.  There is usually a super model in the passenger seat and a regular guy driving.  What is going on here?  What is being sold here?  Self-esteem.  If you buy this car, you will feel good about yourself.  You can date a supermodel.

Looks don’t do it.  Labels don’t do it.  Then we turn to levels.  Now I am going to stay here for awhile.  Levels.  A lot of us are worried about what people think about us.  And we are so paranoid about what others think that we are not ourselves, we just try to live life like others want us to live.  The Bible is riddled with examples of this.

Moses in Exodus 4 is one example.  I will give you the quick Reader’s Digest version of it.  Moses said, “God, what if the Israelites don’t accept my leadership?  What if they don’t believe I have heard from You?  What will I do, God?”  Later on in chapter four, Moses begins to really whine and get weepy.  “God, I can’t speak that well.  I am not that eloquent.”  God asked Moses, “Who gave you your mouth, gave you your voice.  And you have the A-train, Aaron, right beside you.  Don’t worry about it.  I will use both of you.  I am God.”

We are worried about other’s opinions.  We think that if we please all these people it will move us to another level and suddenly our self-esteem will increase.  Whoa.  Parents get into this, don’t they?  Oftentimes parents push their children in different activities thinking that if their children perform and do really well, it will increase their self-esteem and they will be able to move up a notch.  I am a parent.  Look at how good my child is.

And sometimes we hook up with people in relationships who have some serious hang-ups regarding self-esteem.  And we even date people like that since it makes us feel better about ourselves.  We kind of rescue the other person.  “Oh, you are dealing with that?  Well, not me.  Boy, you have a lot of problems.  But I feel really great about myself.”

Then we do something else.  I call it the double dis.  And before I get into this let me say the following.  If you ever are around someone who dogs and dises themselves or others, they are just a walking, neon lit advertisement for a negative self-esteem.  Here is how we do the double dis.  We put ourselves down, rip ourselves apart hoping that others in our little group or clique will disagree.  Then they tell us that we are really great at something and it will bring us to another level.  “Oh, no, you haven’t picked up pounds.  You are looking lean.”  And we think that will raise our self-esteem.  “You know I am really not that good at tennis.”  We hope our friends will disagree.  “Not good?  You are great at tennis.  You are incredible.”  That raises us to another level.

Then we dis other people.  We dis our competitors.  We are negative about them.  We think if we tear others down, it will kind of push us up.  Again, it is not going to get the job done.  It is not going to take you where you need to go.  We try to solidify our self-esteem from the outside in.

But this week, I have been praying that we will change that, that we can learn what it means to have a great self-esteem.  The most accurate assessment of who we are is from the pages of scripture.  A great self- esteem will occur when you begin to see yourself from the inside out.  That is the problem with all the whole New Age Ideologies.  New Agers say to look into yourself.  There is a major flaw with that.  When you look within yourself, you are searching for something in nothingness.  But when we come to the point in our lives when we ask Christ to infiltrate us, then He sits in the driver’s seat.  He sits on the throne in our lives and our self-esteem permeates from the inside out.  It comes from Christ, from who we are in Him.

That brings us back to our foundational text.  I Samuel 16:7.  We saw that man looks to the outward appearance, looks, labels and levels.  “…but the Lord looks at the heart….”.  We know Christ, we defer to Him, we realize who we are in Him and then we move from our interior to our exterior because of the octane, fuel and love that Jesus gives us.  And let me say this and please don’t misconstrue it.  A healthy self-esteem should not be our top priority.  But I bump into too many people who go by the label of Christian who say they are working on their self-esteem.  Self, self, self-esteem.  That is not the top priority.  Self-esteem is huge, it is a priority but it is a by-product of our relationship with Christ.  A by-product.  Remember, the Lord looks at the heart.

And here is how I define a healthy self-esteem.  It is looking at your life through the lens of the Lord.  Nothing more or nothing less.  Specifically think about an Old Testament book, Numbers 13:33.  The Israelites were standing on the edge of the Promised Land.  They were getting ready to close this incredible real estate deal.  And God had promised them that He was going to give them the land but that they would have to fight for it.  So right before they crossed into the Promised Land, God told them to send out a secret reconnaissance group to do some checking on the weaponry, the people and the lay of the land.  Twelve spies went out.  Ten of the twelve spies who reported back had poor self-esteem.  They saw themselves from the outside in.  And here is what they said.  “Hey, guys and girls, the enemy is so huge and powerful that we are like grasshoppers in their eyes.”  A lot of us do life like that.  “I am just a grasshopper.  I can’t step out and take that risk, I am just a grasshopper.  I worry about the looks, the labels and the levels.  Oh, they are too powerful.  I am just an insect.”

Well, two of the twelve spies, Joshua and Caleb, took out a big old can of Raid, figuratively speaking, and took on the grasshoppers.  “Grasshoppers, we can take out those guys.  We know God.  God has already given us the land.  Let’s go for it.  Let’s claim the land.”  They saw themselves through the lens of the Lord.  What a difference.  What a change.

The words are true.  They really are.  Because in God’s economy, if you know Him personally, you are an all-star.  He says, “Get your game on.”  God also says, “You are a rock star.”  If we are connected with Christ, we are embedded in the rock.  And Jesus is our number one fan.  He wants the best for you and the best for me.

Let me read Psalm 19:14.  “May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, Oh Lord, my rock and my redeemer.”  We have an incredible intrinsic worth.  If we could put a price tag on our lives it would simply read: Jesus.  Our self-esteem is not secure in what we have or have not done.  It is whom we know and who we are.  But there is a giant paradox out there.  On the one hand you have man created in the image of God with a great potential for goodness and kindness.  On the other hand, you have got man who is capable of horrendous and heinous acts, who is capable of sinning spectacularly before a Holy God.  Psychologists and biologists and every other kind of ologists have tried to reconcile these two natures but they cannot do it.  Their arguments are weak.  The only thing that can bring together this whole deal is when a person bows the knee to Christ.  Once that happens, then we discover why we are wired the way we are.  Then we discover why we have a particular skill set.  Then we become who we can be in Christ.

Jesus says, “Be yourself.”  If you were not you, there would be a hole in history, a gap in God’s created order.”  Quit trying to be someone else.  Quit worrying about looks, labels and levels and be yourself.  But it starts with a relationship with the Lord.  That is where it starts.

Please look at the side screen.  There is a diagram for you.  The moment Christ infiltrates your heart, self-esteem comes from the inside out.  Basically, I have a couple of goals in my life, just two.  It is very popular these days to talk about mission statements and goals.  Well my mission statement is two fold.  Number one.  My goal is to make introductions.  I want to introduce people to a saving knowledge of Christ, not a religious trip but a relational trip.  That is what I want to do.  And if you know Christ personally, that should be one of your goals.  The Bible says so.

My second goal in life is helping people to see themselves through the lens of the Lord and that occurs when we begin to grow and develop and mature in our faith.  That is part of being a disciple.  That is part of growing deep.  When people discover who they are in Christ, the self-esteem starts happening from the inside out.  And the results are amazing.

What actually happens when you see yourself through the lens of the Lord?  Let me share with you real quickly four fabulous things that will occur.  First, I understand from Christ that I am forgivable.  For some of you here, those could be the most important words you have ever heard.  You are forgivable.  I am forgivable.  Colossians 1:14.  “For He has rescued us from the dominion of darkness, brought us into the kingdom of the Son He loves in whom we have redemption for the forgiveness of sin.”  Is that cool, or what?  If I have come clean, said to God that I have messed up, then my sins are forgiven and forgotten.  If I ever bring up the past, I am doing something that God does not do.  The Evil One does that.  So whenever you think about that past, tell the Evil One that he is a liar, that you are forgivable.  Satan may tell you that you can’t be used at the Fellowship Church, in one of the ministries, sing, run a camera, act, preach, help in preschool, be active in children’s church.  Those are just lies because you are forgivable.

Also the Bible tells us something else.  I am acceptable.  Romans 15:7.  I was doing a talk about five years ago at a Pastor’s conference about acceptance, but I told them to take their Bibles and turn to Romans 7:15.  So I read the wrong verse and realizing it said to myself, who cares.  God accepts me whether I get the reference wrong or not.  I don’t know why I just shared that.  Romans 15:7 says, “Accept one another then just as Christ accepted you in order to bring praise to God.”  We should, as a church, welcome everyone, accept everyone, not where they are but where we want them to be.  People matter to God, they should matter to you and to me.

Also, I am lovable.  Jeremiah 31:3.  “I have loved you with an everlasting love.  I have drawn you with loving kindness.”  Next weekend I will spend the entire session talking about the love of God.  I beg you to be here and invite your friends because we are going to dissect what this love thing is all about.  I am lovable.  There is nothing I can do to make God love me less.   That is the kind of God we serve.

Fourthly, I am powerful.  Acts 1:8.  “…but you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you…”  I not talking about physical power, I am talking about true power.  The moment Christ takes residence on the inside of our life, He places the Holy Spirit there.  The word power in the original is pronounced dunamis.  We get the word dynamite from that word.  One of my favorite shows when growing up was Good Times.  Remember, Jimmy Walker would say dyno…mite.  If you were born past 1965, you have no clue what I was talking about just now.  Don’t worry about it, ask someone.  I had a Jimmy Walker hat, and Jimmy Walker shirt with him saying dyno….mite.  Well, just think of Jimmy Walker.  That is the kind of power we have.  We can tap into that kind of stuff if we do the self-esteem thing right.

We are not talking about pride here.  Pride is all about me.  You can’t say the word pride without saying the word I.  It is not a prideful thing.  It is not what I have done, how I can perform.  It is who I am in Christ.  Because in God’s economy you are an all-star.  So get your game on.  And you, if you are connected to Christ, are a rock star.  Live it out.  Look at your life through the lens of the Lord because the facets are truly fantastic.

Listen to the Music Vol. 2: Part 7 – Staying Alive: Transcript

LISTEN TO THE MUSIC VOL. II SERMON SERIES

STAYING ALIVE

OCTOBER 24, 1999

ED YOUNG

Everybody in this place falls into one of two categories.  However, it is tough to distinguish who falls into what group from just surface observation.  You can’t tell if a person is in one group or another by their age, occupation, ethnicity or net worth.  Singles, students and marrieds are in both groups.  The first group I want to identify this morning is made up of those here who stay alive.  Figuratively speaking, you are wearing the gold chains, polyester, and John Travolta hair.  You are just existing, just droning through your life.  No vitality, no excitement, just experiencing a sort of humdrum existence.  That is right.  One slice of the divine demographic pie would be made up of those here who stay alive.

The other slice of the demographic pie, or the other group, would be made up of those who thrive, those who have ditched the disco wear, those who no longer have the Charlie’s Angels look, those who no longer wear leisure suits.  I am referring to the people here who are truly alive, who are riding on the crest of adventure and excitement.  I am talking about those men and women who are using their skill sets to do great and wonderful things.

Two groups, one made up of people who just stay alive, and the other made up of people who thrive.  What is the difference?  How can you really separate the two groups?  Generally speaking, it is a God thing.  Getting more specific, it is a church thing.  To laser beam the deal, it is a ministry thing.  God, our loving and purpose-driven God, has given us a context, the local church, which affords us opportunity after opportunity after opportunity to use our specific gifts in ministry.  To thrive.  And this morning I want to talk to you about simply that.  How do you thrive?

If this is your first time attending the Fellowship Church, let me again warmly welcome you to our place.  You picked a wonderful weekend to attend because you are going to see why we are so passionate about the purposes of our church.  So sit back, relax and allow God to speak through me as I open up His word and we see what it means to truly thrive.

For openers, let’s answer the why question.  Why does God want you and why does God want me to thrive?  And why did He choose the local church?  Number one and this will surprise you, God wants a buff body.  God wants you and me to thrive within the context of the local church because He wants to have a buff body.  I am referring to the body of Christ, the local assembly of believers.  Every part of our bodies works together to form who we are.  Every part of the body of Christ works together to form what it is.  You have strengths, you have talents, you have skill sets to help strengthen the body of Christ.  And that is a cool deal.  That is a great thing.

Many here need to join Fellowship Church.  You have been kicking tires.  You have been testing the waters.  You have been checking everything out.  And today is the day you need to step over the line, join, and become a full-fledged member of our church.  Right after this service, at high noon, I will teach yet another Newcomers Class in Room 132.  We will have free pizza for you.  We will take care of your children.  You don’t have to worry about a thing.  You can sit there and hear where we have been, where we are and where we are going.  I believe that once you join the Fellowship, it will change your life.  I believe that decision is one of the top five decisions that you will ever make.

When I talk about membership, I think that a lot of you buy into what our culture says about it.  This past week, I learned through my studies that membership has a Christian origin.  But our culture has decaffeinated the term, defanged the term.  For many here, membership means paying dues, having your name on a locker or in some directory or having a secret handshake.  Well, the Apostle Paul blew that whole deal out of the water.  He wrote in Romans 12:4-5, “Just as each of us has one body with many members and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we who are many form one body and each member belongs to all the others.”  Ladies and gentlemen, friends, membership is a verb.  It is an active thing.  It is a process that is powerful.  Yet, only in America, as boxing promoter Don King says, only in America do we have what I refer to as butterfly believers.  They float from church to church with no identity, no accountability, no commitment.

Go to other cultures.  Travel to Israel like we are going to do in several weeks.  Go to the Orient.  If you are a believer, you are connected into a local church.  And if you are not a full-fledged member of a local church, you are disobeying many commands found in the New Testament, right up front.  There is no such thing as a Long Ranger believer.  If you are on the team, I am talking about the Fellowship team, you are a player.  And every player has a position.  Are you making God’s body buff?

Maybe today is the first time you have discovered that we have many members here but they all work together to do wonderful things.  Have you stepped over the line?  Have you joined the church?  Obviously, I am partial to the Fellowship Church.  I think we have the greatest church around.  I believe we have more opportunity for ministry, for spiritual depth, for worship, for being involved than anywhere else.  But our church is not for everybody.  And if you are looking for the ultimate and perfect church, don’t you join it because you will mess it up.  This is not a perfect church.  I am not a perfect pastor and you are not a perfect member or attender.  You are not.  But the church, according to the Bible, is where the manifold wisdom of Christ will be made known.  The gates of hell, scripture says, will not prevail against the church.  It is the most important entity in the universe.  And that is why we are so passionate about the purposes of Fellowship.  We want to help in this buff body process.

But there is another reason that God wants us to thrive, why He wants us to use our gifts and skill sets within the context of a biblically functioning community.  He wants us to do life deeply with Him.  God wants us to do life deeply with Him.  Listen very carefully.  Spiritual maturity is more action driven than information or feelings driven.  I have gone to a Bible College.  I have been to Seminary.  I have taken doctoral classes in theology.  I have been in services like last weekend when I cried, where I felt the quiver in my liver, a spring in my step.  And all those things are important regarding spiritual maturity and spiritual growth, but nothing, nothing will accelerate your growth as fast as getting involved in ministry, using your skill set in a spirit-led way within a biblically functioning community.  Nothing has matured me as fast as that.

When I share my faith, when I write a generous check, when I help the poor, when I lead a small group, those things are action driven.  Here is what Jesus said.  He gave us His mission statement in Mark 10:45.  “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve and to give His life as a ransom for many.”  Jesus had an others- driven mentality.  We are to mimic His ministry and the beautiful thing is that God has provided us a venue for it and the venue is the local church.  It is the local body.

So, whenever I get outside of myself and serve and help and use my talent base within a biblically functioning community, whoa, things happen.  So many people are depressed and down and moan and groan and are self-absorbed and gaze at their navels hour after hour after hour.  They say poor, pitiful me.  They criticize and rebuke and cut down.  Most of the people who have that mentality are people who don’t serve, who don’t get involved and who just sit and soak and spoil.  Sit and soak and spoil.  They come to church week in and week out and like the proverbial little bird say, feed me, feed me, feed me.  They take in so many spiritual calories that they are obese.  And they never work out the stuff, never put any octane behind it.

I Corinthians 12: 24-26.  The Apostle Paul states, “God has combined the members of the body and has given greater honor to the part that lacked it so that there should be no division in the body but that its parts should have equal concern for each other.  If one part suffers, every part suffers with it.  If one part is honored, every part rejoices with it.”  Isn’t that incredible?

Secular surveys tell us that the average human being has between 500 to 700 specific skills.  I have skills that you don’t have.  You have skills that I don’t have.  And if we use these skills together and function as a living body, there is no telling what God can do and what God wants to do.  But I want to give you several things about something called ministry.  How do you spell the last three letters of the word?  Let’s spell that together.  T R Y.  It spells try.  I don’t think that is an accident.  Minis try.  Ministry is using your skill set in a spirit-led way within the context of a biblically functioning community.

A lot of us still have some misconceptions about ministry.  A lot of us think that ministry is optional, that it is a multiple-choice deal, kind of like taking the SAT or the LSAT.  I just don’t think that I will choose ministry for me.  No, we are commanded to minister.  If we are on the team, we are a player.  If we are a player, we have a position.  We can’t say, “Well, God, I just don’t feel like using my gifts.  God, I don’t feel like surrendering to You.  I don’t feel like using my abilities.”

The bottom line is, you are either obedient or disobedient.  And that ruffles a lot of people’s feathers, especially in our autonomous, self-centered, Texas pioneer-type mentality.  Dallas/Ft. Worth is the home of the Texas macho man.  And the macho man hears something like that and he says, “Whoa, no one is going to tell me what to do.”  You know the macho man, don’t you?  We see him all around us, that Wrangler wearing, truck comparing, Coors sipping, Copenhagen dipping guy.  Macho man.  Hey, don’t blame me, I am the messenger.  This is God’s deal, it is His way for you to thrive.  But I have got to say to you, a lot of you are just humming, staying alive.

Rob Johnson and the Praise Team sang, “Somebody help me, I’m going nowhere.”  Well, we are going to find direction today.  We are going to find the answers today.  We are going to find the destination today.  But ministry is not a multiple-choice deal.

Here is another misconception.  And to illustrate this let me show you my big toe.  I call this the principle of the big toe.  See my left great toe right there.  I know it looks kind of gross but let me tell you why.  Five years ago I was lifting weights and a 40-pound dumbbell fell off a rack, dropped three feet and crushed my great toe in over twenty places.  The bone was sticking out of the nail bed in four places.  I cannot describe to you the pain.  A plastic surgeon friend of mine who is a member of this church rebuilt the entire toe including the nail bed.  Hey, is that a good looking toe, or what?  Remember the principle of the big toe.  Yes, ministry is not multiple choice, but remember the principle of the big toe.

You are saying, “Ed, what does that have to do with ministry?”  Once again, I read to you the Apostle Paul’s words in I Corinthians 12: 24-26.  “God has combined the members of the body and given greater honor to the parts that lacked it, so that there should be no division in the body but that its parts should have equal concern for each other.  If one part suffers, every part suffers with it.  If one part is honored, every part rejoices with it.”  You may be an elbow.  You may be a mouth.  You may be an ear.  You may be a knee.  You may be a big toe in the body of Christ. Every part matters.  Every part matters.  Don’t ever tell me that the big toe is not important.  Even now when I tap it, it still hurts, but I do have a beautiful nail bed.  Now let me put my shoe back on and we will continue.

