The poor boy mentality manifests itself is some seemingly insignificant ways? an adjustment in attitude, some frivolous feedback, even a sarcastic statement. Yet, while it may seem slight, this mentality can keep us from experiencing the abundance God has for our lives. As Ed Young compares two different attitudes within the same New Testament story, we see the stark contrast of two spirits. And as we study the reactions of Mary and Judas at the feet of Jesus, we discover the blessings that we can enjoy when we let go of the poor boy mentality and instead realize that we have got to give.