See God does not grade on the curve.  God does not look at those who teach, lead a small group, preach, sing on the praise team, play in the band as people who are up high and those who park and greet and work with children as people down there.  God doesn’t do that.  The beautiful thing about the body of Christ is that all members work together to form it and to make it buff.  What part does God want you to play?

Look around for a second.  Just take a panoramic view of the Fellowship Church.  We have a big church, don’t we?  But I always say that we are not a big church, we are a small town.  People tell me that they want to live in a town with about 8,000 to 10,000 people.  You have got it right here at the Fellowship Church.  And if a church is around a big population base, the church should be big.  And if it isn’t big, something is wrong with the church.  Nothing is wrong with God, something is wrong with the fellowship.  Conversely, if a church is around a small population base, it should be small.  If God had a problem with big churchs, the first model of church in Acts 1:2 would not have grown from 11 to 3,011 following the first service.  So don’t ever say that this church is too big or that church is too big.  Size does not matter.  Many of the early churches mentioned in the Bible had 60,000 or 70,000 people.

Let me tell you some good things about a big church.  It gives us a huge relational opportunity.  It gives us a huge relational opportunity.  In a church this large you can meet anyone and everyone;  professional athletes, bankers, repair people, professional hunters, teachers, flight attendants, mechanics, car dealers.  They are here.  Isn’t that wonderful?  Think about all the opportunities that we have relationally speaking.

A survey I read this week said that the average church member knows 67 people whether the church has 67 members or 67,000.  At Fellowship you have got a wide base.  Another great thing about a big church is this.  It is a mirror of what will happen in heaven.  Heaven is not going to be a small place.  We are going to worship with billions and billions of believers.  And speaking of worship, in November 1 begin a brand new series on worship called GOD ON LINE.

Another reason I love a big church is because it enables us to have resources and to pinpoint different ministries in a strategic way.  For example, last weekend on Saturday from 9am to 2pm, our Singles Ministry held a “Ten Commandments Of Dating” conference.  After that, they had a country and western dance in another building.  Yesterday, our Senior High Ministry had a Hoop Fest in our parking lot.  They had hundreds of high schoolers playing basketball.  Next weekend, we will have our big Fall Festival featuring rides and games put on with about 600 volunteers.  That is a great thing about a big church.

Another great thing about a big church is that people can kind of check everything out without being noticed.  In a small church a visitor stands out.  “Let’s place the giant fluorescent nametag on their lapel.”  Here you just kind of check it out.  But now let me tell you the bad thing about a big church.  I want to come clean thing right now.  A bad, bad, bad thing about a big church is people can hide.  We can hide in a big church.  We can slither in, sit back, don’t say a word Jack.  We don’t have to sign anything, say anything or do anything.  We can drop our children off to incredible age-appropriate teaching and just soak it up, baby.  And no one ever knows that we are here.  We are just taking up space and hiding.

People sometimes ask me, “Ed, do you feel a lot of pressure being the senior pastor of the Fellowship Church?”  I do, but not just an overwhelming amount.  But I will tell you what freaks me out.  I will tell you what keeps me up at night.  It is just what I said.  I know that every single weekend there are thousands of people here who have phenomenal skill sets and talents but they are sitting and soaking on the bench.  They are not really on the team.  They are not really players.  They don’t have positions.  And I think, Oh, Lord, what would happen at Fellowship Church if some of these folks would say they will come out of the shadows, join the church and help God to have a buff body.  What would happen if they said they will do life deeply, get involved in ministry and use their skill set in a spirit-led way within the context of this biblically functioning community?

And that is my challenge.  It never fails.  We do some big events around here.  Someone may say to me, “Ed, do you know Laura.  She would be great helping with that event.”  Later I might be out in the lobby, see Laura and say, “Hi, Laura, how are you doing?”  Her friend would say, “I don’t know if you realize this, Ed, but Laura is one of the greatest graphic artists in the country.”  Laura would tell me, “I have been coming to Fellowship Church for four years.”  What.  Where have you been?  And then she gets involved in this big event and does something incredible.  I say wow, how any Lauras are out there?  How many singers are out there?  How many coaches are out there?  How many teachers are out there?  How many small group leaders are out there?  How many parkers are out there?  How many greeters are out there?  How many people to help the poor are out there?  How many?  Who knows?

You have incredible talent, my friend, incredible strength.  Use it.  Because one day you are going to face God.  So am I.  And God is going to ask us one question.  What did you do with My church?  What did you do with that thing that is most near and dear to My heart?  What did you do?

Speaking of hiding, we like to give excuses.  We like to refuse God’s promoting to get involved in ministry.  Some of us give the knowledge excuse.  “Well, I just don’t know enough to get involved.”  Join the club.  I don’t either.  I feel outmanned and undergunned every time I open this book.  And the more I know about this book, the more I realize I don’t know.  We will teach you the stuff.  It is action driven, not information or feelings driven.

Another excuse is, “They don’t need me.  Surely they don’t need me.”  The bigger the church, the bigger the need.  We don’t go around bragging about this, but to let you in on some insider information, we have grown by a couple of thousand over the last eight weeks.  That is a lot of folks.  A lot.  We need you more than ever.  It is a cool deal.  For example, you can go to the 9am service and work during the 10:45am service.  Or you could go to the Saturday service and come at 9am to work.  The schedule hopefully helps you.  Don’t ever say that we don’t need you.

Another excuse is the ability excuse.  I just don’t have the talent.  Yes, you do.  Yes, you do.  Then there is the schedule excuse.  Now that is real.  Time is our most valuable commodity.  We have less leisure time today than we did twenty years ago.  We want you to make the most of your time especially when you involve yourself in ministry here.  And we have a saying that comes from the Bible, every member is a minister.  So if you are a member of the Fellowship Church, lift your hand.  Keep your hands up.  Now everyone else turn around to those who have their hands raised and say, “You’re a minister.”  Every member is a minister and, watch this now, every minister must have a ministry.  We want you to do the stuff.  We want you to walk up to bat and hit home runs.  We want you to throw touchdown passes.  We want you to shoot three pointers.  And we will equip you and help you to do that.

But sadly, many, many have never walked up to the plate, never taken a snap, never stepped behind the three point line and fired a shot off.  If you haven’t done it, we want to assist you.  The paid staff will handle the maintenance stuff, you do the ministry.  We don’t want you up here just wasting your time, going through a bunch of silly committees and rigmarole.  Do the stuff.  Take the ball and minister.

I am so excited about our church because we have pinpointed over 2,800 specific leadership positions that are filled right now here at the Fellowship Church.  I am talking about non-paid staff.  So leaders, you make our church go.  My hat goes off to you.  I thank you from the bottom of my heart.  But there are another 3,000 that need to dive in.

We need to thrive, don’t we?  We need to thrive.  I feel like doing a cheer.  Give me a T.  Give me an H.  Give me an R.  Give me an I.  Give me a V.  Give me an E.  What does that spell?  Thrive.  What does God want us to do within the context of the church?  Thrive.

T stands for talent.  You have talent that I don’t have.  I have talent that you don’t have.  Are you using your talent?  H stands for heart.  What makes your heart beat fast?  What are you passionate about within the church?  R stands for relationships.  You want to meet some great people?  You will have friends like you have never had friends when you involve yourself in the foxhole of faith as you do ministry and use your skill set for the glory of God.  And I will give you this challenge.  Please, please revolve your most strategic relationships around the people you meet at church.  If you don’t, you are setting yourself up for a tailspin.

I stands for inspiration.  Talk about inspiration.  Last weekend we had one of the most powerful services in the history of the church.  One hundred and eighty-two people walked down these aisles and committed their lives to Jesus Christ.  When I locked eyes with those in our drama, in our band, the singers, ushers, people handing out Krispy Kreme donuts at the early service and parkers who brave the elements, I said God thank you.  All of us had a part in those people coming to know Christ.  How about the people in the preschool, in the children’s area who cared for the little ones while these hell-bound people heard the message.  If they had not been there, many would not have been able to receive the message.  It is all connected.  It all works together.  It is all a part of the body.  Inspiration.

V stands for venue.  Take out your worship guide.  Look at the insert that says Ministry Opportunities at Fellowship Church.  Turn it over and we have provided a listing of areas where you can get involved.  Maybe you want to get involved in the weekend service format or First Wednesday.  First Wednesday is an intense worship service we do once a month during the first week.  Maybe you want to be involved in the parking crew.  The Bible tells us in the New Testament to warmly welcome those who come to church.  Our parking crew does a great job.  When you see them give them a high five and say thank you for what you do.  Maybe it is an usher or greeter or someone in the hospitality area.  Now see there is a note that drama, singers and band members need to go through an audition process.  For all the others there is no an audition process.  If you feel like to are wired do participate in one of the three, call our Music/Media  Department and set up an audition.

Preschool and children’s areas, youth, connection classes and single impact.  Maybe you want to be a part of our small group ministry, the home teams.  There is athletics, the newcomer’s class, the bookstore and men’s and women’s ministry.  It is out there for you.  Take a couple of moments, write your name and address and telephone number.  Indicate what service you attend.  Then check off where you want to thrive and put these cards in the plate.  We will get back to you and get you involved.  But I am telling you, begging you, when you sign up, show up.  Don’t say, OK, I will sign up but if something better comes along…..  Show up and watch and see what God does.

E on thrive stands for eternity.  This is the only venue going where we can touch eternity.  Things that we do here have an eternal significance.  That is why we are so passionate about using our skills, using our resources, using what we have here for the glory of God.

If you are a part of one of these ministries right now, I want you to stand.  Let’s give them an ovation.  These folks make the Fellowship Church go and grow.  And many are standing holding babies right now, many standing from the parking crew, many standing in other areas of the church where you cannot see them.  But this is where it is at and where it is happening.

So what are you going to do?  Will you still hang out in the John Travolta wear, the polyester, the gold chains of Charlie’s Angels or are you going to say that you don’t want to stay alive any more, but you want to thrive.  Oh how I pray that that is your prayer.  You know during this series called LISTEN TO THE MUSIC VOLUME II, we have started out every session with a secular song like we did this time with the BeeGees “Staying Alive”.  Then I would preach a message and conclude the service with a contemporary Christian song which answers the question that the secular song was asking.  Today we are going to answer this message and tie the whole thing up with a song called, “The Song Is Alive.”  Listen and see what God tells you through the words of music.

Animal Planet: Part 2 – Fly Like an Eagle: Transcript

ANIMAL PLANET SERMON SERIES

Fly Like An Eagle

Ed Young

May 30, 1999

Did you know an eagle has eight times more visual cells per cubic centimeter than we do?  Did you know this bird flying at 600 feet can see an animal the size of a dime moving through six inches of grass?  The eagle can also see a three-inch fish leaping in a lake five miles away.  Unbelievable.  Incredible.  What vision.

When God looks at our lives, He sees potential eagles, strong, powerful visionaries.  Yet somewhere along life’s journey our culture sort of clips our wings, ties our talons, grounds us and cages us.  Instead of using our wings for flying, many of us use them for fluttering.  Instead of using our talons from grasping, we end up using them for standing.  Instead of using our eyes for seeking, we use them for sleeping.  We say to ourselves, I don’t have vision.  God can’t do anything incredible through me.  Visionary people are those mutations, those composers, those builders, those entrepreneurs, not me.  When God looks at our lives, he sees potential eagles because your body and my body is a potential venue for God’s agenda and His vision in so many different aspects of our existence.

I have some good news today and believe me we need some good news.  The prophet Isaiah in the Old Testament discussed this whole concept of vision.  In fact, he told us how this vision stuff begins and how it plays out in our lives as well.  Read along with me as I read Isaiah 40:31.  As I read this, you will see three words that are highlighted and these words are the key to establishing an incredible vision for your life.  “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength, they will soar on wings like eagles, they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not faint.”  Right up front Isaiah says that we have got to hope in the Lord.  That is where vision starts, in the Lord.  We have got to hope in the Lord.  And the word “hope” here is not, “I just hope you have a vision for my marriage, I just hope you have a vision for my career, for my future.  I just hope.”  No.  No.  No.  It is a strong word.  It is a word of anticipation, an aggressive word.  We hope in the Lord.  You want a vision for your marriage?  It is found in the Lord.  You want a vision for your career?  It is in the Lord.  You want a vision for money management?  It is in the Lord.  You want a vision for different relationships?  It is in the Lord.  Everything starts in the Lord.  We hope in the Lord.

God gives us His vision, we receive His vision, we make it a part of our lives, and then we discover what it is like to fly like an eagle.  The problem is, too many of us are trying to get our visions in different places.  We are seeking the wrong sources.  We go from this motivational speaker, to this glassy-eyed guru and we let them set the agenda.  We let them set the vision and we wonder why are lives aren’t working.  We wonder why the wheels are coming off.  It is because we have not gone back and hoped in the Lord.  Have you ever said, God, give me Your vision.  I want to start with You.  Everything in our lives transcends from hope in the Lord.

And notice what Isaiah said after hope.  Right on the heel of hope is that word “renew.”  I love that word “renew.”  If we hope in the Lord, if we get our vision from God, what is going to happen?  We will have a renewal of strength, a readjustment of our priorities.  And how many times do we get our priorities all mixed up.  We put what should be on the top on the bottom.  We put what should be on the bottom on the top and we get all fouled up.  Yet if we hope in the Lord, God has a way of centering us.  And that is why the local church is so critical, ladies and gentlemen.  We all need this weekly centering, this time when we come together in a large format and hear God’s word through different mediums and then we receive His vision.  And once we receive His vision again and again and again, then our strength and our vitality is renewed.  And I can see it on your faces.  I can feel it in my life every single weekend.

When we begin to forgo the church, when we begin to push back from God’s house, because we have purchased a boat or a second home or spend time going to a golf tournament here or an exciting event there, we slowly start to drift away from God’s vision. Then one day we wonder what is wrong with our family, what is wrong with our career, what is wrong with our values and morals?  It is because we are trying to do life on our own strength, on our own power, instead of hoping in the Lord and weekly being renewed and refreshed concerning our priorities.  The church allows us to put first things first.  We all need it.  Do you feel worn out today?  Do you feel a little tired today?  Do you feel like you have been doing life at a Concord-type pace?  Allow God, allow His precious Holy Spirit to renew and replenish and recalibrate your priorities.

After renewal, Isaiah says, we are going to soar on wings like an eagle.  Isn’t that a cool concept?  We will have ultimate vision.  We will take off.  And I define vision as this.  Making out what others miss.  That is vision.  It is the God-given ability to make out what others miss.  And when we soar above the rest, empowered by God Himself, we have that eagle-like vision, that discernment, that wisdom to make those critical calls, those decisive decisions that will take us above the rest and then put us in line with God’s purpose.

But this vision stuff, this soaring stuff is not easy, is it?  Soaring takes determination, courage, commitment.  It is not just smooth sailing.  It is not just the friendly skies.  No. No. No. No. No.  Sometimes we are going to hit bad weather.  Sometimes people will throw rocks at us.  Sometimes we will feel turbulence.  It is going to be difficult.  That is why we have got to rely on God.

Would you like to hear an unedited example of some people who really lived this vision stuff out?  I would.  I want to bring up several gentlemen who hoped in the Lord, who had their strength renewed by God and who soared.  But these guys had some difficult moments.  They hit some turbulence.  People threw rocks at them.  But I will guarantee you something.  They are going to show us how to formulate this vision so we can fly like eagles.

Numbers 13 is a great, great passage in the Old Testament.  Let me set the stage for you.  Moses, God’s point man, had led the children of Israel out of Egyptian slavery and he had brought them to the brink of the Promised Land.  Moses was at the Title Company, closing the ultimate Promised Land deal for the entire nation.  Everyone was so excited because this stretch of real estate was the land promised to them by God Himself.  It was the land flowing with milk and honey.  Everybody was really with Moses.  They were getting ready to take the land, which God had told them time and time again was theirs.  He said that yes, they would have to fight but that the victory was secure.  Talk about sweet odds!

Right before the Israelites jumped into the land, God called a quick time out.  Have you ever been watching a hockey game or baseball game or basketball game when they take those commercial breaks, those TV time outs?  Oh, no.  I am sure the children of Israel were thinking that.  They were just getting ready to enter the Promised Land and God called a time out.  God begins to deal with Moses.  God tells him in no uncertain terms to pick twelve heavy hitters from the twelve tribes of Israel.  He instructed Moses to have them do a secret reconnaissance mission on the land.  Then they were to report back so an intelligent military plan could be formulated.  God told them to bring back a report, just a report.  So that is what happened.  The twelve spies went out to perform this secret agent reconnaissance mission.  They were gone for forty days and forty nights.  Just for a second, can’t you just put yourself in the sandals and Doc Martens of the Israelites?  I know they were waiting expectantly to hear this report.  After forty days and forty nights the twelve tribes saw their leaders coming forth and they were carrying fruit and lots of great stuff that their land had produced.  Maybe the Israelite band was playing.  I don’t know.  But they were high-fiving and going crazy.

Then they gathered around the twelve spies and ten of the twelve spies began to talk, not all twelve, ten.  They said, look at this fruit. Yes, the land is productive.  Yes, it does flow with milk and honey.  But suddenly something happened.  Suddenly these ten spies caught a bad case of the vision virus.  They began to mess up.  They began to forget about God.  They began to give their own opinions, not just a report.  Numbers 13:28.  “But the people who lived there are powerful.”  Verse 31, “We can’t attack those people.  They are stronger than we are.”  Talk about a doggy downer.  Numbers 13:32.  “They spread among the Israelites a bad report.”  As I was reading this text over the last several days, I wanted to say, who asked you for your opinion, Israelites?  God said just to report on what you saw.  He didn’t say to give some dissertation or some opinion on the deal.  What is up?  They had a case, a bad case of the vision virus.

Numbers 14:2, it continues.  “All the Israelites grumbled against Moses and Aaron and the whole assembly said to them, if only we had died in Egypt.”  They wanted to do the backtrack thing.  If only we had died in Egypt.  The Numbers 14:4, “And they said to each other, we should choose a leader and go back to Egypt.”  Let’s form a committee.  That will do it.  Doesn’t that sound familiar?  People with the vision virus are everywhere.  They are coming against your vision that God has given you and my vision that God has given me.  Any time that you live out God’s vision, you are going to go against the majority.  You are going to have people with the vision virus saying, but you can’t.  They will begin to spread stuff and then they will grumble.  Then they will want to go back to where they were.  Try to start a company.  Oh, you can’t do that.  Have you thought about the obstacles?  No way.  Come on.  You can’t do that.  Oh, you’re trying to do the blended family thing God’s way.  Oh, that won’t work.  You are going to get a divorce again.  The kids will be going nuts.  That’s not going to work.  You feel it?  You experience it?  The vision virus.

I remember nine years ago, people saying a church, the Fellowship Church, Preston Mitchell, what are you doing involving yourself in the Fellowship Church?  Owen Goff, Ed Young, Doris Scoggins, what in the world.  You can’t do that.  Do you realize how many churches there are in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area?  It is the belt buckle of the Bible belt.

Any time you see people with the vision virus, the vision virus always attacks the mind.  It makes us sick and it twists us and enables us to exaggerate the size and the scope of the obstacles out there.  Whoa, that is a powerful force.  Whoa, that is a sizable situation.  Whoa, that hurdle, no way to clear that one.  And it slowly begins to choke out God’s anointing and God’s agenda and God’s blessing and we focus on the external instead of the internal.  Then we blow it.

It is easy to catch the vision virus.  I had it a couple of months ago.  I had a bad case of it.  Three of my four children walked out in my backyard and saw a tree.  They had a vision for this tree.  They said, “Build us a tree house, Dad.  You are the man, Dad.  Build us a tree house.”  I had the vision virus.  I have been in Home Depot one time in my life.  It was with my wife.  It is a stretch for me just to hammer a nail.  I said, “Oh Laurie, Landra and EJ, I can’t build a tree house.  See the tree is not arranged well.  We have got to get somebody who can really build stuff well, like Owen Goff, to come over.  I can’t do it.”  This went on for weeks.  I said, “The limbs are so high and you might fall down.  I don’t really have the time.”  One day, though, I decided to go for it.  I got some lumber and took out my wife’s chain saw.  True!  I cut some wood and built them a tree house, Jack.  And it is pretty good.  It is not great.  It is just a floor and some little rungs to climb on.  Now, of course, they want a roof and some carpet and an HVAC system along with a Nintendo.

So you are looking at somebody who has had the vision virus before.  It is easy, isn’t it?   Then the Israelites began to get into this funk, having the vision virus as they did.  But I hope that you didn’t miss what I said.  I have only addressed 10 of the 12 spies.  When I began this account from Numbers 13 and 14, I said we would talk about some eagle type people.  Well Joshua and Caleb, 2 of the 12 spies, they were eagle like people, soaring, powerful visionaries.  Even though the Israelites were trying to clip their wings, tie their talons, cage them and ground them, they said no.  “We are going to fly.  We are going to grasp.  We are going to seek.”  And they stood before the nation and said, and I will paraphrase, “We can take this land.  God has already given it to us.  Yes, we are going to have to fight.  But don’t be afraid, don’t be afraid, don’t be afraid.”  It is a moving speech if you read it word for word.  Now you would think after all of this, as the Israelites looked in the rearview mirror and remembered how God had parted the Red Sea and fed them and taken them through the wilderness to this point, that they would have agreed with Joshua and Caleb.  “We messed up.  Let’s get ready to rumble.  Let’s take them on now.”

Don’t hold your breath.  Do you know what they began to do?  They took out the scissors to clip their wings, took out the rope to tie the talons and began to cage them and ground them.  The Bible says that they wanted to stone them.  I am not talking about drugs here.  I am talking about kill them with rocks, a horrible, torturous death.  And because the nation of Israel had a collective case of the vision virus, here is what happened.  They wandered in the wilderness for four more decades outside the Promised Land.  Now check this out.  Can you imagine doing the KOA thing for 40 years?  Sleeping on the ground.  Get up and you have rack head every day.  Tired of those weenie roasts.  Oh, Man.  Well, God allowed the vision virus people to die off.  If you read the book of Joshua, years later he led the new Pepsi generation Israelite crowd into the Promised Land and claimed the land.  Joshua and Caleb, men of vision, eagles.  They made out what most miss.

Now this has been a pretty interesting study of ancient history.  We have to get a read on ancient history but that is not the only reason we are here.  We are here for life change.  And the beautiful thing about the scripture is that we can learn from the past and it can change our present and our future.  So what do we need to do because of this?  What do we need to do to become eagle-like people?  How can we make out what most people miss?

First, we need to incorporate God’s vision into our lives.  In other words, God has a tract of land that He wants you to claim and me to claim.  We are standing on the edge of it, looking at it flowing with milk and honey.  However, it is going to take determination, courage and commitment to really soar.  God wants to incorporate His vision into our lives but it is our choice.  First of all, God wants us to make a trust pact with His Son, Jesus Christ.  Speak of incorporating a vision, God’s number one vision for everyone breathing is to know Christ personally.  Have you made that pact?  Have you made that trust decision?  Have you made that faith step?  Have you?  Because it all starts from there.  It is receiving what God through Christ has done for you.  Jesus secured your salvation on the cross 2,000 years ago by spilling His blood, by experiencing the guilt and the pain and the separation and the alienation that our sins caused.  He rose again.  Have you appropriated that into your life?  That is God’s vision, a trust pact with His Son.

Another vision that God wants you to incorporate is His vision for you within the context of the local church.  Take out your bulletin, your worship guide.  Just thumb through it for a second.  See all those programs?  See all of those studies?  They are vision studies.  We simply teach you about God’s vision, about His vision concerning marriage, concerning marketplace endeavors, about His vision regarding what you should put in your bodies and how you should treat this temple.  We want to help you see and understand and articulate and live out God’s vision.  We don’t have to do a lot of guesswork.  We don’t need a lot of discussion.  It is here.  Have you incorporated that vision into your life?  Also God wants us to incorporate His relational vision.  If you missed last weekend, please pick up the tape because I said this.  Many people here are just one prayer away from eternity, just one prayer away from knowing Christ personally.  Let me put an addition to that statement.  Many here are just one handshake away from incredible community-driven relationships.

This past Thursday I was in New Mexico speaking to a group of pastors on leadership.  At the end of my hour-long talk, I had a little Q and A session.  One lady asked me what my biggest challenge is, what keeps me up at night, that causes me to worry about the local church.  That was a no-brainer for me.  I said there was one thing that really gets me.  I see every weekend thousands and thousands and thousands of people who attend the Fellowship Church.  And many of them I know just cruise in for a little happy meal from God’s word and then cruise out.  They never do life deeply.  They are never assimilated.  They never become a fully devoted follower of Christ.  For many reasons they don’t do it.  That is what keeps me up at night.

I think about my dog, Brut.  I have a couple of bullmastiffs.  By the way, if you missed Pet-A-Palooza last weekend, you really missed something.  We had over 1,000 animals out there in the north field.  It was a sight.  We survived the weekend pretty well, although we did have one snakebite, rat bite and tick bite, but they were minor.  Anyway, my bullmastiff weighs about 140 and is still growing.  He has the biggest tongue of any dog I have ever seen.  He is a finicky eater, though.  People ask how much he eats, but he doesn’t eat a lot, not as much as you think.  Sometimes I will pour his puppy chow into a bowl and throw in a couple of egg yokes.  Sometimes I find myself dragging Brut by the collar, saying, “Come on, eat Brut.”  I will drag him to the bowl but he will just sit there over the bowl with his tongue hanging out.  I say, “Brut, eat.  Apollo is going to steal your food.”  He is the big 160-pounder.  I figured out something.  I can’t force Brut to eat.  I can drag him.  I can coax him.  I can sweeten the deal but he has to do it.  We have so many things here for you in this church.  Our small group ministry is called Home Teams.  We have Connection Classes, parenting classes, single parent home teams, single home teams.  And we can drag you to the food.  Now I am not saying that you are dogs.  That is just an illustration.  We can bring you to the bowl and say, “OK, here is God’s word, feed on it.  OK, grow.  OK, here is God’s vision for you.”  But you have got to eat.  Got to eat.  That is what keeps me up at night.

And I am so thrilled to see what God is doing in this church and how many, many people are getting serious about this commitment. Many are serious about God’s vision and are taking advantage of the various venues we have here to discover God’s vision, to commit their lives to Christ, and to build new relationships.  But many of you are just one handshake away from this vision.

We have to do something else, though, we have to quarantine the vision virus people.  If we are really going to have this agenda from God, we have got to quarantine the vision virus people.  I don’t like to get sick.  I hate it.  I haven’t been sick in a long, long time.  We have a rule here on our staff, if you have got fever, go home.  We don’t want anybody working who is sick, who has a temperature.  We say that you have got to be fever-free before you set foot on this campus.  I love that rule.  It is a great thing to live by.  So when someone gets sick, we quarantine the person with the virus.  That is what I challenge you to do.  Quarantine those with the vision virus, those who throw rocks, who diss us, who mumble and grumble and say that it won’t work, won’t happen, that we will not find our vision.

I think about my man, Nehemiah, another Old Testament figure.  Nehemiah was doing what everybody said could not be done.  Nehemiah was rebuilding the city walls around God’s city, Jerusalem.  Everybody said that he couldn’t do that.  But Nehemiah had a bunch of teams around him, he empowered people with God’s vision.  He gave them the ball of leadership and they began to build this wall.  Well a bunch of sidewalk supervisors, a bunch of people with vision virus appeared and they began to namecall Nehemiah.  You know that Nehemiah did?  Did he jump down off the wall and say, “OK, let’s go for it.  Put them up.”?  No.  He stayed up on the wall.  He literally took the higher ground.

You are going to go against the majority.  You are going to come up against people with the vision virus.  Take the higher ground.  Rub shoulders with people who share a similar vision.  And again, that is why I bring up the local church, that is why relationships are so important.

Talk about a powerful verse.  Proverbs 29:18, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.”  Let’s play fill in the blank.  Were there is no vision, the marriage will perish.  Where there is no vision, the company will perish.  Where there is no vision, the church will perish.  Where there is no vision, the nation will perish.  Vision from God is the ability to make out what others miss.  And once we begin to incorporate vision, once God gives us an infusion of determination and commitment and courage to live it out, then and only then will we fly like an eagle.

Animal Planet: Part 3 – Camel Filter: Transcript

ANIMAL PLANET SERMON SERIES

Camel Filter

Ed Young

June 6, 1999

[Live video of Ed Young arriving in the parking lot of the church on the back of a camel]

How many of you have ever ridden a camel before?  Will you please lift your hand?  If you haven’t, you have missed something.  Free camel rides after the service.  Only at Fellowship Church!  Kidding, only kidding.

Today I want to talk to you about one of the hardest sayings of Jesus.  This statement that I am going to read from our Savior doesn’t go over too well in the Metroplex, the place famous for its materialism.  But I have got to read it.  Matthew 19:24, “It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.”  Think about it.  Of all the animals Christ could have chosen to illustrate materialism, He picked a camel.  He chose a common, ordinary creature of the day.

Camels are big animals.  They are not that pretty.  They don’t smell that nice.  They can store, though, amazing amounts of water.  And later on as they are going through the desert, they can tap into this water and it can quench their thirst.  A lot of us are kind of like camels.  We store all of this stuff along life’s journey thinking that it will quench our thirst.  But it doesn’t.

Why did Jesus make this statement?  Why did He turn to His followers and talk about a camel and the eye of a needle and a rich man?  What precipitated this comment from Him?  Well, let’s scroll back a little bit and set up the context.  Jesus had just gotten into an intense interchange with a young man who was galloping through life on the back of the camel of materialism.  This heavy hitter had a death-like grip on the reins and he was riding it hard.

Could it be that some of you, even I, struggle with materialism?  Could it be that sometimes we want to grasp the reins of our camel so tightly, our possessions so intensely that it causes us to miss the great things in life?  Jesus, when He talked to this young man, introduced the first camel filter.  Now I am not talking about some tobacco deal.  Jesus introduced a camel filter.  He said to this young man in no uncertain terms, put your possessions through the filter of faith.  Let’s see where they come out and then we will let the chips fall where they may.  We will get back to this young man in a second.  But are you ready to do that?  Do you have stuff or does stuff have you?

I am in the middle of a series called Animal Planet.  We have been taking various animals from the pages of scripture and seeing the potent parallels for your life and mine.  The Holy Spirit chose, through the writers, to record these word pictures, these illustrations about animals for our benefit.  So to talk about the benefit of this camel, let’s dissect the intense interchange I referred to earlier when Jesus met this young man.

This man mentioned in Matthew 19 was young.  He came to the Lord at the right time, at the right juncture, during the defining moment of his life.  God loves all people to come to Him at any stage, but He especially loves to see young people come to Him.  Why?  Because young folks have their entire futures ahead.  I will never forget what a man who became a Christ follower in his sixties told me.  He walked up to me after a service with tears in his eyes and said, “Ed, if only I could have made this decision earlier.  I burned up so many years.”

So this young heavy hitter, galloping through life on the back of the camel of materialism came to Jesus at the right time.  He also was living the right lifestyle.  Jesus talked to him and the young man said that he was keeping the big 10.  He said he was living the life, was a moral person.  So he had a lot of things going for him: He was young.  He came to Jesus at the right time.  He was living the right lifestyle.  Then in Matthew 19, he asked the right question.  Check this out.  He said, “What must I do to inherit eternal life?”  That is the best question.  That is the ultimate.  And as you read the text, you are sort of cheering for the guy.  You feel that cross pull.  You feel him tightening down on the reins of the camel.  You feel him considering what he needs to do.  And then Jesus says something to him.  Now don’t head for the exit while I read this verse.  But if you want to, they are marked there in red.

Matthew 19:21.  The man was at the zenith of his life.  He would be very popular in the Metroplex.  Here is what Jesus said to him, “Go and sell your possessions and give to the poor and you shall have treasure in heaven.  And come, follow me.”  Ed, you mean to tell me that Jesus is telling me that I’ve got to liquidate, to sell it all?  I have to give all my possessions to the poor and then follow Him?  Jesus will probably never ask you to do that.  This is the only time He ever asked anyone in the Bible to give all of their stuff to the poor.  He didn’t ask Bartimaeus to do it.  He didn’t ask Zacchaeus to do it.  He didn’t ask Simon Peter to do it.  He probably won’t ask any of us to do it.

But what happened?  What did this rich man do?  You see, Jesus saw to the core of the issue.  Jesus saw the real deal going on.  Jesus knew that this man was galloping through life on the camel of materialism and materialism was his god.  Look at this tragic verse.  Matthew 19:22, “But when the young man heard this statement, he went away grieved for he was one who owned much property.”  The word “owned” in the original language means “he held tightly.”  Wow, that is a powerful verse.

Then Jesus followed it up again after the young man walked away dejected.  Look at Verse 24, “It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.”

You know what is tempting?  I deal with it.  You deal with it.  We like to listen to that camel, don’t we?  The camel of our culture, the camel of commerce, the camel of stuff lies to us.  Jesus challenged this young man with the camel filter.  And the camel filter tells us that stuff will rot, will wane, will rust.  But the camel says that stuff will satisfy.  Most of us go through life thinking that stuff will satisfy.  So during this message, if you hear some moaning and groaning going on, pay no attention to it.  It is just the camel being filtered.

Here is what happens to most of us.  Money has a way of making promises to us that are very, very empty.  Money says, if you get a lot of it, you will have significance, power, autonomy, and then you can forge your own future.  You can plan out your own path.  And it is the same struggle that Adam and Eve dealt with.  This sin to be a little god goes all the way back to the soils of the garden.

Just for a second, think back.  For some of us with gray hair, we have got to think way, way back.  Think back to the playground, back to those monkey bars.  We are swinging on the monkey bars having a good time.  Boys were not even thinking about girls.  Girls were not thinking about boys.  We were just existing.  Pretty much our main deal on the playground was to have significance, to be good at something.  To be the best on the money bars, to be first on the kickball team, to be the best jump roper, or to collect the most candy.  I like what Seinfeld said.  During the first ten years of a kid’s life he has one motto: get candy.

Well, what happens?  Those of us on the playground were lurking and watching for significance.  We are trying to find out what really matters, what gives us meaning and pleasure, and we think that being the best is it.  Well, if you scroll forward three or four decades, you have a man or woman who has been bombarded by our camelistic culture and Madison Avenue which tells us we have got to drive this, got to wear that, got to live over there.  We reason to ourselves that if we are going to do all that, we have got to make and burn up a lot of money.  So that is what we do.  We get on that treadmill, make that money, burn through that money.  We buy this, buy that, acquire this, and think that it is it.  But after a while, after a long, long, long, long while, talk to someone who has been on the treadmill for three or four decades when they discover that it is not it.

It is a tough deal.  It is a sobering thought.  We go through several different positions.  Some, when they discover it is not it, just bail out on life.  They move to the mountains or the shore.  Or maybe they just buy a bed and breakfast in Brenham.  They check out, but they don’t realize that presents a whole new set of problems.  Others do the robot thing.  Remember Michael Jackson?  My imitation is pretty good for a pastor, right?  But a lot of people realize that the same people they were trying to impress on the monkey bars in the playground don’t really love them, don’t really care about them, three or four decades later.  And they find themselves just swinging from the monkey bars again.  Some bail out, others do the robot thing.  They just go through the monotony of life.  They are living but they are dead.  Died at 38, buried at 72.  And then they go through very destructive behavioral patterns to try to deaden and numb out all of their frustrations and feelings.  Some just turn to a robotic existence.

Some, though, are brave.  Some put it on the line.  Some go through the camel filter.  They begin to ask the hard questions.  “Lord, here it is.  I am going to put it up there for you.  You show me what the deal is.”  I have gone on this search in my life.  I have been searching during certain seasons of my life for it.  When I was a kid, I thought it would be to own an Ambassador 5,000 fishing reel.  And I will never forget what happened on the Christmas morning when I bounded down the staircase and there it was in a leather pouch.  An Ambassador 5,000 fishing reel, the same reel Roland Martin used.  I thought it was it.  But guess what, the Ambassador 5,000 reel wasn’t it.

Then I thought that it would be a car—wheels, transportation.  I had my eye on this beautiful babe, Lisa Lee, who is now Lisa Young.  I thought, if I had the car….  So when I finally got that 1967 puke green Delta 88 with snow tires on the back, I thought it was it.  But it wasn’t it.  Then I said it would be starting in a major college basketball game.  My freshman year I played 17 minutes the whole year.  I didn’t even letter.  My sophomore year, though, man, I worked out in the summer with Five Slamma Jamma.  I was playing really good.  I had impressed the coaches.  We had a big game against Auburn, 18,000 people watching.  Right before the game started, Coach Joe Williams walks in and says that I had been playing great and would start that night.  I though, “Whoa, this is it!”  And there I was right before the game sitting down with the starters waiting for my name to be called out over the PA system.  “Starting at guard from Houston, Texas, he is 6’3” (I am really 6’1”), 178 pound sophomore, Ed Young.”  I remember walking through the line high-fiving.  I stood out there in my tank top and shorts.  I remember just like it was yesterday, I looked down on the floor and said to myself, this is not it.  Then I thought, it would be to have a house.  Do I need to continue?

I have a friend who is a pastor in the Northeast.  He knows a lot about airplanes.  He tells an account of how it wasn’t it.  He said one day a very wealthy friend of his invited him on a little trip on his private jet, a G2.  Now if you don’t know very much about planes, the G2 sells for about $10,000,000.  They flew to Washington, DC.  He said while they were pulling up at the private terminal after landing, the businessman tapped him on the shoulder and pointed at another plane out the window.  He added that it was a G4 and that he had his eyes on one of those.  My pastor friend told him, it was nuts.  He asked when he was going to come to the time in his life when it is not another plane, not another $5 million deal.  That it is not it.

Are you there?  Are you there?  Well, let’s do something brave and put our possessions through the filter of faith.  How do we do it?  We have got to come to several rapid realizations.  The first is this.  We have to come to the realization that God carries title to all of our stuff.  God carries title to all of our stuff.  You don’t own anything.  I don’t own anything.  God carries title to every toy, every possession, everything we think we have.  We are just managers.  God is the owner.

Now some are saying that they are already there, buying into that.  Yes, you might buy into it.  You might give it lip service.  You might talk it but do you walk it?  It is like having someone say to you that he is a great businessman, that you had better watch him close the deals and wheel and deal.  Or like the woman who says she is a great tennis player, that she has power and the groundstroke and serve.  But then you see the businessman in the business world and you realize that he is a joke, that he talks a good game but doesn’t walk it.  Then you watch the tennis lady try to serve, and you realize that she talks it too, but doesn’t walk the game.  A lot of believers talk the smack, but a lot of them don’t really walk.

Who made you?  God.  Who gave you the creativity and the savvy, self-made woman and self-made man?  God.  Who owns it all?  God.  Are you living that way?  That is the first realization.

The second realization is interesting.  God also wants us to enjoy our stuff.  Do you ever feel guilty when you are blessed?  God gives all of us a certain amount of resources.  To some of us He gives a small pile.  To others He gives a medium pile.  Still to others He gives a large pile, an extra large pile.  To some He gives a Bill Gates, Steven Spielberg, Ross Perot pile.  God does it.  God has given us all certain piles of stuff.

We have the choice whether we understand He owns it or not.  If we understand God owns it, then we ought to enjoy our stuff.  Don’t feel guilty if God has blessed you.  I don’t care if you have a 120-foot yacht in the Caribbean, if you realize God owns it all and you are just a manager, God smiles.  His heart beats fast when you are having a blast on your yacht.  I don’t care if you own an inflatable boat like I own.  My wife gave it to me 17 years ago.  It is a cool boat.  And when I blow it up and put a motor on the back of it, God smiles.  He blessed me with a Zodiac.  I have had better boats than that, though.

1 Timothy 6:17-19—the Apostle Paul is penning this letter to young Pastor Timothy.  And check out what Paul wants Timothy to do—“Instruct those who are rich….”  Now let me stop here.  Instruct those who are rich.  I know what you are thinking because I am the same way, I am a human being too.  You are sitting there thinking, “Instruct those who are rich.  Well this message isn’t for me, but I know somebody in the other section who needs to hear it.  And in this bull market, baby, they have cashed in and I know where they live and what they drive.  Oh, Ed, thank you so much for preaching to them.  Get ‘em.  Go.”

If we have more than a couple of changes of clothes, we are rich in the eyes of the world.  So this is for everybody.  I think that everyone here has two or three changes of clothes.  Maybe you don’t, but most of us do.  So don’t do the reverse snobbery thing.  There is snobbery from the rich for those who don’t have very much.  But there is as much snobbery from those who don’t have as much as the rich.  You know, the ones who walk in and say, “Must be nice….”

“Instruct those who are rich in this present world not to be conceited (that is saying that we know who carries title) or to fix their hope on the uncertainty of riches but on God who richly supplies us with all things to enjoy….”  Don’t feel guilty when you are blessed.  “…instruct them to do good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share.”  Don’t miss that word “share.”

I have written a lot of messages.  I am in the process right now of writing a book with Thomas Nelson.  But I am going to make a confession right now.  I am also a songwriter.  I wrote a song several years ago about my children.  I watched them and happen to love them.  I noticed that they were having a difficult time being generous with things like a doll or a basketball or Nintendo 64.  So here is a song that I wrote.  The lyrics are complicated, but follow me.

Let’s say, for example, LeeBeth was not sharing her Barbie with the twins.  I would sing this song.  “Share, share, share.  LeeBeth likes to share.  Share, share, share.”  Then I would have LeeBeth share the Barbie with the twins.  Now let’s all sing that together substituting Fellowship Church for LeeBeth.  That’s the way to do it.  Stan, I know that our talented band and our singers are cutting a CD this next year.  Would you give me 15 seconds on the end to do my share song with the church?

Do you share, share, share?  Are you a generous person?

So, the fact that God carries the title to all of our stuff is the first realization.  God wants us to enjoy it is the second realization.  The third one, and this may surprise you, God wants us to save our stuff.  And God is so good.  I cannot believe what He does as we study His word.  Here we are in the midst of a series, Animal Planet.  In Proverbs 6, the writer says, “Go to the ant and watch his ways.”  The ant stores.  The ant saves.  We are to be like an ant.  We are to save.  Are you saving?  You should save at least, at least, 10 percent of what you make.  And you can’t just drift into a plan of money management.  Wow, I have a plan now.  You have got to have some intentionality about it.  You have got to be strategic about it.  You have got to get some counsel about it.  Take some courses about what the Bible says concerning money management.  We teach those courses regularly around here.  These are issues that we counsel people on time and time again.  God wants us to save.

Now another realization that will really blow your doors, rattle your cage, God wants us to invest it.  That is invest, i-n-v-e-s-t.  Everything that God has given us, every good gift, every spiritual aptitude, He wants us to invest and multiply and to give back to him as a sign of worship.  We are to invest our money.  Matthew 25 is a parable, a word picture.  It is about three people who had certain piles of stuff given to them by their manager.  Two of the three took their stuff, invested it, made a great return on their money.  They each were given a high five by the manager.  The third one just sat on his stuff and didn’t do a thing.  He was rebuked.  Are you investing?  Are you getting your money working for you?  It is part of the camel filter.

Let’s talk about the final realization.  We need to come to the realization that generosity keeps the camel in check.  I struggle with this because I am basically a selfish guy.  But the Holy Spirit has worked on me for a long time.  And one of the attributes of God and of a true Christ follower is to be generous.  So let me tell you what I do personally to break the back of materialism.  I regularly give stuff away.  Good stuff.  Stuff that I can wear.  Stuff that I can fish with.  I give it away.  And that helps a lot.  Are you generous?

I have had an interesting life growing up as a preacher’s kid yet living around a bunch of hell-raising people.  Now let me tell you what I am talking about.  I’m not talking about my parents.  I grew up in a very, very rough public school system.  Through sports I have been around a lot of inner city kids, a lot of drugs, the whole nine yards.  I didn’t do any of that stuff, but I have been around it.  I had to fight a couple of times just to survive.  But I thank God for those experiences.  Black, white, green, orange, purple, pink collar, blue collar.  I got a chance to know many.

When I moved to Houston my senior year, suddenly I was exposed to a culture that I had never been around before.  I was exposed to a lot of people who were loaded.  I’m not talking about just a few millions, I am talking about big bucks.  Now that wasn’t everybody I knew.  But I did know one guy who was a billionaire.  Let me tell you something that I have learned about people in general.  People are people.  They have the same needs.  But I have noticed this about the rich, generally speaking.  Generally speaking, the wealthy are selfish.  They are selfish.  They get into pseudo-generosity but they never really give something to others that costs them something.  They never really give to people in need, to the poor, to the downtrodden, even to the local church.  It has been amazing.  I didn’t say all.

Last night I met a friend of mine from this church who does extremely well financially.  He is one of the most generous people I know.  I know some here who have a real heart for generosity.  And I want to just stop here and thank the Fellowship Church for something.  Tomorrow morning I am leaving, but the buses are pulling out tonight with 330 junior high students.  A total of 450 people are going to Gulf Shores, Alabama, on a beach retreat.  We are going to talk about the real issues of life.  It costs a lot of money to do that.  But because of your generosity, and I am talking to the core people here, we have pretty much paid for the whole deal just by taking two offerings.  I want to thank you for your generosity.  I am so thrilled that many are growing in this.  But don’t let the camel lie to you.  Don’t let the camel bite you.  ‘Cause you are going to be blessed.  Don’t grasp the reins too tightly.  Do you realize that God is blessing some of you right now just to bless others?  Just to help build this church.  We are out of space right now in a lot of areas.  We will have to build again pretty soon.  What are you going to do?

I go back to Malachi 3:10.  God hit me with this one.  I have talked about this many times here but one word just hit me recently.  “Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse….”  I like that word “whole.”  That is the word that hit me.  Now why did the Holy Spirit pick “whole tithe”?  Why didn’t the Holy Spirit say “tithe”?  Seventy percent of Christ’s parables were about stuff, money, material possessions.  I think that the Holy Spirit chose whole because He knew that a lot of us would be tempted to play financial games with God.  The word tithe means ten.  We are to give the first 10% of everything we make to our local church.  Those are not my words, but God’s words.  But He knew we would play games.  “Let’s see, I have earned $60,000 this year while my investments made me $200,000, but I will tithe on the $60,000.”  Well, that is embezzling money from God.

You can talk to counselors about it but they won’t tell you what the Bible says.  You can talk to financial counselors about it, but if they are not Christians, they won’t tell you that.  But I am telling you that and also that you will be robbing yourself of a blessing.

We will either be a dam or a river.  We will either say to God that He is sending a lot our way and that we will let it flow it on to others, back to the needy, back to the church;  that we will be a river.  Or we will be like Grapevine Dam or Hoover Dam saying that what we have is ours and we will ride the camel the rest of our lives.  This is something that I deal with.  It is not always easy for me.

Let me share some things that I have done and understand my spirit when I say this.  This is about the whole issue of giving.  Several years ago I saved up a lot of money for me due to a lot of speaking and other involvements.  I had $29,000 in one account.  To me, that is a lot of money.  Some of you are saying that is pocket change.  But for some others, it is probably a lot of money.  But money is relative.  Here is what I did.  I began to ride that camel.  I began to do the Harpo thing.  I was protecting it.  It was mine.  Then one day, after a prayer session, after studying Malachi 3:10, after thinking about this whole dam versus  river thing, I said to myself that it was time to kick the camel.  So I got my checkbook out.  It was not easy.  I wrote a $20,000 check and gave it to the Fellowship Church.  I don’t tell you that for you to say what a spiritual giant you have for a senior pastor.  Hey, I have got a long way to go.  But I tell you that to show you how I meet this stuff regularly.  I have to go head on with the camel day in and day out.  But I am going to tell you something.  After I wrote that check, after about a day, it took about a day, I really felt the blessings and the smile of God like words can’t describe.  So that is from me to you.

But the bottom line is that it is not just the giving thing.  It is not just an investment thing.  It is about the totality of our resources.  It is Biblical money management.

I have got one last thing that I want to share with you.  And this is real insider information.  We had arranged this whole camel deal a totally different way.  Harpo, the camel showed up yesterday a 3 PM.  We had this thing rigged where I was going to ride down the aisle on Harpo.  Harpo was not walking into the Fellowship Church, Jack.  Harpo locked up.  And the trainers were coaxing him with carrots, sugar and even a Pepsi.  You should have seen him trying to get the Pepsi down.  I am really, really wired right before I preach.  I go through PMS – Pre-Message Syndrome.  I did something I should have never done.  I got behind Harpo and I began to push him and he whacked me one time with that tail.  That was it.  We called in an audible and arranged to do the video of me arriving in the parking lot.

I think that God allowed that to happen because this is what He taught me through this whole ordeal.  The whole thing rides on what happened to Harpo.  God is saying to a lot of us here, “Come on, camel, come on in.  Ride the camel of materialism through My house, through My filter, through My flow chart.  Come on, come on, come on.”  But a lot of us are just locked up like Harpo.  We have our necks stretched out and we can smell those blessings but we are not going to do it.

Are you going to be like Harpo, or are you going to allow God to do a camel filter?

Animal Planet: Part 4 – Harmless as a Dove: Transcript

ANIMAL PLANET SERMON SERIES

HARMLESS AS A DOVE

JUNE 20, 1999

ED YOUNG

As you know, we have been in a series called Animal Planet.  During the opening session we learned from the dog how to break the cycle of sin.  Next we looked at the majestic eagle and understood how to multiply our vision.  Then we talked about, in the third installment, the camel.  We saw from the camel how to master materialism.  Well, today we look at the dove.  The dove is beautiful.  It is mentioned in scripture and used to illustrate the Holy Spirit, the third person of the Trinity or the Godhead.  God, the Father.  God, the Son.  God, the Holy Spirit.  The dove is used to picture, to show us, the role of the Holy Spirit.

The Holy Spirit looms large in the Bible.  In fact, the dove has to be working just for one of us to make the initial commitment to become a Christ follower.  We have to understand something.  It takes commitment to begin the Christian life and also commitment has to be continually built as we walk and talk and live for the Lord.  The dove, the Holy Spirit, is active in this entire deal.

How does someone, though, begin to make a commitment to Christ?  And what role does the Holy Spirit play, specifically, in it?  Someone steps over the line of faith by understanding the four-fold formula for Christ’s commitment.  This formula rhymes.  To make it work I need three volunteers to hit the stage.  You.  You.  And You.  Let me grab a mike right quick.

Tell us your names if you would.  Winston.  Myra.  Daniel.  We are talking about the four-fold formula, the process for Christ’s commitment.  I have tried to break this down so that you will never, ever forget it.  That is why I have built it around a rhyme.  The first part of this formula is, “God’s love from above.”  Say it.  God’s love from above.  Winston, you are going to be God.  Walk right over there and stand.  So when we think about Winston, it is God’s love from above.  The Bible is a book of love letters.  The Bible talks about God’s love.  It says time and time again that we matter to God.  We are much-loved people.  We are loved so much, we can’t even comprehend it.  God’s love from above.

The second part of this four-fold formula is, “Our bad, that’s sad.”  Myra.  Myra traveled to Israel with us recently.  I am going to use you to represent all of humanity.  We have a bad that is sad.  I learned that term bad from playing a lot of sports.  People would mess up on the field or on the court and say, “my bad”.  Well, this is a real bad because we have all committed cosmic treason.  We have all messed up.  We have all missed the mark.  We have all sinned.  Myra, I want you to just walk a little to the right and stand.  “God’s love from above” and “Our bad, that’s sad.”  So, we have a problem.  We have this cosmic chasm.  We have this gap, this distance between ourselves and a loving God.

Well, God could have said, see ya.  But He didn’t.  What did He do?  He did something.  Even though we don’t deserve it, even though there is nothing we can do to merit it, God’s love from above was so great that He came up with a solution for our pollution.  “God’s solution for our pollution.”  Daniel, I want you to be Jesus.  Take Winston’s hand and stretch it out.  Now we go to the fourth part of the formula.  “My call to Christ’s all.”  Here is what Christ did for us.  Jesus Christ died on the cross for all of our sins; past, present and future.  I had a student ask me this week about that very concept.  He wondered if he became a Christian and then sinned and left it unconfessed, would he go to hell?  I said, no.  Once you are in God’s family, you are in.  You can’t get out.  That is why the Holy Spirit uses the term adoption throughout the Bible.  How many of you here were adopted?  Let’s give them a round of applause.  Because if you are adopted, you are in great company.  Jesus was adopted.  Joseph wasn’t his father.    And back in Biblical times, parents could disown a biological child but they couldn’t get rid of an adopted child.  So once you are adopted, you are in.  That’s it.

So, Christ died on the cross for all of our sins.  When we sin after we become a Christian, it might break our communication with the Lord, but not our relationship.  When my children do something wrong against me, when they turn their backs on what I have set forth, I am still their daddy, but we might have communication problems.

  1. “God’s love from above. Our bad, that’s sad.  God’s solution for our pollution.”  Christ died for it all.  The work has been done.  Now, “My call to Christ’s all.”  We have a choice.  We have a decision.  We have a say so.  We either respond to it or we don’t.  And the dove draws us to Christ.  The Holy Spirit draws us to Christ.  The Holy Spirit convicts us, shows us that our good works can’t do it.  All of our philosophies and all of our thought processes, no matter how incredible they might seem, still fall miserably short.

Myra, if we say yes to Christ, if we make the call to God’s all and receive Christ, here is what happens.  Walk with me.  We connect and we get to God through Christ.  We make a commitment on the interior of our lives and Christ comes in and we are signed, sealed and delivered.  We are born again.  We are adopted into the family of God.  We step over the line and that is it.  It is based on commitment.  Who is involved in the process?  The dove from above.  Thanks very much.  Thank you for being part of this illustration.

Let’s not forget the four-fold formula based on commitment is, “God’s love from above”, “My bad, that’s sad”, “God’s solution to my pollution” and “My call to Christ’s all.”  That is how we begin the Christian life.

We can’t stop there, though.  Commitment is at the very core of our personal relationship with the Lord.  Commitment transcends every single thing that we do.  I define commitment this way.  Commitment is the God-given, dove-empowered ability to stand.  Commitment is the God-given, Holy Spirit-empowered ability to stand.  OK, everybody stand.  Remain standing.  That is what commitment is.  Let’s say it together.  Commitment is the God-given, Holy Spirit-empowered ability to stand.  Please be seated.  To stand.  How do you spell stand? S T A N D.

Several weeks ago I was praying about commitment and thinking through it.  S T A N D.  I was asking God how I could help people to really get a grasp on it.  He gave me this.  To see, to think and to act because of a new direction.  That is an acrostic there.  To see, to think and to act because of a new direction.  Stand.  That is commitment.  We need it in our marriage.  We need it in dealing with children.  We need it on the dating scene.  We need it in the marketplace.  We need it every single place where we walk and talk and live and act.  We have to have commitment, that God-given ability, Holy Spirit-empowered ability to stand.

Check out Psalm 34:8.  The first part of commitment is that the Holy Spirit will empower me to see.  “Taste and see that the Lord is good.”  Taste.  This word taste does not mean just check it out, just nibble on it.  It means try it, eat it, consume it.  You will love it.  God is good.  He has the best for your life and mine.  We might not always see it that way.  But in God’s eyes, from His perspective, it is good.  And part of commitment is seeing as God sees.

Last weekend, right after our 10am service on Sunday, I flew to Atlanta, spent the night, spoke to a pastor’s conference and from there flew on to Mobile, AL to speak Monday night at our Beach Retreat.  I thought I would take my 7-year-old son, EJ, with me on the Beach Retreat.    He had never gone before.  I wanted to spend some time with him.  So we flew from Atlanta to Mobile.  We landed.  Our flight was late.  I had to drive about an hour and a half and I was scheduled to speak in an hour and a half before all of the students.  We were driving through Mobile not too much over the speed limit.  There is one thing that the Deep South has that Texas is just getting.  Krispy Kream Donuts.  Now you know that I am a health nut.  I rarely cheat on my diet.  But let me tell you something, Krispy Kream Donuts called me.  You can talk about other donuts all day and all night but they pale in comparison to Krispy Kream.  I hear there is one opening up in Grapevine.  So when I gain about 30 pounds, you will know why.

EJ and I were driving in the rental car toward the beach and I knew there was a Krispy Kream coming up.  I told EJ that since we hadn’t eaten and since I would have to be speaking in just a little while, we would go to Krispy Kream for our dinner.  We pulled in, ordered lots of donuts.  I hate to tell you this but I had eight donuts.  It was sinful.  It was gluttony and I loved every moment of it.  EJ ordered the chocolate glazed.  He had gotten chocolate everywhere while telling me what a great dinner it was.  After he had polished off the last one, he looked up at me and in all seriousness said, “What’s for dessert?”  Talk about taste and see.  The Christian life is so phenomenal, it is donuts for dinner, plus dessert.  That is how good it is.

Let’s look at the T word, think.  Philippians 4:8.  Another part of commitment.  “Whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is anything excellent and anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”  I have got to ask you and, men, let me challenge you right now, what consumes your mind?  What do you put before your eyes?  What kind of television shows, books, movies or web sites do you frequent?  I read last week that the Playboy web site receives 5 million hits a day.  So, if you say, I am going to be a man of commitment, really follow through, a man of integrity and you are putting trash before your eyes and into your brain you know what happens.  Garbage in and garbage out.  I challenge you to do some replacement work.  Replace those things with things of God.

I think back on my life.  When I grew up in my teens and early twenties, there was not a lot of great Christian music out there.  I listened to a lot of rock and roll music.  Now I am not at all saying that rock and roll music is all bad or demonic or from the pit of hell.  Some of it is.  But I am embarrassed by all the lyrics I know.  Just name a group from the 70s and 80s and I can sing their songs.  But if you think about those lyrics, and especially those videos, man, a lot of it is just trash.  Well, someone challenged me years ago concerning the music that I was listening to.  They challenged me to do some replacement work and I did.  I made the intentional choice to think on different things.  So I began to listen to some different groups like DC Talk, the Newsboys, Audio Adrenaline, Delirious.  They are in our bookstore.  If you are into music that is putting stuff in your mind about sex, rebellion, the occult and other things, throw it out and replace it with the same cool beat but with different lyrics.  It will change your life.  So, Dads, especially on this Father’s Day, what are you thinking about?

Another aspect of STAND is act.  What I put in my mind will play out in my actions.  James 1:22.  “But prove yourselves doers of the word and not merely hearers who delude themselves.”  Have you ever been really thirsty and wanted an ice cold Coke.  You go to the refrigerator and begin to drink one and find it to be just flat.  A lot of people delude themselves when they hear messages, when they go to small groups, when they hear worship music, but they don’t do it.  It doesn’t translate into action.  They don’t put shoe leather beneath it.  They don’t live it out.  We need to live it out.

I am all for Bible study.  I am all for knowing God’s word.  We have to know the information.  But the Bible was written for life change, not just for information.  We are not to worship the Bible.  We are to allow its words, inspired by the dove, the Holy Spirit, to change our lives.  We need to apply what we know.

My brother, Ben, is a noted author, radio talk show host and teacher.  He administers one of the largest singles groups in the world.  He told me that a couple of months ago someone walked up to him after one of his talks and said, “I just want to go a little deeper into God’s word.”  You know what Ben replied?  “Well, I don’t know about you, but I am still working on love thy neighbor as thyself.”  Pretty powerful stuff.  If I just apply what I know right now and never learn another thing about the Bible, it would take me hundreds and hundreds of years to get it right.  How about you?  Yes, know the word.  Yes, study the Bible.  But apply it, live it out.  Let it translate into action.

We are talking about commitment, the God-given, Holy Spirit empowered ability to see, think and act because of a new direction.  Let’s talk about the word new.  II Corinthians 5:17.  “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature.”  We are talking about the interior stuff, aren’t we?  We are talking about the dove giving new life.  The old things have passed away.  Behold the new have come.  The Christian life is not talking about rehabilitation.  It is talking about recreation.  And the spirit of God does that.  We are not just talking about turning over a new leaf.  We are talking about a miraculous, supernatural work done by God through the Holy Spirit.

D is direction.  II Thessalonians 3:5.  “May the Lord direct your hearts into the love of God and into the steadfastness of Christ.”  Part of commitment is allowing God to direct you.  We had hundreds of students in the ocean over the past several weeks.  Our trainers, the adults who chaperoned the groups, put up two or three buoys every afternoon and we told the students to swim in the ocean and stay between the buoys.  We were really into safety.  Everybody had a buddy.  But here is what would happen.  You may not realize it but when you play in the surf, the undertow is pretty strong.  After awhile the students would be way outside the buoys playing but had no idea that was where they were.  Our trainers would blow the horn, direct the kids to get out of the water and walk back to the area between the buoys.  We were helping them with their direction.  That is the Christian life.  That is commitment.  God says stay between the buoys.  Yes, the currents of our culture will pull us, the undertow will try to take us away, but through God’s precious Holy Spirit, the dove from above, the church that is alive, we can remain between the buoys.  Commitment, the God-given, Holy Spirit empowered ability to see, think and act because of a new direction.

What does the Bible say once we get into commitment?  What are we supposed to do?  It is a private thing, a personal thing, yet God comes along and tells us to illustrate our commitment.  We are to come out of the shadows into the light.  We are to move from the private to the public.  We are to walk out of the stands and onto the playing field.  In other words, we are to go H2O.  We are to get baptized.

I want to talk to you about baptism.  You won’t believe the roll the dove played and plays in baptism.  Christ’s baptism is recorded in three of the gospels.  That is the event when we see all three parts of the Trinity; God, the Father, God, the Son and God, the Holy Spirit.  God, the Father said, “This is my Son in whom I am well pleased.”  God, the Son was baptized.  God, the Holy Spirit descended on Christ in the form of a dove.  In the form of a dove.  So a lot of you who have made this commitment need to go H2O.

Baptism is big in the Bible.  After 3,000 people were converted to Christ at Pentecost, Simon Peter said, in essence, go H2O.  When the Ethiopian eunuch, a man of status and wealth, committed his life to Christ in his chariot limo, Phillip said, go H2O.  When Cornelius and his entire household committed their lives to Christ, they were told to go H20.  The priority of baptism.  It is so big, Christ was baptized.

Well, what is the process of baptism?  Baptism should occur only after someone is old enough and mature enough to make a faith commitment.  Look at all the baptisms in the Bible, every one of them.  They all occurred after someone had made this commitment.  Then they were baptized.  Baptism does not make a person a Christian.  But it should occur on the heels of our choice to know Jesus Christ personally.

Now I know that many of you were baptized as infants and that is good.  My wife was in the Lutheran church.  If you were baptized as an infant, I challenge you based on scripture to be rebaptized because now you are old enough to make a mature faith decision.  There was no way that you understood as an infant the implications of faith in Christ.  Your parents had the desire for you to be a Christ follower.  This baptism will be a fulfillment of their whole deal, their dreams and desires for you.

What is the purpose of baptism?  We talk a lot about purpose here in the church, the purpose for marriage, for family, for our lives.  What is the purpose of baptism?  It illustrates our private decision in a public way.  When you are baptized you are saying that you are standing.  Go back to our acrostic.  When a person is baptized, they are saying they are committing.  They are going to see, to think, to act because of a new direction.  And they are going public with that.  They are willing to be held accountable.  When someone goes under the water, that represents the old life.  When they come out of the water, that represents the new life.

How about the procedure of baptism?  Some churches sprinkle.  That is fine but there is not one reference in the Bible of anyone being sprinkled.  Other church pour water on the participants.  Some dunk people three times.  Here at the Fellowship Church, we only dunk you one time.  But our pastors like to see how long you can hold your breath.  The record is….  I’m only kidding.  Just joking.

We baptize by immersion.  Why?  Because every baptism in the Bible is by immersion.  It best illustrates the new life.  It best illustrates what happens when Christ comes in.  If you are going to bury something, you submerge it.  The water symbolized the complete forgiveness of our sins; past, present and future.  Also we identify with Christ’s death, burial and resurrection.  We are saying that now we are walking in newness of life.  The first thing on Christ’s agenda the moment He comes into our life, He places the dove in us and the interior begins to change.  Then that permeates our exterior and we are new creatures.  We are people of commitment listening to His voice and doing His deal and following His plan.

So I want to challenge you to get baptized.  Next weekend hundreds of people, I believe, will get baptized.  We are dedicating the whole weekend to this exciting time.  Baptism is for the local church.  It is one of the ordinances of the church.  There is communion and there is baptism.  Baptism symbolizes what Christ has done for us.  So I challenge you, I beg you to be baptized.  It is a spiritual high point.  It is an obedience deal.  You see, if you trust the blood of Jesus to save you, to cleanse you and to secure your eternity, but you don’t trust enough to come out of the shadows and onto the stage, I have got to wonder in a theological and pastoral way if you really know the Lord.  That is no guilt trip thing.  It is just me speaking to you from God’s book.

So if the dove above resides inside, commit.  Go H2O and STAND; see, think and act because of a new direction.  A new direction.

First and 10: Part 1 – Idol Minds: Transcript

FIRST & 10 SERMON SERIES

IDOL MINDS

JANUARY 3, 1999

ED YOUNG

At the beginning of every new year we are all jazzed and juiced and ready to go.  Facing us is a 365-day calendar and this calendar is at the forefront of all of our thoughts.  So after the holiday gift giving and feeding frenzying and relative seeing and bowl watching, we sort of pull ourselves up by our bootstraps.  We make pacts and promises with ourselves, others, with our careers, with health clubs and even with God Himself.

We make promises like; I am going to quit smoking.  I am going to work less and be with my family more.  I am going to work out and watch my diet.  I am even going to start attending church on a regular basis.  And our minds are rushing and rumbling and we are thinking that this pre-millennial year, 1999, is going to be “my” year.  I am going to be a difference-maker in this 12-month span of time.

I want to ask you several important questions.  One.  How would you like for this year to be the greatest year possible for you?  How would you like to face this year with a new confidence, with a vision and some values that truly lead to victory?  Would you like that?  How would you like to know that your priorities are in sync and you are really doing what you are wired up to do?  If you answered yes to any of those questions, this series of sessions is tailor-made for your life.  We are launching a brand new series called FIRST & 10.  That is something that the Cowboys had trouble with yesterday but something that we are going to talk about.

Why FIRST & 10?  Because this is the first of the year, January, and we are going to discuss the ten commandments, the ten priorities, the ten directives of God.  If you think about it, life is a bunch of choices and decisions.  And they come to you and to me at such a rapid fire pace that oftentimes we make decisions without even thinking about them.  We need a base.  We need a foundation.  We need some absolutes.  And the Ten Commandments give us that.  They give us something to look to in order to make these important choices and decisions with which we are faced.

The intent of this series can best be explained by something that happened Christmas Eve morning in my life.  How many of you attended one of our Christmas Eve services?  Would you please lift your hand?  That’s a lot of people went.  They were great services.  I really enjoyed our Christmas Eve services.  Well, I have a thing for shiny shoes and that morning I was shining my shoes in my bathroom.  My seven-year-old son, EJ, came lumbering in and he asked me this question.  “Dad, would you mind shining my shoes.”  And I said, “EJ, I have got one better than that, you go get your shoes and I will show you how to shine your own shoes.”  He said, “OK.”  I a little while he came back with his little loafers and I showed him how to shine his shoes.  So I was shining my shoes and he was shining his shoes.

Out of the corner of my eye I saw something that startled me a little bit.  I had never seen this before in the history of shoe shining.  EJ had turned his little loafers over and was shining the soles.  I said, “Son, what are you doing?  Why are you shining the bottom?  Why are you shining the soles of your shoes?”  He said, “Well, Dad, when I walk, when I lift my foot a little bit, people can see the bottom of my shoes.”  Well, that is a lot like us, isn’t it?  We like to polish up and shine the exterior where people can see.  But our scuffed up and scared soles, the place where we really do life and walk and act, we don’t have that too polished and too shined, do we?  We kind of keep that to ourselves.

Well, the intent of this series is not just to polish up and shine the exterior, it is to get down to those soleish issues because a lot of us have soles that are scared and stained and scuffed up and these ten commandments will reach us and deal with us and I believe turn our lives over and really polish some areas that we need to get at, that we need to look at, that we need to really shine.

There are Ten Commandments and every session we are going to go through three aspects of one commandment.  We will look at the meaning of each commandment.  Then we are going to look at the mentality behind it, what was God thinking by giving us this directive.  And finally we will look at the implication.  Or you could take this little grid and say, the what, the why and the how.  So having said all of that, let’s jump right in.

Let’s look at God’s introductory words because God says something very important to us in Exodus 20:2.  “I am the Lord, your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.”  Let’s do a quick pause here for a second.  God’s chosen people, the children of Israel, had been in Egyptian slavery for a long, long time and God miraculously delivered them through his point man, the Prince of Egypt, Moses.  And Moses, led by God, dodged death and deception and plagues and he even took his people through walls of water.  Finally, the entire Hebrew nation, was kind of doing the KOA thing.  They were camping at the base of Mt. Sinai.  Moses mountain-climbed.  He goes all the way to the top, received the Ten Commandments, comes back down and then imparts these words of truth to God’s chosen people.  So God comes along and says, I am the Lord your God.  No debate here.  A giveness.  No explanation here.  God is setting forth His authority as God.  If God did not have the authority as God, the Ten Commandments would be just ten theories or ten suggestions.  It is an awesome thing to consider, to contemplate that God says I am the Lord, your God.  We have a faith that is based on personal pronouns, don’t we?  The God of the universe, the God of creation wants to have a personal relationship, a personal connection with every single person who is hearing my voice.  And that is exciting stuff.  That is good stuff.  So God sets forth His authority.  He goes through this monotheistic mentality and He says, I am the God.

Let’s read the first commandment.  Exodus 20:3.  “You shall have no other gods before me.”  What is the meaning?  We are to prioritize God as God.  We are to acknowledge His presence.  We are to affirm His power. And we are to obey His directives and His commandments.  We are to worship God as God.  We are to honor God as God.  We have a slot in our lives, a space that is reserved only for the Lord, Himself.  And He wants us to put Him at that soul place, in that slot.  God is saying, don’t waste your worship.  Don’t waste your worship on anything else that beckons you to bow down to it.

We need to understand something.  Ancient man was not into monotheism, which was a one-god thing.  Ancient man was into polytheism.  Polytheism simply means that gods and goddesses were in a lot of stuff.  There was a god of the moon, a god of the sun, a god of the grass, a god of the weather.  It is also vital that we understand some of the polytheistic gods and goddesses, like Zeus.  Zeus was very popular in those days.  Zeus was a god of power and autonomy.  A lot of people bowed the knee to Zeus.  There was also a god named Bacchus.   Bacchus was the god of gluttony, the party god.  There was a statue of him, a rotund figure with eyes kind of rolled back in his head, with a glass in his hand.  Oh yeah, that is Bacchus and believe me, a lot of people worshipped Bacchus.

Then there is the goddess, Aphrodite.  If you go to ancient Corinth, you will see some hills.  Years and years ago on one of these hills was a temple.  And temple prostitutes would kneel in front of the temple and they would write on the bottoms of their sandals, follow me.  And large blocks of men, without a cover charge, would follow these prostitutes into the temple and have giant sexual orgies.

They also worshipped a god called Mammon.  That is the god of material possessions and money and things.  And then they worshipped Athena.  Athena was a polytheistic goddess of education and wisdom and knowledge.  It is important that we understand these gods and goddesses.  It is important that we understand that ancient man was polytheistic.

Now one would think in our sophisticated, monotheistic society that we would not be into idol worship.  Surely, we wouldn’t be into that.  We are too smart for that.  Idols.  Come on, man.  Give me a massive break.  But let me stop.  Talk about retro.  We are still into idol worship.  We are still into polytheism.  We are not into Zeus worship or the worship of Athena or Mammon.  We have taken these gods and goddesses and changed their names and now they are operating under different aliases.

And over the last couple of weeks I have just made up the names of some of these gods and goddesses that I see in our polytheistic mentality.  The first one is the worship of self.  I call it selfism.  Selfism.  A lot of us are into selfism.  Now if you really think about it, selfism is when we turn and look at ourselves and begin to worship ourselves.  We become our own idol.  We worship the trinity of ego; me, myself and I.  We become little, demented deities ruling over the universe of self.  Everything orbits around ourselves.  What is in it for me?  What makes me look good?  What charges me up?  What gives me pleasure?  It is a very meistic, selfistic mentality.  Oh yeah, it sounds a lot like Zeus worship, but it is called selfism.  A lot of us have those idol minds.  Selfism.

Those in our culture say that you have got to do what is good for you.  People say, if I feel like it, I have got to do it.  I have got to go with my heart.  It sounds cool but it is meistic and selfistic.  We have taken our feelings and put our feelings at the forefront of our mentality. Our feelings have knocked away the truth, they have knocked away facts, they have knocked away reality.  We just go by feelings.  And this mentality, I have got to do what I have got to do, has caused us to jump out of marriages, to bail out of careers and even to turn our back on fellowship with God.  Well, I have got to do what I really feel.  You know, my feelings are important.  Say what?  I didn’t feel like putting 30 hours of research in this message.  I don’t always feel like loving my wife as Christ loves the church.  I don’t always feel like telling the truth.  I do it.  Why?  Commitment.  And so do many, many of you.  But I have got to be honest with you.  Selfism is a tough thing for me.  It is a tough thing for all of us.

I am not saying nor is the Bible even hinting that we should have a poor self-esteem or self-concept.  We are made in the image of God and God does not make junk.  We are special.  We were bought with a price.  God loves you and me more than we can ever comprehend and He wants us to have a healthy view of ourselves.  And is a great self-esteem seeing yourself the way others see you?  No.  It is seeing yourself the way God sees you.  But we have to fight off selfism; it has permeated our lives and our culture.

There is another polytheistic mentality that we are perpetuating.  I call it thrillism.  What is thrillism?  Thrillism is that mentality that searches for that rush, that high, that experience that gives us fast temporary relief from the pains and the problems of life.  Thrillism.  So what do we do?  We sail and ski and fish and hunt and shop and travel ourselves into oblivion.  We are pleasureistic.  And a lot of parents get into this.  I have seen a lot of parents take their children on a safari of stimulation.  They go from this video game to that video game, this sports team to that sports team, this practice to that practice, this school to that school.  We have so enveloped and insulated our children with thrillism that they don’t know which way is up.

Dr. Ronald Dahl of the Pittsburgh Medical Center was quoted in Newsweek magazine on December 15, 1997, “Surrounded by ever greater stimulation, their young faces were looking disappointed and bored.  I am concerned about the cumulative effect of years at these levels of feverish activity.  It is no mystery to me why so many teenagers appear apathetic and burned out with a been there, done that air of indifference toward much of life.”

A little earlier this week I was on a Delta flight writing this message.  I was praying and asking God for the words to say and I had written out selfism and I was thinking about something that really fits our mentality of pleasure and adventure.  So I wrote down thrillism.  And when I wrote down thrillism my mind began to wander for a second and I looked at the guy sitting next to me.  He was reading  USA Today, in fact, this exact paper, because I later got it from him.  I glanced at the blue headline which said, High Risk CEOs, Why Billionaire Executives Seek the Ultimate Thrill.  Then I underlined this and I want to share it with you.  I am really excited about it.  “This is the heyday of the CEO thrill-seekers, says Mark Bryan, editor of Outdoor Magazine.  The idea of man conquering nature or seeking a sense of conquest is outmoded for most people but for CEOs, it is still a viable means of self-expression and measuring one’s worth.  The whole outdoor adventure thing has never been in vogue as much as it is now.”

Well, granted, most of us cannot do what these billionaires do, but we still chase thrillism.  Our thrillism mentality is just a microcosm of theirs but we still chase it.  Again, I go back to God’s Word.  Has God designed us, has God fashioned us as human beings to never, ever experience the thrills and chills of life?  Does He want you and me never to get in on pleasure?  Does He kind of say, don’t get into thrillism.  Well, he doesn’t want thrillism to become our god.  But God does want us to experience adventure and a lot of good stuff in life.  But with God it is always pleasure within parameters.  Turn to your neighbor and say that.  Pleasure within parameters.

For example, God has given us the gift of sex.  That woke four or five men up.  What?  Sex is a gift from God.  It is a pleasure driven thing.  However, the parameters of sex happen to be one man, one woman in marriage.  Anything outside of that is committing cosmic treason before God.  God has given us the pleasure of cake.  A lot of us have experienced the pleasure of cake over the holidays, haven’t we?  Do you realize how boring it would be if everything tasted the same.  You can go to Sonic and order #1.  Everything tastes like cardboard.  Go to Joe T. Garcia, good Tex-Mex food, and everything just tastes like cardboard.  It would be boring.  But God has given us taste and this is a pleasure thing He has given us.  We can go to Sonic and, oh boy, #1 tastes great.  The beef, the lettuce, the tomato and that crushed ice.  I love it.  I am getting hungry right now.  Go to Joe T. Garcias, the nachos with cheese dripping off of them.  The fried tortillas with that little fried haulipena which gives it a bite.  Oh, we love Joe T. Garcias.

Remember, I said, pleasure within perimeters.  Well, as far as eating goes, the problem develops when we get into gluttony.  It happens when we just live at Sonic or Joe T. Garcias, when every day we are like a bunch of blue sharks in a feeding frenzy.  That is a sin before God.  Thrillism.  Has that become your god?  Game to game, fun fix to fun fix, activity to activity.  Is that your deal?

There is another aspect to polytheism in our modernistic mentality.  I call it possessionism.  Possessionism.  It is something that is really sly.  A lot of us lay awake at night dreaming and scheming about ways to collect more and more things.  We stalk stuff.  I have got to have the next outfit, the next house, the next boat, the next piece of jewelry.  And the thing about it is, possessionism always beckons us with one four-letter word.  No, it is not a cuss word which we will talk about in a couple of weeks.  The word is more.  A little bit more.  One more.  You are one acquisition, one deal, one investment away from nirvana.   And the possessionistic mentality possesses us.  It is pretty much that the desire to acquire has gone haywire.  Wouldn’t you agree?  Possessionistic, not me.  I love the Lord.  I am monotheistic, not polytheistic.  But a lot of us are just playing games.  We are thinking that things will satisfy.  What does the Bible say about possessions?  The Bible says possessions are good when they don’t possess us.  God has blessed many of us.  Some of the matriarchs and patriarchs of scripture were power players.  They were wealthy men and women, but they had wealth.  Wealth did not have them.  Possessionism is alive and well.  A lot of us are bowing at the feet of commerce, thinking about cash and money and things.

There is one more that I see, then we will stop and do something else.  It is the last of the polytheistic gods that we worship.  Knowledgeism.  Do you ever worship knowledgeism?  We bow before the pristine labs and listen to professors perpetuate their mentality from their bully pulpits.  Knowledge is it.  Education is it.  I have got to get all these facts, have it all downloaded in everything that I do.  Knowledge is wonderful.  Facts are great.  But education isn’t the deal.  It is not the deal.  I have gone to Jr. Hi School.  I have attended High School.  I got my undergrad degree at Florida State and a small school in Houston.  I have done some master’s work and doctoral work.  And I am glad that I have learned from a lot of people, but education does not measure the most important things in life.  It does not measure vision.  It does not measure creativity.  It does not measure endurance.  It does not measure people skills.  And the last time I checked, those are the most important things it takes to succeed.  So knowledge is fine, knowledge is good but knowledge has become a god to us.

I want to stop here and ask you.  Don’t you see how much this sounds like Zeus worship?  Don’t you see how this sounds like worship of Aphrodite, Bacchus, Mammon and Athena?  We haven’t changed.  Nothing is new.  Same old, same old for us.  We are still plagued by polytheism.

Do you ever watch VH1?  Raise your hands.  A lot of you are not being honest.  You are saying that you won’t admit watching VH1 in church.  Yeah, you do.  I love VH1 and I especially love the program, Behind the Music.  Have you ever watched their Rockumentries?  I have watched a lot of it lately.  KC and the Sunshine Band.  Talking about a classic.  Leonard Skinnard.  Motley Crue.  Ted Nudget.  Van Halen.  All of those people.  Rockumentries really does a great job of chronicling what these bands have gone through, whether it is Stevie Nix or Peter Francis.  It is really captivating.  But after watching all of this stuff during the holidays, I began to see patterns, obvious patterns.  I began to see these polytheistic musicians chase after selfism, thrillism and possessionism and knowledgeism.  And as you look in these people’s eyes you can see the hollowness, the emptiness and it is so sad.  There is not a person here who is going to have the availability like those musicians had to chase these polytheistic gods.

So if you want to know what it is really going to be like to really get into thrillism or selfism or possessionism or knowledgeism, just watch VH1.  It shows you that these gods and goddesses will not come through when they are needed the most.  Selfism doesn’t satisfy.  When you are really down, possessionism doesn’t do it.  When you are feeling kind of low, all these gods and goddesses don’t work.  That is the mentality behind this directive.  God says prioritize Me as God.  Worship Me and Me alone.  God says that.

Now what is the mentality behind that?  Why did God say this?  Why was He into the monotheistic thing?  Was He trying to corner the spiritual market?  Was God worried about His divine ego being bruised?  Why did He say these words?  I will tell you why.  God did not want you, nor did God want me, to be disappointed because these gods and goddesses will not come through.  They don’t have the octane.  They don’t have the RPMs to help and really see us through and to give us direction and a read on life like God does.  That is why He set forth the first commandment, to save you and me from boatloads of suffering.

My mind turns to Psalm 115:5-8.  Think about these nameless, faceless gods and goddesses.   “They have mouths but they cannot speak, eyes but they cannot see.  They have ears but they cannot hear, noses but they cannot smell.  They have hands but they cannot feel, feet but they cannot walk, nor can they utter a sound with their throats.  Those who make them will be like them and so will all who trust in them.”  I love the mentality and the rational of God.  That is the kind of God we serve, a God of love and a God who wants to save us from all this polytheism.

Well, now the implication.  We will do a few screen passes and then we will be through.  How can this affect my life?  How can I take this first commandment and make it real?  I want to give you three things that we need to do in order to prioritize God as God beginning now in January 1999.

Number one.  Accept God’s review of you.  Near the end of the year a lot of companies and organizations do a review.  The employees will meet with their managers, or presidents, or CEOs, or boards or whatever.  They will go through your good points and the bad points and things on which you can improve.  It is a good thing to do.  Evaluation.  Well, God has done a review of you and you and you and you.  And we need to accept this review.  The Bible says, that we have all messed up, that we are mistake laden, that we are sin-driven human beings.  We fall miserably short of God’s standard of goodness.  Some people walk around saying, “Well I keep the Ten Commandments.  I live by the Ten Commandments.  Yeah, I might break them now and then but they are my guideline.  That is enough for me.”  Well the Ten Commandments are great.  They are phenomenal.  But the Ten Commandments will not get you where you want to go.  They will not give you the peace that surpasses all understanding.

Remember that I said earlier that the children of Israel were in slavery.  What happened to them?  God emancipated them.  And when God freed them up, then He led them through the wilderness to the base of Mt. Sinai where they were doing the KOA thing.  Then they received the law.  First they were emancipated, first they were freed up, then they received the law.  If the truth were known, a lot of you here are in your Egypt of sin.  You are trying to get by on works.  At the end of your life, you are going to try to cut a deal with God.  “Hey, God, the ten commandments, I really tried to keep them.  I had trouble with number one and number four, but I really tried God.”  It is not going to get you where you want to go.  You are still bound by your performance.  If you are enslaved in Egypt, if you are enslaved in sin, you need to allow Jesus Christ to come into your life.  I have got good news for you.  He has already done the work to free you, to emancipate you.  And if you say, Christ infiltrate my life, then you are free from your Egypt.  Then you study the Ten Commandments and the other precepts from scripture and begin to live your life the way He wants you to live it.

I ran into the coolest verse of scripture this week.  Galatians 3:24-25.  “Therefore the law has become our tutor to lead us to Christ.  But now that faith has come, we are no longer under a tutor.”  You see, back in the ancient culture, there were attendants, custodians, slaves that worked for families and their sole responsibility was to make sure that the little children made it all the way to their schools safely.  The slaves would take the little children and lead them all the way to the master teacher.  That is what the law does.  The law shows me that I will never make it on the performance plan.  None of us, not one person here bats 1,000 every time up to the moral plate.  We all mess up.  The Ten Commandments show us that we can’t make it through performance.  But the law can lead us into a relationship with Christ.

The Bible calls the law a mirror.  I have another question to ask you.  How many of you, today, spent some time looking into a mirror?  I think most everybody did.  Now, when you looked in the mirror this morning, did anybody here take a screwdriver, unscrew the mirror and begin to shave with it?  Anybody style his or her hair with a mirror?  Anybody put on deodorant with a mirror?  No. The mirror shows us what we need to do.  So we picked up the razor, the comb, the deodorant.  We did something about it.  The Ten Commandments show us, men and women, boys and girls, the futility of trying to achieve something.  We are first saved by grace through faith.  We are first emancipated by receiving the Lord Jesus Christ and then we live for Him.  The law shows us that the performance plan ain’t going to cut it.  So accept God’s review of you.  And for a lot of you here, you are going to have to take a tough view of your life.  If you were to die right now, you are not sure where you would spend eternity.  But the great news is that you can nail that decision down in just a couple of moments.

Number two.  Tweak the dials of change.  As you think about this review, think about the areas that you need to change.  Do you need to change anything in your selfistic mentality?  Are you into selfism?  Are you a demented deity soverignly ruling over the universe called me?  Is that what you are doing?  If you are, the Bible encourages you to tweak the dials of change, to become an other-centered person, to get outside of yourself and help others.

Do we have any thrillism going on?  Are you chasing this and chasing that?  Sign up for the thrills and chills of walking with Christ.  Talk about adventure.  Talk about risk.  Talk about a faith thing.  It doesn’t get any better than this.  How about possessionism?  Surely we don’t have anybody who is into materialism here in the Dallas-Ft. Worth area, do we?  If you are into possessionism, if your possessions have possessed you, if your desire to acquire has gone haywire, here is your homework.  Become a giver.  Every time I give something, every time you give something, it is a Chuck Norris kick, boom, to the money monster.  Give to others.  Give to a local church.  The Bible talks about giving.  It is the essence of our faith.

How about knowledgeism?  Are you bowing down at the feet of scientists and listening to professors perpetuate their take on life from their bully pulpits?  Are you doing that?  Hey, knowledge is fine but why not say in 1999; I am going to learn some of God’s word.  I am going to learn how to be a man of prayer, a woman of prayer.  Won’t you do that?  Just tweak those dials of change.

Jesus said in John 14:15, “If you love Me, you will keep My commandment.”  We don’t just say, “OK, God I will love you but pick and choose the commandments that I will follow.  I like number two and number ieght is OK, but the rest….”  First, remember that we have the love, the relationship happening, we are emancipated.  Then He gives us the power to keep the commandments.

One last screen pass, number three.  Constantly check the rearview mirror of your life.  Do we have any driving experts here?  When I was 15 years old my parents tried to teach me how to drive and they got so frustrated, so freaked out that they called Tony Sellers, owner of a company called EZ Method of Driver Training.  One day I was shooting basketball in the back yard and this guy drives up in a little car.  He jumped out wearing a polyester jumpsuit that said Tony.  He said, “Hello, Mr. Young, my name is Tony Sellers.  Come with me and I will show you the EZ method on how to drive.”  I was wondering what my parents had done to me.

I had to be behind the wheel with Tony Sellers for hours and hours and hours, looking that the nerdy jumpsuit.  He would say, “OK, Ed, excelerate, excelerate.  Stop, stop, stop.”  One time he had to override my brakes and slam on the brakes for me.  But he was always telling me one thing.  “Ed, check in the rearview mirror, please.  Every 30 seconds, check.  Ed, you haven’t checked.  Check.  Ed, one more time.  Check.”

I want you to check in the rearview mirror of your life because I am going to do the same thing.  If we put God in the top slot, worship Him as God, honor Him as God, let me tell you what the evil one is going to do.  The evil one will have something chasing God, trying to overtake God, trying to elbow God out, trying to take our sovereign Savior and put Him on the back burner and this god or goddess wants to run the show.  I have got something chasing Christ in my life and so do you.  What?  How will you know?  When you have idle mind, kind of in neutral, hanging out, what occupies your mind?  Is it yourself?  Your problem is selfism.  Selfism is chasing you.  Is it maybe the thrills and chills of life?  Well, thrillism could be your deal.  Are you always thinking about things, dreaming and scheming and acquiring things?  That could be in second place.  Or maybe it is knowledge.  What is chasing you?  Constantly look in the rearview mirror of your life.  When you do, when you watch it like a hawk, it will help you to reorganize and constantly reprioritize your life.  So today, ladies and gentlemen, I pray that we have taken off our shoes and turned them over.  And I pray that we have begun to polish our scarred up and scuffed up soles.  This is going to be a ten-part process of polishing.  When we really begin to polish our soles, no longer will we ever, ever deal with idol minds.

First and 10: Part 2 – Image is Everything: Transcript

FIRST & 10 SERMON SERIES

IMAGE IS EVERYTHING

JANUARY 10, 1999

ED YOUNG

Last week we launched a brand new series of talks on the Ten Commandments called FIRST & 10.  Why?  Because at the first of the year we think it is vital, it is paramount, for us to get a read on the ten directives, the priorities for successful living.  In our first session the commandment was pretty straightforward.  It was easy to grasp.  God said in the first precept, you will have no other gods before me.  We talked about selfism, and possessionism and knowledgeism and all the other isms.  We understood that we are to prioritize God as God.  We are to worship Him as the true and living Lord.  If we don’t, if we put any object or any personality in the slot reserved for God we are going to be disappointed in this life and in the next.  In other words, the other gods, little g, don’t have the octane, the RPMs to help you and to help me when we need it the most.

So I understood right up front the first commandment and I think you did too.  But the second commandment, the one I am going to talk about today seems a little bit archaic and irrelevant in our high tech time.

Let’s read it together.  You can follow me on the side screens.  Exodus 20: 4-5.  “You shall not make for yourself a carved image or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above or that is in the earth beneath or that is in the water under the earth.  You shall not bow down to them or serve them.”  I don’t know about you, but I have not had the burning desire this week to melt down my wedding ring or to carve some image on my garage and bow down and worship it.  “I can dig this may have been necessary 3,000 years ago and how your people may have struggled with this one.  But right here in 1999?  Come on, God.”   And some of you are thinking while I am explaining this, “Oh, boy, this will be an easy week for me.  No problem.  I can run through my mental calendar.  Let’s see, I have an appointment on Monday, and Wednesday is pretty rugged.  But Friday, I can spend at the golf course if the weather is OK.”  Others here who are single are saying, “This is pretty cool.  I can check out some eligible candidates to date.  This will be nice.  The second commandment.  I don’t have a desire to make anything or mold anything or melt down anything or carve something and then bow down and worship it.”

But before you go off in never, never land listen, because this second commandment comes dangerously close to the warning track of your life and mine.  It gets up close and personal to some serious junk that we are carrying around.  This commandment challenges us, confronts us and really gets in our face.

During this series we said that we were going to use one grid to explain the commandments.  We will look first of all at the meaning of every commandment.  What does it really mean?  Then we will follow the meaning with the mentality.  What was God’s rationale?  Let’s get in God’s psyche, let’s get in His thoughts to see why He came up with the commandment.  And then we are going to study the implications, the so whats.  Or you could look at that grid and say the what, the why and the how.

We have just read the second commandment.  Let’s think about the meaning of it.  What does the second commandment mean?  What was God driving at when He said you shall not make for yourself a carved image?  What is all that about?  God is simply prohibiting the worship of anything we make, mold or imagine.  And God was driving at this because God knew and knows in His sovereignty that anything we use to try to mirror the majesty of our Maker is going to fall miserably short of communicating the totality of God’s being.  So God is saying, don’t minimize the majesty of your Maker.  Don’t even go there.  Don’t even try to make something, mold something or think something up that communicates the essence and the nature of God because it will not and cannot work.  That is what this commandment means.

To show you what I am talking about, let me ask you a question.  How many of you have ever seen the Grand Tetons?  If you have seen the Grand Tetons in person, lift your hand.  I am talking about the beautiful mountain range in Wyoming.  Keep your hands up, be proud of it.  OK, if you have never seen the Grand Tetons, raise your hand.  Look at the hands going up.  Now the Grand Tetons can be seen on the side screen.  We have a picture of them, gorgeous mountains.  That is for those here who have not seen the Grand Tetons.  But I have got one even better for you.

I have seen the Grand Tetons.  This summer I stood in Wyoming and saw those majestic mountains bursting through the bold blue skies.  I am going to make you a model of the mountains, of the Grand Tetons with this Playdough.  It is going to work great.  This is for all of you folks who have never seen the Grand Tetons.  Here I go.  Let me do it right here.  You know I majored in Fine Arts for awhile at Florida State University.  (Molds and shows the audience a Playdough mountain.)  What do you think?  I mean, what a representation of the Grand Tetons!  You are saying, “Ed, I think that you sipped too much Starbucks this morning.  Give me a break.  You cannot even attempt to mirror the majesty of the Grand Tetons with Playdough, so go ahead and put the Playdough back in the canister.”

That is kind of ridiculous, isn’t it?  That is kind of a stretch.  Who would do that?  Yet, a lot of us play the same game and do the same thing with God.  We take objects, we take thoughts, we take things and we kind of take our hands out and do the Playdough deal to mirror and make the majesty of God.  God is saying, put your Playdough away.  Put some of your presuppositions away.  Put some of your images away.  Put some of your objects away because these fall miserably short of the true image and character of God.

You know the crucifix has been a symbol for millions and millions of Christians down through the ages.  People love to wear the crucifix.  And the crucifix is a beautiful piece of jewelry.  However, it falls miserably short of communicating the true focus of Christianity.  The crucifix is a cross with Jesus hanging there, His head down, His body limp.  It shows us that Christ died on the cross for our sins, yet it leaves Jesus on the cross.  It doesn’t communicate the fact that Christ was buried for three days and rose again.  It doesn’t communicate the fact that Christ is ruling and reigning in heaven.  It doesn’t communicate the fact that He is a constant companion, that He is here with us, that He is leading us and guiding us and showing us the way.  Oh, no, no, no.  The crucifix falls miserably short of mirroring the majesty of our maker.  Anything that we make, mold or imagine in an attempt to communicate the true essence and nature of God is coming dangerously close to breaking the second commandment.  Because image is everything.  Inage is everything.

God’s chosen people, the Israelites, didn’t get into trouble when they worshipped in the temple.  They got into trouble when they began to worship the temple.  The sixth century Christians didn’t mess up the with the second commandment when they had statues and ornaments and decorations in their churches.  They broke the second commandment when they began to worship the statues and the ornaments and the decorations.  Don’t you see?  It is so easy, isn’t it, to try to make something or mold something or imagine something that mimics and reflects the image of God.  It doesn’t really work.  Yet, in our finiteness, in our humanity, we want something that we can touch and feel and experience.

I love photo albums.  I mean, I really like to thumb through album after album.  If you ever come to our house, man, we have photo albums dedicated to each child.  I even have a photo album dedicated to each fish I have caught.  We love photo albums.  And I am sure that you have photo albums because photo albums capture those Kodak moments, you know.  Something bugs me about photo albums.  I hate incomplete photo albums.  We have a couple at our house.  It is our desire to take a bunch more pictures and fill them up, to have photo albums that are packed.  Don’t you know when you are looking through a photo album and two or three pages are looking good and sweet and fine and all of a sudden the others are just blank.

In a real way, large blocks of us are carrying around incomplete mental photo albums of the image of God.  And some of us are carrying these images in our minds that someone gave us a year ago, five years ago, fifteen years ago.  Some of us are carrying around one dimensional, blurry, black and white pictures of God.  And we think that is the true nature of God.  We think that is His majesty.  However, some of these images that we have carried around, that even I carried around years ago, come dangerously close to the warning track of our lives.  They come dangerously close to breaking the second commandment.  I will say it one more time, God prohibits us from making something, molding something or imagining something that reflects the totality of His being.  He knows that we cannot do it in our finiteness, with our limitations.

I want to run through some of the popular images that we have in our incomplete photo albums of God.  The first is Grandpa God.  Good, old Grandpa God.  We love Grandpa God.  We would rather alter God than allow God to alter us.  And Grandpa God is popular.  He is forgiving.  He is benign.  He is kind.  He is grace-driven.  He is as comfortable as a Lazyboy chair.  It doesn’t matter what you do?  It doesn’t matter how far you fall.  Grandpa God always says, “Come here, come here.”  He perches us on His knee and says, “It’s OK.  Everything is cool.  I still love you.  You are still great.  Don’t worry about it.  Just get up there and live life.”

Some of us have another image of God in this incomplete photo album.  Candyland God.  Do you remember the game, Candyland?  I still play that with my kids.  It is a classic game.  The Candyland God is an image of God in heaven just pouring out blessings and giving us all of this stuff.  This is perpetuated by a lot of the televangelists you see.  This erroneous doctrine says that God is a Candyman and that all you have to do is have faith because God wants you to be rich.  He can’t wait to give you boatloads of cash and a Mercedes Benz.  God wants that for you.  “Just have faith, and give me the money.”  The Candyman God can, because He mixes it with love and wants everyone to be rich.

We have another image of God, the Man Upstairs God.  You know, the man upstairs, my buddy, the God that kind of hangs out, who is ready to come bounding down the staircase of heaven when I give Him a 911 call during my microwave prayer.  “God, I need you.  God, I am in trouble.  God, I have been left in the lurch.  God, please come and rescue me, take care of me.  Come on, come on, God.”  And we love to have this detached deity, this sequestered savior up there, don’t we?

There is still another image that we carry around in our incomplete photo albums.  The Supreme Court God.  The Supreme Court God has that long, black, flowing robe and carries around a 40-pound gavel just waiting for you and me to come up on the radar screen of rebellion.  He just cannot wait to lift His gavel up and say, “Guilty, guilty, guilty.  You are punished.  You messed up.  I will discipline you.”

Let me bring up one more image that we carry around.  The Emotional God.  God is an Emotional God.  And you say to yourself that you haven’t really worshipped or met with God unless you have had a tear run down your cheek or a lump in your throat or a chill down your spine.  You say you have to feel it, have some kind of knowledge in your senses that you have been with God.

Many of us get these images of God from our parents.  If you grew up in a home that was pretty much guardrail and guideline free, you see God like that.  “Hey, man, everything is OK.  Don’t worry about it.  Your language, hey.  The places you go.  No problem.  Immoral lifestyle, don’t worry.”  We love to have a God who we can control and alter and if we grew up in homes like that, we think of God like that.

Conversely, if you grew up in a home that was legalistic and ritualistic with lots of rules and regulations, you see God like that.  Yes, yes, yes.  God does have grandfatherly characteristics.  He does forgive.  He does forget.  He does perch you and me on His knee when we have messed up, when we have fallen into the seas of sin.  He does say, “It is going to be OK.  I forgive you.  Come clean.  I receive you and welcome you.”  Yes, God does have grandfatherly characteristics.

God is also a God who blesses us.  He really does.  And I know people that He has blessed in incredible ways, some even financially.  Yes, God blesses that way but more often than not, God blesses us in ways that money and things and possessions can’t even touch.

God is also ready for our 911 prayers, ready to rescue us.  He is ready to come into the situation when we have had a death in the family or when we are coming across a career move or a marital problem.  He is ready when we have fallen into the deep depths of sin.  Yes, God is ready to come down, to help.  That is one aspect of God.

God is also a judge.  He is.  And God will discipline those He loves.  God will allow us to face the consequences and the repercussions of our rebellion.  God is also a God of emotion.  And we are going to see that in a couple of moments.  God gets angry.  God gets sad.  God even gets jealous.

So, we serve a 3-D God, a multi-faceted and multi-dimensional God.  Don’t ever make the mistake of carrying around just one or two pictures of God.  And here is what our agenda is at the Fellowship Church.  Our major focus is to give all of you a packed photo album of God.  We want you to understand the totality of His being.  And let me show you how we do that just from a corporate format.  The Bible says that we are to worship together regularly, intentionally and strategically.  So up here, through the music, through the drama, through videos, through the teaching, we want to give you as many snapshots of God as possible.  And let me show you how we accomplish this.

Beginning in August we did a series called CORPORATE MAKEOVER.  For ten weeks we looked at what God says about work.  We discovered that God thought work up.  And work is a blessing.  We are made in the image of God and we are made to work.  And our work, check this out now, can become an act of worship.  Isn’t that cool?  I don’t care what you do.  I don’t care how menial you think it is or how big you think it is, your worship can happen in the marketplace.  From there we went into a series on the local church, ON PURPOSE.  There is no doubt about it.  God is so crystal clear on this one.  That entity which is the most near and dear to the heart of God is the local church.  Look around.  The local church.  This is where God is going to deal and move in a supernatural way.  And we discovered that God is the strategist behind the church.

From there we moved onto another series, a real popular one with Y2K looming on the horizon.  We talked about THEE END.  For three weeks we saw how God is the author, the perfector and the finisher of our faith.  We saw how God is in control and that we have read the last page.  We have seen the genius and the nature of God as it results in pointing to the final days on this planet.

From there we jumped into a highly controversial series called THE UNTOUCHABLES.  We talked about abortion, homosexuality and racism.  In that series, we saw the Lord, Himself, standing with love, standing with grace, but standing firm in the seas of relativism.  We saw what the Bible says about these issues against the backdrop of all of the rhetoric and the political spin doctors and pundits out there.  Now  in this series, called FIRST & 10, we are going to see the genius of our Father God and all of the parameters and the principles and guardrails that He gives us for successful living.  Don’t you see the different pictures and images of God that you have gotten here since August?  I have not even touched on our First Wednesday corporate worship.  I have not even talked to you about the Connection Classes, the Commitment Classes and the Home Teams.  I have not even gone to the Women’s Ministry and the Men’s Ministry.  I have not even told you about Children’s Church and Preschool.  Everything that we do here is a photo album deal.  We want you to get a fully packed photo album of the nature and character of God.  That is our agenda.

So that is the meaning behind the second commandment.  Now, let’s go to the mentality.  What was God thinking about when He thought this one up?  What was God thinking about when He said you shall not make for yourself a carved image?  I will tell you what was driving Him.  I will tell you about His mentality.  It is found in Exodus 20: 5-6.  And this is going to shock you because we are going to talk about the fact that God is jealous.  “For I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God….”  Let me stop right there.  This word jealous means that God will defend and protect His priority, his slot, in your life and mine.  That is how much God loves us.  God sees us chasing after something else; our golf game, our wardrobe, our cars, our career, our money.  These things can become gods or images.  So God will defend and protect and do whatever it takes to keep His slot reserved for Him and Him alone.  He is a jealous God.  Well then, we go into something that is real sticky.  “…visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generations of those who hate Me.”  Oh, oh.  Some are saying that they are checking out here and choose to worship another god.  “…but showing mercy to thousands to those who love me and keep my commandments.”  Every time that God talks firmly, He follows it up with love.

But let’s talk about the iniquity deal.  Let’s say you go see a psychologist, and I highly recommend Christian psychiatrists and psychologists.  Christian psychiatrists and psychologists use the authority base of the Bible.  When they do so, I am all for it.  Psychologists will sit you down and talk to you.  They are trained to do that.  Let’s say I am talking to my man, Thomas.  I know Thomas, right there.  Thomas Cross.  Raise your hand, Thomas.  Thomas is a good friend of mine, been here for a long time so I can pick on him.  I will not embarrass him.  I would not embarrass anybody here.

Let’s say I am a psychologist and I am talking to Thomas.  “OK, Thomas, you played pro basketball and you have done this and done that.  You have been in New York.  Well, Thomas, let me talk to you about your past, your family of origin, your grandparents, maybe some other people way back there in your past who influenced you.  Because in a real way, Thomas, you are who your parents and your grandparents and your great grandparents were.”  What am I doing?  I am involving him in psychotherapy.  Psychotherapy says that all of us to a large extent are kind of wired up the way people were in our past.  This is no new deal.  God said this three or four thousand years ago.  And here is the great thing about this text.  I will run through it one more time.  “For I the Lord, your God, am a jealous God visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me.”  Yeah, I have got tendencies and you have got tendencies that have been given to us sinetically from our parents, great grandparents and great, great grandparents.

Well, the good news is that you and I can break the cycle of sin.  We all have unique tendencies that others don’t have.  Some of us here have a tendency to fall into exaggeration and lying.  Others of us have a tendency to fall into lust and promiscuity.  Others have a tendency to fall into materialism.  It is about time to stand and break the cycle of sin.  You say to yourself, “Why do I do this?  Why do I have this tendency?”  You were born a sinner, you were born with the bents but some of it too, the destructive habit and sin pattern, came to you from your parents, grandparents and great, great grandparents.  That is why Jesus said in John 14, “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.”  That is why God said at the conclusion of the fifth verse, “…but showing mercy to thousands to those who love Me and keep My commandments.  So, if we love God, we are going to keep His commandments.  We are going to break these negative cycles of sin.

Let me give you one sidebar right quick, one caveat.  We have been talking about worship, haven’t we?  Sometimes, Christ followers can get so into the methodology of worship that we begin to worship the method instead of the God behind the method.  We begin to worship the way we worship instead of the God of worship.  Case in point would be, years ago a lot of people in church couldn’t read.  So the church came up with liturgy.  Liturgy was thought up so that people could memorize scripture.  But after awhile the Christians began to worship liturgy.  They said that if they didn’t have liturgy, they couldn’t really worship God.

I talk to others who say that they can’t really worship unless they have had communion.  I ask you where in the Bible does it say that we are to have communion every time we worship?  It is not in the book.  Jesus has told us time and time again to go through communion regularly and we think that communion should be practiced regularly.   That is why we do it here once a month during our midweek First Wednesday service.  But you don’t have to have communion to worship.

Others say that they have got to have the icons of Christianity to worship, the stained glass, the crosses everywhere.  Others believe they must stay in one denomination or another denomination or they can’t really worship.  You don’t really have to have gear to worship God.   Those icons are great and wonderful.  But do you see how they can go dangerously close to the warning tracks of your life and mine.  They can become the objects of our worship.  We can break the second commandment that way.

Still others say that they are unable to worship unless they are able to kneel.  Or some say that they have not really worshipped unless they have sung the great hymns of the church or have not really worshipped unless they have lifted their hands.  All those things are great.  But that does not constitute worship.  And sometimes we worship the way we worship at the expense of the true God of worship.

Let me show you something that I did as a third grader.  As you know my Dad was a pastor.  One day when I was in third grade, after church while people were kind of milling around talking, I raced up and down the aisles as fast as I could go.  People were watching me run when all of a sudden, bam, the church lady stood up and said, “Young man, your father is the pastor.  Do you realize that you are running in God’s house?  I cannot believe it.  Where are your Mom and Dad?”  Let me tell you something right up front.  We are to reverence the church.  We are to take care of the church.  We are not to trash it.  But what she said was wrong.  This is not God’s house.  God does not live in this house.  A lot of us would love to say this is God’s house, this is where He resides, because it is comfortable that way.  We could visit Him every other week.  We could keep Him in the confines of the church.  We want God in this house and we don’t want Him to invade our house.  We want to alter God rather than letting God alter us.  Don’t you see how so many things can cause us to break this second commandment?

It is fascinating.  When I read it a couple of weeks ago I was thinking that this would be a tough one, carving up something, melting down something.  We don’t go there.  But when you think about it and pray about it and study it, wow.

So we have seen the meaning and the mentality.  Now let’s look at the implications of this commandment.  Let’s look at the worship aspect of it.  How do I worship God as God?  How do I prioritize God as God?  How do I never, ever fall into the trap of making something, molding something or imagining something that attempts to mirror the image of my Maker?  How do I do it in a God ordained way?  Two quick ways.  Number one.  Prepare for worship.  We are challenged to come to worship weekly and regularly.  We are challenged to orbit our schedules around the schedule of the local church.  I sometimes laugh we people say that that does not fit their schedule.  Oh, really?  Since when do I impose my schedule on God’s church?  We do try to facilitate your schedule as much as possible by having a Saturday night service, a Sunday service as well as a midweek service once a month.  But we have to say, “OK, God, you alter me, I want to alter my agenda, my schedule around what You want for me.  And I have got to prepare for worship.  That means prepare like I prepare for a concert or a movie or a game.  I have got to prepare for it.  I have got to get up early.  And I have got to be on time.  And yeah, we are going to have some traffic challenges here.  That is why in the next three months we are going to have a brand new parking lot with 1,000 more spaces and two more entrance roads.  It will be wonderful.  The traffic problems will be gone.

But I have got to get up early to go to the Fellowship Church and that is a great thing.  God is doing wonderful things here.  That means I am up early, I am ready to go.  I am getting prepared.  Well, how do I prepare in a practical way?  I challenge you to do this.  Pray.  Pray.  Before you show up on the weekend, pray for your own life.  Say, “God I know you have something awesome to say to me.  It could be during the opening song, through a drama, through a video, through something the teacher said.  God, I know you have something great for me to hear and apply and do.”

I will never forget a couple of months ago.  I was dealing with something in my life.  The first song that the worship team did that morning just cut me like a knife.  I just started weeping and said, “God, you are so real.  God, you are so right.  Thank you, God.”  So it could be through a number of things.  Pray for yourself.

Also, pray for others.  Many, many people who show up here are dealing with some serious issues.  Many people here are in the deep weeds.  They are struggling with real issues.  Pray for them.  Pray for many to establish a personal relationship with Christ.  Pray for many in their marriages.  Pray for many who need healing.  Pray for people.  This is before you get to church.

If you look through the book of Psalms, you will see from Psalm 120 to 134 this little phrase – a Psalm of ascent.  Here is the picture behind it.  When the children of Israel would go up to the temple once a year for the Passover deal, they would be climbing an incline.  They would sing those songs of ascent.  As they were going to the temple they would sing the Psalms and prepare their lives and hearts for worship.  Another way we prepare is, we unplug, we disengage, we get rid of the beepers and the alarm watches.  We are worshipping God.  We do not want to do anything that would disturb God.  But a lot of us here have a companion.  We take this companion with us wherever we go.  It is huge to us.  We take it on trips, everywhere.  A couple of weeks ago I had lunch with a pastor friend of mine and as we sat down he put this cell phone in between us.  He spent a bunch of time talking on the cell phone, interrupting our conversation repeatedly.

I have a cell phone.  I think they are great.  I am all for technology.   I don’t know about you, but I have had maybe two phone calls in my life that were important enough for me to lug a cell phone out to eat with someone.  I will tell you what you can do.  You can bring your cell phone here and have the ringer on if Bill Gates is going to call you.  Because if Bill Gates wants to call you, I would love to talk to him too.  Or Billy Graham, better than that.  If Billy Graham is going to call you, you can have your cell phone on.  I would take the cell phone and hold it up to the microphone so he could talk with everyone.  Leave your cell phone in the car when you go to church.  Prepare for worship.  Pray.  Be on time.  Disengage and unplug and get your heart right for worship.

Also, participate in it.  Participate in worship.  It is all in the way we sit, the way we listen, the way we sing, the way we take notes.  I challenge you to take notes.  I remember much more when I write it down.  It will help fill out your photo album of God.  When you are singing, sing to God.  Some people hardly seem to sing.  If you know Christ personally, you need to sing because if Christ has saved you and bought you with a price, if He is living inside of your life, if He is guiding you and giving you direction and meaning and purpose, you have got to sing.  I don’t care if you are tone deaf.  You have got to sing to Him.  Now if you are not a believer, you don’t have to sing.  We are not going to force you to sing.  But if you are a Christ follower sing about what Christ has done.  Sing that He is a deliverer, that God is faithful.  Be on point.  Get ready to listen.  Listening is not just hearing.  It is taking the words and applying them to your life.  Participate in worship.  Get ready for it.  Get engaged in it.  Get involved in it.

Over the Christmas holidays my family and I traveled to Columbia, SC.  While we were there, I was hanging out with one of my nephews.  He played football for a great Christian school called Ben Lipon Academy.  He was showing me a video montage of their team.  He is a wide receiver.  I was watching it and it was well done, kind of like those NFL films.  A great deal.  Well, the team did something before every game that really struck a cord in my spirit.  They would all get together and put their hands together.  Here is what they would say.  “One, two, three.  Audience of one.  Yea.”  Then they hit the field.  I asked what they were saying.  “Audience of one.  Yea.”  He told me that as Christians they felt they were players playing for an audience of one.  Playing for God.  Whoa!  That is strong stuff.

Check this out now.  When we come to church, if we know Jesus personally, we are the players.  We are playing, we are worshipping for an audience of one.  You are not worshipping for your neighbor, nor for me, nor for some group.  You are worshipping for an audience of one.

So when we speak about the second commandment, image is everything.  The ultimate image.  The panoramic image.  The packed photo album image of our great God.  Our great God.

First and 10: Part 4 – Who’s in the House?: Transcript

FIRST & 10 SERMON SERIES

WHO’S IN THE HOUSE?

JANUARY 24, 1999

ED YOUNG

Well, at first glance, this Fourth Commandment seems rather out of place with the big ten.  There was our sovereign God communicating the commandments to the Prince of Egypt, Moses and in the altitudes of Sinai, He is talking about thou shalt not murder, thou shalt not commit adultery.  He was talking about these important things and then all of a sudden He brings up this Fourth Commandment, this directive about a special day.  As I read this I said to myself, “What was the deal?  Did God lose His cosmic concentration?  How did this one crack the top 10?”

I will read it for you.  Exodus 20:8.  “Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy.”  During our study thus far we have seen that God is really into remembering.  He has told us to remember His position, His priority, to honor His name and now He is telling us to remember His day by keeping it holy.  What was going on here?  Why did our God give us this advice?

God knows us.  He knows us so well because He fashioned us and made us in His image.  He has a keen insight into what makes us tick and how we are to do life.  So God simply says stop working and start worshipping.  God says stop pursuing all of the vocational stuff and begin to pursue Me.  God says get into My rhythm.  In our modern day vernacular we would say, don’t diss God’s days.  Don’t diss God’s day.  God commands us to worship Him with a portion of our finances and He commands us to worship Him at least one day out of seven.  But we have got to ask ourselves, in these modern day times, does this really apply to my life with all the problems, pressures and stresses with which we are dealing.  Does this really pinpoint some areas in my life?  Can this fourth commandment really help me?  Obviously it was written thousands of years ago.  The recipients of this commandment were the Israelites, God’s chosen people.  They were a nomadic group.  They were fugitives on the run.  For the Israelites a good day was simply staying alive.  If their hearts were beating, then everything was great at the end of the day.  God’s people, like many of us, struggle with this directive.

Later on in the Old Testament, Jerusalem was captured by the Babylonians.  The Babylonians deported the best and brightest Jews from J-town all the way to Babylon.  Part of that group was a man named Nehemiah, a real leader.  And after a period of time, God miraculously allowed Nehemiah and some of his brothers to return to Jerusalem, God’s city.  When Nehemiah hit the city limits, he was appalled.  He was shocked.  He was staggered.  He couldn’t believe that the Jews were doing their own thing on God’s day instead of God’s thing and he told them they were desecrating the Sabbath.  He said they were dissing God’s day, not giving Him his due during that twenty-four hour period.  He said they were to be breaking away to think about Him and to take inventory in their lives.

Where is Nehemiah today?  As you look around our culture, we are involved in the same thing, aren’t we?  It is almost as if our enemy has diabolically diagrammed a system to keep us away from the church, away from keeping God’s day holy.  Right now, you can go to any soccer field or gymnasium and it is packed with children’s teams and adult leagues kicking and shooting and playing their way into oblivion.  Stores and malls and markets are open right now.  It is amazing, isn’t it, just to think what has occurred to the Sabbath?  We have kleeted it in our culture to such a degree that it has become just an average, ordinary day to most people.  And sadly, going to God’s house for worship and giving Him his due and spending a quiet day unplugged from work is not the in think to do any more.  It is not hip.  It is not vogue.  This Fourth Commandment seems to be the first thing that is most easily blended into our complex culture.  Where is Nehemiah when you need him the most?  We, like the Jews, are doing our own thing on God’s day, instead of God’s thing.

Technology is great.  I love it.  But technology has lied to us, wouldn’t you agree?  Technology in the form of cell phones and beepers and faxes and computers was supposed to make our lives less cluttered.  Have you heard that?  That is a lie.  It is not true.  Think about the office place.  You have all these conveniences, but it has increased the pace of work.  It has increased it to such a fever pace level that now we have brought the office into our automobile.  Do you remember the days when driving your automobile you could chill and relax, listen to some music and catch up on the news?  Now, though, you have got things buzzing and ringing and even faxes coming across the dashboard of the car.

How about on the home front?  We have all these conveniences like vacuum cleaners, microwave ovens and dishwashers.  If you study it, you will see that Americans are spending less time on housework than ever before.  So what are we doing with all of the time saved?  We are spending it in certain areas.  A lot of us are jumping from activity to activity, over-scheduling and over-challenging and over-stimulating our children.  We are doing this in such a rapid fire pace that we have taken the Fourth Commandment and blended it into our scenery.  We just say, “I appreciate it, God.  Thanks for the advice but I will just go ahead and forgo the Fourth.  I am going to diss Your day.  I am going to do my own thing, not Your thing, my thing.”  Does that sound familiar?  Does that sound like I am talking to you?

It’s tough, isn’t it?  We have got to be intentional about it to keep God’s day intact.  But you have got to remember something.  Our God is a God of love.  He is a God who is concerned about our wellbeing and He has given us these directives, the ten principles for our good so that we can discover His awesome plan and agenda for our lives.  Don’t ever think that the Ten Commandments are limiting, stifling items that hem you in and keep you from being the person that you should be.  Just the opposite is true.  When we live by these guidelines, when we stay within the guardrails given to us by God, himself, then and only then will our lives soar.  That is why God says, every week stop what you are pursuing and begin to pursue God.  Don’t diss His day.  Honor God as God.  God has a rhythm going on, doesn’t He?  One, two, three, four, five, six we work.  Seven we worship Him, chill and relax.

Well, let’s look at God’s mentality behind this.  We have kind of done the broad-brush thing.  Why did He give us this Sabbath stuff?  Let me give you two quick reasons.  First, it is for our own good.  I just touched on it a second ago.  Jesus said these words in Mark 2:27:  “The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath.”  Isn’t that cool?  The Sabbath was made for me, not me for the Sabbath.

In a staff meeting this past week, the head of our Athletic Ministry told me that right now we have 56 adult basketball teams just in the Fellowship Church.  We rent Coppell High School from about

1 PM Sunday afternoon until about 8:30 and games go on all that time.  We have got A leagues, guys who can rattle the rim every time they touch the ball.  We have got co-ed leagues and I hear a lot of women, especially those who played college basketball, are just shaking and baking on the men and tearing them up.  We also have B leagues, C leagues, D leagues, whatever.  We also have something else in our Athletic Ministry with which I have been involved.  Tae Bo classes.  Have you ever seen that infomercial with Billy Blanks?  It is a combination of boxing, the martial arts and dance.  I decided the other day to get into Tae Bo, so I joined the group in one of our classrooms.   I have got decent rhythm but, man, I was out of it.  I was tripping over myself and everything.  I was looking at the other people and they were out of rhythm, too.  But I finally figured out something.  I just stayed with the instructor.  Wherever she would go, I would just follow her and do exactly what she did.  I began to get the rhythm when I followed the instructor.

What do I believe God is saying?  God is saying to you and to me, follow Me.  He is our instructor.  He knows us better than anyone.  We need to get into His rhythm.  Stop working and start worshiping.  Don’t diss God’s day.  It is for your good and my good.  Yet we go so fast.  We feel that if we don’t cram in every activity that we will miss something in life.  Hey, you are going to miss life itself if you don’t do this Fourth Commandment stuff.  So this commandment is for our own good.

Also, it is to build our faith.  God gave us this day to build our faith, whether it is Saturday or Sunday, it is to build our trust in God.  Think about it.  We are shutting down for a day.  We are not working.  We are doing some recreation.  We are worshiping.  We are spending time with our family and friends, but we are not working.  Yet God can supernaturally multiply your life and mine when we give God his due.

In the Old Testament book of Deuteronomy, chapter five, we have God’s chosen people, the Israelites, once again, ready to close the deal on this incredible tract of land, the Promised Land.  Right before they were to walk into this land, here is what Moses did.  He took them aside and said, “Hey, remember number four, number four of the big ten.  It is important.”  Moses knew that the Israelites would be tempted to dis God’s day.  He knew they would be tempted to work long hours and try to make more and more money.  And he also knew that neighboring nations would trash talk the Israelites.  “How can you survive not working one out of seven?  This God thing?”  Remembering the fourth is great advice because God supernaturally multiplies your time, your resources, your life and your purpose when you stop and honor Him.

To go a little deeper here, I am referring to something in the Old Testament called the manna principle.  Turn to your neighbor and say manna.  I want to give you a brief lesson.  Manna is some incredible stuff.  Again, I am hitting on the children of Israel because they are wonderful examples.  Why?  Because they are human beings like you and me.  God, as His children were doing the wilderness-wondering thing, began to feed them from heaven.  He sent bread-like substance that would fall in the mornings called manna.  Today in certain parts of Israel manna still falls.  I have eaten some before.  That is a whole other story.  I am not lying.  God instructed them to pick the manna up very quickly, just enough for the day.  If they didn’t pick it up before the sun came up it melted.  So remember they had to collect the manna in the morning and they could only collect enough for one day.  Well what do you think God’s people did?  They wouldn’t collect enough for just one day.  They were collecting a lot, stuffing it in their pockets and socks.  But after a day it would spoil and everyone could tell which Jews were the greedy Jews because they had this stench about them.

Well, then God instituted the Sabbath.  Back before the resurrection of Christ, it was the seventh day.  He said, “Hey, children of Israel, collect manna daily but before the Sabbath, collect a double portion of it and don’t even think about going out and looking for manna on the Sabbath day.  God said that He would miraculously multiply the manna so that they would have enough to eat on the day they didn’t work and didn’t collect any.  God did that for His people.  God also does the manna thing in your life and mine when we give Him his due on His day, when we say, “God, I am going to stop working and start worshiping.”  When we do that, God begins to do a work in our lives.  Isn’t that exciting?  You can see that all the way through the Old Testament, all the way through the New Testament, all they way until 1999.  The Sabbath is for our own good.  The Sabbath builds faith.  That is powerful stuff from a loving God.

I want to talk about application right now.  We have to ask ourselves how we can apply this to our lives.  We wonder, however, how we can really make it real.  How this can revolutionize your life?  How can I am this a part of my daily living?  How?  How?  How?

I want you to get involved in some R and R.  Based on the authority of the scripture, I want you to get involved in some R and R.  The first thing we are to do when we hit the Sabbath is, we are to remember God.  We are to remember God.  Now what does it mean to remember God?  If you look in both the Old Testament and the New, people always gathered together in large communities to worship God.  They worshiped God in the temple and in the synagogue in the Old Testament and ultimately in the New Testament, they worshiped in the local church.  I want you to look around for a second because the local church is the most important entity in the universe.  This is where it happens.  This is where God makes His manifold wisdom easy to understand.  This is where God gives us these transforming principles that can change our very lives.  God loves the local church.  Every time we come to church, God has something awesome He wants to say to you and to me.  That is how much God loves us.

I love what it says in Exodus 20:10.  “But the seventh day is a Sabbath ….”  to golf?  to antiquing?  to decorating?  No. No. No.  “…to the Lord, your God.”  Yet I laugh when men tell me this one.  They say, “You know, Ed, I get more praying done on the golf course than I ever do in church.”  Ha, ha, ha.  I like that one.  “Lord, keep this one on the fairway.”  “God, I need a birdie on this one to beat my friend.”  Please, Lord, help me to read these greens.”  Don’t even go there.  We are to go to church because something supernatural happens when people gather together and worship God.  Corporate worship inspires our individual worship.

Here is what I think will happen one day.  One day, when a lot of us die and go to heaven, God will sit us down and say, “You know, you received Me in your life.  I gave you the gift of salvation but you didn’t do much with it.”  Remember, becoming a Christian is a decision and after the decision comes development.  But God will look at some of us and say, “You were so into all of the activities of life, so busy with traveling, so busy with the teams, so busy that you dissed my day and didn’t make church a top priority.  You didn’t honor My day and I had some incredible things to say to you, something life-changing to say to you, something about your marriage to say to you, about child-rearing to say to you, about your career to say to you, about your finances to say to you but, you missed it.”  Don’t let that be you.

Now I am not saying to be up here every single weekend, to never miss church.  But I am saying that the minimum worship requirement should be at least three out of four weekends a month.  It has got to be.  If it is not, we will slowly begin to drift along the seas of relativism.  I don’t know about you, but if I miss a couple of days of individual worship with God, or a weekend, I can tell it.  I can feel that slow, methodical drift.  We are to remember God.

_________58:13-14, “If you call the Sabbath a delight and the Lord’s day honorable, and if you honor it by not going your own way and not doing as you please or speaking idle words, then you’ll find your joy in the Lord and I will cause you to ride on the heights of the land and to feast on the inheritance of your father Jacob.”  Hey, parents, every time you model consistency in church attendance, every time you have your children and your students up here so they can learn at an age appropriate level the difference that Jesus Christ makes, you are speaking volumes to them.  You are giving them a gift that money cannot touch.  On the other hand, parents, every time you model inconsistency, every time you kind of pick and choose and look to see what else is out there you might do instead of church, you are modeling to your children that God is inconsistent and you are giving them an inconsistent view of our consistent God and helping them miss what God wants to say to them through Children’s Church, through Jr. High or High School activities.

This past Wednesday we had 219 junior high students here for worship.  Isn’t that amazing?  Yet, I had a parent tell me the other day, “Well, you know, this youth stuff just doesn’t fit into our schedule.”  I said, “Doc, man, you have got it all wrong.  Since when does God fit into your schedule.  We fit into God’s schedule.”  Every sacrifice, every act of discipline, every time we are up here, it is worth it.  How many times have I been greeting people in the lobby and had person after person say that they had almost slept in instead of coming to church.  I can always fill in the next little sentence.  And I am so glad I did.  How many times have I heard that?  I am so glad I did.  We have got to remember God on His day.  We have got to worship Him consistently and rhythmically and regularly.  Do you have a burning desire for worship?  Do you?

Thursday night I was in Los Angeles speaking at a church known as The Dream Center.  It is in a very, very crime infested and rough area of Los Angeles.  As I was walking to this old gym that has been converted to a church, I couldn’t believe what I saw.  Before I even walked into the auditorium, I saw a gauntlet of seventeen guys who, I was told, were former gang bangers, pimps and career criminals who had been radically delivered from the streets and from their former lifestyle.  They were giving me high fives before I walked in.  They were cheering, “Come on, preach it, Ed.  I can’t wait to hear what God is going to say through you.  Ed, we are fired up.”  This was before I got in.  I am not a very emotional guy but I started to get teary eyed.  Everywhere I looked I locked eyes with someone who had been radically changed.  Wow.  I wondered what it was going to be like inside.

When I walked into this place, I saw a church like I had never seen before.  Talk about a melting pot.  There were some Armani clad, Hollywood types there.  But the lion’s share were people like I had never seen in my life.  There were groups of teenage prostitutes who had been picked up by buses on Sunset Strip and brought to the church.  There were people who had been involved in all the crime and sin.  While the band was playing ethnic music that just rocked the house, everywhere I turned I saw someone who had either been delivered from a hellish existence or someone who was presently involved in it.  People were freaky in there.

And these people are desperate, from the loneliness street person to the leader of the 18th Street Gang.  They are desperate for worship.  They wouldn’t miss worship.  They were hanging on every word, every note of every song.  Why?  Because they give God his due.  Because they know how to remember God as God.  They understand how to respect his position, his priority, his name and his day.  And I thought, what is it like in Dallas/Ft. Worth?  What is it like in our church?  What is it like in people who walk through the doors of Fellowship Church?  Do they have that same mentality?  I asked, do I have it?  Do I?

I always laugh when people tell me this.  “Man, Ed, Fellowship Church is really big.  It is a big old place, man.  There are a lot of people at the Fellowship Church.  I heard you got 7,000 people coming on the weekends.  Wow, that is really big.”  Well, if you do just some casual studying of the New Testament, a lot of the early church mentioned had 50,000 to 75,000 people in attendance.  They worshipped together in large communities on the weekends.  So our church compared to those New Testament churches is a little punk church.  Small church.  Don’t worry about the size.  You worry about your life and the size of your heart.  God will take care of the rest.

When you come to worship God, don’t just stop at the corporate thing.  Corporate worship is commanded.  Hebrews 10:25.  “Do not turn your back on the gathering together of believers.”  Corporate worship is in stone.  We have got to do it.  You can’t do this one on one thing with God.  Also, though, we are commanded to worship Him daily.  And when I worship Him both daily and corporately, that is when everything clicks.  That is when I have octane for true and successful living.  So, remember God on his day.  Don’t turn your back on worship.

Here is the next R.  Refocus.  Remember God and refocus.  We refocus on ourselves.  We recalibrate.  We rethink who we are, what really makes us go and flow.  For example, how many of you have worked in a store during inventory.  It is not that fun, is it?  It is the time when you have to account for everything in the establishment.  That is what God challenges us to do on the Sabbath.  While we worship God as God, we are to take stock.  We are to ask ourselves some tough questions.  “God, are my spiritual shelves empty?  God, is this relationship really stocked?  God, do I need to order some more endurance or some more power?  God, help me, show me, tweek me, change me.  God, I am clay, You are the potter.  Show me how you want me to act and function in life.”  Boy, there is power in doing that  breaking away to remember God and refocus on ourselves.

Part of remembering God’s day is also being with family and friends.  Part of it is finding a recreational pursuit that relaxes you, whether it is a walk in the park, riding around in the pickup truck, shooting baskets, fly fishing, whatever it is, find something that presses tranquility into your soul.  Find something that you do differently.  Remember, God said that He worked and then He did something different on the seventh day.  He rested.  And we are to do something different on the seventh day.  But it is not called the seventh day for us anymore is it?  Sunday is the first day.  And we celebrate Sunday, why?  Because Christ came back from the grave on the first day.  That is why believers do it.

But again, I say, don’t get into all that legalistic stuff.  I can’t pick up this cause it is considered work or I can’t walk over there and throw a pass to my son.  Don’t get into a legalistic trip.  Many of the people in Jesus’ day were so legalistic on the Sabbath they had everybody wigging.  They were freaking out.  They had crazy rules that they actually listed in a book called the Mishna.

Remember God and refocus on yourself.  Psalm 62:5, “I find rest in God.  Only He gives me hope.”  What did God say after creation?  It is bad?  It is so-so?  What did He say?  It is good.  God said, it is good.  So He worked and He looked back over his shoulders and said, it is good.  That is part of refocusing.  We have to mirror the character and nature of God.  After we have worked, once we have disengaged and begun to worship God as God, we need to look back over our shoulders and do an account, an inventory.  We need to ask ourselves this one question.  Is it good?  It is good in my relationships?  It is good in my walk with Christ?  Is it good in my thought life?  Is it good in the places I go?  Is it good?  Because, if we can say it is good, can give ourselves a high five, man, it is good.  But if not, we can begin to work on some areas and that, my friends, is the importance of number four.

Before we close I have got to warn you.  This Sabbath stuff is not easy.  It is tough.  You know what the difficult thing is for me and I am a pastor having gone to Christian school, graduated from seminary, and completed some doctrinal work?  I have studied the original languages and grown up in a pastor’s home, but do you know what is difficult for me?  Praying.  Praying is a challenge.  Some can’t believe that.  But it is difficult.  Do you know why?  The enemy knows what happens when Ed Young begins to pray.  The enemy knows what begins to happen when we individually worship God.  The enemy knows when Ed Young goes to church and rubs shoulders with other brothers and sisters.  The same is true for you.  That is why it is hard to pray.  That is why it is hard to read the Bible.  That is why our minds begin to wander.  Satan knows that he better get us thinking about something else.  That is also why we have so much competition for number four.  The enemy is not going to just sit back and dangle his toes in the pool, sipping Perrier saying, “Go ahead, worship God.”  He is not going to do that.  But this is why Satan is stupid.  Every time he attacks you and me that is the tip off.  Now you should know what is really important.  The Fourth Commandment is real big.  That is why it is tough.  I just wanted to share that with you for a minute.

So how do we make the fourth real and relevant and pure.  Simply to do the R and R thing.  Remember God and refocus.  I am telling you something, friends, when you do that, when I do that, our lives will have a spark, a direction, a purpose, a spirit of peace and tranquility that this old world can never, ever offer or even come close to.  So don’t forgo number four.  Give God his due on his day because you will be glad that you did.